Fellow asexual robots, come here to discuss your feelings. anyone on the asexual spectrum is welcome, I for one avoid since its so unnatural.
/Asexual/ general
I for one avoided it because I wanted it to be with my oneitis only. 9 years and thousands of failed endeavors later, I don't even feel like talking to other women. Hand still going good
WEIRD, but still valid as asexual.
Welcome user.
i feel sexual attraction to 2ndary sex characteristics but not to any form of genetalia. am i asexual?
You could be, how do you feel about real sex? you need to analyze your own feelings, I can't do it for you. I did it and it really helped me.
What is the actual definition for an asexual, cause I don't think there actually is one. I mean I'm voluntarily celibate because I'm a schizoid and just don't feel anything when it comes to relationships, but I still have fantasies of sex and the likes in my mind where I am safe to explore and make decisions because the people there aren't real. just from that I would call myself bisexual, because I still have attractions and feelings just that I only experience them as things that I want when I'm the only 'real' person involved.
So what is an asexual?
idk really, i think about it a lot but irl it would be a bit uncomfortable i think
I think its someone who doesn't feel sexual attraction, or would have irl sex on a daily basis/
at least that's my definition, I just don't like sex and it feels unnatural for me, it feels more like lust than a emotional connection for me.
I don't even look at IRL girls anymore. Friends will turn towards them, look at them, go to parties so see them dress skimpily. I just bust a nut or two every weekend and pass some time with /gif/ while at work. I don't even look at girls irl anymore. I know I can't get laid now so I my mind doesn't even process the other gender except work talk
This is...specific, but still valid. I understand user, it sounds like a non-problem. do you want to fix it? or are you okay with it?
After I took the pink pill nothing arouses me. Jerking off is too much of a chore to bother with and I don't find anyone 2d or 3d attractive.
What qualifies as asexual? I stopped watching porn and my sex drive has plummeted so much so that I haven't had the urge to jack off in two weeks.
tfw no HOT asexual bf
Am I an asexual?
I feel romantic attraction towards women but the thought of actually having sex just feels wrong. The whole act of sex is disgusting to me.
That said, I do masturbate once or twice a week, mainly just to stop being/getting horny and to avoid possible nocturnal emissions.
I am content with it. I just wished there was something else to do in life than do wagecuck job and browse Jow Forums all day. Normies always mention activities. What are they and how does one do them?
I jack off a few times a week but I don't care about sex or the way other people's butts or tits look in public. I find it strange that I don't even notice or care where others do. I just want somebody to care about me, but that's a big ask.
ok guys i have been wondering if i am asexual or awhatever for a while now, cause i get the strong feeling im a something (inb4 a [insert derogatory term here]) but i dont know what.
ok so first off i dont really like other humans. they are too unpredictable for me to like them, but im not a fucking weeb and i have self-respect so i dont buy into the whole waifu/2D trend of weirdos like me. I have found myself trying (and kinda succeeding, i think) to fulfil basic average human social obligations at uni (which is to have friends and get drunk often) simply cause i felt it was the normal thing to do, and because I felt that my peers/parents would look down upon me if i didnt, rather than enjoy them. I also actively made the choice to stop pursuing women early on (at uni) cause i knew that would make it harder to make friends, and god knows i need as much practice at socialising as i can. I do, in the end, want to marry and have kids and all that jazz, but I just want that cause thats just seems like where a normal persons life generally goes, and when a majority of people do something AND its also kind of our biological purpose in life, i get the feeling it is something i should just do. and it will lead to much much much less loneliness later in life, the scale of which i couldnt even understand yet and dont want to ever.
so could someone diagnose me cause im confused to heck
Also, a funny thing I just realised, I never actually fantasise about having sex. Ever. Even when wanking/looking at porn, I hate the videos where its just two people having sex. I mean, how boring is that?!?
