What have you actually done to fix yourself in the past year? If your answer is nothing...

*faps to hentai*

>Increased my running hours each week to a more competitive amount
>Stuck with the therapy meme
>Not on a "diet" strictly , but been making better decisions with food
>Acne more or less dealt with
>The roughly 5 times it's come up throughout the year make sure I accept invitations to random shit
>Change my path at school cause it was driving me insane
Feel equally as shit, worse even when it comes to the social aspect as I just don't know how to escape the loneliness, but at least people wont be able to say I didn't somewhat try.

I'll iron it if I ever wear it out, but until then eh. I don't plan to wear it out until I lose a lot more weight though.

One thing I'm genuinely considering is if I can lose another 15kg (another 36lbs, which would put me at 143lbs) in the 12 months then what I'll do is buy a wig, a cardigan and look into make up and go to the same con again in that outfit + cardigan (I wouldn't want to show off stomach since loose skin/stretch marks and I'd rather it be cute than lewd) as an Astolfo cosplay.

left this board and never came back... wait...

>be user
>I NO CAN FIX DEPRESSION
>go to therapy, they tell you to exercise, eat better, socialize, get hobbies, and have strong relationships
WAAAAAH I CANT FIX IT
>they give medication and still tell you to do therapy
WAAAAAAH
this is why nobody fucking likes you're just lazy.

That picture seems like living the life lol. But sure thing, Jow Forums, keep trying to convince me that porn and video games make you depressed instead of happier (even though normies do it).

>porn and video games make you happier

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retarded post. I used to be extremely healthy, never drank or did drugs at all, went to the gym 3x per week without fail, and life still felt like absolute garbage. was like that for years, I just stopped pretending that it would get better

>haha yeah bro just develop interests in things that you've never had

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>I feel a bit more energetic but still don't want to leave the NEET life.
Who the fuck asked you?

>sexual pleasure and entertainment are bad
I can hear you mouth breathing rn.

Thanks for sharing. Way to be completely irrelevant to the post. fucking jackass

he typed as he opened up another hentai window

fucking OP did are you retarded?

Thanks for sharing. Way to be completely irrelevant to the post.

fixed diet
fixed sleep
lost 50 pounds
improved jawline
improved skin

I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts, brightly colored cartoons and candies and processed food and toys, I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts, Emma Watson is such an inspirational feminist icon I want to rape her ha ha I'm a nice guy but not a "nice guy" I am different than them because I am me. Boy I am so depressed, better smoke more weed and play videogames sitting indoors all day barely moving from my computer, outside is scary, theres scary people out there but I love POC I don't feel uneasy when one is near me ha ha I'm just like a little kid scared of everything isn't that quirky? I wish I was a child. My toes are so pudgy and well groomed, they look like baby feet but I'm 33. My head is real smooth too. Real men have beards, I'm a real man, and a child at heart. If I follow random dudes advice on the internet, I will find a SO that I can sex, for SCIENCE! I am NOT a SLAVE to BASIC HUMAN EMOTIONS I AM FINE!! I am about to cry all the time. UHHHHH fuck off Jow Forums, I don't need to argue anything, give me sources on that, bigot racist ha ha. I must feel good, happy thoughts, I must feel good, happy thoughts, I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts I must feel good, happy thoughts. Rents due, happy thoughts, low paying job, more weed, more videogames, more porn, I don't have a problem, fuck you nazis for telling me how to live my life, I want to die. I must feel good, happy thoughts

No he fucking didn't. He asked you what you're doing to fix your situation, but you fucking retard decided to add some stupid shit about your progress. Fuck off.

>cartoons can make you develop a serious mental condition

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>broke off my relationship which was kinda toxic
>broke off a friendship with someone who was kind of a POS who made me wonder if i was becoming a worse person for hanging out with them
>finally started feeling good about myself, started focusing on self improvement
>start exercising regularly, strength/power yoga and pilates
>start highexistence 30 challenges to enlightenment
>go vegan, focusing on eating right
>practice self love
>reconnect with family and old friends

things are looking up. not in a relationship but i'm hopeful for the future

Nobody gives a shit about what you think you abortion

>muh depreshun
OP, are you aware of the concept of Executive Dysfunction?

