Be honest, have you truly, in your heart of hearts...

Be honest, have you truly, in your heart of hearts, given up on the notion there is someone out there who can genuinely love and be loved by?

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*who you can

Pretty much, yeah
>it's all rather hopeless

Yes

I have in fact reached a higher plane of being free from emotional desire

I feel like I'll be alone forever despite only having one negative defining trait

I really only care about my online idol though

No, but I want to.
All it does is make me more depressed wondering when it'll be my turn to feel loved

I can't even keep my dad in life so why would i even try getting a female with no obligations to me to do it.

At this point I am just hoping every girl I meet hates me so I dont hurt them

>genuinely love someone
No
>be loved by
Yes

Nah but it's gonna hurt like a bitch when I'm 30 and still single.

I wish I had. Does that come after the years of numbness?

No. And honestly, I feel like from a psychological perspective, us humans are always going to want and need to feel loved.
So many people don't feel the desire or hope anyone because it's so fucking painful to hope in vain that we suppress the feeling. The hope and craving, suppressed.
But subconsciously I feel like we all have an innate desire to really love and be loved.
:(

No, and it sucks. I thought I had gotten over it, in the past, but romantic television and my mom have brainwashed me again into having this little part of me that longs to have a sweet and honestly loving romantic relationship with someone. It's stupid.

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I only love my waifu and my mom.

I gave up years ago. I'd have to be fucking retarded to not eventually have it dawn on me that I am not the kind of person who can be romantically desired by anyone. I am simply a person without any value--a lot of people refuse to consciously accept this sort of thing because it makes them uncomfortable. Even if against all odds a girl miraculously became interested in me, she would not be able to get past my exterior before losing interest. It just is not viable. There's just too many things that complicate it so as to make any sort of lasting, satisfying relationship absolutely and totally impossible beyond all reason. To actually believe with blind optimism that "there is someone for everyone," and to tell this to people without irony, is to fundamentally fail to understand this through personal experience and observation.

I'm sure you definitely can find and embody that part of your conciousness where you transcend the more primal needs for touch and certain types of affection. But I just hope there isn't an unresolved part of you you leave behind. Just try to bendfit from that enlightenment but also not abandon the human aspect of your natural craving if it was left unresolved.

no
but that doesn't mean I'll be with them
Everyone confuses missed opportunity with it not existing at all.
There is probably someone for everyone, but the chances anyone will meet that someone are slim and sometimes near impossible.
this doesn't mean there isn't someone out there for you, faggot.

Yes. 100%. This not the time nor the space for love to bloom.

Honestly yes. Any sort of female interaction I receive is either negative or non existent.

I don't even know anymore, i gave up quite some time ago, but i never stopped fantasizing about it, i know that i won't happen, but i still want it some times, i can't help it.
I see that scenario the same way i see winning the lottery, it's not impossible and it would be pretty nice if it happened, but it will most likely never happen.

I'm 30 and the only woman I have been interested enough has a boyfriend and I refuse to talk to her again. And I don't normally feel interested in someone else, so I will never have someone. ALso, I'm extremely introverted so I can't attract girl because I don't feel like talking to them, so I will never know someone new.

No because I'm trying to become that person and I have faith that other people are like me.

I also know women who are good people, better people than I am, as much as Jow Forums wants to pretend they don't exist.

No, I wish. Sometimes I catch myself thinking "when" rather than "if". I can't believe I'm saying this, but my self-confidence is too high.

Yes.
I think.

I want someone who actually desires me, and is willing to put admiring other people aside once we decide we're committed.
But, spoiler, I think a certain percent of the population, of both genders, is so narcissistic now that it's getting harder to find.

Then if you think of that small population of non-narcisscists, there's very little chance any of them share my interests, and then even a smaller chance that any of that tiny number would be emotionally mature enough to accept me and my emotional baggage, then, no, I'm out of luck.

I'm ready to accept it, but I'm not alone in the situation. It does seem a shame that it has to be this hard for so many people.

Obviously. I'm rich lol
they're all there trying to gold dig me
even "friends"

Yes, as I am incapable of love myself. I have a waifu and my devotion is reserved for her and her alone. In fact, I consider it to be far more profound than attraction based on feelings that come and go, because my fondness of her is centered around logic instead. She's an ideal, completely unreachable and I wouldn't have it any other way. Life here, in this world, tends to defile everyone and everything. It will not touch her.

