Jow Forums feels general

They say you only regret the things you didn't do and it's totally true. Fuck man, what happened to me was something similar, I had a wonderful girlfriend but I was so slow in everything with her that she just got bored and left me, god I hate this anxiety that doesn't let me do anything without thinking it hundreds of times, it's all so tiresome.
Slowly getting there again but it just take time, specially when she is at my uni and I see her everyday, fuck i miss her so much

I think you're very right, would you recommend any resources for meditation? Sounds like it's just a self-fulfilling prophecy, I hope I can turn it around before my gf leaves me. I guess after getting cheated on there's a constant fear of it happening again. Anyone is capable of it, and my gf always receives tons of male attention, so I guess that's why it's manifesting like this. I don't let her know that it bothers me, but my dreams clearly show that it does. Thank you brother.

Don't worry bro, im exactly like you but with meditation I'm much much better. Meditation really helped me understand to not worrying about things I can't change and to start focusing in what I can do to get better day after day.
This video is all you need to start meditation, this is the same video I used to get started too, I hope everything goes well with your girlfriend and you my man, you deserve happiness brother.
youtu.be/lt9OcLynjwE

I can't let go, I'm trying to made another opportunity to meet her, like you know, "accidental meeting" but this shit destroys me. Every time I see her photos on social media I feel bigger missery.

>get fit
>women starts to get interested in you
>you don't know how to respond because of years of social isolation

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I know that feeling of can't let go very well bro. No matter what from time to time I still look at the pictures with her, it's like Henry Rollins said, I have a bad hability I can anything to look bad by looking for too long, I always look too long. I see this pictures with my arms around her, I was happy, she was happy showing those perfect teeth in a beautiful smile.
Now she hates me and when I see her in my uni corridors doesn't even say hi to me or even eye contact, but like I said before I'm just trying to live one day at time and trying to focus on other things

Thank you very much, wish all the best to you as well. We're all gonna make it, no matter how heavy our loads are.

Why would she chose a 27 year old overweight pizza delivery guy over me? After she cheated on him with me she still says she wants to work it out with him. I'm smaller but defined, I start school this fall. I have a future but still she chooses some fat fuck who plays overwatch all day over me. I thought cucking would bring her to me but it only made my feelings stronger and this situation harder. I'm just letting her use me now for attention. Feelsbadman

Yeah bro, I've wanted to off myself for like as long as I can remember but I just keep going no matter what because if I did this they would win and I can't accept that. Indeed we're all goin to make it breh

Bro just dispose that thot as soon as you can. The reason she chooses a neckbeard over you is because she knows that you can make so much better than her so she goes with this loser who's doesn't have any chances with other girls besides her and she is using you for your body. Just fuck her one last time and ghost her the next day, don't even try to give her the chance to talk to you she is going to manipulate you to stay right there where she wants

I just don't want to give up on it yet. I still feel like the chance is there for her to be mine. Like this is the girl I've been waiting for, fit. Am I just being obsessive and a pussy right now?

Why is it that loner aspies like us always wear the same kind of clothes.

>Months since depression passed, now I'm as productive as I want to be
>Switched to calisthenics a month ago, lift weights in the form of kettlebells, enjoy it much more
>Started a blog, created a few websites, passing subjects barely in uni, mostly because I invest more in my job

On the downside:
>Lost a lot of sleep these last days, can't stand mosquitoes and summer heat, air-conditioning is shit
>To be drafted in September, have to eventually quit my job
>Still thinking about her...

Had sex through tinder and minor hookups, but fucking hell bros do I miss her so fucking much, it's been almost 2 years.

My grandmama taught me a few things about dreams user.
>Nightmare about ex cheating
You probably have attachment or abandonment issues (obviously). And also, you think about her a lot, which is perfectly natural. I wouldn't suggest discussing it with anyone, but instead spend more time with your current gf, do things together, go to some bowling alley etc.I dream about the ex a lot too, but noone to talk to.

