I like everything about this girl but she just revealed this to me, wat do lads

what happened to her sucks, but you're going to stick your dick in crazy bro

bail out unless you're a white knight

I didn't say any of those, my phone just has this retarded suggestion thing, I can't stand it and I sometimes click them by accident

Well it’s not her fault user

Probably has a rape fetish

You can turn it off
Also just be sympathetic. If you don't want to be in a relationship due to this then string it out for a little longer and turn into a loser who she will dump (watch some Costanza)
You don't want to be known as a guy who dumped a girl cause she got raped

>rape story
>crazy, most likely feminist
For your own good, avoid like the plague. Don't even respond. Just ghost on her now.

Either

>she is lying and crazy about being raped, so skrrt
or
>she dated a rapist so her judgement is clearly brilliant therefore skrrt.

easy choice user

Avoid avoid avoid

Be smooth about it or she’ll say you raped her too

Literally three days. We had a really good date though and already bonded very closely though

If you actually really like her and you are sure this is the path you want to go down with this girl, man the fuck up and be there for her.

I'm sure people will here will rag on you for being a whiteknight, but you know what's one of the best feelings in the world?

>cuddling with new girl I've been seeing for a few months
>"user..."
>me: "Yes, Anonette?"
>she grips my arms and pulls me tighter around her
>"You make me feel safe"

Literally almost brought me to tears right there. That's when you know you made it bro...when someone you actually cares about says something like that to you and means it.

Say "oh i see" then go about your business.

Hit it one last time and then ghost her

Only correct answers.

Hmmm, girl I saw for a few months said she'd been sexually assaulted in some way or another. She was in a bit of a state all over really, family troubles and a boyfriend she didn't like who was going to move in with her, unhappy with her degree etc.
I liked her, and I did my best to help her out. Her psycho friend who had broken her fb account leaked our intimate chats to the boyfriend and he dropped out which was a good thing for her (also we started fucking so). I encouraged her to do family therapy and she did so. And she was happy spending time with me while it lasted. So I think she's in a better place, at least I hope desperately that she is.
My point is, if you like this girl enough to spend half your time playing the fucking therapist then don't let this stop you. If you don't want to handle that then don't. And it's perfectly fair enough if you don't. But toy need to decide and stick with it, because only a real scumbag would go into this knowing as you do that's she's had a rough time of it and actually make her life even worse.

hug her, kiss her, cry with her, look at her eyes, hug her tightly and stay hugged with her. Then pick and look at her hands, look at her eyes and say: Its okay. It wasnt your fault. I love you. Then always find some time to stay with her or talk her and always love her deeply. If you really do (love her) dont make your relation sex-based. But still make love to her ofc.
anyway thats what i would do, but im just a lone, no-gf virgin.

LOL alright then....

I think that makes the decision a little easier. Not trying to be insensitive but I suggest you move on.

don't do it bro

be careful girls like this get really attached

Unironically this is what you've been lifting for, to save her

>but im just a lone, no-gf virgin.
yeah we can tell lmfao

literally do the opposite of this post OP

Wtf man, just reply "ok" and forgot that fucking women.

Amen, listen to this man OP

Instantly drop. No girl can be worth any of this drama. Damaged goods are not your responsibility and I do not pity you if you pursue her. You reap what you sow.

yandere fetish tho

she made some guy wait 6 months until he finally lost it and just took her pussy, now shes all messed up and a basket case and has issues with guys

run like hell and be thankful you dodged a bullet

Sounds like the type of woman that will threaten to kill herself if you don't stay her bf

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skrrt skrrt

She's very brave opening up to you this early in, to me this seems like it will be a major topic in your relationship. If you are strong enough mentally to deal with this, but she is clearly giving you an out of you don't want this.

lol every girl has a story like this and they all do this, it's a test to see if you're okay with the crazy she's gonna unleash when you're comfortable in the relationship.

Probably a lie. I've been with a few girls who happened to make similar claims shortly after meeting them. It's all a trick to justify their erratic behaviour. She is trying to make you care for her, which you might think is a good thing, but actually this kind of deception indicates she literally has no problem making up stories about very serious issues if she feels like it will get her what she wants.
Not that you care. But yeah, walk down that road, learn from the experience, don't let an user keep you from growing.

>t. regularly sticks his dick in crazy

OP, no one would judge you for fucking her if she's a qt, but you have to know she is ruined and sooner or later the crazy is going to come out drop a nuke on your relationship.

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The thing is, she's Christian and wants to save sex until after marriage, as do I. She had no idea her ex was only larping as a Christian just to get a hold of that blonde haired blue eyed Aryan pussy. She's extremely attractive, I'm sure the guy just couldn't hold it in any longer

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>history of abuse
>forms strong relationships rapidly

This girl is borderline, isn’t she, user?

She for sure likes super rough kinky sex, however she comes with the risk of being permanantly psychologically damaged and/or will accuse you of abuse or rape at some point.

The choice is obvious but since youre clearly a lonely young guy with little experience or options youll go for it.

