>create tinder >I know it's known for just hookups but you guys keep recommending it for gf >browse through lots of women >most of them are alright looking >their bio is always overly egoistic and boring >every single one has a filter on their pictures >some even have the snapchat dog filter >match with some women that seem fairly normal now and then >start talking about stuff >ask them about their hobbies and what they do >always say some stupid shit like "netflix" "traveling" "hanging with my friends" "drinking" etc. >don't go into any detail when I ask about these "hobbies" >they don't add anything to the forced conversation we're having >I just end up ignoring them after a while >realize that all of the women here are just extremly boring roasties >delete tinder after a couple of weeks of trying to find someone
what even is tinder? just a free escort service for good looking people?
>just a free escort service for good looking people? Pretty much, very few guys get laid using tinder but the main reason tinder exists is...wait for it To boost the ego of women who get hundreds of matches a day and to keep them from being bored.
Im not bad looking, ive been approached IRL quite a few times and the current Gf chased after me but id never use tinder because i know there is a 90% chance youre just keeping a girl busy with chats when she is feeling down
Brandon Perez
Validation tool for most. Some fuck. The ones that do, you probably don't want in your life anyways.
Jace Gomez
Currently at the stage where I now have to take a back seat and wait about 4-6 weeks to see if the qt I've been talking to the past couple of months hits me up.
I get complete one sided conversations on my part. It's exhausting doing 100% of the leg work for every goddamn chick. They litterally want to be carried through life in every aspect.
Benjamin Price
I've never properly tried to get laid normally. Just started a full time job and have been seeing escorts every now and then. I do feel like I'm missing out but on the other hand it seems as though it'd be too much effort trying the usual way. How2fix myself brehs
Hudson Martin
>went to the bank to change some money into foreign currency >2 qts on both counters >JUST tier hair, not in shape >their reaction is just the "meh gotta be friendly to our customers" >ff ~6 months >been lifting for 3 months since then >noob gains >got nice fitting clothes >new buzzcut >need to get more money changed >see 2 qts again. >they smile (see wrinkles in eyes) and one of them even miscounts the money she hands me out (but realises it :(, was more than I would get)
all in all I think things are getting better. Still mfw >dating life.
>Meet qt Russian-American girl >Hates touching and is emotionally not expressive >Invites me to her house, kisses me, makes me a playlist, drives to my college to see me >Doesn't want to date me because she has to go abroad for a semester >She is coming back in a week >Don't know what to think >Ex hits me up >Ex didn't take our break up well >I realize the pain I put her through >Saw her today, we sat in a park, she mouthed "I love you" >Don't know if I deserve love anymore
What do I do? Does the Russian qt even like me? Should I get back together with my ex?
Never ever get back together with an ex gf. Only if she mad thicc and got the ass that bounce back
Robert Bell
>Ex didn't take our break up well This just means she didnt find a new guy to replace you... Dont fall for this, she will replace you the next time and you wont be happy for it
I know women are rare as fuck but its not worth the pain of having to deal with this shit, trust me. In 10 years you will be burned out from dealing with her and she will then move on to the next dude
Julian Wright
>Most women are basic bitches; more so at younger ages. I guess I aged out because I can't really stand them anymore. How do you young guys cope? It just seems like you'd be better off no bothering.
Nolan Thomas
20 year old boomer here
I just accept them for what they are, don't expect miracles from them, talk about some light topics most of the time, have fun and laugh. Women are great for your emotional and physical needs, the rest is up to you.
Jose Fisher
Thanks for the advice bros. She's been through hell, leaving her made her massively unstable and reckless, I don't know if I can fix that. Do you guys think that I have a shot with the Russian qt?
It's like a bus here, nothing then you get half dozen numbers then squat for awhile. 1/2 don't respond upon matching 1/2 do respond 1/2 give you a no. /snapchat 1/2 then actually respond on there 1/2 actually meet 1/2 take things further
Purely a numbers game and you're better off being in a city to match qt's, country thots have hundreds of dicks pointing at them and don't know what to do.
