I guess I am ugly... I thought I wasn't for a while but I guess I must be.
Carter Brooks
When I was between 17-21 I maintained my progress into adulthood (school, work) but I also hung out with shitheads, behaved like a shithead, sold pot, drove a junk car and acted like a fucking belligerent cunt. Daily vagina. At 25 I wear a suit to work, honestly a solid 8/10 in a fucking t-shirt, 6'3, 200 lbs athletic, decent salary, can't get these bitches to say hello. Which taught me something. It's not me. Women are fucking retarded. Middle aged women love me to death and I've figured that out too. Because I'm what they all realize at that stage they should have settled with in their 20's. Sometimes I think about just being a shithead again but then I look at guys on the right track in their 30's and they fuck 18 year olds. So that's an upside.
Jackson Price
A lot of girls are just as socially retarded as boys today Just approach them in the gym, ask them about something random but not personal, enough to make some interested. and see where the conversation goes
Kayden Edwards
>it’s another “I’m literally near-but-not-quite perfect at everything yet women won’t talk to me” thread Saged.
Connor Evans
This. Nobody knows how to approach in person anymore, but they want to be approached, so looks to show interest are through the roof.
If you catch a girls eye, and catch it for a second time, just go talk to her! They will be super happy and into you if you do.
Aiden Bell
>save the white rice Plenty of yellow rice about mate
Blake Reyes
Kek, buy a asian gf
Levi Jackson
I was just at the grocery store, and there is this cute as fuck cashier that's my type...we catch each other staring at each other a lot.
Time comes for me to get rung up.
I say "mmm I just caught the tail end of cherry season, my favourite fruit" in the smoothest voice I possibly could--her response? "Uhmm" >"Credit please" >"When you're ready" >"Bye" >"Have a good night" she says even though it's still day
I forget my water bottle and she calls me back and I come with a smile and say "thanks love" but she doesn't even acknowledge me.
Come on. You should have said "can you help me take my groceries out to my car?" with a chuckle. Make dumb jokes but don't force it, if you don't have a natural sense of humor developed don't bother.
Make a little joke then just say "hey can i take your number?"
Confidence. Ask ouyt 10 chicks a day- tell them the universe made you come tell them they are pretty or some other gay shit women love. You will know after 2 dates whether you have a keeper or not. Want a keeper? If the answer is truly a yes- find somebody more kind than you are. It's the only way. If you are the "good cop" in a "good cop- bad cop" chose only one -question, it will never work long term.
Jaxon Rodriguez
A lot of white women are mind washed into thinking white men are the devil. You just have to keep looking buddy.
Charles Campbell
Because you already "de-value" yourself. How? Simple. You say it yourself. You are doing all these things to yourself just to get a chance to date a beautiful girl. Thats where it all goes wrong. If you are confident, even if you are average-looking, you can get beautiful women.
You should have confidence in yourself. Not because of artificial things you do to improve yourself. But because you are of yourself. Just by being your best you, and being honest with yourself and what you want in life and in a woman, you can attract almost any girl as they are attracted to ((confidence)).
>I dont know why girls dont like me >I-i do all these things and I am not attractive enough?? >howcome they dont want to date me?? >what do I have to do??
Its not about you trying to become some idyllic image of perfection, enough for a girl to get you. Stop comparing yourself to other men. Be your best you, all your quirks and different gifts that God has bestowed upon you. Refine them. Be knowledgeable of them. Be presentable, respectful, humble. Work in silence. Reach success on your own terms and on your own goals. Women will come when you have this power. Don't be a beta cuck and be depressed and wonder why women aren't getting with you. Start asking yourself why am I not being myself where the right woman will be attracted to me?
Exactly. Worked on myself in teens/20's to get Jow Forums Jow Forums, travel, philosophy, engineering, etc. Had everythnig going for me. Women wouldn't give me the time of day. Luckily I did it all for myself and now, late 30's, make 7 figures a year. Roasties assault me (sexually) now when I go out. Can't stand them. Like a 1980's car with 250,000 miles on it. F you hag. Young ones want a taste too, but are a bit shy/inexperienced/unwilling to 'settle down'. Currently at a high (peak?) SMV and will see what young and equally compatible high SMV female is out there. Enjoy seeing the roasties run for the scraps of men.. and come to the realisation they have no value. Should have been nicer/smarter in your 20's instead of wasting your life.
hey nigger single moms are the best ever. Easy pussy even for incels!
Anthony James
b-but...I got vibes from this cashier girl today...and I don't know if she's shy or what...but when i got to her she gave me no encouragement what so ever.
Usually when girls want you they give you plenty of encouragement.
Jose Peterson
I've experienced this too. I think its another retarded shit test. I can't fucking stand them.
Ethan Kelly
You are doing something wrong. If you indeed have a good salary, all the women are checking out your package. And not the one in your pants, but your benefit package.
Or maybe you live in some overpopulated shithole filled with SJWs and coalburners? I really don't know what your problem is if your stats are legitimate.
