Why are some parents so desperate to kick their kids out as soon as possible, even if it'll end up fucking them up? Is it an American thing?
Why are some parents so desperate to kick their kids out as soon as possible, even if it'll end up fucking them up...
they're really horny as fuck and want to have 24/7 private degenerate hedonistic sex in their house and don't want your presence cockblocking them.
It is. In europe it's usually the opposite, with some countries going as far as semi-permanently living together in a multistorey house where a new floor is added per family.
In their minds the majority believe they're pushing their kids onto the path of success by forcing them to become self sufficient. It goes from Ironman mode to Hardcore mode when they can't even be bothered providing any financial support.
If you didn't get kicked out soon after you turned 18 or 19 then feel lucky because you probably had enough time to acquire some money if you didn't dwindle it being a useless NEET
>parents are poor and old
>no savings of any kind ever and have no idea what credit cards are for and haven't worked in years
>turned 18 and kicked out of my dad's house for dropping something when he was in a bad mood and he lied to my whole family saying I hit him
>get taken in by my mother and starved while I look for a job because my little brother got nice shoes every month instead of food for me
>live in the living room and walk 10 miles to my shitty wally world job some days in an area where people get shot and mugged weekly
>become homeless when she decides to move and says she doesn't have space for me
>get taken in by my other family and have to be in a bug infested shit hole and get yelled at to find a job not even a week in and they get drunk every night
>told by my boomer family members that I should be grateful because my cousin works 18 hour days 7 days a week and back in the 70s they worked 72 hour weeks with 2 mile walks a week
Ironically I probably would be in a completely different (better) position if I was kicked out and forced to get a job. Now I'm soon to be 26 yo useless waste of space KHV with no friends or job prospects.
builds character, user. the exact opposite effect that jerking off to your image has.
At first, they wanted a cute baby to parade in front of their friends, he became less of a trophy as he grew up.
american boomers unironically hate their children
this has to be it.
It baffles me how parents, especially boomers can waste their early adulthood having a kid, and then just not support it when it grows up to be the same age as them when they had kids. Are they just seething inside because they feel like they fucked up their own life and want to force it on their kids?
>Are they just seething inside because they feel like they fucked up their own life and want to force it on their kids?
This has to be it. They have children early and they feel like their youth was taken away from them, so they try to get a little of it back by kicking their kids out as soon as possible
In my culture,males are expected to inherit the house of their parents and a slow transfer of payments for living is the most common way someone becomes self sufficient.
>tfw my mom is hell bent in keeping me under the same roof as her even going to as far as paying of all of my tranny stuff.
I just want to move out and she's trying to hard to keep a person she pushed away long ago
In latin america young people don't leave their parents' house until they earn a good salary (which happens around the age of 30~35) AND are married. We find acceptable to live with our parents here (maybe because it's hard to progress in life in such third world hellholes), that's why I never got the "loser who lives with his mom" mentality that seems so common among americans and europeans.
>kicked out of my dad's house for dropping something when he was in a bad mood and he lied to my whole family saying I hit him
>little brother got nice shoes every month instead of food for me
>become homeless when she decides to move and says she doesn't have space for me
>told by my boomer family members that I should be grateful
What the fuck is your familys problem?
I have a lot of brothers and sisters so once I turned 18 I basically became unwanted like I had to walk to the food bank every week just for food and when I would ask for anything I would be told that "I need to take care of my kids"
My mom had a kid at 16 and uses it as an excuse when I struggled early on figuring things out like how to get a job and I have 8 siblings (I'm adopted a long with a few others) and once my money from the adoption stopped coming in once I turned 18 I pretty much was on my own
My girlfriend has 4 kids and it's really disconcerting how little she cares about them. Like she loves them and is very attentive but given her life over she wouldn't have them.
I asked her that and she refused to answer but she clearly meant it. The worst thing resulting in the manchild epidemic today is the ridiculous cult of childhood that developed into the late 20th century.
Parents are just people with a human plant to tick over. It hasn't died? Alright great I'll leave it be.
I still live with my parents at 27 and its comfy and great but its not a mans life and I think I'll regret it when I'm old. Financially helping your kids to leave the nest at a young age is both cheaper in the long run and far more productive for everyone compared to accomodating them to take life at their own pace. No one with any sense let alone a little nihilism will choose to forfit free parasitic living for a broke life of independence even if ultimately it will get them a more successful working and sex life.
It's only the Amerimutts that does this who still think it's the 1950's when you were able to buy a house and car with just a minimum wage job by the time you're 18.
No, its a Boomer thing. Old people where I live want to be able to just travel across the country in an RV without cease and not be bothered by their children. Boomers are the generation that hated their children because they grew up during the 60's sexual revolution
Americans have been conditioned to think that living on your own is normal, instead of an economic quirk experienced by white Americans that only lasted four decades.
Boomers see children as a fashion accessory which they eventually regret.