>be me >20 year old virgin, not ugly just autistic >get into healthy relationship with amazing gf >feel genuinely happy for the first time in my life >we agree that we both want to have sex, shes a virgin too >dick won't stay hard for more than 5 mins >she offers to blow me to see if it'll help >no dice after a half an hour, decide to call it quits
What the fuck is wrong with me? Did I jerk off too much during my single years? Did Jow Forums turn me gay? I literally have 0 sex drive, and I even have to really try to bust while watching porn. This isn't the first time I've soft willied, but I've always chalked it up to circumstance.
She moved out of town for her new job a while back, and I'm going to visit her next week. What do I do so I don't embarrass myself again?
I've had plenty of times I've not been able to get full hard, but I've always been able to get a semi enough to jam it in, even with not very attractive girls. Were you full flacid? Top kek, guess you're gay
Ayden Brooks
>What do I do so I don't embarrass myself again?Don't touch your twankis or look at porn before you see her again. If that doesn't you help, you might need some powdered rhino horn or somehting.
Sebastian Adams
nice you gave yourself ED from fapping too much.
Cooper Sullivan
If he's not turned on, he's not turned on, not much you can do except maybe get high. Adderall supercharges your libido but you might get ED on it. Weed makes sex way more pleasurable, but I imagine if you're a homo it won't turn you on. Viagra only works when you're sexually excited, but since OP dreams about taking it up the ass from The Mountain that won't do shit.
Jacob Hall
This happened to me too. Had to use Viagra, then after using it once I was "normal". I think I was nervous or something cause it really fucked with me too when it happened.
You were just nervous since it was your first time
Justin Kelly
Not full flaccid, but nowhere near full erect. Do you make that shit work with a condom on? I feel like I could manage without one but I don't know that she'd feel comfortable with that.
Anthony Ortiz
Dunno. Only had sex a few times with a condom. Every time I try a condom it hurts. Is this normal? I'm not even big, just 6 inches
Brody Perez
I get really horny when I'm baked, but I've been trying to smoke less because she hates weed.
Nathan Wilson
Best advice I have, this has happened to me.
9 months into my first real relationship and I was pushing rope everytime we tried. I genuinely thought something was wrong with me. >amigay.jpg The actual answer was that I was just nervous about sex. My penor picked up on this nervousness and had performance anxiety.
The easiest trick for me to get over it was just to enjoy myself, throw worry to the wind, and >Keep trying. Keep trying. Keep trying. Communicating with your partner about this should be easy if you're honest.
I found out that once the sexual tension gets high, I just hold her close and kiss her a lot until the penor came out to play. I just did whatever felt right to me and it finally clicked.
Joshua Collins
Only good advice ITT
Ryan Carter
>9 months Homo detected Should have gotten drunk and had sex after 1 month of dating
Sebastian Carter
Noporn and nofap till you see her
Dominic Harris
prolly just nerves like others have said. the first couple of times after not getting laid for a while.
so i started getting nervous that all the traps on Jow Forums and fapping everyday fucked me but I got some libido max supps (didn't know how to find cialis or viagra) which actually helped my dick get pretty damn hard during sex. made me feel like a god and haven't needed them since.
it's really nerves bro. i mean you might be gay tho
No more porn, no more fapping. Stay off the internet unless completely necessary (particularly social media where there might be suggestive photos and Jow Forums where there are suggestive photos, gifs and webms) Lots of water, add in a bit of cardio, healthy fats in diet and maybe take a ZMA supplement
Wyatt Long
I literally cannot have sex if I drink. Not whiskey dick, I just cannot cum if I am even a little drunk. I become a literal dildo.
John Carter
Most guy have had an instance of penis failure. When I was first going to have sex with the woman I later married, I was so into her and so amped up and nervous that my penis just wilted like a flower in the desert.
I blamed it on the cats in the room and condom and she doesn't even remember it today.
Thomas Ramirez
Just do noporn. If you do nofap you'll cum in like 2 minutes and embarrass yourself.
Jayden White
You were just nervous, give it another try.
Colton Sanchez
It's usually due to stress. If you're nervous you'll notice your heart is racing a little faster which in turn means there's less blood flowing to your dick.
It's happened to me a few times. Not a big deal. Keep at it. Make more of a connection. Try foreplay for a while. Netflix and chill for a bit before you fuck her.
Logan Watson
does viagra only gib you the big penis when aroused? i thought it just turned into the Matterhorn for the time you were on it, might try it now for lulz
Asher Howard
First things first. How did you go about aquiring a GF? have you known her for a long time?
Gabriel Roberts
Are you fuckin rerarded
Jack Garcia
>be me >20 year old virgin, not ugly not super autistic but not a normie >don’t have friends so don’t meet many women >all the hottest girls at work all have boyfriends (yes really) >find usually one pretty girl each semester in one of my classes I talk to and is interested but they all fall through before we fuck for one reason or another >pretty consistently pick out the cute, trad girls but don’t have the patience or interest in waiting for cummies >not brave enough to go to college bar alone >thinking about getting a hooker to get it over with What the FUCK is my problem? I have been told I looked like ryan reynolds, zac efron, and kj apa by multiple different girls and I still can’t seem to put it all together for one fug
As already said, youre just nervous. Erections are mediated by your parasympathic nervous system or 'rest and digest' system while stress induces activation of your sympathic or 'fight or flight' system. This sends blood towards the brain and skeletal muscles instead of your penis and jou stay limp.
