Meet someone new

Think instead of doing things with your heart/gut. So for instance, you've slept all day with this new friend, and you'd be down for chilling with them tomorrow as well. Before you suggest that, think about whether a regular person would want to spend several days doing the same stuff, so don't ask them out for like a week or something. Nothing wrong with taking friendships slow or anything.

Because you are Beta Male

Holy shit I know this feeling. I felt this for 10 years. Now I just don't meet anybody new. I hate this.

I understand this 100%. I figured out the answer is simply to suggest things ONCE and then if they don't respond, don't ask again, and if they do respond tell them what you want to do and let them decide if they want to join you.

The point is to pretend really, really, really hard that you're just doing your own thing in life and don't care if they join you, ever. You have to NEVER let on the fact that you're changing your plans for them or around their schedule or just want to do something with them and not care what.

Yeah this is kinda true, desu. Basically you need to have your own life going on so that people feel like they can be friends with you. Unless you're already super-close friends, in which case do whatever works for you guys.

Like I'll give you an example OP.
You ask a friend
>Hey man want to go to this event on Saturday?
>Yeah sure
He says. Ok now it's Friday so you message him
>Hey you still wanna go to that event tomorrow?
He doesn't respond. Do NOT text him asking again. Saturday comes. He still doesn't respond. Do NOT text him again. Assume he is not going with you and don't ask him again, at all. If he messages you again saying he wants to go, you have to make the call if he's too late or not based on whether you were already planning to go without him. If yes, say you're there and you'll see him there. If no say sorry you're not feeling up to it, assuming he messaged you well into the day or something.

The trick is that on Monday if he sees you again and says/messages you:
>Hey sorry man I couldn't go on Saturday. I wasn't feeling good
or something like that, then you're good if you don't make him feel bad for it, at all. No resentment at all. If you approach him first to ask about it you've already fucked up. If he says nothing at all to you, you still can't approach him about it. It means you've already lost or he really did forget (he's an actual idiot but this is rare). Either way you need to move on.

The trick here, besides following the instructions above in a more general sense, is that you have to do this process with literally hundreds of people, for years, until you find ones that actually follow through and stick with you. That's how this whole thing eventually works, I think.

Put it into words far better than I ever could. Basically, for normies friends are a lot about having fun, so if they feel like they HAVE to hang out with you, they probably won't be having fun. On the other hand, if they feel like they can do whatever with you, and if they can't/don't want to make it, there will be no problem, they're going to have a much more relaxed and better time.

This feels bites the big one OP, I'm sorry your brain is so mean.

I thought I made a clingy friend recently and even he ghosted me. But I'm pushy. I hope you meet someone who won't abandon you.

>Literally started talking to a girl who insisted multiple times "I don't ghost people, that's not how I roll".
>We talked for a couple of days and then she ghosted me.
Every time. Why do I always believe them?

hahahahahah.
>got roastied

I'm the same, however the same result happens.
>girl asked me out, then lied to get out of it and unapologetically.

this, and there's honestly nothing wrong with that. Nobody wants to spend time with someone they feel uncomfortable around

Everyone hates clingy people. Message/hangout 3 times per week or even only at Saturday. No matter what it is, once you overdo it, it gets boring and annoying. The best thing to do is just waiting them to call you.

This, but regardless of whether you think it's wrong or right, it's just the way the world is, and the sooner you make your peace with that, the sooner you can work with it and put yourself in the best position you can.

Having friends helps when trying to get pussy.

Pro tip lads, when you are gaming on a new female or even one you are banging, rarely message them first. I allow myself maybe once or twice a month to initiate a text conversation if I haven't seen them and they haven't messaged me. In this instance I will just message them with a picture of something cool I have seen for example rather than actually say 'hey how are you' and so I actually let them start the conversation really.

When they message you you should only respond once or at most twice a week, when you respond you can talk for an hour or even two if you wish, then tell them you have to go and will speak to them again.

If you do this they are much more likely to want you to slide inside of them.

Yeah it's nearly impossible to be in a relationship without having friends. Kinda just doesn't work that way.