So i’ve been recently promoted to mid-upper management in my company or rather I moved companies...

Nigga, for desperate causes like you, TheRedPill might not be a bad idea.
I mean hell no are you retarded or what ?

And to add: 2 years can do, if you lived most of it together in one place and shared everyday life

>Starting a marriage via ultimatum
Always a good sign OP.

>In this corner of the world
Learn to reverse image search you fucking new fag.

I met my gf through some friends, she didn’t like me initially when we were younger, but it seems that as time went on feelings bloomed.

She's not mature enough for marriage. Let her go. She either crawls back with new appreciation or you dodged a bullet because she wanted someone to control. Time a dozen, my friend

Break up. She WILL crawl back. You can then use her for sex and lead her on, but I would never marry her. She ain't changing in her lifetime.

Listen to these responses mate, really. This isn't some bitter incel mgtow shit. You can fuck up your life really, really badly. Try to think rationally now, escape the evil pussy power, and don't think with your dick. Don't give into that, she is trying to control you through a fucking ultimatum

But we have the same friend group.

>ultimatum
Oh, yeah, that's a sure sign she's a keeper.
>29
kek

>She now giving me an ultimatum of either put the ring on the finger or we are breaking up.
wow, what a solid foundation for a loving relationship
if you're retarded enough to get married through a process like this, then you deserve what's coming
jfc

>ultimatum
>29 year old gf
>letting a woman past her prime age have power over you
kek

What’s her budget for the potential wedding? If she wants the huge expensive production then that’s a big red flag for me. She’s also at the “I want kids RIGHT NOW” age. Another red flag. Don’t end up being a sperm donor. I’d be very careful...

It doesn't matter how long you know someone. Even after 10 years, if someone gives you an ultimatum to get married it's a red flag.

Marriage is for someone you completely trust, and someone who completely trusts you. There's not many of those around. Don't marry out of desperation and don't marry because someone tries to strong arm you. Since you're going to the gym, you should have the stronger arms anyway.

Break up you shouldn`t take an ultimatum. If she insists on her ultimatum it`s probably better for you to leave her anyway.

Don't.
In this thread, there isn't one mention of how much she matters to you.
So don't.

OP if you're asking here you already know the logical answer, you're just looking for validation so imma give it to you. Anyone who hands down an ultimatum like that is fucking crazy and if you put a ring on that shit you'll just end up divorcing her further down the road. Hell if she's saying she'll break up with you the relationship obviously doesn't mean that much to her if she's willing to end it.

If he’s at a small company that may be pretty high up. It’s relative.

Break up with her and also stop grinding with office thots at work parties especially if she works for you. Disgusting.

imagine getting married because of an ultimatum lol

ultimatums are emotional abuse

An ultimatum should be an automatic dump, no questions asked. That's as big of a no-no as cheating.

Good advice in this thread user. Nice to see we aren't getting any bs from the woman hate zombies too.

So i’ve recently graduated top of my class with scholarships
>I’m 18 and I have 2 scholarships
>my mom is 43, and keeps hinting about anal
>fat fuck originally who learned how to lift and excercise, so I’m in one of the best shape of my life right now.
>my mom does not like one schools i got into, because she think i'm too good for it
>recently went to Prom with my school and I danced with other students and a photo was taken, it was however with the whole school.

She now giving me an ultimatum of either put the penis in the anus or i can't go to post secondary school

Idk what to do, I love my mom but is 18 years enough to know a person?

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5 years minimum before marriage user, stand your ground, and if she splits with you because of that she wasn't the one anyways.

If he's at a small company, there is no upper management.
You'll go functional-level roles -> department manager (still involved with day-to-day) -> owners. You're not going to have Directors or VPs since the owners will have time to do that at a smaller firm.

>She now giving me an ultimatum of either put the ring on the finger or we are breaking up.
dont let yourself be played

If she gives you an ultimatum it's an instant no.

