How do i train charisma?

fuck you're right. i actually hate social media so much

I want to suck om her little ass titties ay chikita te voy a dar la tripa y te voy a romper el culito

probably once. or took like 20 pics in a row have a good time and then posting. she looks good at any angle

>smiling at everyone you see
I don’t even want to imagine people’s reaction

STFU spic, white wimmin not for you

>white women are made for mexicans
I agree

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You forgot:
> be attractive

>that autist that fake smiles at everyone thinking he's hot shit

plz dont be that guy

t. resting serial killer face

Pretend you care about things, never go into detail, repeat common phrases.

*sobs quietly*

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This is you're supposed to smile at everyone

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this

This is why you are not chad

Thin, fit, colored eyes, probably extremely tight

Sign me up.

>how do i train charisma?

Three simple (though maybe not easy) steps.

1) Do whatever you need to do in order to feel genuine self-esteem and confidence in yourself. You're on Jow Forums, so you probably know that being in shape helps this a lot. Have realistic goals and strive for them, and be accomplished. Have hobbies you like and are skilled in. Whatever. Put yourself on the path that you want to be on, and be a man that you'd respect.
People will give you body language tips and vocal tips for how you can seem self-confident, and that can work for a time. But if you genuinely respect and appreciate yourself, that will shine through without effort or fear of letting the mask slip off, which is better for long-term.
Beyond this, my personal advice:
-You have to really have a clear idea of who you want to be.

2) Spend a lot of time interacting with people socially. If you're not already comfortable with this, be aware that you'll feel like you suck at it for a while, and you probably will. But, if you keep interacting with new people for long enough, you lose the discomfort and awkwardness, and it just becomes normal. You want to give the impression that social skills and interacting with a wide variety of people in a wide variety of situations is just normal to you, and that is extremely hard to fake. But basically everyone can get good at it with enough practice.
Beyond this, my personal advice:
-Build people up instead of tearing them down. If you encounter someone you'd like to tear down, it's usually better to just dismiss them from your life/time/attention and move on to better things.

3) Find charismatic people with personality types that you'd like to be like, and spend time with them. Their ways of dealing with the world will subconsciously rub off on you after time, and you can also consciously study and emulate them. When you get good at steps 1 and 2, emulating these people well will come with very little practice.

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B yourself

But let me explain it
Charisma is about being athentic and genuine, the only was to do this is to be honest and true to how you feel about certain situations without forcing it on others, and not being influenced by others positive or negative opinions about yourself and how you act because you value your own honesty. B yourself is basically just telling people you are okay with yourself and comfortable whether or not they are around, which makes me people gravitate towards you everyone feeds off each other emotionally since we are social creatures. The retarded who posted earlier about body posture or whatever is kind of right, but that shit REALLY does not matter with charisma. All that shit is to help you convince yourself that you are fine the way you are by changing shitty habits that you already feel kinda bad about.

The best way to be charismatic is to boost your own self confidence by being really good at things you LIKE. by boosting self esteem this way you feel less and less anxious over time so in turn less afraid to show your true colors. Most of all you should be more worried about whether or not your being honest rather than being worried over what people think about your honesty.

Caring about others also plays a part with charisma. Liking people for who they really are rather than how similar they are to you helps people feel accepted and liked. If you accept and like someone they will try to spend more time with you. Following the rules, only care about other if you ACTUALLY do.

Getting a better body will just help you get more confident and give you an excuse not to fake anything because "I'm swole lmao" you really don't need a great body which is why some really gross people have really hot gfs. P

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unironically this

number 2 especially

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It's been said before, but be yourself. However, if you're an autist like 99% of the people on this board (me included), you are probably better off being yourself to some extent. Meaning that you should feel comfortable in your own skin but don't go all out because chances are you're a fucking weirdo and people will be freaked out or annoyed.

Another important aspect to consider is physical fitness. Since you're on Jow Forums, I understand that you lift. There is some correlation between regular lifting and an increase in confidence, which ultimately leads to a more charismatic personality.

Posture is equally important. Force yourself to stand up tall and have a correct postural alignment all throughout the day.

And please, do not fall for the “smile at everything” meme. Smiling is great and all, but your intention here is to look less like a psycho, not more. Smile just the right amount.

You retards do know this is a picture of Instagram model, Rachel Cook right?

You’re saying that on a board of a social media website dedicated primarily to posting your shirtless body.

>be myself
>just practice guitar all day
>take breaks to make coffee
>never go out and talk to people
So charismatic

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thank you user

Made me chuckle

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how the fuck do they have such flawless skin

Trust me, they don't. It's either lucky genetics or a good skincare routine. There's plenty of Mexicans with shit skin
t. Californian

eat clean, drink lots of water. wash your face with clean water everytime you shower, dont rub too hard. easy, dont have to be mexican to do that.

any tips

In addition to what everyone else said, darker skin can hide blemishes.

>that incel who acts like ''sad boy'' and thinks everyone respects him

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kek

this is actually how i ''smile'' at strangers that smile at me

>that autist that is a sad boy and thinks everyone hates him

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>wash your face with clean water
is water really that dirty where you come from. Anyway is it better to wash your face with just water, or with soap

Nice
they either go on about their day
or
smile back and then go on about their day

Learn the way of Adolf Hitler.

youtu.be/2nliGOuJL5A

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What a gorgeous face. Who is she??

>smiling at people you pass by.
kek. don't do that. instead, practice charisma by talking to people. that's literally just it. get better at talking to people, by talking to people.

