>30 year old KHV
>Live alone with my mom
>Mom had me at 13 (Rape by her dad)
>Been just me and her for as long as I can remember
>Love my mom dearly and have very close relationship
>Mom got incredibly sick when I was in high school
>Mom had to stop working
>Had trouble getting on social security because government sucks
>Money was running out so decided to quit high school to support my mom
>Worked 2 jobs until I was 22 to support my mom
>Situation finally stabilizes and she was able to get her social security
>Didn't need to support my mom anymore financially so quit my jobs and started college
>Lived at home to take of my mom since her health still wasn't the best
>Graduated college and got my career going
>Everything going very well and mom's health improved a lot thanks to her doctors
>Now 30 years old and have never left home
>Decided that I kind of want to move out
>Sat down and talked to my mom
>Told her I want to move out on my own
>Mom was very upset and asked me if she did something to upset me
>I told her of course not and she's never done anything like that and its just about that time I go
>Told her I'm 30 and never even had a girlfriend
>I said I can never give her grandkids if I never try
>Mom starts crying
>She says she doesn't want me to go and that she doesn't care if I ever give her grandkids, she'd rather have me around
>She asks me why I want to leave all of a sudden and if I wasn't happy here
>I told her I was very happy here
>Mom clings on to me and hugs me
>She says to not leave her
>I tell her I'll move somewhere close by and visit her every other day
>She says don't abandon her and keeps crying
>Feel like a huge piece of shit
Am I a bad guy? I just thought it was about time for me to venture off. I don't want to be a lonely kissless virgin anymore, am I just selfish? I love my mom more than anything, I didn't think this would hurt her so bad.
Mom doesn't want me to leave
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Do you really expect me to believe that your dad is your grandfather?
you're fine man, just tell her that you need to live your own life too and she can't tether you home for the rest of your life.
imagine still living at your moms at 60 years of age and nothing to show for it and no future plans for retirement, you're basically fucked.
as long as you promise not to abandon her by proving it then it will be fine in the end
Op have you thought about a sexual relationship with your mom? Your grandad already hit it, she might be ok with younger.
You are a selfish dickhead. Why would you leave the woman who raised you?
You don't have to believe anything, but it is true.
I would never abandon her, she is my only family. She doesn't understand that though.
You are selfish OP but being selfish isn't necessarily bad.
>She doesn't understand that though.
she does but is just trying to guilt trip you instead of admitting the truth so you'll stay.
i doubt your mom is retarded enough to not know a simple concept of basic understanding
just don't take the guilt trip thing personal, some people don't even realize they're doing it.
You're not a bad guy, you need to take care of yourself as well.
Its understandable that your mother doesn't have the foresight to see how allowing you to mature and to have your own life is beneficial for both of you, but if a family has stronger individuals then it is a stronger family. If you come from a better place then you will better be able to help her, even if it means sacrificing temporary comfort.
You're not the bad guy, if you want to move out then move out. To me your mother sounds like the selfish one because of her own insecurities, I doubt she's actually intending to be selfish though. There's nothing stopping you from keeping a close relationship when you move out so make sure to tell her that you'll still visit, at the end of the day it's still your life, you're already 30, an adult and she should understand that you can make your own decisions.
Why do you even want to move?
If you're truly a robot you will only be even more lonely.
You've done more for your mom than most sons ever would.
Try to have sex with your mom. I see no other option here.
Can you not afford living in a bigger place, where your mother's presence doesn't make that much a difference? I live in the Euro countryside and it's pretty normal for two generations to live together. Usually middle income families have big enough houses that they don't interfere a lot with each others' lives.
This. OP is a scumbag, no woman will love you more than mommy.
No woman likes a man that lives with their mother. If he lives alone then he at least boosts his chances a little.