Aaron Jackson
>ran into ex on the street downtown randomly >she lives in another state thousands of miles away >somehow run into her on a busy saturday night >we talk for a few min, hug say goodbye >get one girl at next club who talks to me and flirts hard but sits on another guys lap later >only other women interested in me are milfs >only 27 but very Jow Forums
>Do you guys think that I have a shot with the Russian qt? No clue mate, you can only go and find out.
Trust me on this, you do not want to squander your opportunities. I made the massive mistake of getting back together with my ex, amazing looking girl but after a few fight filled years filled with depression and loneliness she left and completly burned me out. You do NOT want this under any circumstance so go and hit on the russian qt instead, hit on anyone else. Be flirty and have fun, dont expect sex but just enjoy their company
Isaiah Ramirez
Got a crush on a girl. Won't act on it because we occasionally work together. She's out of my league anyway and we've literally only talked twice.
I'm otherwise indifferent to girls right now. I was falsely accused of cheating and got broken up with because some girl who hates me spread a bullshit rumor. Pretty off-putting to that whole gender now if you ask me
Fuck both. Decide later. I'm in the same postition as you.
Dylan Roberts
Thanks bro, I need to move on from my ex. She was my first real love but I know I'll have others, maybe better ones in the future
Jaxon Allen
>never was interested in brainlet THOTs so I didn't waste any time on them >meet one girl that is smart and attractive >only girl I've ever met who can cope intellectually >ask her out We're still together years later and plan on having kids soon.
Kayden Rogers
I’M not the one 3/4 of the way to menopause. I’ll take a qt young gf, thanks
Joseph Gutierrez
Gonna just say that it's exactly the same basic bitch trash I'm getting in Tokyo with Tinder. Only difference is instead of being clever, you have to start conversations with "Hey" or "Good afternoon," and every chick has purikura pics so you got no idea what they really look like
You will definitely miss out on the russian qt if you don't take a shot.
Luke Fisher
>She was my first real love but I know I'll have others If there is one thing i would love to pass on to you is to skip this mindset Dont be dependant on women, dont expect to meet girls. This is the mind set that causes you to feel panic and made poor choices, you put yourself in a mode of want and if you hit a dry spell where you dont meet women you will feel pressure for it. Skip the "I can meet others" mindset simply because it can backfire if you dont
Best of luck to you bro
Kevin Murphy
I don’t fucking get dating now desu. I was trying pretty hard to make something happen before HS ended (im 18) and I was talking to some ppl over snapchat but trying to do that shit over social media just fucks w your head so much. I’ve kind of given up on it and I think I’ll just try to make irl connections from now on.
Jayden Harris
This
Honestly, the “love” 90% of modern relationships experience is nothing but liking the affection of the other gender. Then on breakup your insecurities trigger, the other person is suddenly very interesting because unavailable.
God relationships are so fucking stupid
Ethan Long
Thanks bro, it's been such a storm of strange feelings since I saw her. Your advice really helped me see more clearly
Jonathan Richardson
>How do you young guys cope? I don't, i am 19 and a khv. Girls did like me in middle school but i when to a boys high school and never had any girls in my social circle.
Matthew Barnes
I got fatfished because I have a thing for massive tits and fell for the facebook photo meme, I sat on the opposite end of the room and made her watch the entire first season of workaholics before leaving without even hugging her.
Fuck I was so furious
Justin Wright
This desu.
Easton Brown
>I sat on the opposite end of the room and made her watch the entire first season of workaholics before leaving without even hugging her.
Lmfao how long did this take
Xavier Bailey
Same
Carson Sanchez
any thoughts brehs
Easton Wood
Where did you meet
Sebastian Wright
>>only other women interested in me are milfs >>only 27 but very /fit Thus is like for the clubbing boomer
Most of the qt clubbing girls look like shit past 23. Imo your best bet is the electro bass clubs, idk the specific name but any club made just for this is good. Be hyper aggressive, i don't mean rape a thot, but as soon as you think she is into you go for it, try to dance with her or some shit. Don't worry about catcing a case, if jimmy savile can go his whole life without being convicted, then you can grind a few thots.
