There is this dude in my circle who is loaded and confident. Hes not fit but hes tall and has a good frame, his family is obscenely wealthy and he has a very "broody" vibe around him that chicks love. Hes not actually that bad, just a bit pompous. Ill be at an event with my gf and he will be there, he is known for having a penchant for girls with boyfriends (He fancies himself a casanova). He trumps me in social grace and I know hes inevitably going to try flirting with my gf. What is the correct way to handle this situation?
>be a bitch and play passive >be a retard and play hyper aggressive
neither of these work, I was thinking I would just try and humiliate him through some cocky joke. I have to figure out a way to nonchalantly demonstrate that he is not a threat to me. suggestions?
>He thinks fucking dudes is about being gay Won't make it
Cameron Sanchez
Calm down Leonidas
Tyler Scott
wanna give me a /his/ rundown on that?
Samuel Cruz
You already lost, because you're reacting to him emotionally. Brotip: be yourself, if he says something funny laugh, but if he tries to mog you, be aggressive, unless you can be unreactive and chill.
Zachary Murphy
sounds like a degenerate moron. he's going to get shot by some jealous retard and spoil the enormous potential he was given by his parents' hard work and genetics.
Alexander Perez
Thanks bro, solid advice.
Justin Price
This 100 percent.
Charles Adams
>he has a very "broody" vibe around him that chicks love Virgin detected. Girls dont like this shit. Its only if the guy is attractive to begin with.
Jayden Sanchez
>unless you can be unreactive and chill. How do you be chill about an attempted mog? Please elaborate
its like a multiplier, if youre broody and attractive it mulyiplies your sexual magnetism. If you are broody and unattractive it multiplies your sexual repulsiveness.
Jason Sullivan
OP here, I'm just trying to learn what is the right thing to do in this scenario because my dad never taught me this shit.
Joshua Perry
Act like a bro to him, create banter. Only way for us to respect you man
Carter Foster
Swap clothes with ur girlfriend, then he tries to seduce you by mistake make passionate love to him until he’s your girlfriend
Isaac James
I grew up with a pussy dad that bailed out of sheer fear so iktf bro. Don't know really.
Luke Russell
noted will do.
Dominic Green
This only works on bored girls that are trash tier relationship material to begin with desu.
True, I guess I could use this situation as a test of my gf's value. Its going to be interesting to see if she falls for it or if she remains aloof.
Caleb Adams
Make out with your girlfriend while he sees. Don't do it directly and blatantly in front of him, just low key check if he is in view and kiss her passionately. If it's not too fancy an event maybe grab her ass a bit.
Jeremiah Gomez
Don't know if you're OP or not, but whatev. You won't become overnight unreactive to other dudes trying to steal your girl or trying to dominate you socially, but what can you do is focus on yourself to have fun that night, chat with people, joke with your girlfriend and don't take yourself too seriously and it will happen naturally if you won't over do it.
Ayden Thomas
Wrong, you need to get fucked by his dad to assert dominance.
Isaac Campbell
Haha, don't listen to this, if you do it just to affect him you're already losing + he will feel challenged and definetly make moves
Evan Watson
this is called mate guarding and is a horrible idea
Julian Lee
thanks bruv
Colton Jones
I don't even have to look at the thread to know Jow Forums hasn't thought of the actual solution:
Make him your friend and respect you.
Angel Turner
how do you befriend someone who doesnt respect you? why would you want to in the first place?
Ethan Gutierrez
If you can find a situation where you can compete and win when your girlfriend is watching, I am pretty sure it's a good idea.
Blake Collins
If you're trying to prove something, you're already in the losing mindset.
Alexander Gutierrez
You need to practice your social grace my liege. Maybe some sort of noble savage shtick ? Seriously though the handsome broody types come in a few flavors. Is he the authentic and honest broodster? The pathological lying broodster ? Or the energy vampire? If you’re going up against the vampire Don’t let him get you riled up he will turn it against you every time. They can sense the insecurity. You have to place a fog wall around your thoughts and you must have a strong, but neutral composure. Watch your body language. If you’re losing on the verbal front do not let your body language slip. He will pick up on that every time. You have to ruse him with subtly and grace. Maybe call him a “kiss ass” if it becomes available. Or call someone or something he likes a “kiss ass”. take his energy that way.
Also >broody: (of a hen) wishing or inclined to incubate eggs.
And I missing something?
Lucas Hernandez
If authentic and honest soulcapped handsome brood you are out of your element prepare to get btfo
Adrian Ward
Hes the megalomaniac god complex type. Simultaneously extremely insecure and thinks he is the prime male.
Ethan Nelson
>on Jow Forums >not gay uhhhhhh
Elijah Cooper
Well stear clear or find a good prank to play on him. Try the kiss ass thing if it makes sense in your culture.
Brandon Allen
will do friend, I think I'm just going to treat him with nonchalance and have fun at the event. I think getting into the right mental state where I'm aloof is key.
Asher Powell
Are you implying not giving a shit is something you learn? Cause I've been like that since day one. Thought that was a bad thing
Luke Jenkins
Mate, not giving a shit about everything is just being douche in other eyes, you have to be relatble. You have to stand for something or atleast have moral compass, if you don't have that you don't even respect yourself so how others will. I know you're probably trolling but maybe OP will have some insights. As this will be my last post, OP, at that event just focus on having fun, don't overthink about that douche, focus on yourself, if you do that successfully noone will mog you + you will see how many people want to be around you.
Charles Reed
thanks user
Wyatt Mitchell
Forgot to say, don't be hard on yourself if won't make it a fun night, just push yourself everytime a little and you will make it. Night