>never leave home
>you're a selfish dickhead
>leave home
>you're a selfish dickhead
the mind of a normie
have sexy time with your mom, ask her to make babies with you, if she had sex with her own father, it shouldn't be that much of a problem for her to have sex with her own child as well
And if he fails he won't even have his mum to keep him company, just a deppresing empty and silent house.
>we're reaching levels of incest that shouldn't even be possible
Ask your mom to have sex with you so you never need a girlfriend
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must be nice to say you've worked so much to support your mom, truly a heroic act.
Those babies would be demons.
naaah, they should be fine!
ironically this is pretty normal even with normal parents desu my mum was insanely upset i wanted to move out and i havent gone through nearly any of the traumatic shit you guys have been through, this is normal mum behaviour
Has your mom ever dated anyone OP?
>tfw you live in a country where living with your parents past 18 doesn't hinder your social status
I save up so much money.
What can I do then? I don't want to hurt her. It doesn't feel like its worth leaving if I hurt my mom in the process.
It would be very expensive where I live, but not impossible. I don't know if I want to buy a gigantic house off the bat though, that seems like a huge investment.
No.
There's your solution then, OP. Find your mommy a husband. Hook her up with someone.
Better yet, hook up with your mom.
>hey chad plz fuck my mom
just like his mom couldn't help him with love he can't help her
Or OP could be her husband, seems like that's what she wants.
>son can't find anyone
>mom can't find anyone
>they only have each other
JUST FUCK ALREADY
Buy her a dog.
i'm sure op would have done that if it was on the table, maybe she's just not attractive.
she's probably fucking guys anyway if she wasn't a womanchild with issues from rape
>i'm sure op would have done that if it was on the table
Or maybe he's a normal person and wouldn't even if that was on the table.
this, actually. When my gramps died, my grandma got a pupper and she's felt a lot less lonely ever since
>Do you really expect me to believe that your dad is your grandfather?
This is wh*te culture
This is America
yeah incest is gross
>OP is 30
>That means his mom is like 43
Damn, you're so close in age to each other. Totally date her.
you are not an asshole. Youve done more than a lot of people would and mad respect for what you have done
if you do move Id get her a dog, specifically a puppy so she can let it grow with her. Also stay with her every once in a while just to let her know you are still close. Maybe come by for dinner every night but go to your house to sleep etc
good stuff user
but oh wait, OP is literally the product of incest and he has a degree and is a normie wage slave he probably has a complex about it and wants to knock his mother up for a son he can relate to
DON'T CATCH YOU SLIPPIN' NOW
DON'T CATCH YOU SLIPPIN' NOW
LOOK WHAT I'M WHIPPIN' NOW
you're not in the wrong. whether or not she's aware of it, she's trying to emotionally manipulate you.
she's in the wrong
This samefag is adamant to get OP to buy a dog. Do you own a dog shelter or something?
First things first, you're a great guy OP for taking such good care of your mother.
Ignore these people telling you to put your foot down and get her told, she's developed a serious dependance on you, shackling those chains over night will absolutely destroy her. What you need to do is help her gain some independance, and get her used to you not being around as much. That's going to be difficult if you've never even had a girlfriend (she's never had to "share" you). Does she have any friends, a social group she can turn to for support? If she's only recently gotten better from sickness is she getting outside, getting exercise, fresh air? Is she taking care of the house, or are you doing it all for her? If I've misunderstood and she is reasonably independant then yes you could probably afford to be a bit more assertive about leaving. And of course I have nothing to say about the circumstances of your birth, ultimately I have no idea how to deal with that kind of trauma in an individual. Has she talked to a therapist at all?
I'm no kind of psychologist by the way, just a concerned fellow user.
Clearly she wants to be the only woman in his life.
And by that I mean she is attracted to her own son.
based brainletbro who can't read samefaggotry
>son is 75% you
>create grandson who is 97% you
this is an interesting experiment
which is completely fucked up and disgusting
Do you have a high school diploma OP?
