Anyone else here raised with no privacy?

We used to live about 50 meters from the school I went to. My mom would stand out on the balcony and use binoculars to look into the windows of my classroom and see what I was doing. No wonder I grew up a paranoid and anxious mess.

>binoculars to look into the windows of my classroom and see what I was doing.

LOL that sucks

Oh my god user that sounds like a nightmare

I would probably stay indoors all day

I didn't even have a room.
We lived / live in a 1 room flat with my mom, I'm 22 and I'm fairly fucked up.

I think that I'm a worthless piece of shit and my relationship with opposite gender is a wreck.

It's kind of weird to see all the harm done to you too and being fully aware of it. Like feeling phantom pain of a removed limb.

Even weirder to see her actually feeling sincere love for me, but mutilating me all the same. Parenting instincts can go terribly wrong.

I had to listen to my older brother have sex through the thin walls a lot and had my door broken down a few times when I locked myself in there becuase I wanted to get away while everyone else was fighting but for the most part pretty ok and was able to do my own thing. Learned how to fix doors and install locks at a pretty early age becuase of it though. When I was 16 and had my first real job I just saved up a bit, bought, and installed a solid front door with a deadbolt instead of the thin hallow interior doors most american houses have and that put a stop to it other than the one time my brother tried to break through the wall and broke his hand on a stud in to process. He didn't try that again. My mom and brother actually reimbursed the money I spent on the door as an apology. My mother was really obnoxious about wanting to know where we were at all times but I mostly just ignored her calls and dealt with the shit storm later. She still doesn't leave me alone but I've long since muted her texts and can placate her with a brief phone call every week or so. The only impact of that I think is the fact I fucking hate voicemail and never check it becuase of all the screaming messages I remember, my mailbox has perpetually been full for like 7 years now and I still refuse to listen to it. Hardly an ideal Norman Rockwell white picket fence family but we did ok.

I had very little privacy but it didn't really bother me that much. I don't really see an issue, do you mean like absolutely 0 privacy? My parents were always outside of my room since it's right next to the living room. They could see everything I was doing for like 90% of the time I was awake. But I was usually just playing videogames.

Couldn't have passcode on electronics. Parents occasionally snoop though texts & emails. Read all of my papers; went through my journals, poems, art, etc.

Every time I text or am on the phone with someone, they want a complete rundown of the conversation. Had a phone call today and tried to take it outside in peace. Dad came out and immediately got angry and told me to hang up.

Wasn't allowed to shut the door to my room or have locks on it. My dad checks my room almost every hour. Bathroom could be opened too. He's barged in before for "taking too long."

Mom wouldn't let me have friends over, but dad wouldn't let me go to friend's house. He'd call me back home from anxiety. He never let me go out with friends or to go do something like watch a movie by myself.

this. you guys are blowing this way out of proportion. I grew up in a family of six in a house with three bedrooms. we literally had two toilets in the one bathroom and you werent allowed to lock any doors.
still turned out a normal human being. i mean psychologically normal. my life is a mess but its my bad.

yeah I think they are as well. I didn't really have anything to hide like drugs or anything, though, so maybe that's where the separation between us and them is

How can you guys agree to this. Dont you guys have hobbies that you enjoy alone?

My parents pulled my doornob out and replaced it with a sock to quickly see what I'm doing they also sneak up to my door and slam it open in an attempt to catch me jerking off when they do they try to stay in my room for as long as possible they also go through my room all the time

>had my room raided and diary found when I was 14
Psychiatrist followed soon after

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I'm 21 and my door finally has a lock on it. I don't need to wait til 1am to wank anymore robots.

Couldn't you just wank in the bath instead?