Why not just move to Asia and get a 3/10 Asian gf?
Why not just move to Asia and get a 3/10 Asian gf?
why do i want to be responsible for the wellbeing of another human bean?
ughhhhh
Because I have a 6/10 white girl in the US
Because they're all fucking mentally unstable. As someone with an average Asian (75% Korean) gf, I don't know if it's fucking worth it anymore.
Every fight is my fault. Every fight she gets in with her family is their fault. She recognizes she is a bitch and overreacts but does nothing to change it. Has unrealistic goals for herself that if you're not on board with then get out of her life.
I don't know if it is worth putting up with so much emotional stress for a 7/10 body.
She sounds awesome. What are you,gay?
spoiler alert, it's not
There is nothing awesome about worrying if she is just gonna leave you because you don't agree with her you stupid faggot.
Yeah sounds great on paper, doesn't it? Sure is great being ignored all day because you did something she didn't like. Real cool dude. It's great watching her be petty to those around and forcing yourself to agree with her to avoid arguments. Real fun dude, you should try it.
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GET THE FUCK OUT NORMIE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE *gasp*
Reeeeeeeee *pants*
reeee *dies because I'm a fat sack of shit
But yeah you have to leave
Well I know it's not. But what the fuck else is one supposed to do after being a KHV for 20 years and the suddenly having it but with all these strings attached?
How about you stop making so many mistakes or get that bitch on a leash. She don't respect you cause she knows she can just do whatever.
GF?
No.
I'm to emotionally fucked to ever be in a relationship for long and I swear to god I won't be able to stay in a relationship for very long with a woman who I'll have to spend the better part of half an hour going down on and getting read before I can get my dick into her.
For fucks sake, my dick is the size of that girls forearm.
>Every fight is my fault. Every fight she gets in with her family is their fault.
Congrats. You've had your first encounter with women.
Haven't you ever listened to two men talk about their wives when no women are around? This subject comes up every time.
As if I haven't tried. I get her on a leash, she cries I'm being too controlling.
She makes this game with ever changing rules, making the game unwinnable. No matter how much I change, she'll stay the same and change the rules to make me the bad guy.
She was yelling with her mom because her computer is in for repairs, it was supposed to be done today, but it wasn't. Her mom told her to just contact the guy. She says to me "I'm not going to contact him when she can, if she is gonna be petty like that then whatever." Like wtf, it's your computer, you're not even paying for the repairs, the least you could fucking do is text him and ask him why your shit isn't fixed yet.
Just change them better than her. Remember she is a child. All women are to some degree.
user I have tried. Trust me. The same shit she gets upset at me about, I'll say how she does the same thing. You know what she says? "Well if you didn't do X then I wouldn't have been like Y." No matter how much I try to spin shit in my favor, it never will happen because she will ALWAYS have some sort of excuse.
The sex is great. The body is great. The personality aside from the shit I've said is great. But it's getting harder every day to deal with.
Sounds like you are a quiter. Every Rose has it's thorns. I'm assuming you knew what mess you were getting into when you were getting to know her. Just ask her where the old her went.
Because I'm not white, and I'm also poor
user, this is literally every woman. The only difference between them is how long they can manage to keep this aspect of them covered up.
Why can't these stupid fucking threads go away forever?
She wasn't like this when we first started talking. I've asked what happened to her. She says "Well you've changed and made me this way." To which she will say she misses the old me and then I'll respond to that with "Well perhaps you've changed me then." to which she freaks out and says that if I want to blame it on her to go ahead but she knows she didn't do anything.
Lasted about 3 months before this all came to.
if that is every woman how do you date and escape the robot life idiot. what do you do in that situation???
Well maybe it's both your fault. Maybe you did change. It's hard to recognize you are changing. Don't mistake this as me siding with her. I'm just saying maybe there is a bit of validity in what she said.
user she says I've changed so much that I lack empathy. Yeah, I lack empathy because I can't understand why she would get so upset and question our relationship over a small disagreement.
