I just got back home from a date. I spent one evening and one day with this ugly fucking woman, tourist...

>didnt touch me even once the entire night. no hug, no kiss, nothing.

You were 16 so we'll let you off, but that is your job to hug and kiss her. She is a female she isn't going to be assertive.

So I should have asked to go for a glass of wine at a bar and then when we got there only payed for my own glass? Then next day only payed for my ticket at the movies even though she walked off to the side supposedly so that it would fall naturally for me to pay?

Yes, that is exactly what you should have done. It demonstrates value. By buying her shit you are putting her above you. You should buy the film ticket and if she wants to stand at the side and not buy one then you walk into the movie and tell her 'okay, bye!' then go watch the film. You need to act like you are doing them a favour by hanging out with them, when you are buying them shit it is the opposite.

This ugly bitch let me put my hand on her pussy through her pants. And in a park she rubbed my cock through my pants, and started unbuttoning my pants but I didn't want her to jerk me off there because there were people. And yet she refused to come to my home. We kissed, I licked her nipples etc. And yet she didn't want to come to my home. Fuck her. After the dinner we walked a little and when she refused to come to my home I just walked off. I regret saying "ok" before walking off, shouldn't have said a word.

Has she been to your house before?

What is your source?
no

She probably didn't want to go to another location since she didn't really know you.
Honestly you should have let her jerk your cock a bit in the park,.

Because it means you want her more than she wants you. You're visibly demonstrating that you're pursuing her, which can be a turn-off.

Don't say "okay, bye", call her over to pay for her ticket. Embarrass her a bit to show a bit of dominance.

>What is your source?

Years of field research.

>no

Okay so next time here is what you do. If you are planning on fucking at your house, get her to drop by your house before the date just while you finish getting ready, tell her to meet you there or when you pick her up find some excuse to go back to yours and invite her in just for 10 minutes or so so she can see the place. This way she will feel more comfortable going back there for the express purpose of fucking later as she will have a sense of comfort after being there for innocent purposes.

If you are planning on fucking at her place, find an excuse to go in there before the date. So when you go to pick her up make sure you can go in and hang out for 10 minutes. This is again to get her comfortable with the idea of you being in her house innocently, not just to fuck her.

Fuck her, I hope she fucking suffers. And I hope my parents suffer. Put me into a world where even fucking ugly women like her do this to me.

Also, to analyze this all,
$44 isn't really the worst to spend on a date that goes nowhere. I've distilled my date process down to about two drinks ($16, plus my own) until I figure if it's going anywhere or not. I'm guessing this is your first time and there's probably a lot you learned. I wouldn't sweat it, if she's "ugly" like you said (lol) thenthis is an ideal date to not have fucked but to have learned from.

Here's a huge one for you - unless she's REALLY into you, girls don't usually want to go to your apartment since they are afraid that if things go badly they'll be trapped there. Understanding that women live in fear of sexual violence is important for courtship. Next time, see if she wants to invite you to her place, or wait until date 2 to invite her over. By the way, you've scheduled a date two, right? If she touched your dick in public she's probably dtf eventually.

Escorts usually charge 200-400 per hour.

If you value your time at 30/hr, and go on three dates spending about $36 each time, and you fuck after that, that's like a 200$ escort. 45 on four dates=300$, 50 on five= 400

If you expect sex after 44 dollars why not just go for an escort if you see it as a plain transaction?

>having any expectations on a date
Thats where youre wrong kiddo
>not taking the apathy pill
Just stop giving a shit
Expect to drop ~50 bucks, dont expect anything out of it, just try to have a decent time and converse
Not caring about the result increases your odds of success by 100%, and even if it doesnt, who gives a shit

No, haven't scheduled another date, I told you I walked off. She's leaving my country tomorrow. And technically this was the second date, we met yesterday and had drinks, and today we went to the movies and had dinner. And no, this wasn't my first date. I've fucked 6 women, had dates with I don't know, stopped counting, maybe 20.

He shouldn't have paid for her, especially not on a first date.

Lol okay, theres a difference between not giving a shit and self sabotaging. Nothing is cooler than dropping money like it isnt shit. Just expect to casually pay for things and not care, that is attractive

So your view is the opposite of this guy's: He thinks I spent too much, you think I spent too little.

It surprises me that you've dated around 20 different women (at least ~14 of which didn't end in sex) and you're mad that one of them didn't like you and that you're out $44. If she's leaving the country tomorrow she probably thought a public handy was the only way to consolidate her aversion to going to your apartment and risking violence and still wanting some action. Sometimes our interests aren't compatible. Nothing to be mad about imo.

Still fucked up, $250... and what kinda date is 6 hours?

I'm also angry at myself for being bad at managing time, I was 8 minutes late to the date. Later in the park she mentioned I was late and asked if that was the culture here.

Everything about this is your fault.

Well OP if it helps I got a story for you where I got the girl to pay

>2010, be 17 yr old me
>on first date with girl same age
>we go to McDonalds to eat after failing to get to the cinema kek
>didnt want to break a twenty quid note
>shit anonette I left my money in my other pants
>says thats ok and pays for both of us kek

We dated for 4 yrs after that actually kek being a chrapskate on the first date went well for me desu