>tfw gf is a complete psycho nutso
>tfw want her to dump me but don't think she will
what do?
>tfw gf is a complete psycho nutso
>tfw want her to dump me but don't think she will
what do?
i wish I had a sexy gf
stop being a beta and break up with her?
I can't, she would probably kill herself if I did. If we argue she ends up harming herself pretty much every time.
Dump her yourself, you fucking pussy. What's she gonna do, come to your house and start shit? Just text her why you don't want to be with her and then block her from all forms of social media.
And? Not trying to sound edgy but she won't kill herself. That's just what bitches do for attention. Trust me, i've had to deal with cunts like that before. If she cuts herself and sends it to you while blaming you, screenshot it and show it to her principal and parents or some shit.
lol she prolly gon dump u when u least expect it and u be regretting and crying like a lil pussi
How is she a psycho nutso? Give us some examples of the shit she does.
>hang out with friends
>she gets really angry at me, blames me that she has nothing to do without me
>deal with her constant negativity because of stuff like this for days
>snap once, she will remembers that forever and always brings it up
>"you can't deal with my negativity? dump me then" constantly using extremes like this instead of trying to change
>everything is my fault, if she's depressed it's me, if she's suicidal it's me
>can't deal with the constant negativity anymore, was sat in my room crying thinking about how she treats me and how no person should have to deal with this
>threatens to kill herself constantly if I leave her, says she already has a spot picked and if not for me there's no reason to not do it
>if i'm upset she doesn't support me at all, just gets angry and mocking, get no support from her at all
>if I bring that she's not being a good person she responds with "you don't love me then?" "do you really think I'm all these things you say I am?"
>completely ignores any issue I have with her and just blames me
I can't deal with this much longer lads, she is fucking nuts.
Are you fucking insane?
You're damn lucky you have a gf in the first place.
Get the fuck away from this board
I was much happier before I met this psychopath user.
You and me, brother
Oregano
Mate, the best thing you can do is collect the messages and shit that she sent you and show it to her school. If she is out of school then I'm not too sure. I suppose you could get the police involved somehow. Otherwise you could dump her and try and call her bluff. Either it works or her death will probably be on your conscience unless that sort of shit doesn't bother you.
Based bateman poster
She's not in school and she lives alone. She doesn't have any contact with anyone apart from me and is a NEET. I honestly do think she would kill herself if I dumped her.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to be around her anymore. Being alone is better than constantly dealing with this shit. She is NEVER happy, I don't think she is capable of it.
Call her parents
Tricky situation. Would it bother you if she killed herself?
Yes, absolutely. I am very soft and this would haunt me for the rest of my life. I feel like I need to try and help her, even if it's at the cost of my own happiness and this is why I can't dump her.
She has no contact with them, and they have a terrible relationship.
Go to a synagogue and ask advice for the local jew, I shit you not.
Okay, maybe you can help her. But I will need more to go off of. How's your sex life with her and how is she about the whole concept?
The sex is quite good I'd say. She's very happy with how I perform, since I make her orgasm just through penetration and she didn't think she could do that. It's the one redeeming thing about our relationship I would say.
>She has no contact with them, and they have a terrible relationship.
Still your best shot . She's probably lying about this too, maybe they're desperate to reach her and she's a cunt. She's a manipulative bitch, don't believe a word she says. Also, she won't kill herself, is all just part of her controlling scheme, but it ia possible that she'll kill you someday, most likely if you don't break up than if you do. You're in an abusive relationship and you're the victim, look it up. Ask help from your friends and family , get away from that bitch. Thats all I have to say, you won't listen because you're under her spell. You're fucked, rest in peace
Sounds like user fell for the bdp meme
Good sex is tight but it's totally not worth if she's fucking with your head like that. All that stuff she's saying is just to manipulate you. You should worry about yourself more than you should worry about her
just let her kill herself desu famalam
That's good, user. Something I would recommend you do if you haven't done it already is to just set up a romantic night. Save up your neetbux, buy some candles, a necklace, then set up your room for the climax. Take her somewhere nice. Give her the necklace, try and get a really good mood going. Get her to come back to yours and give her the best dicking you can. But remember foreplay. Surely that would lighten her up a bit.
