Someone please give it to me straight, is it gay to own and use a dildo?

Someone please give it to me straight, is it gay to own and use a dildo?
Ive been told that its not really gay and that it just hits the prostate which was a relief since ive wanted one for a very long time but was too afraid in case it was gay.
What do you think? Do guys actually own/use them? Im not going to end up with egg on my face right?

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Putting a fake cock in your ass is gay dude

This has to be b8. You don't REALLY think average guys own dildos, right op?

Fuck guess im not getting dick anytime soon.
Feels bad, thanks though could have ended up embarassing myself.

Why's it matter if your masturbation time is gay or not? So long as you aren't using anything such as a chastity cage or a very large dildo that could cause damage it doesn't matter what the hell you do. Being with another man is a different story, though

Yes. Why play with your ass like that though? Risking to hurt your anus or prostate

>is it gay to fuck myself in the ass with a plastic cock
If you have to ask this you are retarded user

Not really. Pretty normal thing these days. I tried it with a girl two years ago in college, didn't like it very much

What would you consider very large? Considering buying one but dont know what girth to get.

Uh cause my fingers arent big enough and i want my ass to be spread out and for it to go deep.
Idk someone said it wasnt so i trusted him, i know it seems gay af thats why i needed to ask Jow Forums.
Thanks user, did you enjoy it? Guess maybe i should buy it.
Ik its dumb but ive been paranoid that people might think im gay or that i might actually be gay since early teens. Recently im trying to get past that fear and do what i want but its still so hard and scary.

I would consider getting a hyper-realistic dildo to be gay since it looks like a real cock. Otherwise butt stuff in masturbation isn't gay.

You're so gay dude.

Anything bigger than 5 or 5.5 in girth is probably too big to be safe ever for anal play, especially if you are new. I tried using one around 5in and I felt disgusting using it because it actually stretches pretty badly. 4 in and below is probably best if you really want a dildo, mine is a bit less than 4 I think and was comfortable for me as someone who had very little experience at first. To be completely honest you are probably better off getting an aneros, or whatever they are called, or one of those small vibrating prostate massagers. I don't have one currently but from what I heard they're obviously much better suited for prostate stimulation than dildos which, along with buttplugs, are obviously meant to simulate the feeling of having your ass stuffed/and or stretched

I was thinking of just getting a flesh coloured plain one, idk.
Ok ill admit im prison gay but that still means theres a straight person underneath the degenerate homosexuality right?
Hmm any anons can confirm or deny this? Maybe i should just get an aneros and buttplugs.

Are you attracted to men? Are you fantasizing about being penetrated by penis while you use it?

as far as I understand prison gays are only tops. No such thing as a bottom prison gay. We're just regular gay, man.

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There's no cold hard objective truth to this, as it's a social construct. The important question is if you want to date and have sex with men instead of women, or if you want both. You get the answer to that by asking yourself those direct questions. Something like what you masturbate to/with isn't a direct answer.

Idk
I should probably think about it more, and yeah i want a bf and not a gf.
Sorry honestly im just scared about buying a dildo and wanted encouragment im stupid and cowardly

You're just half gay user.

it's not gay unless you have sex with a man.

welcome to the big gay user

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You could be going down a slippery slope here user, I wouldn't jump to conclusions so soon.
I will make this clear: There is absolutely nothing wrong with using toys for you own sexual pleasure when maturating. Penis shaped or not.
Do not listen to people like It should only mater to you what YOU'RE comfortable with and you have no obligation to be either straight, gay or bi if it makes you feel wrong.
You could even be turned on by gay porn but be completely against the idea of dating or even having intercourse with a man and that would be absolutely fine. You are completely free to do as you please and there is no reason to scare yourself that you're "gay" just because you want to stimulate your prostate and people in this thread say that is so. Just because you like one thing doesn't automatically make you something else.

Don't worry about having to pretend to be part of some label or identify as a certain trait, just be comfortable with whatever you're attracted to.
Good luck friend.

You're probably right...
I do feel like it's a slippery slope for me.
Like maybe I read too much yaoi and watched too much gay porn?
And it does feel wrong, soooooooo wrong I literally have started shaking with just sheer fear about what i've potentially become. I feel a huge weight on my shoulders thinking about it.
Sorry this really has veered far off from where this thread started.
I appreciate your concern and your advice user.
stop messing with my mind friend.

If you have to ask if something is gay, it usually is. But don't worry. Submitting to other men is easier, and more fun, than getting with a grill. Lots of gay and bisexual guys are really nice.

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Yes it's gay.

The real question is, is it gay if you want a gay guy to suck your dick? The reason why i want a guy to do it and not a girl, is because guys actually enjoy it, while girls only do it to manipulate you. Anything else that is gay is disgusting. Kissing, anal stuff, or even seeing someone else's dick. Disgusting. But i want a gay dude to suck my dick.

>I feel a huge weight on my shoulders thinking about it.
To me it sounds like you could stuck in routine and slowly becoming desensitized. It can be hard, but taking a break or limiting yourself to 'gay' material for a while could give you a clearer view in due time.
But like I said user, just try to only go along with whatever makes you feel comfortable and don't try pressure yourself because of what people say. Enjoy yourself.

I started to dabble briefly in playing with my anus while masturbating, like rubbing my finger around it or sitting on a small bottle/tube of some kind lying sideways inside my asscrack. Realized this was the beginning of a slippery slope into horrible degeneracy so I stopped and am now on nofap.

Not gay, just masturbatory. Straight dudes jerk themselves off, which is hardly a heterosexual activity. It's masturbatory. It's a different thing from gay or straight or bisexual.

Literally who cares. What it is

If. You want one then get it
And it's not even gay
You can feel good with itt
Anal isn't automatically gay

putting anything in your buttwhole is gay