Cry about it, brainlet.

Ouf losing weight is hard, good luck user. I hope you succeed! I'm supposed to lose 5kg myself, I found that drinking a cup of tea whenever I'm hungry will make me feel full for a short while

WTF I HAVE FORCE MYSELF TO GET OUT OF DEPRESS? I CAN"T JUST SUDDENLY LIKE ANYTHING IN GENERAL I HAVE TO WORK ON IT? WTF
WTF
WTF
WTF
HOW DID NOBODY EVER TELL ME

I keep fucking wasting time on this board out of habit, I want to fucking quit, but I don't enjoy anything in life. what the fuck do i do, i want to leave and improve myself, but not sure what do? I'm wasting time and flunking in college. I'm 21 and the only thing I like is music, I'm fucking lost, help.

Wait how the fuck did you write down one of my mental breakdowns

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I've lost 50kg / 110lbs so far. I can push myself to try for another 15kg / 33lbs, definitely.

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>I want to fucking quit, but I don't enjoy anything in life. what the fuck do i do, i want to leave and improve myself, but not sure what do? I'm wasting time and flunking in college. I'm 21 and the only thing I like is music, I'm fucking lost, help.

You have to force yourself to do other things until you discover something you like, it sucks and it doesn't feel good even slightly but it has a pay off after awhile.

The alternative is taking medication to force your brain to think you like things but that will make you content with your currently lifestyle as well which means you still have to force yourself to do things.

let go
have a good cry
you'll feel better

Do it! It's great to lose a ton of weight, surprised a lot of people when they found out how much I lost. Still not used to receiving compliments though since for the longest time I was hideous with acne + fat. Only problem is I don't like women from my country, and they're the only ones so far who keep looking (that's another problem altogether lol)

You're so cute when you're butthurt, normalfag~
I bet the next thing you'll claim is that improving things makes your life better and not infinitely worse by giving you less ways to cope with your situation. D'awwwww!~

>in college
>flunking
>21
> obsessed with music

Just shoot up your school bro

>samefagging this hard

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>go out if I get invited
not often but still
>started working out
not in a gym but people still said I look healthier
>fixing my sleeping shedule
not sleeping past 12 pm
>learning cooking rn and I'm happy with what I'm creating
>no weed
cops catched me but I think it wasn't that bad because that's actually helping with staying sober
whenever I do the good stuff I feel good but as soon as I cant do good stuff I feel more depressed than ever

>Started going to the gym back in April
>Still feel like shit constantly
I feel lied to

Why are people so skeptical about depression (aka finding yourself under circumstances that would suck ass for any fkn human)?
You really think that you are so superior that if you found yourself under colossally opressing circumstances you and only you would be able to find a way out and everyone else is just incompetent?
Shows how much you don't know about life.

Only one of those is me you cuckold.

call ppl faggots bc I'm not gae

>exercising more
>eating better
>going to bed earlier
>socializing with others
>speaking my mind whenever I feel the need to
>developing a creative hobby like playing music instead of vidya and tv/movies
>spending less time on Jow Forums
>flossing once a day and taking a multivitamin
>allowing myself to feel and handle my emotions
Honestly, life is pretty fucking good. I was in a really bad place a while back and I finally just decided that I've had enough moping around. I think I might finally be at the point emotionally and mentally that I can date somebody, so that's going to be a new challenge to face. I hope that I rise to the occasion though.

>all these mean replies

I agree entirely. As a disabledbot who truly was destined to be alone, you faggots who go "boohoo women won't flock to me when I make no effort to be more desirable in some way" really should learn the difference between a robot and someone who only thinks about themselves.

Try literally not being capable of going out on your own and socialising, try literally not being able to get fit, try being repulsive regardless of effort.