Just say any autistic thing, eventually you'll develop a filter to discard autism. Or, you can start a journal to improve your speech patterns.

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Yes you are being obsessive man, it don't happened for a reason bro, there's a ton of other girl more beautiful and smart than this that would choose you any day but if you are just focusing in this thot you will be unable to see this user. I been there done that and in the best case scenario it's a waste of time, in the worst in other hand is going to make you depressed and suicidal (happened to me) so learn from my mistakes bro and build a happy life for me, you are going to make it breh

I'm doing terrible. It's been many months since we broke up and I'm 90% better, even sometimes totally normal for weeks on end. But every once in a while, like today, I wake up crippled with depression and missing her.

I even know that I would not take her back even if she begged but still every once in a while I wake up Ina foul mood and missing the bejesus out of her. Fuck

Shift your focus from purpose and consequencesto to experiencing

Thanks senpai. I'll take these words to heart. Needed to read that.

Same here my man, like this always end up looking at old pictures of us and this only makes me more depressed, but I can't help to erase them either, those pictures is all I got left of us

I'm here for you my man, it happened to me so I don't want the same thing to happen to you bro, in some time you are going to laugh at yourself for being so stupid to get this obsessed for a girl. Everything is going to be fine bro, we'll get there together

What is it about me that's so hard to love? I can get women interested for a little bit, but they always slip through my fingers like water. I just want to be loved. I want to come home to something other than an empty house. I would give up my favorite possessions, money, and academic success just to experience lasting intimacy and companionship.

Somebody please hold me.

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Absolutely fucking terrible. I accepted summer part time job at a factory and its the most soul griding experience ever. Hard work, 40 degrees celsius, and 50+years old people everywhere. Thank god its only for weekends or I would actually go insane.

Why am I so shit at choosing part time jobs Jow Forums?

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She was just so comfy man. I thought I had made it

It just sucks when you put yourself out there for a girl and she gives you that hope and it just gets thrown away. Shits got me fucked.

Why do they do it?

>i went to the gym for two whole weeks and i dont look like arnold yet, wtf Jow Forums?
come back after six months

>be on a cut
>keep cutting
>it looks like there is not much left to cut
>numbers on the scale are going down pretty much daily
>look in the mirror
>still look the same as two weeks ago

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Thots love attention I guess. Crave it.

I've lost 95lbs and still look fat and disgusting.

I've lost over 15lbs and started with visible abs. Still looking fat and disgusting.

I know the feel bro, same exact situation here. Just live out the days and do your time, there's going to be a day when you don't feel like shot anymore

Y'all's feels are too real for me.
I had a good month but i woke up today missing her.

They love the attention bro, girl aren't like us. We love them for who they are when they love us for what we can provide them. It's a fucked up thought that no matter how much you love a girl she will change you for anyone that she thinks have more looks, money or status. It's a ugly world and we need to learn to act that way.

>be me
>hanging out with qt I haven't seen since middle school
>I used to be shorter than her back then, now I'm almost a full foot taller
>mention this one guy in my dorm called me scary
>"I'm not scared of you user! But you look like you could do some scary shit."

Was she mirin'?

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Bored, might an hero just for something to do

Can relate user

feels bad

do you think she will fall for it brehs

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Why would you actively pine over a girl who has no problem cheating on her boyfriend you fucking moron

That's exactly what I thought until I found this girl and fell for her hard. And even my friends told me not to get obsess over this and to not to get bad if things doesn't work out and my rational part knew this but in reality it hurts just the same

>realise i led female friend on
>she's been ghosting me for months now
>fire her a text yesterday saying "i hope i didn't make you feel like shit this year. i didn't lead you on intentionally"
>she says "i dont think you led me on at all dont worry"
>"say alright, just figured that was why you started ghosting me"
>she plays dumb about it
>i leave her on read
>she sends me an 8 sentence long text trying to ignite a conversation
Does she really expect me to believe she wasn't mad at me? Women are so much work.

