I finally decided to stop hating myself and try to get a gf. I am extremely depressed and suicidal over all the rejection I faced in the past, but I am willing to try one last time. Here is what I have to work with
>Pakistani (north indian looking so atleast I got the Caucasoid bones)
>5'9
>own a nice car for my age (I am 20 with an Abarth 500.)
>very introverted but I am trying to change that
>a little chubby (165 but I used to be 230)
>very strong jawline
>Norwood 1-2 hairline
>extreme social awkwardness ( i cannot hold a conversation that interests a girl nor do i get their "signals"
I have a feeling that it is mainly my severe depression and social awkwardness is why i am a social failure. How do i talk to girls? What do i say? how can i make them like me?
Fembots, I need your help
>Fembots
Just for that, throw yourself off a cliff ASAP.
I am desperate man.
I don't know what to tell you, I'm also pathetic.
>manlet pajeet thinks his gay ass car matters when he can't even speak to a girl
jesus christ dude just make like all the other desperate indians and bombard random thots with nonsense about milk trucks and bobs
That method is ineffective, whiteboy.
A nice car is a valuable asset when attempting to acquire a girlfriend, but you wouldn't know.
We wouldn't be here if we weren't.
>trying to shill girls into talking to you with pity
>list of things that you think make you attractive
You're a stereotypical Pajeet.
>Abarth 500
>nice car
If you're a white thot maybe.
I don't want an egf. I want a real gf.
I said it's a nice car for my age. Saving 28k is no mean feat for 20 year old.
You need to learn to speak. If a guy can't hold a conversation with me, I find him to be extremely boring and I feel as if he is disinterested in me. Trust me if you want a grill go onto tinder. It should help a little bit. It also depends on where you live, if you're in America then it should be somewhat okay to find a girl. Start off with 4/10 grills and then work your way up.
Fuck hindus. Kashmir is rightful paki clay.
>asking women incels how to get a gf
>not asking me
Not gonna make it
Not him but please tell me more about conversations, there is a girl who talks to me and I think might like me, how do I not be boring with her pls help I like her a lot
I don't go for hot girls. I go for 4-6/10s but I still get rejected. I go on tinder but never get any matches either.
Also where do i go learn to speak? I have no friends to help me
It's still a shitty car lol
plz no bully. The car is the only thing i enjoy these days.
Abarth 500
You also wouldn't know what girls think about cars like Abarth 500. Girls don't know shit about cars.
It depends on the grill, some love the sense of humor, but that requires confidence. It helps a lot even if you mess up, just say how you're shy and are trying to be better by making jokes. It's easy to get with a women. Spot out her insecurities she might have, like if she is chubby or a bit ugly, say she is looking really beautiful (but make sure the time is right like if you two are alone). What are her and your interests? Try to find a common interest but don't bring it up all the time cause it's weird. Learn body language in women but make sure it's a reliable source tell you this, not top 10 shits.
Gayest car imaginable. Although mini cooper can compete for that.
You have to go back. Then get your family to find you gf and get arrenged married.
I am a diaspora nigger. I have no place in america or pakistan. You would not know that feel
user, I'm gonna give you some solid advice.
Don't ask for help here. Really. People here are very skewed and 99% of the advice is gonna get you nowhere. Go out to a social event. Get yourself involved somehow in the community. All you have to do at first is smile and don't say anything too stupid. Consistently go to these events, and you'll warm up to it. Soon people will approach you because they're familiar with your face, and you can begin conversation. Even if your face looks like it's been run over by a truck, small smiled will give you an approachable air. When people start conversation with you, don't shy away. Listen to a podcast on conversation or something so you have a basic idea of what to do then.
If you really want to change, it's gonna take time and dedication. Along the way you should make acquaintance with a handful of women. From there you're on your own. Do your best user, I believe in you
Look at your selfie game. Don't post shit where you're with your car, maybe leaning on it. If you want friends irl look at groups in your community even if it's retarded, you must try to talk. Don't think they need to make friends with you. When you meet someone a frim handshake is necessary. Speak loudly, but not shouting. You should smile and keep a good posture while your talking, it helps when trying to talk. Be confident by sticking to your opinions. But don't be dumb and try to convert opinions you'll make enemies.
>These helped me when I was coming out of my shell
I never post shit with my car because that is what normies do (also i am really ocd about it and leaning on it can damage the paint). What events are there for a 20 year old in the community?
Don't diaspora organise arranged marriages too?
It's hard to find a south asian woman here. I live in a 90% jewish neighborhood and they all hate my guts and i hate theirs
I cant talk to people, especially guys for fuck all. I tried talking to people online but I end up freezing up in the process and give up because my words will never spark anything useful/interesting to the other person.
I would honestly love to be in a silent relationship with a guy if it meant we could just spend our whole time cuddling and watching Netflix movies together.
What are your interests? Are you in a larger town?
There's anything from volunteer events to sports, and gardening to art. Almost every town hosts community events at a center or library. If you're in a large city, then there's literally no excuse to finding one.
In towns you'll mostly find volunteer events. Working at the animal/homeless shelter, library, or food bank will bring you in contact with the friendliest people. If there's a community center, you can either join a sport or help set up the games as a volunteer. Doing either will force the people around you to bond with them. If they don't seem to like you at first, it's probably paranoia developed from your lack of communication. Just continue to be kind to people and over time you guys will form a bond over SOMETHING. It's just human nature.
In larger cities, you have much more opportunity. Literally anything is available if you look for it. Wine tasting, kayaking, gardening, tabletop gaming. You're not trying to be cool, you're trying to find a crowd that you could develop your social skills with. I will always recommend volunteering at some kind of shelter though, because those are the most welcoming people of your options.
I'm no chad, but I had a good social life before I became disabled in an accident. I'm speaking mostly from experience and successful advice I'd been given in the past. I hope this helps you user.
Cars, vidya, history. These are my hobbies. Everything else like community stuff seem so weird to me. It's only old people who do that stuff
Alright where can I find girls like this?
Vidya is popular. Search through Meetup and similar sites to see if there's anything around you. There used to be LAN parties in my old town every weekend.
Girls don't give a shit about cars unless ferarri or lamborghini. Trust me, the only attention i get from my abarth is from other dudes
>very strong jawline
>paki
You sound handsome, any pictures just so I can admire a bit?
Sorry m8 i am not gay.
I may do that when i am not wage cucking 6 days a week. My job prevents me from doing shit
Just fake confidence my niggerino
Oroginillio
>create a thread asking for fembot advice
>me, fembot tries to be nice and compliment you
I guess you were right about being autistic, sorry. Good luck with everything.
No need to be sorry femanon, my autism scares everyone off
it's ok, don't worry about it.. just try not to be rude to people and work on your self esteem