I'm too apathetic at this point to try changing anything. Would my life improve if I jogged daily, improved my diet and stopped playing video games 8 hours a day? Possibly, but not to a degree that it would really make a difference. The social skills I didn't develop during my first twenty years alive are most likely never going come to me now. Whenever I end up interacting with anyone I feel like a shallow imitation of other people, with no thoughts of my own.
Though I'm pretty content with my current life since it could be a whole lot worse. Just wish that there was some other purpose than waiting to one day die.

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I tried to rely on meeting my friends to deal with negative feelings. But when they're away, those feelings become so much worse. I just want to be happy and content, god help me

>it's the daily "no true robot" argument
Sucks to suck dick my friend but the world isn't a fair place and there's always going to be people better off than you. You don't need to cut off your own leg to see how pointless things are in the end.

Haha oops ment to reply to this one instead

What should I do brother? I want to make music but I keep putting it off, do I start doing it more and that's it?

>Take up training for amateur boxing 5 times a week and weightlifting 3 times a week
>Started brushing teeth at least once every day
>Started going to bed earlier
>Socializing way better with others
>Eating way better
>Living a 10x healthier life
Until of course
>Sike bipolar disorder lol say bye to all of that
>Break down, start using drugs, specifically abusing DXM multiple times a week
>Fucks my serotonin receptors or whatever bad, past few months have been shit due to it
>Finally getting back on track again after all that
>for some reason socializing comes way easier now though and comedy flows naturally

I've been working out for two and a half years now but I don't socialize much if at all, the only two friends from high school that I had are now hundreds and the other thousands of miles away. I mean I've always liked isolation and being alone but Summer just makes me feel shitty. Work has also been more crap then usual, I'm just muddling through life and going nowhere fast. I wish it was winter again, I loved running in cold mornings and early nights.

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kys Jow Forumsack samefag
>hurr people enjoy different things than me so it's objectively bad and causes mental illness!

Only the second one is me you queer

literally none of these are me you delusional manchild

How did you get better my man?

U make a good point

Try having improved every single aspect about yourself and every single time you succeed (by metric of peer confirmation and quantitative measures) your life gets worse because it has no (0, nada, zilch) effect on any social metric.
Try even conceiving what it is like to spend 5 years iteratively improving every aspect of yourself just to be told that there's nothing left to improve by new and old acquaintances alike, yet this has caused no improvement in your situation whatsoever.
Try to simply imagine what it's like to give up your hobbies because they're """not socially acceptable""" while forcing yourself every second of every day to pretend you like hanging out with normaltards.
If you weren't such a normalfaggot yourself you'd understand the toll this has on the mind when applying this for over a decade without any kind of success. Constant pain and effort to maintain a physical state that exists for no reason and will deteriorate to nothing before it can be of any use anyway. The constant concept that these 5 years spent buying products, clothes, and hobbyfuel, working on yourself through pain and embarrassment was all for nothing because not once, not a single time, did anyone on the entire planet even so much as turn toward you as a result.
Meanwhile fat, balding, average looking, broke, manchildren normalfags who wash once a week (no, I'm not even making this up) and have no future have never had these problems. Never once were they told they had to improve anything and so never once did they improve anything.
Why do you think every single person on Jow Forums is a gymcel? Effort means nothing. Results mean nothing.

People like you can always cope with the fact they have some disability that can't be fixed. But what do we have? We have no excuse. Nobody has wants to tell us what it is we do wrong, if anything. We have literally done everything in our power. Every single possible ounce of effort we could expand, we have. And yet we are even worse off