>clean water
>mexican
pick one

Lost

Normie talk-to’s, high volume. Jow Forums log-offs, AMRAP

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Rachel Cook
Saw at least one topless pic

Immaculate pacing

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I've always heard it weird to show teeth when smiling at strangers. I guess if it's a girl it might be okay if you just be yourself.

talk to girls on tinder/okcupid, then move up to meeting them and trying that out
it will involve lots of trying and failing

Based

Chad sure spend a lot of time thinking about what other people might think of him

Fuck first thing i think about first thing i click on

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literally me
how to end it, bros?

OP, I'm struggling with this myself.
Been told I'm a 9/10
>until i open my mouth

The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane
and
Captivate by HHHHHNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGG Vanessa Van Edwards
seem like good books to start you on your journey

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Unrionically soliloquy. Talk to yourself in your head constantly and focus on representing multiple personality types. You'll be shit at first but eventually you'll become empathetic to how other personalities view things and this will allow you to relate to anyone with ease.

Gets me everytime

>I don’t even want to imagine people’s reaction
>Thinking about other peoples reaction

Thats the reason you still play World of Warcraft

Kek first thing that came to mind

>2018
>not constantly talking to yourself
it's like you and the personalities living inside you don't even want to make it

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get a job in a non-franchise fast-food store. You meet a bajillion people and can learn to be social without sucking.

The fanchises are cancer and will tell you to say the standard lines only, or find a new job, which is social engineering optimised under the assumption that you are autistic... and therefore wont help you.

Talk before a mirror
I learned it playing the sims

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Go work at a up-market bar for 6 months to a year. If you don't have charisma by the end of it you were a lost cause from the start and should just focus on a life committed to the pursuit of moral clarity rather than hedonism.

>tfw chinky eyes and big mouth
smiling actually makes me go down like 2 points

>You post here so you prob have a chest
that's not how you spell "man-tiddies and autism"

I watched a sad story unfold over the past 6 months at gym.

>Monstrously ugly dude rocks up at the gym
>He's big but in that misshapen, frankenstein kinda way that just doesn't work
>He's obviously new in town as I haven't seen him before but he obviously does lift
>He has this big dumbass grin on his shrek face and greets everyone loudly
>He obviously thinks that speaking loudly is a sign of confidence
>The look on people's faces is a hilarious combination of fear, pity and annoyance
>Every time he rocks up people bow their heads and avert their gaze
>Eventually he's tries to strike up a conversation with some chad in the squat rack
>The dude straight up gives it to him
>"Bro, I'm not trying to be a dick but you're trying too hard and people don't like it."
>The guy was crushed after that
>He still comes to gym but has crawled into his shell like a rotten oyster

Very sad.

I did not read this thread. That said here's how you train charisma: Stop giving a fuck. You become infinitely more charismatic and cool when you stop trying so hard and just do shit. Who cares what the other person thinks about what you did? They don't like it, fuck 'em, move on.

That being said don't be a fucking autist and stop caring so much you wear your waifu shirts out in public and listen to animu soundtracks so loud other people can hear it. Big difference between doing what you want cuz you want to and literally making yourself a target for abuse.

>that edgelord that thinks smiling often can only be fake
whatever sad kunt

Agree with this. I find that charisma comes from going through a lot of social experiences. You get blunted from caring so much because you've already dealt with it a million times. Over time you also innately pick up on what works and what doesn't.

You may be a able to read up on what makes a charismatic person, but you need some experience to be able to pull it off fluently.

Also, what's charismatic to some, isn't to others, it's subjective to the group in question.

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this is the most autistic post ive read in a very long time

Drink a Charisma Potion

m.youtube.com/watch?v=4RL9afO27Kg

how does something like this even happen

carnegie gains

Lots of burritos and that mexican rice milk drink

according to the Sims, you stand in front of a mirror and have a pretend conversation with yourself

...
a good start of training for many of you may be to actually be able to look into your own eyes for more than a handful of seconds

why is looking into eyes so important for normies?

just tried this.
lasted about 5 seconds total, but they felt like minutes
question: did I look away, or did the guy in the mirror?
who mogged who?

kek. asking the real questions here.

He's guatemalan don't pair him with us

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Don't laugh at me, but youtube recommended this to me the other day and I think it's cause I watched a video about videogames.

youtube.com/watch?v=5w3cYtJekpw

I don't know if it really works for people, but you can try. I wanna suggest try having a pretend conversation with the video, but that'll probably just train you idiots to speak non-stop without reading the other person's reaction. So for now I guess stare at this virtual lady.

I worked in retail for 6 years in college/break from college. A non commission sales job is god tier for gaining charisma. Being non commission means you can be autistic and practice things without having to worry about not getting paid. It also means you can be part time with no problem.

I worked at Best Buy. I got to be up to date with tech, plus it's in a college town so lots of qt customers and coworkers to interact with often. I can now treat pretty girls like I would any other person. Not to mention the great deals I got for being an employee, on top of it paying much better than most other jobs you can find in college.

'annoying trumpet music' fuckin hell lmao

this fucking fag

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can confirm, best buy job best job

Ask your DM if you can reroll

Most people don't have charism and can't give advice on it, it's more than being yourself, it requires verbose language and an animated but pleasant face. I'd suggest studying people with high charisma and practicing in a mirror. The key is creating a comfortable dialogue so people don't feel dominated. A charismatic person magnetises others because they love talking to them even despite of other flaws.

take notes from craig ferguson. he is unreal.
youtu.be/uuDUEy369uY