Boyfriend caught me sneaking out at night

>boyfriend caught me sucking off his best friend in the bathroom
i-i was just trying to help him pee faster i swear..

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HES MY BEST FRIEND ITS MY JOB TO HELP HIM PEE FASTER

I hang out with guy friends and girl friends.

The point of me going out on my own is that i don't have to tell him about it. I want to leave with no questions asked .

What an awful tread. if your an actual female your bf might be worried that you get raped or something by sneaking out alone at night. Also, how can he not think that you are probably cheating on him.

Maybe tell him that these "night outs " or whatever you want to call them, are just a thing you do and that you have been doing that long before you met him and that you can take care of your self.

Otherwise get beating up, mugged and raped.

>The point of me going out on my own is that i don't have to tell him about it. I want to leave with no questions asked

Alright, so you won't get mad if you your "boyfriend" goes out unannounced and hang out in places where attractive women frequent, right?

I would have no problem with it as long as he doesn't cheat or get hurt.

>I want to leave with no questions asked
you want him to not care about you.
seriously just break up with him, don't break his heart, men very rarely forgive infidelity.

That's his thought process too, but somehow you don't understand anything outside your own feelings.

So in other words, you want to be able to cheat on him, or be without him so you can flirt with other people and act like you're single.

Meanwhile he just wants to know where you're going and doesn't give two shits what you do as long as you're not cheating on him.

Imagine if you caught him sneaking out, and didn't want to tell you where he was going. You would be a dumb cunt about it.

Same here I love my alone time, Just tell him that you just want time alone if he catches you again or any time really, have a nuanced talk with him about it if hes a twat about it.

You understand that's what he isn't feeling right? You would feel hurt if let's say he went out some time after you and wasn't there when you came back. Think about our bf for once, fucking women.

>Halloween
>lie and tell bf I don't feel well and I'm staying in
>instead go out in slutty vampire costume
>at a college house party
>blow a guy
>threesome with a couple dykes
>get hate fucked by a guy dressed like conan
>partied out and tired as fuck
>start to leave
>see a someone making out with a chubby
>seems familar
>it's my boyfriend
>snap a blurry picture and leave
>break up with him the next day for cheating on me
>how could you possibly know that
>a friend saw you at some trashy party and sent me this picture
>show him
>he demands to know who
>tell him I won't tell him because I'm not going to let him harass her for outting him as a cheater.

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Why do you have a problem with telling your boyfriend you're gonna go out? Do you want him to worry or feel like he's not worth your honesty? If he has a problem with you needing alone time he has issues but if you think having to tell your significant other when you're going out especially if he's in the house is acting childish you have issues too.

nothing wrong with this. I regularly push boundaries and do things I shouldn't to feel some sense of freedom. Being tied so tightly to someone else is nice, but it can also be suffocating. Little victories like escaping at night without him knowing does a lot for your mental health.

>deceiving your loved one to escape their smothering
>greater victory than just telling them they're being smothering
It's like if you really loved them you wouldn't feel any kind of victory from lying even if you aren't doing anything wrong because when you love someone hiding anything from them or not being able to open up a part of yourself is the most painful and awkward thing you will have to bare.

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well telling them they are being smothering is obvious, of course. but that act in itself is smothering, why should you have to say anything? you're a free person, you can do as you please.
thinking like that is toxic, sure. but its just part of being human.

They are going to get left when their bad get sick of it and find someone that isn't a thoughtless whore, then she'll get vindictive

Open communication in a serious relationship is smothering? Does your bf make you get his permission for everything or some shit?

Good.
Stupid little bitch.