My oneitis told me her dark past and she said that her ex bf of three years verbally abused her and on several occasions forcefully raped her and cheated on her, and that she is incapable of forming a meaningful relationship with anyone after she finally broke up with him after he got sent to prison a second time.
She never told me to stop talking to her, but she told me there was no chance of something meaningful happening between us, so I stopped talking to her. But I can't shake what she told me. She said it in such fucking detail that there is absolutely no fucking way she made it up, I feel so fucking bad for her. I want to care for her, but she won't let me.
How do I forget her? It's my only option, but her story struck me hard and it's the only thing I can think about.
>she is incapable of forming a meaningful relationship with anyone after she finally broke up with him You know that's just a way to reject you? Maybe her story is true, but the "i can't have realtions anymore ;(" is just a way to try and reject you without hurting your feelings because that might make her feel bad.
Lucas Perry
Honestly I know that but I don't care, it's her story that resonated with me.
Justin White
She's lying OP. Move on.
Aaron Hall
welcome to literally any girl at all. every girl has been raped one way or another
this isn't true. chads alone with a dumb bitch he probably did
Luke Sanders
The way she said it in such blunt fucking detail without a lick of trying to appeal to me, she didn't even paint herself as a "good guy" cause she mentioned she cheated on him after he started getting abusive (I doubt this aspect, she was probably cheating the whole time)
Most girls get the kind of "oh no I had sex while drunk" rape, she got the "he forced me down and I told him to stop but he did it anyway" rape. Way different.
Isaiah Peterson
Please, Op...for the mother of all fapping tell. how she got rape with every detail please. Did she scream for mercy? did she fight back? did her bf tie her back? did he drug her?
Jeremiah James
OP, just trust me on this one, okay. The only way to help her... this is going to sound crazy, I know... but the only way to help her is to rape her and verbally abuse her, then cheat on her.
She needs the hole left by the abusive ex to be filled, all women who are abused actually ask to be abused, they will it.
If you don't abuse a girl like that, she will never be happy.
No, I won't go into detail, but one of the occasions she told me about was that the ex wanted to try anal, she didn't want to do it. Ex pinned her down (she is like 5'1" 100 pounds, tiny fuckin girl) and did it anyways. She was then given a cigarette afterwards because she was crying the whole time.
Unironically I think this is true.
Tyler Gray
>she said that her ex bf of three years verbally abused her and on several occasions forcefully raped her and cheated on her, and that she is incapable of forming a meaningful relationship with anyone Why does it seem like literally EVERY roastie has one of these fucking "back stories"?
Give her some rest buddy, you're too assertive with your feelings. What you're thinking is related to her in terms of feelings in a similar way as a rape is related to sex. You're basically raping her feelings instead of her roastwound, but only in your mind at the moment.
Your attempts at making a conversation or relationships in general is abusive. Stop threatening her.
Just show this message to her if you think i'm exaggerating shit.
She's the only one that I believed desu. A lot of the time roasts claim rape and abuse and are inententionally vague because it actually wasn't bad, but if even half of what she told me in a deadpan manner with no other tricks to manipulate me was true, then it was legitimately horrifying.
Logan Phillips
Holy shit a legitimately good post on my Jow Forums?
I already cut her off, I don't want to talk to her any more, I want to let her heal and I want to move on.
Thank you for framing it like that for me, it makes me feel better abort cutting her off.
Tyler Watson
She needs a healthy relationship with a man, do you really think you are someone that can be in a healthy relationship?
Caleb Young
I tried to give her one but she didn't want one, at least with me.
Carter Brown
Doesn't sound like you did. Do you even know what a damaged individual needs to heal?
No, not at all to be honest. Which is why she probably wanted me to leave her alone and that's what I did.
I tried to give her support and to treat her with respect, but I suppose that is not what she fucking needed.
Jacob Ortiz
There is a group on Jow Forumsrapekink and a lot of those women were rape and eventually develop that fetish.
What i'm saying here is that. Even if she find a healthy relationship, she'll yarn to be rape.
It's not me claiming it's but a lot of these women post wanting it.
John Torres
How did you do it? Honestly it sounds like you did it in a controlling way. Which is okay, you're a man you probably don't know any better. It could help you to see a female counselor and discuss with them in detail what you did and were wanting to do and as a woman and a professional the counselor will be able to learn why you would probably make your oneitis worse and what you can actually do to help her.
Bentley Cooper
*teach you
Ryder King
>won't let you gf her >muh hurr durr can't form relationships no dude she just fucking rejected you feel no sympathy she will fuck chad so enough she's already on the carousel find a new oneitis ok
Adam Wright
>I feel so fucking bad for her. I want to care for her, but she won't let me. Don't. Women who stay with there abusers for that long deep down like it. You can't save or help her. Even if you were to date, she would go back to him when he out of jail. Women like that are completely broken.
John Rogers
Not OP, but I'm a fembot and I got called out for ghosting everyone, there are people who legitimately can't form relationships
Nathaniel Myers
If what she said is true she needs a therapist (kek), not a bf. That kind of shit leaves scars and you can't make those just go away with your pure 12th grade brsnd of love.
Jeremiah Kelly
Yeah yeah, I don't want to write people off who say that kind of stuff to avoid drama or hurting feelings? since People do have feelings, I say if you know they had positive experiences irl and never mention feeling afraid of people, then they're faking it, keep in mind I'm using my experience as a criteria, so I may be wrong
Jacob Myers
No. She's lying about not being able to be in a relationship. All the other shit is irrelevant. No woman ever turns down a relationship with a guy she's into.