It's all so tiresome bro, and you make the effort for what?
For her forgetting about her like it was nothing, to leave you all alone when you already loved her, when she change you for another dickhead who's cheated on her already. Fuck man, sometimes I just want to end it all, but then I remember if I do this they would win and I can't let them win, I will show the world it can't break me

Just fuck my shit up anons

>fallen for a fresher at uni
>girl isn’t conventionally attractive but for some reason I’m absolutely obsessed
>absolutely amazing chat and incredibly athletic (head of women’s rowing)
>really really friendly with me, spend lots of time with her
>tfw she’s definitely fallen for my best friend
>best friend is doing his best to put her off him (“you’re like a lil sis I never had” etc)
>tfw I’m too much of a pussy to make a move anyway because I’m convinced she has no interest in me just like always and i can see this going the same way it always does

At least my lifts are going up though? Honestly i just want to die, I’m tired of being a disappointment to myself

Just do it user, you don't know until you try. You might surprise yourself, plus girls like men that take the first step. Don't stay there with regret user, learn from our mistakes and just do it. We are all going to make it breh

I am so bored most of the time lately, it wasn't nearly as bad a month ago. I try to keep myself busy, be it by working out, studying, going on walks, playing gamed and other stuff but even so it feels like there are so many hours in a day and these things can hold my attention for only so long and I end up just waiting for the time to pass so I can start feeling tired and go to sleep. And honestly, sometimes even sleep feels boring and instead of relaxing and falling asleep I end up thinking about the moment I will wake up. It's so annoying especially considering that, not so long ago, I could easily sleep for 12 hours and now I can hardly get 5 hours of sleep.

I have no idea what to do in this Saturday night. I've lost 10kg, yet when i look at the mirror i still look fat and disgusting and i hate myself.

Keep going bro, you'll get there.
We are going to make it breh

You do make really good points user, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Just not sure I can take yet another rejection and I’m not even sure what I’d do if she said yes to a date, it’s been so long and I can’t remember how to do any of this anymore. Suppose I have to stop being such a push at some point though

>fit
>nice face
>dicklet

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>It's all so tiresome bro

It is. I just want to be loved.

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>fit
>nice face
>not dicklet
>still don't meet anyone because no reason to go outside other than gym and groceries

I know this feeling man but you can't listen to it, if she says no well best luck the next time it's not the end of the world and if she says yes you already are halfway to making it with her. Godspeed you glorious bastard, hope you ask her out and it goes well, you deserve it bro.

Yeah, and the worst thing is there's a time when you don't really get sad or lonely and you just enjoy yourself with friends and you are somewhat happy, and then boom out of nowhere someone enter in your life tearing the walls you spend so much time building and you are happy to let them, life have is exiting again, the colors are brighter and food is more tasty. Until one day they leave leaving you a total mess, dealing with yourself again all alone as always

Thank you so much user. Hope things are okay with you?

Not like this, user.. not like this.. it's too real. Like I'm talking to myself.

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She cheated, forget that slut

Vidoeogames and computer addiction. Lose it.

I DIDNT WANT TO LIVE YOU BITCH
YOU FUCKING BITCH I WAS HAPPY
I WAS FUCKING HAPPY BEING NOTHING
DOING NOTHING BECOMING NOTHING
I WAS READY, I HAD ADJUSTED TO THE GRAY, I HAD RESIGNATION, A STOIC CALM TO MY FATE OF AN EARLY DEATH
I
WAS
OKAY
WITH
NONEXISTENCE
WHY DID YOU HAVE TO SHOW ME HOW GOOD IT WAS TO LIVE?
WHY DID YOU HAVE TO SHOW ME HOW GOOD IT WAS TO LIVE FOR SOMEONE ELSE?
WHY DID YOU GO AWAY? I DONT WANT TO SEE COLOR ANYMORE, I WANT TO GO BACK TO THE GRAY YOU FUCKING BITCH

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I'll planning to move away for twelve months for a promising visit at MIT next year. I probably should be happy about it but I won't be able to see my girlfriend for the entire time since I don't live in the US of A. I don't want to lose her, guys. She's been with me for two years now and we've been through good and bad. It's horrible to realize that getting balls deep into academia puts your love life at risk.