Get transferred to a rural area, go to church, and swim in women. They will be showing up on Sunday afternoon to bring you food because "they feel sorry" that you don't have someone to look after you.
Camden Anderson
>7.5/10 on a good day
That means your average woman thinks you are a 4/10 at best.
Stop trying to get women, you're wasting your time and the more effort you put in the more time is wasted and the likely chance you end up with some cunt. Wait until someone pops up that isn't so shallow, it's your only hope.
Just be patient. Maybe tomorrow you get a knock on your door and she will be there, kneeling with an engagement ring asking you to marry her
Robert Garcia
women are not that bright, and they've been brainwashed to avoid guys like you.
Find a way to overcome it.
Isaac Jones
because you're cheesy as fuck instead of being confident and stating clearly your intentions. Girls pick up on fake personas or guys who are desperate.
You should just be nonchalant and smile >hows work? >hey I think you're really cute >I saw you from a mile away, your eyes caught mine >hey maybe if youre down, we can meet some other time or when you're off
If she doesn't bite, she isn't interested in you. Simple, straight to the point. Done. You might feel bad at first. But when you do this to girls often enough, you won't feel the pain or the sting of rejection. You will brush it off. That's just how life is, you win some, you lose some. That is confidence; having the balls to get on with it and if it doesn't work out, so what? You've got nothing to lose since you've not gained any ground either so why not try? Football games won't go anywhere if the attacking team doesn't attempt to gain more ground towards the goal.
You totally blew it by saying some cheesy shit haha. Then you tried to recoup from it by coming back to her and saying "thanks love" like you still think she's into you after you proved you were a total loser? Nah man. THINK first.
Also, it sounds stupid as hell but somehow the best encounters I have ever had my mind was totally focused on something else and bam this beautiful woman just appeared right in front me.
You pull the good ones out of the aether somehow.
Josiah Hernandez
>They will be showing up on Sunday afternoon to bring you food because "they feel sorry" that you don't have someone to look after you. Does real life actually work like that? You sound like you're making shit up that doesn't apply to modern day life.
>be a no ambition NEET >happen to score a high iq qt catholic virgin
Dunno man, shit makes no sense
Carter Peterson
>I saw you from a mile away, your eyes caught mine
You sound like you do this a lot and have smashed over 9001 vaginers. Why do 14 year olds on Jow Forums keep talking about shit they have no experience with?
Hey lad, don't believe this place when they say that good looks solves all your problems. How would they know? It's totally in their heads. Anxiety is the killer. Learn how to smile and flirt. Work out some good lines in advance for when you are stuck for lines and if possible take some friends out with you, the miniskirt chicks are never alone they are always in groups and you need to field shit from the ones you aren't focusing on. I try to tap off with a new girl at least once a week, usually every weekend. I've been doing it for quite a few years.
Are you actually going anywhere to meet decent women, and I do not mean bars or nightclubs.
Isaiah Edwards
Maybe the huwhite womyn are scared of such a big huwhite dick wrecking their thight huwhite holes.
Only concrete, objective, factual information matters.
Bentley Fisher
I still have 1/2 a casserole in the fridge.
Caleb Diaz
That's your feeling?
Jaxson Lee
so u cant enjoy your life without a girl? such a pathetic mindset, of course u r sad and of course girls avoid u.
Julian Clark
Yes, because all you ever hear here is either a) women are utter shite or b) women are the best thing since the invention of sliced bread. Level headedness is few and far between.
Ayden Bennett
This is the cringiest shit ever. Guarantee this dude is creepy AF.
Matthew Cook
What male incels and NEETs dont understand here about women is:
>women first and foremost look at physical health It's almost an animalistic, biological trait that they possess to make sure they weed out week beta males who have to physical ability or strength to father future offspring. It's nature dude; watch some National Geographic animal mating rites on Youtube and you will come to a consensus. So start working out and be your best physical condition to deposit sperm inside of females. You are the machine behind the dick. Females can choose their dick these days.
>women are child-like and even mainstream pop-culture and society idolizes youth That means you need not be "icky" or "gross." Make sure you are always dress prepped and clean before you go outside your house; everyday, every single day. Every time you go out, expect to meet the love of your life, because you may very well meet her that day. Learn fashion style and what's popular for males to wear today. Learn how to do body posture and body positioning in public. Learn how to speak fluently and clearly and loudly; take some speech lessons if you have to. Research popular men haircuts that will accentuate your natural head shape. Purchase a vehicle so people aren't always giving your rides if you need one. Have some form of passive income so you have pocket change to get around.
>women don't like losers/betas/cucks Be up to the point. Speak clearly, and concisely. Don't hide your intentions, don't lie, be honest. If you like her and think in your mind she looks gorgeous, let her know. Don't react to her response if it's negative. Brush it off and move on. You told her what your heart felt and was honest; if she didn't choose you, its because of some other trait you were doing or something about you that doesn't click with her. It doesn't matter. It's not like you're matching up with celebrities anyway, so whats another random girl?
