Whats the problem with wanting a virgin gf? The only standards I have for women are simple. A virgin and non obese. Women keep acting like its a bad thing to not want to date a whore.
Whats the problem with wanting a virgin gf? The only standards I have for women are simple. A virgin and non obese...
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it always happens. Simply desiring a partner who is a virgin is very controversial.
Interesting choice of pic, cause Niko got a virgin gf
You can't really force yourself not to mind that a girl has had a dick between her legs already.
That said, every girl how had sex before isnt a whore. If its not too many guys before, I don't see it as a problem.
>a virgin
Good luck with that in today's society, friend. You also DON'T want a virgin girlfriend because I've gone through that before and it absolutely sucks. Don't be a fucking idiot, OP.
Nothing wrong with it. It's just annoying when autists have to make known their opinion on non virgin women, every time the subject comes up. Especially since most of the will wind up settling and providing
It shows you are really only interested in sex.
You know she's not gonna stay with you forever if you become her first, right?
You're problem for starters is assuming that if she is a non-virgin, she MUST be a whore. Obese is pretty reasonable, but your view point on virgin/non females is a good place to start on what to fix to actually get somewhere. Besides, if she's had 2-3 dicks in her life, she'll have good enough skill to make it fun. Or maybe that's why you want a virgin is because you're insecure about your bedroom performance.
>if not too many guys before
Cuck.
For you it did, friend.
I have sex in mind but it is not the only thing that defines a relationship brainlet.
One can only hope, friend.
>you don't want a virgin woman
>you should instead let someone else, or maybe multiple men, use her body first before you get "your turn"
it's one of the sole conditions you set
if you didn't care about sex you wouldn't care if she was a virgin
The media strongly encourages sexual promiscuity, and normies follow what tv tells them to do so that they can avoid criticism and being told they're doing something wrong. They're very sensitive to it, while being all too eager to trash anyone who's not following the same trends that they are. As if to validate their own insecurity, saying they live as they do because people who don't follow normie trends are stupid problematic dicks.
I'm sure as fuck your dad did the same thing with your mother before they made your faggot ass.
You think I'm telling you to date a literal whore but I'm just being realistic with you but your little narrow bubble is holding you back from actually seeing the bigger picture. Grow the fuck up, dude.
You seriously think that it's possible to stay with ONE person that would probably want to ride someone else's dick at some point to gain some experiences? Your hopes are too fucking obscure.
Could you possibly go "no u" any harder? She's gonna leave you at some point because she'll want actual experiences with different people.
Your guy's problem is you have high ass standards, which is great, everyone should want the best. But lets look at who YOU are. Would a virgin woman want to take the shaft of a sweaty lowlife crusty NEET? No.
there's nothing really wrong with wanting a virgin, it just sets off red flags usually. the same kind that probably get set of to you about a women who are not virgins
I'm not complaining. I'd rather be alone and make myself happy than play along with something bound to fail and be unhappy.
As will someone who already took dick. It doesn't matter.
Unless you have statistical proof virgins less loyal but all I've seen are charts that say the opposite.
I think it's completely reasonable if you're looking for a woman to spend the rest of your life with. You want the best you can get, right?
The only reason there's so much backlash is because there's so many non-virgin women and so many men married to them. They don't want to admit that it's a problem.
Plenty of people only have one sexual partner for their entire lives. This happened A LOT in previous generations and still isn't unheard of today. It's much harder to tie down a virgin than it used to be but there's no reason to assume it's impossible.
It shows you are interested in purity not sex
a lot of girls pretend not to be virgins
You obviously know why. Women want to be whores and still desired and truly liked and respected. They want their cake and they want to eat it too.
>12 year old girl
>20something girl with crippling mental issues
Those are your only options if you want a virgin.
it happened a lot because women had no rights and we're basically property. men could have a wife at home cooking and taking care of the kids while he had a mistress(es) or something or other on the side. also divorce wasn't a thing either so many were locked in unhappy highschool sweetheart marriages without a way out
Ha good luck finding a virgin gf losers
>mfw I was the one that took someones virginity
feels good lads
On one hand it's good to find a pure girl to experience your first with, and on the other hand sex is totally overrated.
If anything you would want to hook up with a girl who has experience because she has exactly that, experience. Obviously not a roastie who's been passed around by all the Chad's, but a cute girl who is aware of the nooks and crannies of sex.
Because trust me, 2 virgins trying to have sex for the first time can be quite the task. And you're more likely to be left feeling like sex is a meme.
So my recommendation would be to find a cool girl and fuck her, preferably from out of town or another city so running into her again is a minimum chance. I have a friend that fucked all kinds of thots during high school, and came senior year he found himself a junior gf and she was a virgin. He took her v-card and they've been together since. Years. Society has a bad light on women who sleep around a lot, but definetly not for men. Take advantage of it.
I do care about sex brainlet why do you think I said I have it in mind. Those are the only two conditions because I dont care about the rest.