Normalfags are sociopaths yet have no problems in real life.It's significantly more likely that the reason why people on this board have trouble is precisely that they are NOT sociopaths and aren't able to see other people as being mere tools as opposed to full human beings. Being self-centered is precisely the one trait every single person in a successful relationship is known to have. Again your argument makes no sense here. Then you go on to assume and project. Have you tried actually asking what people's situation is? I would bet that not a single person on this board is a voluntary shut-in. Moreover, the overwhelming majority of this board is not a shut-in in the first place. Similarly, fatties seem to form a minority on this board. There may be more skellies than fatties, and the majority seems to be normal weight. Moreover, name a single person on this board who has ever had a friend to push away, or ever mentioned negatively interacting with any family. At best a staggeringly small minority get thrown from home. Even if you pretended that every one of these was at fault and that they were thrown out because they were pushing family away, that would still not account for even 1% of the board.
Overall, I think your statements are grossly incorrect.
However I agree with your basic conclusion, though with different numbers.
I claim the following: around 10% of the board deserve their position, because they are genuinely scum, in the sense that they merely want to be in a parasitic relationship and would never work toward or improve to make a relationship work.
I can understand that people like you who've never had to try cannot understand that improvement does nothing and don't affect chances at all, but even under that scenario, whereby you would add those who don't try to the list of people who deserve their position, it would still not surpass 20%.
Also, though it seems most of us were bullied, very few were in abusive household eitherway.

I actually have fixed my life entirely in the past year. I feel amazing.

I am working on my first album and it wont be anything less than righteous after i have done the mastering.

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Sorry for the late response. Honestly I'm not sure. I can tell you that it's possible though. I was at the very bottom, my life seemed like a dead end. I think boxing helped me a fuck ton though. It was something that gave me a schedule, you know? It was something I could just poor all of my thoughts into. Try finding a hobby like I did, something you genuinely enjoy and could spend hours just perfecting it. It'll help build will power, focus, etc.

>no liquid calories except when I hang out with friends once a week
>no calories after 9:00PM
>daily yoga stretches to improve flexibility and strength
>improved sleep schedule
>slowly working on my masturbation addiction
It isn't the fastest route but I'm seeing progress and it makes each new change easier.

Fapping less, reading more
Also more exercise
Wouldn't say feelsgoodman, but feelsbetterman is appropriate
I think the biggest hurdle is one's own laziness and denial of weakness
Also social interaction works when you're interested and less 'Oo what would they think of me'
Baby steps robots, baby steps.

Costume is gay but way to go, keep it up

went to a psychiatrist,
proscribed me prozac, I'm feeling the side effects strongly no therapeutic effects.

Since the beginning of the year I've bought a new car, reduced my collections accounts by 4 and moved into my own apartment with no roommates that is actually pretty nice. So I'm doing okay, but I've lost a few friends after my last relationship.

Why haven't you killed yourself yet normalnigger?

>started exercising every day
>started trying to make money on my own
>started counting calories
>started watching what I eat
>started pursuing a life purpose
>started tackling my mental illness
>started being more social

Get the porn out of your life. If anything it's the most damaging part of anyone's life. Watch PornReboot on JewTube he helped me get my first week streak in a few months

I bet you have an ugly face lel 25 year old wanting to be cute you probably look like a fat tranny in those clothes.
Keep cutting user, cross dressing is fun; congratulations on all the progress you've made already

who is this anime bitch? I'm seeing her everywhere

>lost weight
>lift
>try to be social and meet females online
>met a couple, met up with one and really clicked with another but things didn't work out in either case
>all in all has boosted my self confidence a good deal
>try to practice music more
>get depressed and fall back into escapism
>wait until next semester comes up so I can pretend to be a functional human being for a while

>back pain gone after 4 years
>back in the gym
>finally enrolling in college, but only part time this year.
>gaining friends.
>paying off my debt.
>fixing my relationship with parents.
>watching anime less.
>reading more.
>sleeping more.
>on adhd medication that fixed my shit 1000%
this has been a great year desu.

I started doing OMAD and taking 2.5km walks a day.
It won't stop me from being a subhuman nor is it that much but it's better than not doing it at all.

