Is it okay to be virgin at 30 as a male?

I-I'm just a late bloomer.

I doubt him getting fucked will save his life from NEETdom.

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no
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yes
yes

probably not because degeneracy is cool now

>most guys who are celibate at 25 will remain celibate their whole lives

One more year to find a girl

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>"When was the last time you were sexually active?"

>why do my parents not care? Why does my brother not care?
I guarantee they all care. It's just not something they want to talk about at least not something most first worlders want to talk about with their families.

virginity is something that only matters on the internet. here people will think that you are a better person if you have fucked thousands sluts. no one in the real world cares or talks about it like people here do.

>why are you bothered that your sibling is a fucking failure at life
Come on.

no one has ever asked that

I joke and talk with my parents all the time about being nearly a 26 year old KHV. Though i guess we all are very close and i suspect they probably think i have some real issues.

What kind of jokes do you make?

so not being a degenerate animal that fucks sluts and gets all possible diseases means that you are a failure at life?

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You become a wizard if you’re still a virgin by age 30 you fucking idiot so ofc it’s ok but not only is it okay, it’s also IDEAL

A qt nurse asked me that. I was caught off guard and mumbled no, she laughed

Self deprecating ones.

No. OP's brother isn't some virtuous church boy though. He's a 30 year old virgin who's never had a gf and lives with mommy.

good thing that im so healthy that i dont need to talk with those

I've had sex once at age 18. It was just okay, the girl was toxic for me so I had to cut her out. 26 now and I think I've achieved not-caring nirvana. Literally eat, sleep, work, lift, vidya. Spend time with friends and family a few times a month to stay sane. Life is good, quit whining.

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if hes happy with it then its fine. not everyone is a sex addict who thinks that its the most important thing in life

For now. Being healthy doesn't mean you will literally never have to get a check up or see a health care professional.

As with most things in life... only if you dont want to be.
If you dont want to be a virgin but simply cant get laid, its not okey.
Your brother has his own life and he should be able to make his own mistakes.
Fucking women is not the highest status any male can archieve.

>Is it okay to be virgin at 30 as a male?
No and anyone who tells you otherwise is lying to you in hopes you don't do an Elliott.

In the age of social media/hook up apps and rampart promiscuity where is a truly introverted man even supposed to find love? Seriously, if you're not confident using hook up apps what are you supposed to do? Don't say order a hooker/escort.

From who's perspective? From womens, being a virgin is fine as long as you don't have the negative stereotype attached to it. It won't stop you from getting girls unless you have a fear of women in the first place which is something you need to get rid of before handing in your vcard anyway.

Yes dude you're a fucking loser. I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this but the purpose of your dick is to deposit semen in vaginas, not to jack off with your lame ass anime porn.

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Plenty of other holes that aren't vaginas.

being in the 1% makes me really happy. people that die as virgin are extremely rare and are becoming ever rarer now when you can just poke some screen to get sex.

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>Seriously, if you're not confident using hook up apps what are you supposed to do?
Would like to know as well, asking for a friend.

This is a fucking crazy phenomenon that I can't believe exists in this world today. There's a serious problem if you have not gotten laid before twenty. You should seek help or do some social anxiety exercises because life is passing you by, motherfucker.

I think the silence thus far is deafening. We're just fucked i think.

you've already been told a thousand times: get a hobby outside of your own room or apartment, meet women, talk to them, be sincere but direct

why is getting laid so important to people on this board? its better to not do that because the sluts have diseases from allowing literally anything that looks like a human fuck them.

What hobby? What hobby do women and men have in common that would help an introverted man get laid?

It's a natural function that we as humans need to do in order to continue as a civilization. Do you need to take another biology class?

he's a coping incel

Plenty of other people are doing that now though. At an alarming rate. Japan is really the only nation falling behind.

doing things and talking with people is not hard at all. its just that normal people arent talking about sex when you are doing hobby things or any other normal things.

>Why does my brother not care?
Because its probably too hard for him to get a half decent woman, because of a mix of lack of social skills, ugliness, low self esteem and high standards, plus the actual effort of going out and meeting people (it is sometimes an effort)

think less of it as getting laid, and more of doing something you like. what do you like that doesn't take place in your apartment?

>what do you like that doesn't take place in your apartment?
Walking my dogs. Bout it.

it does not matter if you arent making children. just because you have an undeveloped brain that makes you behave like an animal does not mean that everyone has.

this is how i have easily avoided sex my whole life. it does not just magically come to you by doing things that you like.

Honestly bro, I'm very torn about this. On the hand it frustrates me a big, on the other hand lookng at how trashy most girl are today I'm thinking "so be it, better off alone".

The latter feeling becomes more and more prevalent as time passes.

>a big
a bit*

>you can just poke some screen to get sex.
Sex apps don't help below average men at all. It only helps below average women find average men.

It's not morally wrong, but it's certainly unconventional and he probably has some issues because of it and vice versa.

At that point, you have either given up or killed yourself.
That simple.

whats below average? even many really fat and ugly men have had sex at least once. there are very few people that have not had it.

women love dogs. why not go to the park with them, stay there for some hours and read a book? half the work is putting yourself out there, no woman will find you in your room. otherwise, find a hobby. there has to be something in the whole wide world that you would find even remotely interesting. i unironically considered joining a reading club at one point just to see what the chicks there were like.

no it does not come *magically*, obviously. you still have to be ready to initiate some sort of contact with a woman if they don't take the first step, which they rarely do. but staying inside achieves nothing

>even many really fat and ugly men have had sex at least once. there are very few people that have not had it.
So then what the fuck is wrong with me?

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be honest, how much time a day/week do you spend on the internet?

Set him up with someone motherfucker.

