How are you guys doing tonight? Anything overwhelming happen to you recently?
How do you guys cope while living in this nightmare?
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Everythings going good for me actually. Managed to get a gf for awhile (We broke up but are still friends) and got into a Master's program. Was living on my own for awhile but moved back with my parents to save up a bit for school starts so I'm back on NEETmode until school starts.
Anyway I'm feeling generous so ama if you wanna know how to succeed in this world.
I like feeling so disconnected. I feel more like an individual because of my lack of caring about social norms.
>want to be alone and not bothered
>constantly crave affection/love but too afraid and overwhelmed to enjoy it
do you feel this? Did you get past it?
i haven't felt a genuine emotion in months. i don't know what i am anymore.
It feels like all emotion is fictional and fake when I display it also. I dont think ive expressed actual genuine emotion that wasnt fake/forced
i'm doing well enough. i only cope by avoid as much human contact as possible really
Yes, indeed it is a struggle you will always have to go through. Being with the company you so crave can be mentally exhausting on you. It's something you have to fight yourself for, to try your best to overcome it until you can finally leave and be in solitude again. It is difficult, but not impossible.
Would forcing an Aspie into different sports lessons every year, into other activities, and making them socialize with lots of people all the time do them good?
>be a legitimately supreme content creator
>do everything righteous
>nothing matters
>have lowest self esteem in the universe
How was your day
Would probably just activate some coping mechanism to act/fake being a normie, to stop you from being ridiculed over and over and feeling like shit - it happened to me.
At the same time it is mentally and emotionally draining/exhausting, after a while you just have this aspergers urge to shut yourself in because everything is so overwhelming
no, it actually wont you will drain their mental battery out like shorting a car battery with a screwdriver. It melts.
Some of our families will be really very telepathic within 3 generations. Considering that, its going to cause a gap- the eliters.
I avoid contact with most people because I either have no interest in what they have to say or Im afraid I will say something off-color and ruin the mood.
>Aspergers having children
yeah. nah
So what would happen to their social skills?
wont improve, no matter how much you practice it will always be there with you, making your life miserable knowing you cant connect to anyone
What about training them vigorously like making them practice conversations with a psychologist that trains them what to say or teaching them all these specific rules about politeness and correcting them whenever they do something wrong like chew wrong or have bad posture or eye contact or volume or tone? Making then greet and talk to people.
guess who was forced into dance lessons ever since he was a fatty kid
guess who's a virgin posting here now
I keep getting more and more into vandalism, it is one of the most fun things ever all you do is just go around and break things the run fast. It feels great to express my emotions through adrenaline and destroying things
i've been rollin on speed for 30+ hours now so i'm having a lil fun
side note, if you're a legitimately autisticbot and not just one of those self-diagnosis fags, adderall is a literal fucking godsend. i take it and i feel fucking normal. obviously i'm not taking a regular dose right now but you get the idea. i can actually talk to women and not spill my spaghetti everywhere.
The only reason i haven't been diagnosed is because I don't have money for it. Can I still be on this thread?
Try and get diagnosed for the bux
If your parents, teachers and psychologists corrected your behavior would you? Such as correcting you when your posture is bad or when your eye contact is bad or when you walk the wrong way, chew the wrong way, talk too loud, not properly greet people.....
i played gridiron football in a smaller school and i can say that it helped me a lot. my teammates treated me like a teammate even though i was weird. i learned a lot about discipline. it was valuable for me. i still miss it, even though i was the most uncoordinated, slow, least athletically talented kid on the entire team bar none.
most tards don't enjoy sports though, probably for the reason above. its not fun being the last one to finish field sprints and being the only one that can't catch a ball to save their life.
I'm not retarded enough to get benefits. Besides, I actually feel better when I'm employed.
But how else will you improve their coordination? I see no other alternative. They have to be pushed hard so they meet the normal baseline.
coordination is unimportant in todays world. if they're a genuine aspie it's likely they'll end up talented enough academically to never have to take up hard labor. if you're at a larger school (>300 kids 9th-12th) don't even think about it
Then there is no reason for you to do it, that would probably be negative to have the government lable you as an autist if you are not getting anything from it
Can't remember the last time something actually overwhelmed me, I just sort of go through things head first, some butterflies in my stomach aside. But aside from some small bumps things are doing alright, finally moving forward in life if only bit by bit, which is better than not moving at all. Getting some yearly goals I set for myself awhile back accomplished too.
thanks i always needed something like this to tell my classmates that i am an autistic cunt.
