How can I improve myself as a man to be more attractive to women and also be more confident in myself? I'm 25 and never had a gf.
How can I improve myself as a man to be more attractive to women and also be more confident in myself...
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Isn't that the question of the day
Stand up straight and stop avoiding eye contact
Actually talk to women. 9 out of 10 women are expecting YOU to approach them, even if you're good looking, in shape and all that you have to do ALL the work. Yeah it's pretty unfair but that's just the way it is
Seriously, you won't get any female attention if you're locked up inside your room 24/7 watching anime and complaining on the internet. If you want a gf go out there and start talking to people. You have to actually put in some effort.
>haha just be confident bro
jesus
how we can even compete to this
I'm only sitting in my room after work. I've tried to have conversations with qts coworkers but apparently they don't like to talk to me.
>Women's primary sensory is scent. Its what they notice first usually so first and foremost, invest in a decent cologne. You want to be remembered and stand out, so a nice smell is how you do it. Keep your personal hygiene up as well.
>Walk nice and upright. Chin held high, not too douchey, not too basement dweller. Have a nice stride.
>Dress in more form fitting clothes. Doesnt have to be designer, just something that looks good on you and isnt old tattered rags or the tyrone sagging sepcial.
>Chat it up and socialize. Practice, practice practice. Online, offline, wherever. The more interactions you have with women and others the easier that anxiety will be to handle around women and youll develop a ton more self confidence from this and all of the above.
>Be a good listener. Women love a man that listens to them. Convos with women are pretty easy when you realize how much they like to talk and how easy it is to build up some points just holding a convo.
I hope this is sarcasm. He's average at best
>this level of cope
YOU CAN'T MAKE THIS SHIP UP
>Seriously, you won't get any female attention if you're locked up inside your room 24/7 watching anime and complaining on the internet
extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence
By not competing. Who the fuck cares? its one man in some part of the world youll never see or contend with. Quit worrying about others and improve your flaws.
yeah, at the anual Hugo Boss models meeting
Looks, Game, Asset.
It's best to have all three, if not pick two. If you can only have one, pick Game.
What if my girlfriend is locked inside her room 24/7 watching telenovelas and complaining on the internet?
Regardless of how attractive he is, he does not look average
you need to be tall which is the most important thing so if u arent genetically lucky you lost from the start.
Can’t express how many times a woman told me I smell great, whether it’s a waitress or some random girl behind me in line. It makes your day. Your ego is fed. I’ve gotten so many numbers and had my weakness of opening a convo completely dismissed just by wearing cologne.
That and when you have a woman for a date,hookup, etc her texting you after a nice romp or night out that she smells like you or her room does and it’s driving her crazy.
Take the scent pill lads. I can go on for days.
He looks fucking retarded
> negative canthal tilt
> bulbous nose
> very asymmetrical jaw
> dumb nigger lips
> nasolabial folds
He has strong features though, and probably would slay IRL
Found the thin lipped virgin.
I fucked 10 girls the past year and I had a girlfriend for 6 of those months
I swallowed the personality pill ages ago
Didn't you ask this question on adv?
With the same picture.
Damn.
What do you talk about with women? I'm always at a loss when I'm trying to strike up a convo with some co-workers.
Dude looks like a fucking oblivion character
what do you like to use
Be more effective. Women all want the same thing: effectiveness. If you want the kind of girl that wants one night stands, get effective in that department. If you want a gold digger, get rich. If you want a woman who wants reliable dad type, be that. That last one means having a solid job, being in decent but not aesthetic shape, setting up "future plan" investments like working towards a house, and having some personal projects you work on that display ingenuity or creativity and hard work for long-term reward. Also, bathe regularly.
"how is your day going"
> "how is your day going"
They usually just say fine then ask about my day and I don't know how to respond to this question. What the fuck is wrong with me.
read Models
Talk about what she loves most in the world: herself
if it's a work environment, if you have any overlap in responsibilities it's always a safe topic
so stacy, did YOU manage to file that report
>yeah user what a mess tehee but it went all good at the end hbu?
ah same thing I just powered thru in like 2 hours to get it done with, the useless crap these people make us do instead of working
>yeah haha I have this super complex hard thing X to do
wow damn that's cool, X is hard but doable, but if YOU'RE [generic job title] you should also be responsible for Y, right?