Andrew Gomez
Sure you do, buddy.
I'm gluten-free.
Oliver Ward
Girls don't generally come up to you in clubs. Those are the rules. They wait for you to do it, that's how I know you aren't even trying at all. >I groom myself So what. Want a medal. It's not going to magnetically draw them to you by the clit. >they ignore me Ha! Yes they ignore me too. If I did nothing I'd sit there drinking red bull on my own all night. Tapping off IS NOT DIFFICULT, it's really easy in fact. But not if you never make a move and just wait for a freak accident to make one fall into your arms. ANXIETY is the killer. Fear of rejection. You lot are always moaning and always circumnavigating the truth and I know for a 100% fact that the truth is you never try. You never approach chicks because if you did you wouldn't be moaning because it's so fucking easy. Rant closed.
Don't listen to some of these retards because they haven't had much pussy if they disagree. To those that have- they know what it's like to this, fuck most alphas don't even bother replying to your sorry ass post OP but let's be friendly here.
Don't be a creep obviously and just go up to random beautiful women and spill your heart out. It doesn't work that way unfortunately.
"Know your lane." Try for girls who are at your level or below physically, mentally and on the attractive scale. Once you score consistently, you can try hitting on more beautiful women and you may win some over.
Pretty much just try to be your best self. If you like video games, so what? Some girls might find that unattractive, so what? Some girls don't care or like it. But what's important is your confidence. You like something, it doesn't matter what someone else says because what matters is that IT IS YOUR PREFERENCE. Not theirs. You like My Little Pony? So be it. Be the sexiest, physically fit, handsome, with good job and good haircut dude around that wears MLP pink shirts and you'd still get tons of girls. Some may even wear the shirt while you're banging them. It doesn't matter.
I wore random ass NASA shirts and Star Wars shirts and Nintendo clothing and the beautiful girl I'm with sometimes ends up wearing those during or after sex. It doesn't matter how nerdy you are so long as you are physically able, respectful, humble, presentable, sociable. Don't be mean or nasty. Don't be condescending if you have a higher IQ or know more in terms of knowledge. Be confident and know what you want from life. Don't be someone who is just swayed by the wind or what other people say or think. Some guys may think this is cringe, but they are just projecting their insecurities in the form of insults online. Be you.
Jacob Cook
t. little faggot incel
Jackson Fisher
If you have a 7.5" thick cock then just walk around with bike shorts all day and they will be lining up
Ryder Morris
Stop trying to get girls at bars and clubs and on Tinder. It's literally undercrust garbage. Sign up for classes and activities that are female oriented that a self respecting female would do (but wont make you look gay by attending). Make friends with them and go after their friends. Don't go after them or you'll fuck up the class and you will have to find a new one and start over.
Also, be direct. If a female is surprised that you're into them it's your fault 100%
Nolan Smith
there's high quality women and they don't want you because you're a bitch
>that pic getting told what to do by a woman is beta af kys sweden
David Diaz
>just b urself
Nathaniel Gray
Pity that it probably is a Jew thread. I fell like thinking about chicks. Haven't spent much time thinking about them today. I need motivation. It's 1am and I need to work out and can't be arsed. (Not the strumming my monkey type of workout, the other type). Why are Jews so bad but still act like they are the victims when people want them to go away?
Oliver Howard
This.
Do shit you like to do. Have hobbies and you'll probably meet a girl through your hobbies. If not you always have things to invite girls to do that you enjoy.
If you don't have hobbies then you need to get some and your life will turn around
Austin Young
Dude, sounds weird, but you need to start treating women like you don't give a shit. Be arrogant and think to yourself that you could always do better. You will be surprised by the results
Women fucking hate shy. They loathe it even if they smile and act nice. Grow a pair. Stop spilling testosterone and over 30 vitamins and minerals into your sock over web whores.
Landon Lopez
you're just jealous cause your mom doesn't jack you off fucking faggot
Robert Morales
>ignored by girls You’re the one that has to make the move lad Stop watching porn it’s to easy an escape
Angel Johnson
This. Most people don't realize it or choose to ignore it but we are still in the ancient attraction rituals and rites. Males still court the females despite it being (((the present year))).
Its the male's job to try and attract the female. That why when you go up to them, you can't be below their level but you can't act like you're too above them either. Give them the choice.
>if that's alright, maybe we can go out sometime >if it's cool with you, I'd like to take you out to coffee >if you think it's ok to do so, maybe we can go get a bite to eat
It also has to be in a socially-acceptable location and time to do so. Not in front of other peers or people. Not in awkward situations. Not in situations where she would have to choose in a hurry. Not in a forced situation where she has to say yes because she feels bad. You gotta feel for it.
Lack of empathy killed my last relationship. Maybe you just can't react properly.
Anthony Kelly
underrated
Jordan Mitchell
>Stop jacking off >Start pursuing girls >They break up with their boyfriend within a week >They shit test me >Don't put up with it >Romance dies immediately and they go back to their boyfriends immediately