That just sounds like an unloyal cheater, brainlet.
No because thats what happened to you, not me. Im not a neet either, just plain. I work out and take care of myself.
>Besides, if she's had 2-3 dicks in her life, she'll have good enough skill to make it fun.
You mean she'll have been molded to suit Chad and Tyrone's tastes. Why would you want to involve other men in your sex life?
>Or maybe that's why you want a virgin is because you're insecure about your bedroom performance.
Virgins aren't desirable because they won't know if you're bad at sex, they're desirable because they're untainted.
You don't have to hear about how her last BF liked anal, you don't get "I cut my hair short to get back at my ex, he liked long hair", and you won't find her telling you she's depressed because the last guy took her virginity then left her.
>virgin
>not obese
How is that having high standards roastie. I am fine with everything under the sun they just need to be a virgin and not obese
ill take what I can get with my conditions. I dont have crazy expectations.
Good advice
Gn
Times change but it doesnt mean every woman gets to just be a whore before settling down.
>animefag
No you didnt.
oh yes I did
original
>first with
No I want someone for life who I can do that with.
I dont know about sex being overated since I havent had it but ive heard with a person you actually have a connection with its fantastic.
No im not going to fuck a whore that goes against my morals.
You say that the only standards you have is that she must be a virgin and non obese. Do you care about her body shape? Some girls are shaped like fridges or maybe the girl has no hips/ass or even a waist. Or her tits and legs are ugly as fuck yet she's virgin and normal weight. Would you still be attracted and gf her? What about a girl with a butter face? What about an acne face mouth breather girl? Or a girl with sagging cheeks and just ugly bone structure. Not deformed but not really attractive. Is being virgin and non obese the only requirements (assuming she has a normal personality) all you need OP? Or does she need to be at least a 6 or 7+ on the looks department?
Well in my opinion, yes she is a whore if she has. And obese is completely reasonable not pretty reasonable.
>sex
>skills
Sex shouldnt be treated like a competative sport.
I havent had sex so I I dont know what that would feel like but okay.
No you definitely didnt.
As long as she makes me happy I dont mind those things at all.
That you wouldn't assume would happen just because she happens to be a virgin, you raging mongoloid.
Why are you attacking what I said? That's the incels idea of high standards. Did I say they were mine? Again, why are you attacking what I said.
>Why would you want to involve other men in your sex life?
Again, sounds like insecurity
>they're desirable because they haven't had sex and don't have preferences and experiences.
AGAIN. Jesus you sound weak. The types of women you listed, you shouldn't bother with anyways. You sound like a psychology model for a Jordan Peterson class lesson on weak men. Maybe have some pride in your capabilities and smash that p00n (when you get the chance) the way I KNOW you can, and you won't be concerned if she likes you or Tyrone better. Maybe you don't take her money for your side hoe like Tyrone. Maybe you don't slap her like Tyrone. Maybe you didn't get caught texting her sister like Tyrone.
I did and you know I did.
Not everyone on this planet is a cheater, brainelt.
Okay, keep telling yourself that until it bites you in the ass one day.
>assumes im a neet and proceeds to attack with insults
Dont get so hurt from a comment on the internet roastie. No it wasnt attacking and you never answered my question either.
Alright thanks for you tin foil hat theories brainlet.
I'm not telling you any theories. Sometimes life does this thing called "shit happens" and you live in a fantasy world where not everyone cheats when it CAN happen to literally anyone. Disprove it otherwise "brainlet"
>Well in my opinion, yes she is a whore if she has.
Instantly 95% of the female population is no longer applicable because they are "whores" to you. She could have had only 1 dick and likes you, but you're gonna be an ass and reject poon because of your insanely high standards. The remaining 5% you will have to fight for, that is if they are even interested in your ass.
>Sex shouldnt be treated like a competative sport.
>I havent had sex so I I dont know what that would feel like but okay.
SO ergo you can't complain about it seeming like a competitive sport. Because it takes skills and creativity to make sex fun through a long lasting relationship. You can't do missionary forever.
There is nothing wrong with it, but it's the older you get the stranger it gets because of the pedophilic implications.
If its not a theory why are you asking me to disprove it brainlet. Not everyone is going to get cheated on every relationship.
Yes but how are you going to know your connection is real when they're the only one you've been with. There are whores, and there are girls who have sex. There is a difference, user.
Because it seems like you want to know it all with your constant "brainlet" insults instead of actually proving that not everyone cheats.
Have anything to back that up? I dont care if theres not many female virgins out there im in no rush.
>virgin
>not obese
Those are my only two conditons and they arent high at all.
Well Im no professional but I know theres more than missionary at least. Calm down there brainlet.
Unless you are 16 virgins are off the table unless you want to fuck 2/10 landwhales
>men can be virgins and not obese
>women can't
That's fucking amazing and then you get fed the spiel about genders being completely equal.