This is true. What I really need right now is more money. This would still be true if I were not autistic. Of course, if I wasn't an autist then maybe I would be a normie and that would've made my entire life proceed differently.
What about vigorously training their social skills? So they know when their posture or volume or eye contact or other things are wrong and must be corrected?
I sold a hundred pepe caps. Now I have 4000 dollars. you guys are weak....
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once again, small school small school small school.
get to a small school. they're rural and locate-able. high quality, student oriented education, best of all they won't get bullied much so they will feel freer to open up.
i grew up in a school that had 150 kids all the way from Pre-K to 12th on a single campus. I knew everyone, it was a lot more tight knit, I always felt a lot less socially anxious. I made a complete 180 from super weird kid to slightly off kid within 2 years of arriving
oh, and yes, it was a public school. they exist, aren't even that rare really. i only know about texas though
They need coordination to cook, clean, drive, exercise, do yard work, fix things, put things together, many things.
Can any Aspies chime in if this is a good idea for someone lacking social skills?
Besides the chewing and talking to loud I just see the other things as useless formalities that dont make sense
Its like me asking you, how would you improve your math skills? You wouldnt because you are too thick to understand the algebra. Projecting totally.
But you have to properly greet people whenever they're oversocialized your home even if you didn't invite them. It's rude to ignore them.
You don't need to say hi you just need to say what you plan on doing with them
Its outside of the development cycle age cut-off age of 4. They are dysfunctioning units intended to be programmed and put to specialised work. Specialised as in, it gives a good salary.
>how are you all doing
doing good, a little anxious; everything is fine
>anything happen to you recently
well I'm going to ask out this one girl at my cathedral. I talked to her two weeks before and froze up. she was receptive, calm and (I think) understanding of my situation. I think she has a liking to me, but can't tell for sure.
I'm fairly intelligent and don't have extreme social awkwardness, but still a diagnosed sperg. How would I go about getting autismbux for my disability?
But without those critical social skills they have no hope or future in employment.
Social skills should not be required for most employment just the skill to do the job
What are the odds of me actually having assburgers if I am 7/10 yet a shy shut-in at the age of 18? I feel like I do have it ever since I've read up on it.
Will I get neetbux if a doctor confirms it?
Adderall makes me feel like I can focus and talking to people becomes super easy and doesn't overwhelm me it's amazing. Too bad they don't prescribe it to adults in my country
No one on here is a psychologist and also, you can have aspergers and not get buxs if you are not high enough on the spectrum
Is it possible to fake turbo-autist to get the bux?
Most psychologist seem pretty dumb so probably, just dont over act
not too good really.
i was living a comfy near solitary life of excercise, clean eating, personal development, and making money working online.
i got recruited to come drive a shuttle bus at a resort town in the middle of alaska. i forgot how much social interaction makes me uncomfortable and i spend 60 hours a week driving boomers up and down a shitty road, answering the same stupid fucking questions.
>where you from?
>what do you do in the winter?
>are you a student? (i'm clearly 30)
>why isn't the road paved?
yesterday a man screamed at me because i couldn't deviate from the bus route. today this fat old asshole suggested i work here cause i can't hold down a job...they all have some shit ass snide comment to make and it's really driving me insane.
im usually vegan but i've had to go vegetarian since being here because the only food available is from the employee room. all they feed us is greasy fried tofu (hate onions), watery squash or some sort of potato. everything has dairy or egg in it as well.
im really fucking dying at a soul level up here and don't particularly need the money. i've got shit saved and also about 10k in stock i could sell if i couldnt get online work again right away.
i want to quit so badly and go be back with one of my friends but in doing so i'll fuck over the transportation manager....they don't have enough drivers to fill all the shifts. i just don't know how much longer i can take getting up at 4 am to get shit on by fat boomers.
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Any advice on how I can lose my virginity? I have no clue on what to do to get that far and imagine I'd be way too scared to initiate contact.
I am decently attractive and get quite a few looks when I actually leave the basement so I guess there's hope?
Take up vandalism all you need is a mask gloves and rage and you will feel great
I kill vandals.
Car spray paint into the eye socket.
It much more fun to be one all you need is rage and to run fast, to bad I never interact with people or else I would probably have targets instead of random places
eh i really just wanna go smoke a joint with my friend and talk about guns and old times.
O always wanted to go around breaking things with people it would probably be fun but it is more exciting when you do everything by yourself because all the pressure is on you
It shouldn't but it is. That's how reality is.
I feel like this is one of the reasons the work place is so messed up these days companies prioritize all the wrong things