I don't doubt that I'd be able to love someone, I've run the scenario through my head countless times, but I can never seem to make sense of a situation where a person would ever like me back.
It just ain't right.

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Nope. I know I'd be able to make it work with most people, I'm just a picky sob and keep holding out for the right person.

Yeah. I thought about it a lot and realized at some point if even someone claimed to love me, I couldn't believe them anyway and actually go after it or make something of it. I've been finished off, there is no hope for recovery, I don't think.

I fantasize about my crush, what makes it painful is we are close friends but I am simply not attractive enough. It is a gamblers fallacy to believe there is someone for everyone. Some people are just meant to be alone.

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There are people who say this attitude is self-defeating, but only because they lack understanding. They don't comprehend that while they have actively flirted with the opposite sex since childhood, whether successful or not, I have gone years without even attempting to flirt, or get somebody's number, or impose myself in any way on their lives. Years of negative experience in the field of relationships. The results do not go unnoticed by those who have spent their time practicing a healthy social life.

>given up on the notion there is someone out there
absolutely. if anyone hasn't, they're probably not a real robot.
not even robots seem to like me, I'm ostracized by normies and robots alike. I've never had an irl friend and can't keep any friends online even. let alone get a girlfriend.
autism + speech impediment + very low iq killed any odds I have. Anyone who says there's someone out there for everyone is lying, it's just logically and factually untrue, and I'm living fucking proof of it.

Yes. Even if there will be someone who loves me, I dont think I am capable of anything positive at this point.

Yep.
People that exist in reality have flaws, and their very presence irks me to the point of irritation. I honestly cannot find a person who I can feel genuine feelings for and if I even feel anything towards them at all, it would just be an extension of my egocentricity and amusement for anything I find funny in people.

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absolutely

I know for a fact im dying with out a partner by myside

i know that i will be lonely

i know im going to be killed one day

and i cant change it...

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No, does that mean there's hope? I want to know what love is.

no but i'm making no effort so it's the same as if i had

After developing crippling oneitis and then getting ghosted, I've realized I'll never be able to love someone again, and it's not like anyone is going to love me for any extended period of time.

Yes. Even though I like to imagine what it would be like to find someone who truly loves me I can't picture it without it seeming wrong in my head, as if that's not what's supposed to happen. Even if I was with someone before, it was such a long time ago that it all seems so foreign when thinking back to it, and knowing they never actually cared for me while I gave them everything only makes the thoughts worse. I was foolish to think I deserved any sort of love, now I live accepting that I'll be alone for good.

Oh long time ago. I never go outside except to get the mail or groceries, I keep convos to barely 2 word answers and shit, and I can't truly smile or laugh anymore. It's all gone OP. All gone!

Yeah it's pretty much over
but i'm acting as though it isnt so I can get by in this normalfuck clownworld where "love overcomes all" and just maybe fuck a girl once if she can be convinced she wants to
but it's been over since it began, family

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Of course not. I'll always feel loved so long as I stay devoted to my waifu.

If only you were capable of conceiving the full extent of the situation

Yes. My veritable computer of a brain has deduced through years of failure that all romance / relationships are a zero sum game, and a waste of time.

Yes, it's heavily attributed by the fact that I'm emotionally stunted also I think my subconscious realized I'm unattractive in every facet that it has convinced me that I do not want or care to be with anyone. I still find females attractive but it begins and ends there.

I hate 8man because I'd love a girl like Yui. But then I know my inferiority complex would get in the way too.

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I know that there would be someone like that out there, but I've just decided that I'm not going to force anything from now on. Some part of a woman's brain is dedicated to sniffing out desperation and they will avoid it with every fibre of their being. I'm just going to do my thing and if I run into someone along the way, then what happens happens.

In my case, there is no such person. I'm not the kind of a person that could even be in a relationship, forever doomed to be alone.
Alternative is to force myself into it and just become bitter after endless amounts of failure.

Some people fit relationships better, they can pull their own weight in making it work, I can't.