How do you know your love is real if you haven't dated every person on earth?
Love is circumstancial
Well I cant describe the feeling of love but you know when you feel it. There is no knowing the connection. I dont agree with that whore and girls who have sex statement. Both are whores but there are virgin women out there aswell.
Well its impossible to proove that just like prooving everyone does cheat, brianlet.
Tagged you a few times so you know which response was directed to you, nowhere in my response did I call you a neet. Also, you have my answer, but I'll go further so you comprehend. Incels have that standard because they feel they deserve that. Again, we are discussing an incels idea of standards, not yours or mine.
>brianlet
Like I said earlier, pal. Keep telling yourself not everyone cheats until it bites you in the ass one day.
Calm down there roastie. Yes you did.
>Your guy's problem is you have high ass standards
>But lets look at who YOU are.
>sweaty lowlife crusty NEET? No.
You implied I was a neet and implied those are incels since your talking about their standards.
Okay thanks for your tin foil hat delusions, brianlet.
>tin foil hat delusions
>not everyone cheats
>Have anything to back that up?
Reality. Human nature. Actually interacting with a large group of humans. Google. also what had to say
>Those are my only two conditons and they arent high at all.
To start, but as you get older, it does because again reality.
>I'm a narrow minded virgin but I know theres more than missionary at least. Calm down there brainlet.
Call me a brainlet because I'm more capable of understanding how human interactions work in modern day.
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So you don't have another response?
>>Why would you want to involve other men in your sex life?
>Again, sounds like insecurity
Um, no. It's called heterosexuality.
>>they're desirable because they haven't had sex and don't have preferences and experiences.
I literally never said this, no idea where you're getting that from. They're desirable because they aren't emotionally damaged and aren't letting other men have a negative impact on your relationship.
>The types of women you listed, you shouldn't bother with anyways.
OK I'll just not bother with NEARLY EVERY GIRL EVER.
>Maybe have some pride in your capabilities and smash that p00n (when you get the chance) the way I KNOW you can
I think this is the first time an Jow Forums post has creeped me out. I'm glad you don't actually know me.
>and you won't be concerned if she likes you or Tyrone better. Maybe you don't take her money for your side hoe like Tyrone. Maybe you don't slap her like Tyrone. Maybe you didn't get caught texting her sister like Tyrone.
If you think NOT doing those things somehow makes you a better man, you are delusional. Women can't resist a bad boy with tons of options. They hate him, but their pussy loves him, and that's what matters. Billy beta who treats her right? Booooooring.
Tell me, if there was no price difference, would you prefer a new car, or a used car?
Not a source and I wont go off of some random on the internet to determine if 95% of the female population is gone from my conditions.
Well im not there yet so they arent.
>assumes a virgin only knows one positions of sex for life
Stop trying to sound uber smart, brainlet.
I already gave you them but you kept saying the same thing after, brainlet.
There is nothing wrong with it if you are yourself also a virgin. The women who hate the idea only hate it because they're insecure.
Are you suggesting you didn't do the same thing either, dude?
If your going to keep doing the same reply ill keep giving you the same answer, brainlet.
There's no other way of telling you that what you believe is doomed for disappointment. Have it your way then and don't complain when she cheats on you one day, friend.
You have a point but that's an over-exageration, I only mention this because I know many people with high school sweet heart relationships and other relationships that lasted for years, and didn't work out. It wasn't until the second, or third, serious partner they had that they were content and happy.
Love works in strange ways, that much is true. But who's to say that those butterfly's you once got were just out of a crush? Also I'm not about to call a girl who's had sex once or twice a whore, that's unreasonable. 3 times is debatable, but for the most part, not too severe. It's when they hit 5 or 7 that they enter the hoe-zone.
Alright ill be sure to enjoy my future relationship while you cry over another girl cheating on you again, brainlet.
Well if you arent taking it at lightspeed im sure you can tell if its real as time goes on.
And that future relationship is doomed for failure in the long run but whatever helps you sleep at night.
How many times do you tell yourself every girl cheats before you cry yourself to sleep every night to cope.
I don't. I just simply said that anyone can cheat. You simply refuse to believe that and think "not everyone cheats" while living in a time where sex is retarded easy to get.
No you are hellbent on it so something must have happened for you to keep replying and replying over it.
You seriously think I'm not going to reply to someone with unrealistic expectations about life?
>unrealistic
For you it is, brainlet.
Okay then, let me know how your life goes when you find "the one" and it turns out to be bullshit.
People who unironically use brainlet are usually retarded people trying to look smart.
Stay mad, brainlet.
origign
Was it your bodypillow?
Its fine when its not because of slut shaming and desperation.
>Stay mad
That about seals the deal.
>hes mad
That about seals the deal.
How would I be mad if I'm telling you that using brainlet is usually used by actual retards? You think I was the guy you were responding to?
Yeah but she either died or broke up with him depending on the ending you chose
Sounds about assmad/10, brainlet