Brody Young
try it the usual way. don't feel inadequate because you choose to live your life a certain way. just act normie enough
Hudson Reyes
24 here and every girl my age has been sluting it up since high school. I tried getting a gf back in my teens and I was really close with at leat 2 girls, but I kept holding myself back out of the fear of being cheated on knowing how horny these girls were. It was like a race back then, first one to lose their virginity and fuck as much as possible.
Even though I'm kinda lonely now I don't regret it, I don't thionk I could have lived knowing a girl left me and then went straight for the cock carousel
Idk why I'm laughing this hard. Why did you do this user? Did she try and get up and you angrily told her to sit back down? I imagine you forcing her to sit there awkwardly for hours on end
Ryder Taylor
I feel like giving out free advice here today so why not
its not an easy issue to fix mate, you need to stop going for hookers if you want to change. Start socializing with people more, not just girls but guys too.
Do you still keep hoping or have you taken the blackpill already? I'm 19 and I accepted my fate when I was 16.
Jace Brooks
Almost two years here, was a russian girl with a thicc ass, swallowed without asking.
Hunter Carter
It's kinda on off, sometimes I get really fucking sad about it but most of the time I don't think about it. I haven't given up, I just don't try unless the oppertunity presents itself for me
16 and 19 is quite young to give up on shit like this
Zachary Long
I used to be like this but I didnt even see one girl was particularly attracted to all night except for the one that led me on for a bit.
I just want to meet a qt at a bookstore or some other bullshit. Not a club hoe!
Jacob Rodriguez
I don't know my dude. I have zero despite being described as a 'handsome young man', adamantly by my parents, at least my sisters high school friends said i was attractive apparently. According to my friend who is an authority on dating said i need to 'stop roasting girls'. If you paid for escorts then you are a step ahead of me user.
Jayden Watson
Fuck them, in both senses.
Russian is going to cuck you on her trip since she doesn't want to commit and you left your ex for some reason.
Think with your head and not you heart user.
Joshua Peterson
stop talking about this shit I'm only on the 4th day of nofap and just reading or even thinking about this stuff gives me a boner
Austin Gutierrez
>16 and 19 is quite young to give up on shit like this Guy is supposed to get laid when he's 14-17. If you're beyond that point, you're not attractive. The only girls that found me attractive were some 13-14 year old sluts when I was 16. Yet Chad could get any girl he wanted even one that's older than him
Aiden Richardson
>led me on for a bit Fucking attack bro like a dog.
Side note i feel destined to drift through like with no 'companion' >inb4 cuck No woman has ever gone out their way to make me feel special or even reached out in some capacity.
Jayden Martinez
>you don't have to tell me what happened, but you must watch all of the episodes
>25 >handholdless virgin >download bumble a week ago >asian qt just asked me out on a movie date *sweating intensifies*
Adrian Lee
I've started using Tinder a few days ago, so far no matches, it tells me that 3 people liked me, and i got a super like in the first couple hours, but didnt know what it is exactly nad swiped that girl left without much examination (thought that blue star is some sposored link or whatever)
>I just accept them for what they are, don't expect miracles from them, talk about some light topics most of the time, have fun and laugh. Women are great for your emotional and physical needs, the rest is up to you. This. As a man you have no value except that which you make yourself. Females have inherent value regardless of their conditions. Until a man proves otherwise, he is nothing. And because of this indisputable truth women have no need to be anymore than they are. So have fun with them, toy with them, hurt them and give them drama because they will never need to actually strive for anything. And when reality hits, and they're desperately searching for something as 30, you can walk right past them to the newer model and have fun all over again.