>The thing is, she's Christian and wants to save sex until after marriage

AHAHAHAHAHAHA

>as do I

Let me laugh even harder you, dumb, dumb cuck

this shit right here is what's scary. i've never heard of/ seen anyone get false rape accused irl, but i have had friend who's gf did this shit. it'll fuck you up m8, better to leave

This is a bigger red flag than the rape itself

I also felt it. He is really trying to believe.

look at this objectively user. if she hasn't had any relationships since, how low are her standards for a good relationship now? rock bottom. there will probably be a lot of maintenance at the start of this relationship. clingyness is expected because she thinks she isn't good enough to have you because her standards for a good relationship are "doesn't abuse me". so you're going to have to put in work to get her confidence in your relationship to a level where she's comfortable that you're not going anywhere. this'll reduce the clingyness and at the same time because you've (in her mind) rescued her from her trauma and insecurity she will be extremely loyal. if she's a great person, ride it out and invite me to your wedding in 5 years

kek made me laugh
dont listen to this guy op
these boomers are all corrupted due to time and experience and also they r normies
(so are you)
women like love not sex
listen to me the based zoomer
>cringy
also
m.youtube.com/watch?v=3iFH5ozbJ6k

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You need to come to terms with the fact that everyone woman has a chicken soup for the feminist soul narrative in their head about a time when they got "raped". It's not your job to save hoes user. The point here is that if she feels the need to put this on display via text she WILL end up being a liability. I imagine you're young and don't understand your value as a man yet. but I promise just steer clear of people like this in your twenties. It's only a matter of time before you end up being the guy she needs saving from.

seems like the best move would be to tell him early versus months/years into the relationship

Only a red flag because it's a sign her ex was black.

Holy fuck user, that's the real deal my man I want to experience this something similar one day.
You are a good man, we are all going to make it brah.

This

Drop it like its hot OP, she's emotionally fucked either way

> wow ouch

your phone knows you

lol

you can't save her user, she will do nothing but bring you down

>guy friend
>tried to cuddle me

Why are women so fucking dumb? Guys don't want to be your friends. Every single one would fuck you in a heart beat given the opportunity assuming they aren't hideous.

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this

3 days in and she's unloading on you, do what you think is best

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How do you turn it off? It always suggests the most autistic replies .

What’s wrong with waiting till marriage?

you do realize this is what Chad uses to text

>Altitude
>Altitude
>Pull up
>Pull up

Ask her what race was her rapist.

True, I need to find this out. I like her a lot but I won't hesitate to drop her if her ex was a nigger. What's a low-key, non racist way of finding this out?

find someone with less emotional baggage or be ready to deal with shit like this almost everyday

I haven't told anyone but when I was seeing my (now) wife she told me she had been in a similar relationship, and drugged and raped when she said she wanted out. We knew each other for several months when she told me.

4 years later, we're very happily married, she's super loyal and very loving, knowing that I treat her well.
So. This alone shouldn't be a dealbreaker

the virgin comfort vs the chad OUCH!

I used to think this but I now legitimately have a female friend and have no desire to fuck her.
I have seen her naked many times and she is hot but I have zero interest in fucking her

yeah but until that crazy comes out if he fucking enjoys her company why not stick around? I don't get you people.

>You don't want to be known as a guy who dumped a girl cause she got raped

What’s wrong with that?

You guys fascinate me.
How are so many of you willing to date someone who tells you the most traumatic event of her life 3 days into talking? TV has fucked up people's idea of what a traumatic experience is and what most people do after one. A majority of people keep it to themselves, most people that go through stuff like that, if they can keep it a secret, won't even mention it for decades. Giving this story any credibility just goes against common sense. It's fine if user wants to put overlook it, but are we really buying that she got raped and openly talks about it to random dudes after 3 days?
Shit, I'm becoming such an asshole.

>one of my guy friends
>cuddling

user... 3 days in... Dear fucking God, I know being alone sucks, but even if the people saying dump her may sound like incels to you, I hope the takeaway of this thread is that you at least consider the option.

id drop it like a rock thats about to get too hot

medium pace drop

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are you in a relationship? The only time I didn't want to bang any attractive girl in front of me was when I had feelings for some chick.

This is a woman that you stay friends with and check up on from time to time. I am afraid any sort of romantic relationship will be marred with flashbacks, erratic behavior, and cryfighting. Be there for her but, as it stands, she sounds far too traumatized to have an intimate relationship with you.

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I actually reviewed this thread and would like to alter my previous statement.

The rape itself is something you can look past, but dumping on you about her panic attacks and suicidal thoughts after three days means you get out. She needs professional help, not a new boyfriend.

nah you're actually sane this shit is a big red flag

>Shit, I'm becoming such an asshole.

No, you're right. She is likely just conforming to the "me too" bullshit of our current culture.

This for sure, don't even reply.

I am in a relationship so that is part of what helped me get to know her well enough to get passed the "we might end up fucking at some point" phase

Nah you're spot in there.

Most of this thread is talking about the rape part in the abstract. I don't think most of the posts ITT were written with the 3-days part in mind. They probably didn't notice it. I'd bet money that the vast majority ITT would agree that an emotional dump three days into knowing somebody means you bolt, irrespective of what the trauma itself actually is.

>irrespective
No one listen to this fucking dolt.

Abort

You sick fuck.
She's opening up to someone and trying not to hide anything and your first response is "get the fuck out"?
Are you also one of those pukes that complains when bitches hide things from you and just aren't honest?

I read the word wrong, nvm. Listen to him

>dolt
Look at me I can greentext a word like a huge faggot too.

According to the situation it might have been consensual and she is feeling guilt after doing it, she is just getting it off the table now. She might have issues, tread with caution. I myself am a Christian too, although something does not add up with her bro

>talking about first kisses with girl you met 3 days ago
>"My first was at 15! Btw I was raped."

You cannot make this shit up.

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Next time you date a girl start texting her about the first time you nutted on a girl’s face and the emotional impact it had on you. 3 days in. 72 hours

past

fuck off CPT Saveahoe, OP has absolutely no reason to stay with a girl that unloads deep psychological problems on him after one date

kek

Tell her you're favourite piece of fitness related information that you would put on a fitness image board. Also that bitch is crazy. Bail my guy.