>Started taking meds
>Had a huge smack in the face by reality when i realized im a fully grown adult now
>Got a job
>Cutting out most junk food and alcohol from my diet
All in all pretty decent year. I doubt ill ever start going to the gym or anything though within the foreseeable future.

remember when you were 13 and all the girls in your class starting going on dates and having sex with guys in their late teens and early 20s?
Do you think the guys who got the privilege to tear their hymens went to bed at 10pm, drank lots of water, obsessively counted calories and macros, and did never drank any alcohol? (just LOL at that part of the pic)

No?
Well that's your answer.

Always remember: next time you see some redditfag writing a wall of text about "self improvement" or "romantic advice" simply ask yourself- does Chad do any of this shit?

>got back into swimming (already lifted 2x a week)
>drinking less
>new job, better paying
>went on Tinder for like 4 months (didn't meet anyone, I don't swipe right on uggos or whales)
>reading more, painting more, playing music more
>still as depressed as ever

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I find it interesting that people (this board especially) will blame men for their failures with women as well as blame them for not approaching women. It's like the responsibility always goes on the man despite the people who I'm talking about usually being feminists of some sort.
Jow Forums is the same way, so are most people and entities out there. It's hard for them to even entertain the idea that women, somehow and somewhere, are at fault for things as well and are responsible for their own misery and failures.

>Copious binge drinking
>Loads of LSD
>30 push ups a day
>Brush teeth an average of 1.5 times a da

Shit, I'm guilty of everything in that chart minus the weed and drugs/medication.

>Do you think the guys who got the privilege to tear their hymens went to bed at 10pm, drank lots of water, obsessively counted calories and macros, and did never drank any alcohol? (just LOL at that part of the pic)
Whats wrong sport you sad people are happier than you?

Yes, and it's making you depressed isn't it goyim? Try (((nofap))) why don't you?

> Hit the gym, also set up regiment
> Cleaned my desk often
> Get adequate sleep
I Don't feel as shitty now.

>drink a lot of water
>got back in college
>making good grades
>still obese

Nothing, so I don't complain. I don't want to take part in this shit, but now I'm stuck with my emotions, so I have to wait until my dad dies so i can blow my brains out and end this pointless existence.

Took antipsychotic drugs so I don't talk to myself aloud anymore

I used to walk around loudly spouting psycho nonsense to nobody in particular and I saw one guy on the street who does the same thing

??? I talk to myself normally all the time when I don't take my adhd meds to remember things lol

Porn is the problem, not masturbation

>Cold shower twice a day (placebo)
>Daily bucket lists
>Expanding my interests (Chess, drawing, contact sports)
>Gym 6 days a week
>NoFap (overrated)
>Taking care of my appearance
>Waking up at 5 am
I don't actually give a shit about GF, nor intend to wageslave, normalcucks

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>stop doing things you like so you can get rejected nonetheless

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I am trying to smoke less, but that isn't going that well
I am saving up money and budgeting, I have more money than I ever had at one time before, so that is OK.
I am going to the gym, first time ever I got a membership and I am taking it seriously and also trying to eat good diet.
I am getting more sleep since I am not in school and I get up early for work anyways I have gotten on to a better schedule.
I asked a girl out and she said yes, and I asked for her phone number and she gave me *a number* but then she went ghost on me.
I want to tackle no-fap for a month or longer but I can barely last 48hrs no joke I have a fucking problem when it comes to fapping, I can admit that.

I don't know guys I am trying to do all these things and it seems like I am making some progress or at least more steps in these past 6 months then I have in the past 6 years.. but I am still no gf, still lonely and pessimistic most of the time. I don't know what to do

Stopped messing with my hair, it was a nervous tick
Stopped being afraid of people
Stopped mumbling most of the time (working on this one)
Stopped giving fucks about what people think about me
Ive basically stopped getting angry at things that dont matter or things i cant change

i havent really made any commitments like working out or focusing on starting a business but i have a good job lined up and i hope to make my way towards that stuff

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I'm depressed because I swallowed too many redpills

Jow Forums is a double edged sword

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