Jayden Sullivan
>Start asking girl seriously if she is single >She says she is >has to “go to the bathroom” >grabs girlfriend’s hand and drags her to bathroom with her
I talked to her best friend, the Russian girl seems frightened of sex and has claimed to be into women. I don't know if she's been with any men before. I think the reason she found me attractive and kissed me was because I look feminine. So maybe it'll be okay? Anyway, I'm not going to get my hopes up. Thanks for the advice bro
Jaxon Gonzalez
>fatfished My sides How have i not heard this before?
Carter Nelson
>asking Just do what you can/want to do. If she is dancing with you the (we should presume) she is single
Jonathan Moore
>Be hyper aggressive, i don't mean rape a thot, Yeah don't, but basically borderline do.
David Reyes
This will get buried under meaningless >all women r dum replies, but here's the redpill. Interesting women don't need tinder to get dates. Women with hobbies date men who also share these hobbies. Women who don't do anything but watch netflix and hang out with friends can only rely on their good looks to attract guys. That's why you see a disproportionate amount of boring women on tinder.
Dominic Ortiz
If having sex with women you have no real relationships with is your way of "living your life" then okay
Camden Roberts
Do you even know what s o y boy is? You're the only pathetic numale bitch trying to deny that 19 is old.
Christian Adams
Not mine. I don't agree with it, but you can't do anything about hormone full teenagers fucking like rabbits. That's nature.
Charles Collins
>I have a thing for massive tits I know the feel bro. G cup and up. >sadly only fat hags seem to come close to that size with any regularity AND remain single
If you have to tell him to be a twat swatter. No i am 19. That is not my intention
James Phillips
I was sitting at the end of her room with my arms folded for about 3 and a bit hours not really saying anything except repeating Montez quotes and also when she gave me some wine and I just sat there repeating "HERE TRY THE WINE" from clockwork orange hoping she'd just ask me to leave.
Nicholas Bennett
well yeah, we can't do anything about other that advocate against it. There are lots of things "That's nature" that we don't do because it's damaging to us and immoral I'll leave it there, trying to not go into Jow Forums tier posting
Adrian Roberts
>first got laid when I was 19 >been with nothing but prudish women who refuse to do anything but missionary ever since then (including random hookups) >never got a blow job in my life >about to turn 27, so I decide to take a vacation as a gift to myself >while traveling, meet a 35 year old woman from my same country. she thinks I'm 20 (I'm a baby face) and bonds with me from the get go >get two blowjobs from her in two days, with her swallowing without me having to even ask each time >think about those two blowjobs every single day Never give up, bros.
>Date with a doctor last week >Date with a speech therapist this week >Two other girls seem interesting and interested, probably go out for drinks with both next week >Repeat dates incoming
Can't complain. I just filter out the bad women quite early, this way my experience has been quite positive.
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I met my current gf on Hinge, it's just some other dating app but it lets you get a lil personality in there. Which is great for me because i'm not that attractive.
We've been dating 3 months now, and she's actually really chill. We both work, and she's in nursing school so we're kinda busy, and we just hang when we have time. Idk, it's overall going a lot better than other relationships.
I fucking hated dating apps though. They're legitimately a lot of effort, and so rarely fuckin pay off. I talked to about 20+ really boring chicks on Hinge over the 4 months I was on there before I met my current gf and the conversation ACTUALLY flowed easily. There was a lot of chicks matching me that just never messaged back either which makes no sense to me.
Wyatt Adams
>22 >KHHV >College, Home, Gym is all I do >Only interaction with a woman other than my mother is college lecturers and one student who is landwhale with an ugly face and small tits
Landon Turner
Where do you find the doctors though
Nathaniel Brooks
Do I just hook up with the fat troll? 90% sure I could If I wanted to.
How do you find new ones? From my experience women are rare as balls to find and good one (not taken, not ugly) are even more rare. I dont even care about finding a sane one, she can be mental for all i care
Nicholas Rogers
having 2 tinder dates next week. one seems really nice, but the other is attractive enough to make me think something is wrong with her.
How do you mean? Tinder is really easy for this. I also talk to people in bars and whatever. Of course I meet lots of bad women, but that's the way it is.
