Is there any way to spend time with a 17 year old girl without seeming like a total creep?

Is there any way to spend time with a 17 year old girl without seeming like a total creep?

I've become close to a girl and her attachment to me is so real she even just tells me that she wants to hang out more and even asked me to start volunteering in her youth group so she can see me more. My family is very close with her family so there is already a decent amount of trust. I'm just afraid that if I go out my way to spend time with her then red flags will go off and her parents will shut it down.

One of the main reasons I want to spend time with her is because I relate to her. She has numerous insecurities that she refuses to reveal to people that aren't in her extremely small inner circle, she puts up a cold and almost aggressive front to seem "okay", and she has a penchant for sarcasm which I find endearing. I feel like I owe it to her to try and be a positive part of her life because she's "let me in" which is very rare for her. I just don't want to be ostracized for trying to a good part of someone's life. I don't have any sexual desires, I just want to be a good friend.

tl;dr a teenage girl has become very attached to me and I want to return the favor and be nice to her

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Whatever dude you just want to go balls deep on the girl

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R9K, right here

>I don't have any sexual desires, I just want to be a good friend.
yeah sure buddy. i said that to myself as well but deep down i knew i just wanted to fuck something

How old are you? Age difference is important in underage relationships.

How old are you? normalfags have weird standards when it comes to shit like this.

Before she really jumped on me I considered the possibility of a relationship with her but now I'm all in on protective instincts. If I considered it a possibility at all I wouldn't open that door until after she spent some time in college. I would want her to see all her options before just going after me if that was her desire. As of right now I would be happy if she picked up a good boyfriend her age. I actually know a boy that I would pick for her.

There's five years between us. I think friendship is the better word. Like I said I don't want anything from her sexually. She's like my sister at this point.

By the time anyone starts thinking it's creepy she'll already be legal, and at that point you pound the pussy breh.

jesus christ dude you sound like a massive cuck faggot

Cuck-a-doodle-doo faggot

High risk high reward.

>Tell the parents you want to marry their daughter.

Where I live she's already within the age of consent. Legality isn't my concern anyway as I don't want that from her. I want her to wait until she decides on who she will spend the rest of her life with.
Oh no your pol words hurt my feelings so much :(

The way you're phrasing your sentences tell me you want to fuck, but you're a pussy and trying to reason your way out of it

t. slaves to the pussy

Free your minds.

Shut the fuck you lying sack of shit faggot kid rapist

>Before she really jumped on me I considered the possibility of a relationship with her but now I'm all in on protective instincts. If I considered it a possibility at all I wouldn't open that door until after she spent some time in college. I would want her to see all her options before just going after me if that was her desire.
The absolute state of beta idiots on Jow Forums. Do you have a cuckold fetish? Do you understand how fucking hard it is in this world of ours? This is what we call a future Jow Forums post in a missed opportunities thread. Save yourself the trouble and write the post now. Let me help you

>Be me, a huge fucking retard.
>Have the opportunity to prevent a young girl from being completely physically and emotionally abused by jerkboys and Chads
>She's totally into me
>Her parents and my parents are okay with it.
>I tell her, "No sweetie, it's okay. Please explore your sexuality with Tyrone, I'll be waiting for your response in the cuckshed."
>Mfw she got teen pregnant and is addicted to meth now

>humble bragging/moral dilemma for feeling pedoish

You're going to feel like a big dumb dumb later on

>post overtly sexualized picture
>we're supposed to assume your the reincarnation of Buddha

Honestly no. I used to but now I just want to protect her and make her happy. I'm really just trying hard to not seem like I want to because I don't want people storming in "PEDO PEDO" when I really don't and that's not the intention of this thread.

None of that would happen. She's somewhat racist and a devout Christian. She's even homeschooled so she's a homebody to almost a sedentary level if it weren't for her interest in team sports. I used to think she was a lesbian and that's how I managed to get through that initial phase before brother instincts took over.

That's not me. It was click bait. Subtle OPs don't get attention.

17 is not really young enough to be creepy

where do you go to meet 1X-19 year old girls though

dude go for it, 17 is A-ok.

If she is like older than 15 it shouldn't be creepy desu.

