Tfw oneitis introduced me to her new boyfriend

>tfw oneitis introduced me to her new boyfriend
what gives lads?

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She wants to show her new BF you as a potential cleanup buddy

Just cut ties man, what the fuck, you don't deserve to suffer like this.

I don't understand onetitis meme. How are you that much of a beta that you're in love with someone you know will never love you back? I don't get it. I can understand finding a certain girl cute or hot, but how do you manage to fall in love without having a real connection with them?

iktf. my oneitis has a pic up on facebook of her and her bf

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Mine rejected me

This . You only hurt yourself by staying in contact with her. I'm in the same position and it only gets worse. Wait until you see them kissing, I felt like puking when I saw my oneitis kissing someone else. It fucking destroys me from inside.

Love isn't a choice you jaded, projecting moron.

>without having a real connection with them?
Some people do that and oneitis strangers and acquaintances but when I(I'm not OP) say it I mean the girl I spent hours at a time, 4-5 times a week, talking to face-to-face for months. The connection was there, I just didn't know she was in a relationship until a month in the friendship.

>having an 'oneties' in the first place.
it's seems that you enjoy having a constant disappointment in your life

I am 25, by now I met hundreds of chicks
she's the best of them all
something something heart wants what it wants
universe is stacked against us it seems
luckily I don't see them too often, just accidentaly bumped into them in the park this morning
very much this

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You should always assume a girl is in a relationship and just being friendly, until she tells you she's single. Girls think they can have guy friends that don't just want to fuck them.

I actually really wanted to not want to fuck her because she was a great person to be friends with, male instinct just had me fucked up and I couldn't will myself to force contact after she moved.

I understand, but how can you grow to love someone that isn't in love with you? That should be an immediate turn off.

When I see a girl with another man my brain immediately puts that girl in a mental garbage bin. Maybe that's why I don't get oneitis. I feel like oneities happens to people who have problems letting things go.

Sure it is. We all have standards and things we want in a partner. And we can always choose whether or not to associate with them. It 100% is in your control.

I was devastated when I found out my last oneitis had a bf, wasted months hoping they'd break up and I could swoop in somehow. Ended up just leaving altogether and eventually got an actual gf that was even sort of similar to her. Now that I've gotten to know and genuinely love her far more than whatever idealized image I had of my oneitis I'm overall glad I moved on.

>I am 25, by now I met hundreds of chicks
she's the best of them all
No she is not, she is just another girl. If she was that perfect for you, she wouldn't be getting plowed by that other guy.

Once you forget about her, you won't be able to believe how you got tricked into thinking she was the one.

>love isn't a choice
love is a spook

>When I see a girl with another man my brain immediately puts that girl in a mental garbage bin.
I probably do that but with this girl I feel like my life would've been better if I didn't. I just felt really guilty talking to her because even after we did the whole full disclosure(I like her, she's got someone) I still felt envy when we'd be around other dudes. She was getting married so I couldn't talking to her feeling like I did for her and not feel like a stinking pile of shit.

This is probably why I wanted to by gay, asexual or a eunuch as a teenager, women cause frustrations even when they're nice.

>1st day of college
>see her, instantly think she's the most beautiful person ever
>next day i meet her, got coffee together
>turns out she has a great sense of humor
>in love.jpg
>find out she has a bf
>2 months of agony later and they break up
>console her then wait a few weeks
>ask her if she sees us as more than friends
>she's visibly uncomfortable
>"i don't see you that way user, we can remain friends"
>ouch.jpg
>we kinda don't talk next 2 weeks cause it's awkward
>start talking again, but less, now we mostly send memes to eachother
>still hurts

I think a key part of getting over oneities is realizing that no girl is a miracle of the universe. If you treat a girl like shes a miracle, and not like a normal human, that's probably why she's not romantically interested in you. You become the 'nice guy'. The doormat.

Fuck that shit. Evacuate and find another girl who actually likes you.