What about her being crazy is affecting you and have you tried talking to her about it? Compromises build relationships, but you have to communicate your needs and expectations for a partner to her if you want to ever be in a healthy relationship. Being honest with her is the best thing you can do for her.
OP YOU FAGGOT LISTEN TO ME AND NO ONE ELSE
And this guy too actually
Shut the fuck up you autistic faggot
user, I try to do that. I want to take her out on the town (I'm a NEET but I have a lot in savings). I beg her to go to a restaurant with me, or to go to a bar and have a few drinks, but to her this is some impossible thing. She always says she can't handle being outside, and when we are she pretty much always just snaps.
We were at this fair a month or so ago, we were walking around (took a lot of convincing to take her out). I want to play some games and try and win her something, she just says "NO it's stupid don't do it lets go!". It's fucking crushing because I want to make her happy but she refuses all of it. She forced me to leave the fair without doing anything, I couldn't even buy food because she said "don't buy that food it's bad you'll get food poisoning" which is fucking ridiculous. The whole thing really crushed me and I got a little upset and snapped at her a little when she took me to a shop and said "you wanted food, go buy food here". I just felt like some dog, and started crying right there. Because I started crying she had a fucking breakdown and was weeping in the supermarket. I had to stand there hugging her for around 30 minutes until she calmed down. It's always like this, if I'm unhappy she always turns it around on herself and makes herself the victim.
It's quite disgusting but it's like she wants to be mistreated. To her a good time is I come to hers, I fuck her for a few hours and then we watch a movie. This is ok, but I want more, I want to do things with her outside. It's these little things, say I pick her a flower and want to put it in her hair, she tells me "no there are bugs in it don't put it in my hair. Maybe she needs a Chad who just fucks her and leaves, because I'm romantic but she doesn't respect that at all.
I have user, I really have tried talking to her but like I said earlier on in this thread she doesn't listen to me at all, and acts like I'm attacking her. I want her to improve and grow as a person but she's impossible to help because she just doesn't listen.
If I bring up an issue that we have it's always "wow you really think I'm so awful? Why don't you dump me then? I knew I can't be with anyone, I deserve to be alone" and so on. She clearly doesn't fucking listen to anything I say.
Meeting her was a fucking mistake because I am a fucking empty shell, and she has made me this way.
Why do you care if she dies? You don't like her enough to stay with her.
God fucking damnit you're an imbecil, don't listen to this retard, it's probably a roastie or and indian. Listen to this and this I swear to God, I'm trying to help you, but you're making it hard because you're a dumb ass. Don't listen to Or ,they dont know what an abusive relationship is like and are completely clueless, repeating things they saw in romantic movies and series, they're probably dumb roasties or retarded shitskins. Listen to me, your fren,who wants the best for you, read those two first quotes and follow them,your life is in danger, your future will be destroyed, don't do this to yourself, you don't deserve it.
Think of the girl you're not meeting because you're with this damaged crazy bitch. Think of the sane,healthy kids you won't have because you're with crazy thot. Imagine if you get this bitch pregnant? Imagine how damaged that child would be? Is that what you want for your future? Goddammit
Search abusive relationship on Google, do it, read everything ,escape while.you can.
just get out of there man.
I was in a 5 year relationship with a BPD. You think sex is worth the abuse but it's fucking not.
>if I bring that she's not being a good person she responds with "you don't love me then?" "do you really think I'm all these things you say I am?"
When are you bringing this up? What were the moments like leading up to what you said? If you bring it up at an already stressful time the stress will influence how both of you communicate and process what the other is saying. There is a time and a place for everything. And there's healthy ways to communicate your needs and counter intuitive ways that will deliver the wrong message.
You are in a co-dependent relationship, this is on you as much as it is on her because you both enable each other. There is hope you two can turn it into an interdependent relationship, but you both have to want it. If you don't think she can give you what you need in a partner you need to tell her this. If she doesn't understand you would not be in the wrong for moving on.
OP is a shithead beyond redemption, I'm so fucking mad,I hope he dies,I hope she fucking kill him.
god fucking dammit op fuck you!
You do not respect yourself, why do you expect anyone else will?