You don't owe shit to this roastie
Move out, never look back
Make gentle love to her and continue the tradition of incest
She's just being a standard woman by crying, accusing you of things, and shaming you when she doesn't get her way. Move out and visit her like you said, she'll get over it.
>Providing photoshopped images as proof
Buy her some curtains, maybe even a dog.
u should move out and live
>which is completely fucked up and disgusting
And by that you mean so fucking hot, right?
I do not actually.
it is in porn, not so much in real life
why are you causing a shit in an otherwise fine LARP thread
to get pussy you don't need to have a house but at this point the max you will get is some used up roasties or if you are lucky some 18 year old desperate for a guy with a car.
You're right, it was all me all along. Here's the original.
You are not a bad person in the slightest.
I'd say that it's time to go and live your life. That being said, you must never abandon your mother.
You guys are reading too much into it. She doesn't want to have sex with OP. OP is literally the only man in her life and he's taken care of her forever. Of course she's attached to him, he's like her father, husband (in essence), and son at the same time.
I can't even fathom this, this can't be real. My mother beat me and yelled at me while i was growing up, and now she's suing me to get me out of the house.
You aren't selfish, you have a right to do whatever with your life, and your mom clearly has some issues she needs to work out.
Go get some therapy with her.
wait a minute while i align the pixels on my second (You) senpai
>Of course she's attached to him, he's like her father, husband (in essence), and son at the same time.
user please, my boner cant handle much more
Why are robots such fucking beta manchildren? Tell your mother to go fuck herself and move the fuck on. You're a fucking grown man. Act like it.
That's because your mother is a cunt, user.
Aw shit I don't know whats going on. Am I every post?
Well some people actually love their parents.
Just wanted to say that you're a great human being for supporting your mom like that, OP.
Do what you want to do, even if it pains your mom she'll live to learn that it was the right decision for your happiness. Just make sure to visit her as often as you can and shower her with love so that she doesn't feel lonely.
Good luck, OP! Even if you don't have the looks, a kind hearted person like you is sure to find a good woman eventually.
there's loving your parents and then there's being a complete doormat
>dropping out of high school to support a roastie
This is truly maximum cuckoldry.
>keep going to high school homeless
>Why are robots such fucking beta manchildren?
You answered your own question.
Nigga, that is his mom. Not like she's just a random woman.
Don't abandon your mum she sounds like a sweet lady :(
It's not that unusual to start a family and live with your parents. I lived with both my parents and grandparents my whole life until recently. I don't think a girl would be put off by it if you frame it as "I am living with my mother because she's all alone and I'm worried for her health so I have to keep her company" because you obviously aren't a manchild living off her in that scenario. Some women may even see that as a good sign that you love your mother so much.
>I don't think a girl would be put off by it if you frame it as "I am living with my mother because she's all alone and I'm worried for her health so I have to keep her company" because you obviously aren't a manchild living off her in that scenario. Some women may even see that as a good sign that you love your mother so much.
A woman whos worth anything at all will see this as a good thing. Listen to this man, OP.
I'm surprised your mom even wants to be around you since you're the result of something so bad.
Why is Jow Forums so obsessed with incest?
i'm usually against mother/son incest but i'd make an exception for you, op
absoluteIy underrated post
I'm in your exact situation, but I'm a woman. Eh...I didn't really expect to find someone though, so I just stick with her and play video games on my off time.
I ended up buying a house with two levels so she can be on the main and I'm on the other and have my own space.
mup da doo didda
Is your mom cute, OP?
No your mother has serious problems and you need to move on if you care about her because she will never get better if she's using her son as a crutch replacement for friends and a boyfriend.
What your mother is doing to you is wrong and you are legitimately the victim in all of this. Normally on Jow Forums it's the robot who is at fault but not in this case. If you don't move on you WILL hurt her even more because she will never be able to escape the guilt of stunting your development into an adult.
he's 30 and never left home or had a gf. if she was ever going to feel guilty, she'd have felt it already.
