I've been thinking about this a great deal over the last couple of weeks. When I first started dating my gf, she was around 175, 180 tops at 5 foot 9. After half a year, she started slowly gaining weight, then, fast forward to 18 months later, and she's gained around 100 pounds. I'm at 170, 6 foot and in my 30s. She turns 29 this year. We've been dating around 5 years... I've been at a stable 170 this whole time and she has yo-yo'd so hard it's beginning to make my head spin. Do you guys have any similar experiences you'd like to share? How much do you think is too much when it comes to weight differences between partners/spouses? Thanks for your input.
>180 at 5'9 for a woman Already too high mate. What are you doing.
Caleb Torres
Her frame put the extra weight in all the right places, and she honestly looked to weigh 140 at the time. I only knew her weight because she told me.
Elijah Lee
I'm looking for weight difference stories, fellow user.
Jordan Thomas
>she's gained around 100 pounds user you needed to do something or leave her by this point. if my gf does anything like that she'll know about it
Sebastian James
I'm well aware.
Henry Flores
I brought it to her attention and it just made her insecurity worse, and I never saw her nude again.
Jaxson Rivera
so your question should have been "how do i get my gf to lose weight?". look everyone will have a different weight ratio they find ok, some will not know it until they see it. i would say if you aren't happy with your partner's weight and you aren't being a hypocrite they do something about it
Levi Reed
tell her you aren't trying to make her feel bad just trying to help (if you hadn't noticed i am not too good at dealing with women and this is my first gf). find a way of doing it with her i have found this is the only way women do anything. apart from that all i have is acquire new gf and i am well aware of how hard this is
Jeremiah Lopez
I'm cognizant of what questions I mean to ask, thanks.
Jonathan Taylor
well gimme more than that then
Luke Jackson
She has an eating disorder. She is in CBT currently. I'm not seeking advice on how to help her lose weight. The subject of this thread is stories about weight difference between partners, and what people think is acceptable in their view.
Adrian Howard
>gained 100 pounds you're enabling her to make unhealthy choices. if you care about her you need to stop this immediately. Don't feel guilty about it, feel guilty about not doing it.
Adam Cooper
in that case im leaving. listen to though
Robert Davis
Both partners should be a healthy weight or else neither should be in a relationship. I used to weigh about 30 lbs less than my wife, it was annoying and I didnt' like it, but at the time I was sold on the body positivity crap so I just tolerated it and supported her. She didn't change for years, fast forward to when we had kids she got gestational diabetes and had to do a ton of dieting to keep the baby healthy. Wished I dealt with it sooner.
Colton Harris
Just now realising all my ex's weigh more than me. >inb4 fat chick's One drugy hippie fitchick and one drugy hippie unmoto
Colton Gonzalez
>drugy hippie fitchick >weighed more than you damn you need to get liftan son
Ethan Nelson
You are delusional. A normal height woman should never go over 130lbs, unless she is a lifter. No fucking exceptions.
Josiah Wood
...? When did I ever say it was ideal or normal? The thread subject is significant weight differences between partners, and this board's members' own stories.
Alexander Howard
I've done all I can for her, thanks. The rest is up to her.
Aiden Hernandez
I've never had a partner friend or family member do this to themselves, yet. I would probably call out the compulsive eating immediately.
I have friends with obese parents and it just makes me feel angry and anxious watching them deal with them.