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I'm that user, bro you have potential to write. I think you can become very good if you keep doing it. I hope you give it a chance.
PD:you explained exactly what I was trying to say in my other post, fuck me i still miss her plus I just checked her Twitter and just saw this "omg my crush want to visit me omg" and now feel even more depressed

>WHY DID YOU HAVE TO SHOW ME HOW GOOD IT WAS TO LIVE?
>WHY DID YOU HAVE TO SHOW ME HOW GOOD IT WAS TO LIVE FOR SOMEONE ELSE?
>WHY DID YOU GO AWAY? I DONT WANT TO SEE COLOR ANYMORE, I WANT TO GO BACK TO THE GRAY YOU FUCKING BITCH

I was content with the darkness, but she took even that away. I am content with nothing, now.

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I'm that user, tell me your story bro. At least that way I won't feel alone in this shit

>it's a summer saturday
>go to gym and play videogames

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Things are going to take a time to get back at 100 percent again but I'm getting on my feet again. I just hate that I don't really had nothing say in the situation, one day she decided that this won't work and leave, so some time later we start to talk again nothing serious just talking until one day she just ghosted me and the next day she texted me this "would you stop saying so much bullshit?, Thanks" and that's it , I asked her what's wrong and she left me on read so I don't even know what I did wrong. Just kill me already

She had BPD. Went from being so intensely into me, then being a bit distant, and at the end she already had somebody else she was hiding from me. I should note, at the same time she was hiding this other dude from me, she was texting me asking if I was talking to other girls. I wasn't, but she THOUGHT I was, and she THOUGHT I was lying about it. I kinda wish she was normal, because things were really nice at first. It was the first time in a very long time I'd ever felt happy. I was 22, then, and it was the first time I ever loved someone romantically.

When you think things are finally looking up, life has plenty of ways to shit on you.

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>be me, 26 year old kissless virgin
>obviously im beyond pathetic
>but i see these "feel" threads with nonstop whining and crying and pain and anger over girls and realize hey maybe its not all bad

This happened to me too. I was lonely and depressed for so long it just kind of became life. Then I bumped into the woman of my dreams and she seemed totally into me, she made me so happy and it seemed like I made her happy too. It felt too good to be true and it was, she had a boyfriend the whole time and never told me just kept stringing me along for some reason. I think she enjoyed my attention but whenever it came to borderline cheating she freaked out and backed off.

Im not mad really but it's frustrating when you believe you've finally made it and you feel free from the pain of loneliness and then you find out it was all an illusion and you never left the darkness. Except now I feel even more pathetic because I'm not just alone I'm alone with feelings and nowhere to put them.

im gonna ask her out bros, i believe ill get a no and im already prepared mentally for that but ill still do it

Fuck man, taking out few details it the same thing. It hurts to remember the things she said to me.
Things like:
>You are everything I was searching my whole life
>Im just happy to meeting you in this lifetime user
>When I thought I was going to be alone in this world you showed up user, I love you
And the best one
> I LOVE TO TELLING YOU MY LOVE, I JUST LOVE IT SO MUCH
Shit like this hurts looking back to the good times compared with the shitty present, fuck this made me feel depressed

user, to have loved and lost is better than never loved

That's the spirit my man, the confidence it's going to help you big time bro.
Godspeed bro, we are rooting for you. I hope everything goes well with her

I just had this dream where I was just chilling on the couch with my arm around a cute girl watching her play vidya. There were no worries on my mind I was just happy, I don't know how to describe it but it was a good feeling, like all the problems in the world are gone, nothing to worry about anymore. Then I woke up.

