Just found out my gf flirted with another guy 2 months into our relationship while going on her phone which I know is...

Should I see what else I can find? I'm super worried now. If she's a whore I'll just get rid of her. I'm starting to fucking hate roasties these days.

Yup. Fuck that whore. You can bet that whore would do the same to you if she thought you were doing something.

I'm sure she would. I barely even speak to other girls mainly because they just don't want to talk to me though. I could never even think of cheating on her.

Yeah keep feeding your insecurities and taking advice from woman hating kissless virgins it'll serve you well

Well fuck what else am I supposed to do stay with her? What if she had sex with this dude? You can't flirt while you're ina relationship with someone without genuinely wanting them right?

If you hate this board so much why don't you fucking leave you shitposting trannynigger?

She didn't cheat on you, OP. How does finding this information change your relationship in the slightest? At 2 months when you may or may not have been dating she told a guy "10/10". Yet she is with you.

Regardless of if she left herself logged in, you went through her private messages trying to find dirt. This is your brain feeding your insecurity

*May or may not have been exclusive

>Yet she is with you.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_affair
Lying nigger

We were exclusive. This is 2 months into when we were confirmed dating.

Mommy issues? Or just hate women because they don't want your shriveled dick? Nothing she did classified as an emotional affair. Maybe women wouldn't reject you so much if you weren't such a fat loli loving incel.

>no argument
>responds with ad hominems
Last (you), trolling nigger

All I can say is sleep on it. Ask yourself if you want to destroy a year long otherwise great relationship because of one sentence sent 10 months ago, that you had no business reading anyway.

>calls me trannywhore shill nigger loving faggot
>durr ad hominems hurrr

I honestly have met the person and they are still speaking as "friends" or whatever else today. That's why I am so worried.

I can assume if you found that message, she isn't deleting shit, which probably means that is the worst of it.

From personal experience, I have been the snooping, jealous, insecure bf and the only thing it did was drive me crazy and ruin relationships. If she is cheating on you, you'll find out. Spending time worrying about it will just drive you nuts.

Be secure in your relationship with her, and know that you're a catch, so she has no reason to cheat.

Pretty normal these days. Early on it could just end up being a short term fling so until it does get serious they keep a backup dude on retainer becuase they're often kinda shit like that. Commitment doesn't come easy to someone who has all the options in the world so I get it but it's still really shitty and doesn't excuse it.

Lmao fucking whore

Thank you this has been the most relevant advice. I appreciate you talking me down. I hate being so insecure but I just care about her a lot.

"Your girl" is getting railrd by chad, dump her you cuck

Anytime, desu

pretty much everyone is a slut

dude leave now....you're going to get fucked so bad. start focusing on another girl and leave her after.

Well Op, there may be a chance of cheating, but the real issue is how serious the flirting was (screencaps faggot). Either way I wouldn't put much hope in her. Sooner or later she'll dump you, however I have a solution: tell her to stop that shit, she'll agree, but check her phone once in a while. If she's still doing that, well...fuck her. Both literally and figuratively.
Goodspeed op.

Different user here. It's not as easy as the other user is making it out to be. Keep your eyes and ears open and listen to your gut.

If you think about confronting her, you need a solid plan of doing it or she'll turn it into something else completely, i.e. you going though her private stuff. If you find more incriminating stuff on her phone, you should either just leave her or make copies of everything and confront her from a different angle at first: That you've heard that she is being too friendly with guy friends (don't tell her how you know). See if she comes clean or if she'll try to play innocent.

Hi, user. Your advice helped me a lot, too. Thank you.

shes deff doing something. the reason there's nothing on the phone is because well they've done it in person

>hurr durr if you dont just have blind faith in a roasties ability to keep her legs closed you are a bad person!
Fuck you cunt. Theres a plethora of reasons so many people here hate women.

Because they won't fuck you isn't a good reason.

I just remembered she confessed to me before she had been sending "flirty" messages to him because I told her if she ever cheated on me to tell me rather than wasting my time. Is this a good thing? or am I just being a cuck? At least she was truthful. I don't know what else she's done with him besides that though if there is even anything at all.