>buy trainers
>go outside
>run
bam ur doing an activity
>draw a face
>google search how to draw face
>draw new better face
bam ur doing an activity
literally just do anything in ur free time that is socially acceptable and productive and that counts
I started cycling daily morning and evening but same route due to safety and such bored me off it
>Drawing
I don't want shit hobbies. I want to have fun
nigger do you see someone and think that you want to fuck them? If yes you aren't asexual.
ok about the cycling thing, you could try timing yourself. push yourself faster each time, see what kind of stuff gets you faster, what nutrition/excercises make your body as fit as possible to go as fast as possible.
also, remember when trying to find a hobby, it wont suddenly come to you a in a flash of blinding brilliance. to some people, yeah, but probably not you. you need to work on something, improve yourself to the point where you have more knowledge on the intricacies of whatever hobby/ies you have than the average people. do something that makes you interesting.
you might think well this is difficult, well sometimes life is difficult. most people have to deal with that regardless of robotness, we are no different. just try
yeah but how do i know what the exact feeling of wanting to fuck someone is if 1. i have never fucked someone or 2. i dont know what other people mean by the feeling of wanting to fuck someone cause i am not inside their head
I do push myself faster. I started cycling from like 20th june and I was a overweight fuck and I got tired after 4 kms the first day. I changed my bicycle when I started doing 8km in 40 min. Yesterday I did 13 km in 32 minutes. Its not a hobby though. Hobby is something fun. Bicycling is my self hate manifesting to something useful
How do I develop a hobby. What even are some non-norman hobbies except coding that don't require heavy monetary input? How to meet new people. I need some norman help to guide me
honestly, im in the same boat as you. i dont know. someone like me can tell you all the correct info, give you all the right motivation, but in the end unless you get off your ass and actually do something about your life, you arent gonna get anywhere
you can only be asexual if youre attractive, otherwise youre just somebody who cant get laid
but what do fren? Moved to a new city due to job and no one knows me here. Co workers are nly 4 total and all 4 are females all atleast 6 years older than me. I work my 55 hour a week job, play vidya in the time I do not cycle or not at work and eat and sleep how to break circle? Job ez and light af so Jow Forums all day at work
i'm similar, i think
i'm definitely attracted to women, and have specific preferences about what i like and what not. but pussy does absolutely nothing for me. same with the idea of sex. i just don't care/
tits can be nice, but more as just a pretty part of a womans body rather than a sexual thing
the one thing that gets me off however is feet. i have a raging foot fetish. its like feet are to me what pussy is to other people. that's also mainly what i masturbate to
i wonder if you can be asexual and still get horny / masturbate, never really thought about it
fucking hell you browse Jow Forums at work consistently? Go find a book or download a pdf onto your phone for fucks sake. think of all the shit you could be learning while being paid to do it. Go get One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest or download it or something. read it. learn spanish. learn sign language. learn how trees fucking grow or what organs work together so that the human body became a self-aware being. Also how the fuck did it do that? I know, go learn it. all this fucking knowledge that we an barely scrape in our tiny lives and we are sitting discussing how to get it when its right in front of our fucking eyes.
go talk to your coworkers. just dont be a creepy fuck about it or flirt.
procrastination is the bane of our existence but its also the inevitable result of a society that gives us free time. this life is yours, piss it away as you see fit
You are very mean fren
yeah youre just me except im not a footfag
I avoid it and make no attempt because it is natural and I'm not. I'm wrong and broken. Defective like a bad piece of hardware from the manufacturer.
I made this other thread before I noticed this one. I'm just a non-functioning piece of social equipment. Better off recycled or at the very least not interfering with the job of the properly functioning parts of the social machine.
I'm still attracted to women, and want a gf one day, but the idea of sex just doesnt do it for me. My only encounter with a chick was before I was a robot, I got like 10 seconds of head then just pulled my pants up and left, been put off it ever since.
Can anyone recommend any good dating sites or apps for asexuals? Im on one now, but no hits here in Aus. I have like no standards and I still got ghosted by the only 2 others on the app, lmao.
Imagine being in a relationship for a year when your girlfriend tells you out of the blue that she's asexual.
Happened to an old friend.
I keked.
Pretty funny but I support the gf lol
I am asexual in soul but mind and body. I see that the body is just merely a flesh robot controlled by the mind and that my feelings of lust towards one of the female gender is nothing but primal instinct that all living organisms have to pass their seed down to create offspring so that life can still continue. However, it does not prevent me of having thoughts of wanting to smash a thicc ass whenever I see one. I know that it is silly and illogical for an ascended, intelligent animal to be such a slave to my instince but still, something about those cheeks make me want to pull down those erotic denim shorts and bury my penis balls deep in that sweet vag. I know Im asexual at heart though,
dude sorry but the world can be very mean and if you never get used to that then it will hurt you down the line. that being said, you wont find kindness anywhere if you are constantly just watching out for mean people but i guess life is full of these difficult questions