Is it okay for a soon-to-be 18 year old to go on a date with a 14 year old girl?

>I didn't realize it was rape until later
every. time.

>4 years is too big of a gap in that age group.
>meanwhile, we are perfectly fine with that same 14 year old surgically and hormonally altering themselves permanently in order to create the illusion they are members of the opposite sex

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>All men are the same
>YOU'RE RACIST IF YOU SAY ALL PEOPLE OF A CERTAIN RACE ARE THE SAME!

I-it's okay if I ask out a 19-year old at 24, right? That's not weird, right?

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>this 4 year age gap is totally not okay
t. 20 yo roastie with 32 old bf

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fuck him, age doesnt matter as long as it's legal (even then, but just to be sure)

"We" really aren't fine with that either. Stop strawmaning.

>not weird
nod realIy

honestly its such bullshit. i dated a 15 year old when i was 18 but no one cared because i was a woman. its just retarded double standards

Yeah shits fucked, just like how they think murder and violence is ok at 18 but liquor isn't until 21.

It's a little odd but besides the occasional stare you are probably fine.

Because girls often times have purer intentions than guys do.
Read the examples

Society isn't just okay with it, they demand it. The APA literally says there is no other known "treatment" and multiple states have passed laws banning conversion therapy and defunding any charities that deny it's (sex change) effectiveness.
So actually "we" being the society are perfectly fine with that utterly unnatural and disordered thing, but flip shit when two teenagers happen to go on a date.
Your best argument would be that most guys are looking for cheap sex, but then that again would just be a deflection, because they are brainwashed by society to do exactly that. So the arbitrary protections of AoC is really just putting a band-aid on a bullet-hole and expecting everyone to go along with the program without any kind of pushback.
fortunately for me, this isn't a public forum where my name is known or i'd have fifteen thousand death threats and my job would be getting calls from eighteen thousand 50+ dick roasties for challenging the bullshit narrative.

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I'd say it's a bit off, but it depends on some variables, and it's not just age.
I and mind girlfriend share a four year age gap, me being 31 and her being 27. Now that seems completely normal, but when we first started dating I was 22. She, being 18, was in her last year of school. I was already starting out with my career. Helping my girlfriend with homework was fucking weird. As I was going through with it, she did her 3 year degree, which basically meant we had to do LDR. For four years of our relationship we had completely different life goals and social circles.
Basically, if you're still in highschool date someone who's still in highschool. If you're in higher education, date someone doing the same. However, once you graduate age difference stops being relevant until one of you starts hitting retirement age.

>wait, what's that noise?
>oh it's just the collective noise of a thousand autists screeching and telling my normie ass to leave

>goes off on a random tangent
You're not arguing with society, you're arguing with people on this site. I agree with you on that matter.

I always figured age gaps were very normal, in this context my sister was 15 when she was dating a 22 year old, naturally my parents strongly disapproved of their relationship, even though they themselves had an 11 year age gap.
12 years later my sis is still together with him but now they're married, have their own home, decent jobs and their first child whos not even a year old. My parents now just brush it off and openly welcome him saying what a great guy he is.

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Fuck, I'm litterally that guy.

I really appreciate this perspective. Thanks, user.

i'm arguing with the social perspective that created the idea. the inherent hypocrisy of society is thus not a random tangent but an integral part of the bigger picture that i am trying to communicate.

I mean, I'm not saying it can't work. It worked for me and sister, but it just adds more failure points to the relationship.

When it comes to teens, 2 years is the max gap desu.

Only for guys tho, bitches can be bitches since 11 and no one cares if she's the one wanting to fuck old dudes.

as someone whos been in a relationship with that similar age gap (14 and 17 turning 18), it really is weird. any 18 year old okay with dating someone 3+ years younger than themself had a problem. why else wouldnt they date someone their age/in their maturity range

Not at all. Just two years ago they were a 12 year old...

>they're at the same social events
>haha you're a creeper

so either the 14 year old shouldn't be there or the 18 year old shouldn't be there

If they're both in highschool, there's no rule about it. Highschool 18 and diploma 18 are very different.

Yeah, I'm actually and it really helps to have some idea of the potential difficulties that might occur, honestly.

>one has a green circle around her profile pic
Her opinion doesn't count at all