I mean at most, you could stay a few months and try and get her to have a social life. You can even put your foot down and make ultimatums. Ultimately I think even that's a bad idea.
You're fucking 30 years old. If you're not putting your own interests first than you're being an unkind person, towards yourself. For the sake of being "kind" towards your mother, who really isn't going to benefit from your kindness.
>Making sacrifices to support your own blood is cuckery
You have no fucking idea what cuckery is. You would probably think that sacrificing driving a fast car to allow your daughter to go to private school was cuckery.
>get in from work
>see a bowl out that is covered and has stuff on top of it
>mother is in the kitchen with me
>Me: "What's in this bowl?"
>Her: "Check it."
>Me: "My hands are full, what's in it?"
>Her: "Put your stuff down and check?"
>Me: "Or you could just tell me."
>Her: "Or you could not be lazy."
>Me: "Or I could just not care." and I don't bring it up
>three hours pass
>I go for a drink
>we're both in the kitchen again
>check the bowl
>Me: "Oh it's just-"
>Her: "Eggs."
>Me: "Is there a reason you actively waits until I checked to say it?"
>Her: "Because you could have just checked and not been lazy."
>she does this shit every day over the most absolutely inane shit, every conversation has to be a puzzle with her
>ask her why
>mentions some shit about me not tidying enough and not combing my hair (the latter being something we discussed literally the day before where she told me to comb my hair at like 8pm and I said no, since I do it every morning)
>"So you actively try and make our conversations more difficult because you want me to do stuff? If you want me to do stuff, tell me and I'll do it or tell you why I won't."
>"Or you could just not be lazy."
Why the fuck does she act like this
Move out. Also make your own thread you attention whoring faggot. Don't steal somebody else's thunder.
Given genetic sexual attraction, the fact you are a strong provider, and basically taking on the role of husband, your mother at this point probably has down low sexual feelings for you. It's really hard to sound like I'm not just saying this for the sake of trolling, I'm trying to emphasise how fucked up your relationship to her is.
Look at the evidence OP. She doesn't want you to leave. When you talk about having children, presumably with a different women, she breaks into tears. You've had what is essentially a husband-wife relationship for years. You have been acting incredibly masculine. protective, and nuturing when she has a history of sexual abuse and illness. You are in a straight up Oepedius Rex relationship here.
You are a 30 year old man and she's trying to prevent you from ever growing beyond what you are now, and ever being able to be with another woman, and ever having kids, so you can continue what is essentially a sexless husband/wife relationship with her. She KNOWS she's destroying all chance of you getting into a relationship and is doing this shit anyways. This is an utterly fucked up abusive relationship and you need to leave it.
No, she'll feel guilty when she viscerally realizes he'll never have a family, looking at her 40-something son approaching 50, still living at home and taking care of her.
I mean for fucks sakes OP she had a child as a result of her father raping her. This was HER formative sexual experience. Now she's trapping her son into a relationship where he will never have a girl. Where her son is essentially playing the role of husband.
This is an entirely sexual relationship that just doesn't involve sex. The thought of you having a girlfriend makes her fucking jealous. She's re-enacting what happened to her as a child, but instead of sexually abusing you, she's emotionally abusing you.
This is such a fucked up relationship, GTFO.
Will she really though? Sounds like she's content as long as the status quo is maintained.
OP, what is the nature of your relationship with your mother? Like what are you roles, what does she do around the house, what do you contribute, etc.?
>Woman got raped by her parent at 13, had a child
>Mother has never really had a normal relationship with a man
>Has an incestuous relationship be a formative experience
>Child provides for her parent when she's sick
>Lives with her
>Essentially asks like her husband
>Acts so manly... he's a hard worker... a provider... a doctor...
>Child who acts like Mothers Husband talks about dating other women and having their children
>IMMEDIATELY starts crying
Are you so naive you can't see the subtext OP? It's not just that she's lonely and afraid of you moving out. It's that she's JEALOUS.