She says she gets so upset over small things because she cares about me a lot. But someone who cares for someone that much should be able to control their emotions. But yeah, women I guess.
I don't know what to tell you then. Wish I could give you an answer but women will be women. I hope you too work it out somehow.
tried,
if you are invisible at home. You will be invisible there too. sub 5 there is the same as here.
if you are a 5+ yea that works, below that no, same shit as here
I hope so too user. We have split apart about 4 times now? Every time one of us comes back and apologizes but nothing changes.
I really do hope we can work it out, I do really like her, despite all our problems.
Thanks for taking the time and talking to me user, I appreciate it.
>She wasn't like this when we first started talking
holy shit I wish i was this new. What did you expect, user? Everyone puts on an act at first, the point is to get to know who they really are once that initial romance stage is over.
She's not wrong, she probably didn't change you but she's being insensitive/ naive for bringing that shit out.
Well if you've split 4 times and still managed to come back then it's meant to be until it's not meant to be.
Well like I said. First actual relationship after being a 20 year long KHV. So of course I don't know what the fuck I expected. I expected someone who would work on problems together with me, not pin them on me and expect me to change everything about myself to fix it. Talking to her can be like walking on eggshells, and I said that to her. Her response? "Just leave me then." that's the usual response. That or if I have a problem with her she will raise her voice and say how I'm wrong and how it isn't like that. She then gets mad at me for not brining up problems I have with her and assuming she will get mad if I do.
Feels good man.
I agree to some extent. I don't think either of us would put up with splitting up 4 sperate times if we didn't want things to truly work or be with eachother. But at what point am I just treading water? I'm sure the next time we split it will be permanent, she has made it clear that if it happens again she is cutting all contact. Mind you, the simplest of things like me not doing exactly what she says causes this. She says she is tired of it. If you're tired of it, don't set unrealistic expectations of your relationship where your partner HAS to do everything you tell them to or risk an argument/split.
She is just exspecting you to be her bitch.
After getting everything she has wanted her entire life due to a single mother who had zero discipline, I can see why she has issues with not getting things her way. She takes me as not doing what she tells me to as me "Not listening to her". No I listen, I just don't agree. To which she says is "fine, but just know if I don't do what she asks, it will upset her". Which surprise surprise, leads to an argument which leads to a breakup.
Well maybe learn to enjoy it. Something. But I mean destiny isn't left to chance. Whatever happens happens.
So OP, what do you have against your wife? I mean, she doesn't know you posted her picture on the internet right?
Well posting nothing says a lot....
>if that is every woman how do you date and escape the robot life idiot.
You're the idiot here because you didn't know this simple piece of common sense.
Every man who's ever dated or been married knows women are unreasonable and argue about dumb shit, and absolutely nothing is ever their fault. The only reason these men don't end up lonely forever is because they get to a point where they ignore the stupid shit women say.
She sounds like a Westernized Asian to me. That's why Korean women are the worst Asian women in my opinion. I've met white Euro girls who were far nicer.
look at it this way, your hapa is only 50% as unstable as a normal hapa
not your business what he does with their lives.
run along lil fake knight
But I'm already in Asia... What do anons, or should I get an expat gf?
>jump through all her hoops
>wonder why she loses all respect
Sorry I happen to know who that person is IRL Internet tough guy. Trust me, that girl wouldn't let him get away with it if she found out.
i have scars on my where my pubes are at because i was a dumb kid and decided to shave with a rusty razor
No girl wants to see these ugly scars
Because when you're not white, it's not that simple.
You're in for a real treat once you learn all women are exactly the same. This is why I see no problem is going for the ones that get my dicks attention exclusively.
>There is nothing awesome about worrying if she is just gonna leave you because you don't agree with her you stupid faggot.
Wew, if it's that simple for you to get dropped, sounds like you're already on the ropes.
why is it not going well there?
They will once your dumbass learns how to use filters.
Bet she's a Dragon Lady and I want to tickle her tail.
Not judging you dude, but what you just said defines you as a cuck. Again, not judging you.