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There is no moral dilemma, OP can save a girl from a horrible and unsatisfying roastie life if he just had the will to do it. But no he's an "enlightened feminist" who thinks it's better that you let the average dumb woman make decisions for themselves, even if that decision completely fucks their life up.
>I will protect a vulnerable young girl by throwing her to the wolves and letting biology take over
You won't protect shit you bluepilled faggot. She'll get pozzed in college and you won't be able to stop it. What's your plan?

In his post he says he doesn't want to look like a creep. So yea there is, work on your reading comprehension nigger. I don't necessarily disagree with your post and I wasn't arguing it in the first place

Yeah I get that in most situations it isn't creepy, especially as she's within the age of consent here. I just worry that in this scenario where I know her family well and that I'm not exactly a social butterfly it could just be seen as taking advantage of a situation.

Churches apparently.

I'm definitely far from a feminist, it would just pain me more if she ties herself down with me when she could have a much better and successful person than me.

I do trust her to have self control. She is the most reserved and morally sound teenager I have ever met.

>That's not me. It was click bait. Subtle OPs don't get attention.
So you a manipulator? Doesn't surprise me sense you're trying to get with a retarded 17 year old

There it is. Took long enough.

I get that logic. Really I do. I understand that truly protecting her would be to take care of her myself. I want her to pick that though. I would be doing wrong by her if I don't let her have her own choice.

Yikes. Retrospect is nice and all, but you do realize that there's a high chance of her ending up with someone who you don't approve of?

Honestly you're so fucking stupid that maybe you are right. If you care about her that much it's only going to hurt equally when Chad thundercock uses her as a cum rag.

If you're so insecure then use her motivation to improve. I'm only try I g to advice you because I did the same mistake

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I am actually seriously considering doing the things she wants me to do. Though it seems somewhat like sculpting me into the image she wants me to bear her ideas are all good ones. She does like control so she probably can't help herself when someone she cares about has problems she thinks she could fix.

You can't force anyone into a relationship. Stop being such a pessimist, maybe she wants you, and you're throwing her under the bus with your logic

You are cucking yourself for someone you haven't even met, who very well may not even exist. Here's a question for you: How many "good" men by your own standards exist at the local college she'll be attending? What are the odds that she will pair off with one of them rather than some jerkboy Chad? What are the odds that any random given male will honestly be as benevolent as you think are? What are the odds that the competing religious structure doesn't make a good attempt on her brain? It's not looking pleasant for you.

I cannot believe you idiots. Collectively you are presented golden opportunity after opportunity yet somehow squander them all. Even being reminded of other people's similar failures, when it comes to be your turn you manage to fuck it up anyway.

>her if I don't let her have her own choice.
She already has a choice and she's choosing you. Are you one of those idiots that think it doesn't count because of some random arbitrary day of the year?

by finding a job close to high school. I kind of regret quitting that job because it would get all the hot girls right out high school.

It just seem logical to me that she stops being a literal high school student before she starts a relationship with an actual adult.

And what is the logic?

I just want her live life other than home schooling and working before she decides "Yeah I like this college dropout, he's the one." If she's even considering that. There's a good chance she doesn't have any interest in me like that at all.

You know damn well once she gets a boyfriend you'll stop ''wanting to help'' her.

You said there would be logic, but I see only emotion. There's nothing preventing her from leaving you once a relationship has been established because she isn't bound to you. If she thinks that you're not worth it, you're going to be ditched either way. The only thing you are doing with this strategy is fucking yourself over by letting someone else steal her away.

>she's not like other teenagers, she's speshul and mature
>muh ''protective instincts''

Admitting that you want to date the 17 year old would be way less creepy than this father-like creepy obsession

This could be you OP, but you playing

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Nobody fucking waits for the girl they want to "see her options", that is total cuck shit, call me Jow Forums all you want.

>Admitting that you want to date the 17 year old would be way less creepy than this father-like creepy obsession
This desu fampai.
>reading this thread
>'i don't want to date her'
>'i just have protective instincts'
>'i used to want to boner her pusy tho'
>'but i've now switched off my attraction'
>'so i've made a thread about how i can get close to this girl that i used to want to boner, but now i don't want to boner because people wouldn't understand, so tell me how to get close to her without seeming suspect'
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