Not because you value the other option more, but because it's fucking absurd and a HORRIBLE sign that she's giving you a "choice" like that.

Ultimatum means she'll fuck you over. If you give in you're giving her all the power in your relationship. Break up man, 29 is fucking old anyway for an unmarried woman.

shouldn't let the fact that you have the same friends as her trap you into a potentially toxic relationship

what

said. What thew fuck does having the same friend group have anything to do with it? Did you come on here looking for someone to validate getting into a marriage with this bitch? Because based on what you've told us, this is stupid, and you have no reason to not refuse this woman.

If you're looking for some magic way to have your cake (aka a shitty, immature girl, presumably in her late twenties, who'll lose what's left of her looks in five years, tops), and eat it too, you could sit her down like an adult and tell her that, while getting married is something you want, starting it off in this way will only make it a bad experience for both of you.

But honestly, it's sounds like your GF is being an absolute child about this. You should let her know that's how she's behaving, and ridicule her attempt to control you. While this sounds means, it isn't - childish, immature people, who don't think before they speak, and give in to all their bad impulses / thoughts, respond best when they're snapped back to reality by having their childish bullshit exposed for what it is.

Lastly, why in the FUCK are you asking this on Jow Forums? What does this have to do with fitness? I fucking implore you.

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>I’m 27
>GF is 29

She's about to hit the wall and she knows it, dump that bitch and get a younger girl

No good marriage has ever started with an ultimatum.

leave her for someone 6 years younger and she'll sudduko herself in 2 months. Especially at 29, she is all used up

“ I thought about it and you can have them”-wise words of Patrick Bateman

Tell her precisely this:

"I was preparing to propose to you, but since you have put down this ultimatum, I have discovered you are not the type of person I want to spend my life with"

It will make her mad as fuck but also destroy her dumb roastie ego

>29
>gives an ultimatum
>is jealous of coworkers and doesnt trust you

Yeah nah man dip on that. Bonus points if you fuck the girl she thinks youre cheating with after you break up

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How about you suck my balls

And thank you for the name

Marriage is a meme. Your gf realized your value is increasing as your income increases while hers is decreasing as she ages. Time to trade her in for a newer model. Don't buy depreciating assets.

do not fall under those bullshit scare tactics. shes literally bullying you

tell her that you need more time and if she doesnt like it she can fuck off.
nobody needs people like that in their life.

Penus in anus for sure dude

fucking idiot

marriage was alright 60 years ago when women knew their place. but nowadays its just too risky

Does she think shes the fuckin taliban? Start making new plans boy.

People who give you those types of ultimatums don't love you, they want to own you.

Call her bluff. She'll get rekt either way

Have you lived with her?
Wouldn't want to marry someone I haven't lived with for 6 months.
Do that first, I'm sure she'll understand.

dump her faggot, then trade her in for one 10 years younger

>All these morons telling OP to break up
They're fucking 30
If she doesn't get married soon she'll never have kids
If OP isn't serious about their relationship then she's fucked unless she moves on right fucking now, so obviously she's going to ultimatum him

You should break up with her. If you're second guessing the whole notion or sidestepping the whole marriage thing, clearly you don't want it right now.

You breaking up with her is alpha as fuck because that's what she doesn't expect you to do and honestly she has no right forcing that on you because of her insecurities. She'll come crawling back to you wet, wanting and desperate anyways.

that cuck telling op to accept an ultimatum to marry

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Brehs.... I just watched that shit in OP's thumbnail. The Feels are too real. Please go watch it. I know this is off topic but man movies like this really align your sense of value in life. If anybody wants to discuss this too come back. Also I'm gonna say that this is mental fitness.

Just talk it out with her. She's getting antsy because she's 29 and knows that she either needs to marry you or hurry up and find someone else.

Don't listen to the guys in this thread telling you to break up, just talk it out with her.

>insecure
>pressure
>two years older than you
Get the fuck out right now.

Marriage should not be an ultimatum. Dump her ass.