>oh totally! but that's under control I have an easy time with managing things, and you? I don't even know what exactly you do
I'm responsible for the infrastructure solutions of business analysis and compliance (or whatever buzzwords your adult daycare uses)
>wow that made me snore
Yeah so do I but the pay's worth it and I get a flexible schedule, works really well for me because I like to work/read/study out in the morning (pick one that you know she's into, stereotype if you don't know the girl)
>yeah I can see you work out tehee! I wanted to try crossfit but I got scared out of it
oh I'm sure YOU'LL love it, it makes you feel great and have a lots of energy
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Just takes a bit of practice, don't try to be "randum xD" or a "male feminist", steer clear of divisive topics
just be yourself, man
How do I get a Jow Forums Egyptian gf bros?
You make it sound like the boomer hand shake meme.
Just shake their hand in the interview with a firm grip guarantees a job.
Seriously mate most of these guys have more onions than blood.
Start by dating a dyke who is just as much of a loser as you then fuck her till you get bored of her then find a real mate.
If you're in good shape you just need to get out more to solve your sadness.
> be me
> go to the mall today
> throw on a polo and decent pants and sneakers
> half the guys there are the literal virgin meme
> get mires from teen girls
> older girls do the sly look down when I catch them mirin
> walk out feeling like a total boss
Seriously just go out to normal places. If you only stay in your room or at the gym with other beautiful people you will never get any perspective and will drive yourself insane.
post cologne
Jinkies
don't bother with coworkers. make small talk with women in the checkout line at the grocery store. smile and speak to any stranger you interact with. be that charming asshole that whistle a tune in a shitstorm and come out fresh as a daisy. you'll annoy plenty people but you'll exude a permanence that women will gravitate toward
just BEE yourself :)
Something that took me too long to realize is that texting is really important to a lot of women.
In my experience they prefer to have more text interaction than in person.
It might be an asian girl thing or for girls who aren't comfortable with English, but it has helped me.
ew
Dam this dude would be butt ugly if he didnt have such a good jaw
>In my experience they prefer to have more text interaction than in person.
how do you get girls to text you back? especially girls that are popular af
>tfw on unread for 6 months on my last message
>girl sent out a generic "merry christmas" image
>i just sent back a "thanks, you too"
i don't know what to text about tbqh
I use a few diff kinds. Nothing crazy expensive but a few $50-120 and a few you can get at a target or sams club for cheap and those few get just as much compliments.
heres a couple:
>Gucci Guilty (Kinda pricey but my highest compliment receiver probably. One spray lasts all day and its bold, but not overpowering so its easy for people nearby to pick up.
>Polo Intense Red (bit pricey) long lasting with a more sweeter smell
>Polo Intense black (bit pricey)
>Burberry Brit (probably get the most attention from dudes with this one but women love it as well and its not too expensive. For some reason I get tons of dudes asking what I wear with this
>One Million (not too pricey, been listed on womens fave cologne lists for years now)
>Nautica Voyage (Another voted #1 fave by women and its prob my fave scent)
>Chrome (can find at department stores for cheap and is a great entry level that women love without spending a lot)
>Bora Bora (see Chrome but a bit more alcohol scented. Dont use a lot of this)
Few more Im forgetting but I can post later.
>wear cologne (burberry brit, YSL la nuit, etc.)
>never get compliments
i guess this is what it means to be unattractive
>those nose, lips and eyebrows
la criatura
Wew lad those tiddies.
Where the hell did all these Asian girls with great tits come from in the last five years? Is this the result of the Chinese finally having decent nutrition or are they further along with the genetic engineering than we thought?
Those are all pretty good user. Forgot about my ysl too. Where do you apply and how much?
I’m not chad attractive either and my literal 3/10 faced friend still gets attention (he wears pretty much the same stuff I do).
Bee
ASK QUESTIONS! Not just superficial stuff, dig deep, people generally will open up if you seem genuinely interested.
The person who is asking the questions controls the conversation. If she has interest in you youll know within minutes, if she doesnt warm up end the conversation and move on. one woman isnt worth investing in especially if she doesnt like you or isnt interested/attracted in you.
>Personality pill
>is a scum bag
He looks like a steroid-jawed, bulb-nosed hispanic Justin Bieber.
Don't understand the hate this dude is getting, the nose is bad but otherwise he's gorgeous
who the fuck said the personality pill entails being "nice"?
Yeah, when you've added attractive facial mods
speaking of
El demonio...
Wow, I never expected this post to blow up so much! RIP my inbox!
Thanks for the gold kind stranger!
Is this a 56%
JUST SHAVE THAT SHIT BRO
he ugly tho
Every person you talk to is social practice. Never pass up an opportunity to hear their story and interact. I will never understand how people go their entire lives without developing social skills.
this
why would you want an outgoing gf that expects you to be active in life
Yes, women expect an ugly like me to approach and make their day. Fuck off bluepilled scum
sauce pls
His nose and eyebrows are tolerable but his lips look like shit honestly
Why even live at all?