Yeah, that sounds very similar. I heard a lot of the same things from the girl I'm talking about. I never said "I love you" to her, and she forced me to say it. Once I did, it felt good, but I was reluctant at first.

I was right to be reluctant.

This is me. I was so used to a living hell that it didn't bother me as much. She was an angel that lifted me up and showed me heaven. She let me see it and feel it and taste it, and bask in it in all its glory. She had me convinced that I would live this life with her and when I stepped out onto the cloud I fell right through it, all the way back down to hell.

Why did she have to do this to me? Why couldn't she have rejected me early on before I felt how good life can be. It hurts so much more when you realize how good it could feel.

Often I wonder if that's true.

That's exactly it. Before, I didn't realize what I was missing, so it was no big deal. Once I found out, though, and then lost it, it's awful.

Had a meeting with my company's ingredient supplier and we can't be competitive at market prices anymore. I've gone from planning my future around an early retirement with my gf in Cannes with an an income of about £350k to having to scrape together a plan B consisting of fuck knows what because I have no degree. Absolutely devastated and I have no idea what to do

What if you never loved at all but thought you would, and when you finally made that leap of faith after being confident you would love, you find out she was just toying with you? Then you have never loved AND you feel pathetic for letting yourself think you could.

You loved, she didn't. Don't blame yourself.

The worst part for me is that this girl was exactly my type. She was a treasure. I literally have never been so attracted to a single individual. The chances of finding someone like that ever again, is unlikely.

Holy moly, my girl was kinda pushy in the beginning too.
The first time I've kissed her was in her place watching a movie, it was wristcutters my favorite movie.
In the middle of the movie, we are cuddling and she suddenly look into my eyes for a long time and I just feel like it and slowly kissed her, she was so into me.
Fast forward a few days she asked me, what do you want from me? You know I don't want to play games if you want something serious just tell me if not don't talk to me again. Then I confesed my feelings to her but it's just weird right? She was so into me and insecure and when she knew that I liked her it kinda turned her off

It's only unlikely because that experience has made you resistant to find that again. It's out there, waiting, whether you choose to pursue it or not.

Fuck man that’s so shit I’m so sorry. There really is nothing you can say in situations like that I guess, just got to take the blow as it comes and keep on moving. I can tell you that from all the help you’ve given me you definitely have the strength to do that so keep it up user, you’re definitely going to make it. You deserve to.

You don't have the blame here user, you loved her and there's no shame in that. Don't worry you will find someone better my man

You DID rape her, right?

>Then I confesed my feelings to her but it's just weird right? She was so into me and insecure and when she knew that I liked her it kinda turned her off

Literally same exact experience. She got distant when she knew I wanted her.

That said, my girl turned out to be legitimately crazy and went and told her new BF and other people that I'm abusive and all this other shit, so now there are people out there who want to beat my ass, people that I don't even fucking know. I stay strapped 24/7 (even in the shower) now.

You just to fuck, mate.

Thanks bro, I just tried so hard and it doesn't even matter. I will survive my man, like I said I'm concentrating on my studies (3 year dental student) and to hang out with friends and stuff like that.
PS: cocaine is a hell of a drug to understand this shit doesn't matter, in small doses gave to me the will power to get out the hole and live again so yeah I'm going to be fine again bro

oh is it? are these daily 300+ post threads where guys keep crying literally nonstop about girls they knew years ago and literally recounting exact conversations from years ago indicative of how it's worth it?

>97 post thread
>ctrl+f "girl' 30 matches
>ctrl+f "she" 90 matches
>every single match is crying about said girls
>DUDE IT'S TOTALLY WORTH IT

lel

>Jow Forums feels general
>A bunch of sissies complaining over lack of girlfriends, their autisms, and depression.
I need to find an actual lifting forum - this place is cringy as fuck.

I just wanna be fit so l can ride the cunt carousel.