Your problem isn't that you are ugly, boring, mentally ill etc.
You just never even tried talking to girl. Did you, user? Or did you just tell yourself: ,,She will reject me anyway." everytime you liked a girl?
Your problem isn't that you are ugly, boring, mentally ill etc
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>Your problem isn't that you are mentally ill
>mental illness is crippling anxiety
I know that's not the problem. I tried, she let me down easy. She ended up contacting me a few months later and we met up and that was my last relationship and it ended poorly. I have learned that the problem is ME and how I think and I am not prepared for a relationship, as well as many of these robots here.
I never saw any girl worth trying for. And I never saw any reason to lower my standards.
did you visit a doctor? did he give you pills? or did you self-diagnose yourself after taking an internet quiz with questions like "do you stay at home a lot because you have anxiety? YES! THEN UR MENTALLY ILL"?
I talk to a fat, depressed, video game addicted robot who despite all that, I still like him. he ignores me to play stuff, and never messages me. the thing that totally turns me off about him though is his total insecurity and if I don't message him he gets upset with me
>did you visit a doctor? did he give you pills?
Yes. I don't take them because I have an addictive personality.
every time i try talking to a girl i'm interested in i get ignored. girls that do talk to me are usually boring and it doesnt progress beyond "hey whats up? nm just chillin hbu. same here. cool"
there have been girls i liked and got close with and wanted to date but i either fucked up or she had a bf.
Shut up and dump more Essaere
>tfw no cute skinny cosplay gf
I try talking to them online and it doesn't work out.
maybe try talking more, if you ask her "hey whats up" you do something literally every retard does, why would she be interested in you if you are like everyone?
>girls
>online
what the fuck dude
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Every practicing psychiatrist uses DSM-5 as their basis for diagnosing patients. Nearly every question they pose is taken almost verbatim from the handbook.
Meaning, you can self-diagnose accurately by perusing DSM-5.
>tfw Schizophrenic taking 3mg Risperidol and Valium cocktails daily
No, it's that I don't know how to talk to boys, at least not 1 on 1. There's just something "different" about then...
>talk to girls a lot
>get along quite well with most of them
>they dont see me as dating material and either they lose all interest or I get tired and lose patience
>your problem isn't that you are ugly, boring ,mentally ill, etc
> if you ask her "hey whats up" you do something literally every retard does, why would she be interested in you if you are like everyone?
>your problem is that you're boring
huh
because you are friendly, you don't date friends. touch more, hug them, compliment them
this guy is boring then
I just don't know where I would meet a girl. I don't drink, so bars/parties don't seem like good places for me to look for love.
Do people meet at the workplace? I'm currently unemployed but looking for work, is it likely I'll meet potential partners once I find a job?
Yeah and then they stop being your friend and hate you for being a pervert
yes
make friends too so you can do things together and meet other people
nah, its natural to do shit like that
desu you're right, too right
yeah nobody wants to date a NEET who has no friends and is 12 hours a day infront of his pc.
also social anxiety and depression( its not self diagnosed, i stayed in a psych ward for over 10 month in 2017)
and i dont even want a gf, its so much work to have a good relationship and i rather fap 1 time a day than doing all this shit to keep a girl happy
You are missing the most important thing though
Ugly, boring, mentally ill girls who are neets who are on computer all day could easily find someone.
hey ik this is unrelated but can i ask where you got these pics of that girl like holy shit shes a qt3.14
Looks are literally the only problem. Only ugly guys are reluctant to talk to girls because they know things won't end well.
Can you blame them? No friends, no social life. Same ol stare at the pc. Same ol play vidya. Never invited to parties. Never have a place to hangout outside your own. Microsocial interactions are what makes life interesting, shit on a macrosacle is like we watching ants.
You ha e to be aggressive and flirt. That's what confadince is. There is a chance some women find you creepy. That's just part of the game you have to play. It sucks but it is what it is
essaere on instagram
>did you try talking to a girl
no
>why
because girls go out of their way to talk to me, to tell me I'm a freak who should die
why bother talking to girls when girls have already told me to not even bother
>scared attempts at smiling at a girl who seem to check me out two times this WE
>one was actually meaning an asian coworker, the other looking for a lazy ass waiter
Do I really want to try that shit again?
I am sick of woking toward dying inside and I need to get very drunk tonight
>There is a chance some women find you creepy. That's just part of the game you have to play. It sucks but it is what it is
lol just risk getting metoo'ed, bro
>Your problem isn't that you are ugly, boring, mentally ill etc.
Well, I have chronic acne but otherwise sure, I am a capable and healthy guy.
>You never even tried talking to girl. Did you, user
No, I have many times, but it's all been fruitless. Usually they'll turn me away by saying
>I have a bf
>I'm not ready to date right now
>you're just not my type
or they'll be more rude and just pull out their phones while talking to them.
Uhhh nope pretty sure my problem is that I'm ugly.
>You just never even tried talking to girl
>the problem of a robot is his virginity
The absolute state of Jow Forums. "Fembots", reddit fags, failed normies and normies.
Thanks 2016.
I have tried talking to girls on OkCupid and POF years ago, but all of them had an attitude. Or they strung me along by showing interest, then canceling an hour before the date via text or constantly putting it off under the guise of "anxiety" while wanting to talk to me every day.