Bros need to do is more often, ive helped devirginize 3 guys so far and one is still with the girl, other two became more confident and started actually talking to women and getting dates.

The role of wingman is a time honored tradition and needs to be filled.

You really think any of the cunts on here have that sort of camaraderie? This entire fucking website has a crabs in a bucket mentality online and off.

Have you actually made the attempt, or just wallowed in your unappealing lack of confidence whilst staring from afar?

How does one make an attempt when they have zero self worth or confidence? When they've been ostracized and ignored their entire life thus far?

by making the attempt. try, friend. the worst that can happen is rejection and it definitely isn't as bad as it seems.

Ya basically

i know only how to socialize normally so thats not going to happen. i dont ever even think about sex when i talk with someone.

im 21 year old virgin but i declined sex for like 3 girls in the past. i dont really care about the virginity, im rather just curious now how it feels. im extremely lonely though i would love to have some friends

>if you're a dick on Jow Forums you must be a dick to others in general
No I love my discord bros

>extremely lonely
>declined ultimate form of affection multiple times
???????????

Think you're just retarded.

Good man, I wish I had a friend like you.

t-that's not true is it

You should fuck your brother

it was back in highschool, im in college now.

>ultimate form of affection
wouldnt say that. i couldnt really connect with neither of these girls really. with one girl i was talking a lot but only on the internet basically, i kinda liked her but we were too different
i just want to have someone i could go out with and drink or something. i dont want the kind of pressure a date would give. i dont want a gf because i have some stuff i need to deal with first
so in optimal case i want an fwb i can talk too

It's not, I lost my virginity at 25 and had sex with a second girl before I turned 26. Don't obsess over sex that much, honestly it has to be the most overrated experience in human history. I mean, it's rad as fuck, but not the life-defining thing it's made out to be.

Focus on self-improvement and building meaningful social connections, good things will eventually come to you in all aspects of life.

Stop using that as an excuse and just do it. I know its difficult, but literally EVERYONE is sweating bullets the irst time they try.

You will probably be rejected multiple times, but everyone who has ever consistantly gotten laid has waded through the failures.

Your problem is you are tunnel visioning on removing the negative label of virgin from you. Try finding a woman whom you have genuine interest in and build a relationship with her over time, but let her know you like her lest you slip into the dreaded friend zone.

For a real woman to have sex with you it takes something real in return.

Otherwise easy mode is drunk thots at a bar or gold diggers.

Encouraging post, thank you.

do something that gives you confidence, thats the only way to feel good really, the rest is mental gymnastics.
when i was a neet i used to obsess over every stupid shit. now i have things that genuinely makes me happy and ambitions that makes me want to wake up every day
if you have zero self-worth youre probably a neet so you have bigger things to worry of than not getting a gf. first sort your life out

>let her know you like her
How do you do that without coming off as a stalker or needy?

just getting sex from random sluts wont make you less lonely. those arent your friends.

you can't, unless she makes it obvious she likes you first

>mfw 19 and fucked 7 girls

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Guys help

I’m 18 yo virgin and honestly am really retarded what to do with girls. I got this 8/10 blonde, great tits girl who I matched with on Tinder who’s down to meet up. What do I say here? And what do I do when she comes over or something?

I’ve only kissed one girl before and that’s because she got tired of me sitting like an autist in her room and making idle chat. She then blew me and then I left her because I wanted to study. I’ve tried to go on dates before but I’d honestly just cut them short and go read, especially because I didn’t want to be found out as sexually inexperienced by girls at my university. I was pretty retarded my only time with that one girl. Many girls find me very attractive and I’m popular (6’2”, dirty blonde, and Jow Forums) but some actually think I’m gay because I think they’re realizing that I haven’t actually done anything with the girls.

Help me out Jow Forums. What do I do?

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This board is the only time i feel bad about being 23 and still having the V card.
I'm not KHV at all, in fact i had 3 chances to lose it at 15/16, then another chance at 18, and then after i stopped being a recluse another chance at 22 at a club which seems to be fairly fucking easy to do(although i just seem to attract 5/6s.

I think i have too high standards for myself considering i never approach, and when i find someone that meets them then its worse. I could have lost it many times, wish i did, but it was it is.

how can i lower my standards? and just get it over with?

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What does being 30 feel like brehs? I'm about to be 25 next month and from past 1 yr I can't even have successive hard ons. I could chain fap 3-4 time 5 years ago.

Besides my lifting hasn't been good recent to with tendonitis (well that's not due to age probably just me being stupid). My social life is shit too and relatives are getting old. Just kinda feeling anxious

Its called flirting, its a game. Just know she likes you and tease her about it subtly, youre doing it wrong if you dont enjoy yourself.

G-guys

(pls respond - this is here) should my virgin ass even try?

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idk but if you lower your standards enough to get with fatties then you should hang yourself

Nice. Tell her to be at the bus stop at 9.30
tonight cause she'll be taking the overnight to pound town

Gotta take the beef bus to tuna town

Umm...
Go out with her, take her back to your place after, proceed to smash.

Its fucking simple, but you have to be confident and make the first move.

Women love to talk, you just have to ask a few questions about her and faint interest . Find some kind of happy subject to put her in a good mood (hobbys/holidays/partys/whatev).
If everything is going good then try to kiss her at the opportune moment (usually when she stops talking).

Dont lose hope breh, I am 24 and was a virgin until last february

I can't get myself to do it that is the thing. IDK why i never took the opportunity when i was 15/16/18 they were all 5-6s that basically chased me.

I can't get myself to do fatties, but even just average chick for some reason, i need to fix this high standards i have if im not willing to initiate shit myself.

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Have a plan in your head how the date will go and lead

tfw im too autistic to even get those

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is it though? im sure that you left out some important thing from that text because it sounds weird to me

i've never read a bigger BS than this in my life