First time, ever. Last night I tried picking up a girl, but backed off from asking for her number.
Jow Forums, tell me what i did wrong or how i can improve.
>Finish work >Waiting at train-station for train >Girl sits next to me on the chair, real cutie, get hot flashes, get a sudden urge to chat with her >Man up, and get it on. >Ask her if she used to go to X school, to start a conversation >"No, didn't go there" >Add in a little small talk >Conversation ends >Decide to start it up again, "So just finished work as well"? >And asked the usual where do you work, etc..
The whole time i had to keep initiating, I'd initiate again after 3-5 seconds, she never asked a single thing about me, or what i do for work etc... or initiated. At that pointed i had a feeling she wasn't interested, so i put my earphones back in and continued listening to my music.
Man, talking to randomers out in public is useless unless the woman shows clear interest in you.
You'd be much better off going to clubs and pubs. It's more acceptable to walk up to strangers and talk to them there.
Anthony Wright
I thought it was free for all, basically everywhere.
Matthew Miller
In random spots unless she's showing clear interest in you it's weird. Even if the genders are switched it's still viewed as weird
Joseph Hughes
Well damn, so i basically just looked like a freak? When i first initiated she was smiling at me, and throughout the thing it's as if she had a smirk (Like look, another guy, ha!).
Maybe it's my mind playing tricks, but yeah, i don't thing i had any cues or invitation to approach i just did it while she was on her phone.
this, also she was probably tired and that last thing she wanted to do was small talk with some random dude
Luis Mitchell
Looks like it was a good decision i just dropped it when i did then.
Isaiah Lopez
If you kept having to force conversation she's not interested
Easton Martin
No you’re fine dude. Initiate once and if you have to keep the convo going she’s not interested. Do this and you’ll never actually be a creep. It’s only awkward if you keep trying and she isn’t reciprocating.
Good on you for stepping out of your comfort zone.
Kevin Mitchell
>Good on you for stepping out of your comfort zone
Thanks homie, felt good.
Tyler Reed
Tbh Jow Forums idk. I have put in work, fuggd the grill and then all I am doing is still pushing conversation. They always come out with me, come over for a fuck and what ever but I get nothing back, they don't start convos etc. I have actually messaged a girl I have been seeing for 8 months who just came back from a short trip away, after not messaging her for nearly a week and still haven't seen here since she got back. It's been an hr and she still hasn't msgd back. All weekend felt like shit... Gym motivation has been good though but no motivation to meet new ppl etc... I fucking hate this. And just as I hit 4pl8 bench reeeeeeeeeee
Benjamin Wilson
this. Girls that are interested will carry the conversation, 100 percent of the time.
Owen Gomez
>100 percent of the time.
doubt
Dominic Allen
Anyone got any tips? what are some good openers?
How quick into the convo should you compliment her?
It is a free for all that user is just silly.. OP read how to be a 3% man by corey Wayne in goes into detail about this kind of shit
Carson Wright
>what are some good openers?
are you an archaeologist?
Levi Collins
creepy ass questions you asked
Luis Foster
Basic questions, what so creepy?
Sebastian Johnson
Hey OP! I think you did a great job! Well executed small talk conversation like that earns you lots of points but unfortunately she wasn't interested. Do not stop trying! You ended it right on time, like, no drama happened at all think of it this way: if you can look eachother in the face tomorrow at the train station for 2 seconds without any more awkwardness or bad memories and neither of you have to skip trains or something like that you're good. It's funny I'm reading this thread right now because I've had like the EXACT same thing happen to me just a few days ago. Some guy started smalltalking to me basically about my day at the trainstation. He was nice and looked pretty good and stuff but I'm actually already dating so I didn't continue the conversation and he ended it like you did and basically I saw him yesterday again and we just like smiled to eachother for a second and thats all. [/blogpost]
Cameron Taylor
Not interested and tired
David Smith
Thanks, also i highly doubt we will see each other again. And if we do, should i just smile or should i initiate again?
Anyway man... it was real nerve racking chatting her up.