So she is even more honest than you originally thought. If you keep overthinking it you're going to convince yourself she's fucking him. Or you could just act on real evidence rationally. Do you have any evidence that anything at all has happened apart from the incident 10 months ago she already told you about and you presumably forgave her?

I didn't even really say a word about it. I was talking about how my buddy's gf cheated on him and how that would be the only way I would break up with her and anything else could be talked out like rational people. I don't have any other evidence but she has done some /sketchy/ things with the guy who introduced us. She dated him about a year and a half before me but they are still friends. I feel like I'm just paranoid now but someone cheating on me is my worst nightmare.

We can't tell you because we don't know the details of your relationship. All I can say is that trust is the single most important thing in a relationship. If you don't trust her anymore, then there is no real reason to continue being with her after only one year of the relationship. Re-building trust, especially after one partner fucked up by crossing established boundaries (not just cheating) and/or being dishonest with you, is hard and can take years -- if it succeeds at all.

If you're certain that she wronged you and that you won't be able to trust her anytime soon, then the best course of action is to look for somebody else you can have a fresh start with.

If you believe that she's been honest with you with coming clean with her having sent flirty messages in the past and that that is all there is to it, then move on but keep your eyes open for any signs that she might not be as invested in th relationship as you are.

One thing that I don't get is though is why you still tolerate her being platonic friends with the guy that she used to flirt with. If she came clean about her wrong behavior in the past, she should follow through her confession with actions and cut all contact with the guy, imo.

My thought process was that I didn't really care, I wanted to be that laid back bf because restricting someone is not fair. I know that was stupid now. I have to sleep in the same bed as her tonight but I am feeling quite sick about this whole ordeal. I don't know what to say to her and I don't even want to pretend to be affectionate with her dispite being quite upset.

She also didn't tell me what she said to him (in person or over text) she just told me they had been quite flirty. He is her co-worker.

>Just wait to get cucked bro.
>When you get cucked ,you will know it.Just wait for that lucky day.
Lmao you fucking nigger.

You're self sabotaging, OP.

OP is a cuck.Your girlfriend does not respect you at all.She knows you cannot do shit about her behavior even if you wanted to because she knows you do not have options.

Maybe it was a friendly "you're 10/10"...People do that all the time, see other messages or wait it our and see if it goes any further.

I don't give advice to normies, sorry OP.
Try another board.

I don't know what to do or say at this point. I would kick her out but she lives quite far away plus she doesn't have her car at my house right now.
She sent it to him on 2 of his accounts and nobody else.

Well, if you really intend to be with her for longer, then you might want to bring it up in an "honest" way.

Sit her down and try to to talk to her about it. Either tell her that you accidently came across her past flirty text or leave that info out. Either way start with soething like "remember when you told me that you flirted with guy x? I'm not the jealous kind of guy and I've really trying to not be the restricting kind of bf, but to tell the truth it has been nothering me for a while now. I thought I'd get over it with time but bottling up has made it worse" etc.

Just try to convey how this whole situation makes you feel bad. DO NOT try to argue about girls aren't suppoesed to behave like this or that, or that it's not a decent thing to do etc. If she actually cares about you, she will listen. If she doesn't want to understand, try to have her imagine if tables were turned. Bring up a girl that you and ask you gf how she would feel if you had flirted with her said girl two months into your relationship and now would hang around with her as platonic friends.

I've been in a somewhat similar situation (no cheating involved, it was just her having a history with some "platonic" guy friends that I didn't learn about until after a couple of months into our relationship). Anyway, that is the way that I approached it, and my gf ended up realzing how she had fucked up and hurt my feelings by not disclosing the information earlier and/or simply by cutting of all contact with the guys. She admitted that if tables were turned she would feel like shit too and stopped to hang out with the people in question.

Alright, next time. I just trust this board will give me straight answers instead of bullshitting and telling me I have literally nothing to worry about.

Thank you. This really really helped me. When she comes up to bed I'll speak with her about it if I don't fall asleep.

I'm just going to pretend to be asleep. It's late anyway. I will talk to her about it tomorrow she doesnt really know what's going on.