Yeah I tried several times but it was really awkward and none showed any interest in me. I even played golf with one and offered to buy her drink but she said no and didn't laugh at any of my jokes. After a while I realized girls just weren't into me so I stopped caring
I talk to lots of girls. That just gets me friendzoned, over and over.
I don't have any context to talk to them. I can't just walk up to a girl at the beach or the library and start asking her out. Yes, I will be rejected if I try that.
I'm fine hitting on a girl I know from school, or from work, or as a lab partner or a sparring partner or something. Then there's context. Then we have little in-jokes and it's not weird for me to flirt the way I flirt. I can be a little rough or shoulder-punch her or cuddle and it's not a stranger doing it, and I can escalate physically, which is how I escalate, without it being weird. I can build up little glances or gestures over a period of weeks instead of trying to make myself desirable in this tiny window.
I just don't do cold-approaches, man. If I don't have any females in my immediate life, I just have nobody to hit on.
Shut the fuck up normie, you'll never understand what it's like.
pretty much. I had some really bad self-esteem and social anxiety issues growing up that grew into eating disorders and obsessively working out and ultimately withdrawing.
A lot and I mean A LOT of girls gave me signs but of course they never initiated because that was my job as the guy. Except for this one girl named Jessica who threatened to rape in the janitor closet and always hugged me in lewd ways. I could have had so many GFs but I'm just a KHV forever now.
Why does almost everyone blame things like low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, mental issue, less-trusting; for the reasons noone speaks to them? Maybe we're all just incredibly ugly, I know I am.
Just you two, not me.
Not rly true.
>be me in high school
>like a girl 6/10
>always talk to her, being funny and shit
>even tell her i rly like her (prob sounded like a joke every time, but she knew it wasnt)
>actually ask her out one time
>rejected
She is kinda shy and maybe its her anxiousness that was the prob not me?
Im not ungly or shit but my social ranking is fucked up
I mean really, honestly, though, have you actually tried being yourself?
Stfu Chad im tired of your shit
Do girls want to hear me talk about how I spend the weekends watching anime and drinking alone? Where can I find one?
no. why would girls like me if i don't like me
Tell me where to meet women then.
I don't drink and don't go to bars/clubs.
>implying they dont have boyfreinds.
>implying I want to be judge by women.
Hey I'm waiting for this response.
Me too m8
>Where can i get one
Nowhere
You have 3 options
>you change and maybe find someone
>you ask yourself "do i rly want a gf", you realize you dont want (at least the rl) one
>you get struck by luck and find gf wholl like you like this (0.00001%)
Rejection would be the best case scenario. What I'm scared of is succeeding. My sheer inexperience would let the girl take advantage of me completely and control the relationship by using my money or possibly cucking me and god forbid having a kid with me and "deciding" to leave me while I have to fork over half my earnings to my wife. Oh and the social humiliation and ostracization that comes after the rejection would probably make me start planning my suicide again. No good outcomes from talking to a woman my friend at least for people like me.
Well guess the only solution is me and you together, user.
Who's gonna be the girl?
Sorry user, ma girl just called me out :)
No homo
I've tried a shit ton of times and they all rejected me, even 3/10 hambeasts turn me down. No point of trying anymore.
Ive talked to plenty of girls
And I went downtown to a bar with some guys on Thursday
Im still a fucking ugly weirdo
>inb4 NORMIE REEEEE
>he thought he could get a 3/10 landwhale
3/10 fatties are for chads with bbw fetishes, user. stop trying to punch above your weight
I don't know how to just "talk" to a girl. I don't have any normalfag hobbies or interests to talk about.
Even if I talked to a girl I'd have no idea how to transition that into a date.
Even if I got a date I'd have no idea how to transition that into a relationship.
Even if I got a relationship I'd have no idea how to transition that into sex.
And at any point while I'm awkwardly fumbling though this all the girl can just leave because she doesn't want to deal with my inexperience and go get with a "normal" guy instead.
So why even bother.
who is this
Origaneolly of course
It's me. (^o^)/
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But is is because of my mental illness. My Autism stopped me from being a normal person, stuck being socially retarded, only to find friendship in other autist social retards. Literally no mentally fit woman would ever want me.
can you post more? it would help my depression
also, are you a grill or just a really cute boy
I highly doubt this is Peryn, prove it by saying how many posts your spam has
>tfw don't know what's even wrong with me if I am mentally ill or what
I just can't talk to people they always give me a look like I am some strange anomaly I don't think I look ugly but maybe I do.
I could have green texted the same story happend to me multiple times after the first time I stopped being naive tho just roasts putting on a scheme
I'm always being my self but apparently no one likes that irl fake fucks
They are to isolated to be normal. LET THE ROBOTS DIE ALONE.
I have never actually tried directly asking a girl to do anything, but I have tried MANY times to at least engage women in conversation, and while I am not universally despised, every time I try to do it with a female peer I could reasonably be seen as motivated by sexually attraction after I hit puberty (casual environment (school included), not a relative, not with a present boyfriend), I have been met with passive hostility and very obvious signs of discomfort.
It's somewhat interesting, as I said, I am not unliked by all, and I have some friends. I even had a female friend before puberty.
but ever since they found an idea of what they want men to be like, and decided that I was absolutely nothing like that, they want nothing to do with me.
I don't talk to any girls because none of the girls I meet in real life are attractive enough to make me want to talk to them.