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How do you fix busting instantly, it's pretty bad bros.

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Reducing anxiety during intercourse is a primary, doing kegels might give some more control.

I have the opposite problem, condom completely takes away any feeling and I can pump literally forever without busting.

What worked for me is just pacing myself, instead of pounding away like you are a pornstar try slower and deeper thrusts. Take your time with her and maybe pull out and play with her pussy a bit, swap positions a few times as well user. Also, not to humblebrag but if you have lots of sex regularly you kind of build up some stamina

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Just start from 100 and subtract by 7 each time.

what if worst case scenario is that minimal stimulation from a girl is enough to get you to blow

an hero?

Shitty answer but try to be in a situation where you are maybe a little drunk. I legit fucked a girl for over an hour before busting. Possible different for you but it's really the only other answer I can give.

condom is too tight, get bigger ones. You last less but it feels so so much better.

Fast ejaculation is sign of high test. Just look at animals. They cum in few seconds. Do you think cavemen fucked for 1 hour? No. It's biology. Your main goal is to impregnate female not "pleasure" (whatever that means) her.

whiskey dick is an anxious man's best friend

edge

>Fast ejaculation is sign of high test
COPE

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>TRAIN
>YOUR
>CORE

It helped me...and focus more

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Beta soiboy who cares about women.

I stopped jacking off with lotion and that seems to have helped a bit, guessing the lack of moisturizing has desensitized muh dick

Do NOT get bigger condoms, get thinner condoms with a reservoir tip. Trust me, it's awesome. Also, they go through the same tests as thicker condoms, and are just as safe.

i had the opposite solution. i trained myself to use high quality lubes and overcome the heightened sensitivity from it. i used to jack it in the shower without lube so anything more lubricating than water was too much (so everything)

Regrow your foreskin.

Wish I had this problem.. takes me a good 20 min of really trying if i want to cum, if I don't try and focus on it I can go forever..

might be the best advice in this thread

>not cumming instantly makes you a soiiboi
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Relax and take steady breathes. Have sex more often if you can. When all the sex I got was from random whores, if I wasn't drunk I would nut so fast. Once you get in a steady relationship and start having sex regularly. It becomes not a big deal and relieves the anxiety that comes anxiety that comes along with it.

i used to cum pretty quick when i fapped alot.
Now i bascialy only ejaculate with girls.
I fuck alot more and better stamina.
Worked for me atleast.

>"i cum too fast"

>"you should make your dick more sensitive"

genius ova hea

not fapping seems like it would make you cum even quicker with girls. ive been doing nofap for weeks now so i'll see how it works out

have more sex

Zero to sex god here.
>edging for 25 minutes
>kegels and reverse kegels
>breathing from the diaphragm
Typically last 45 minutes with the Gf. This is without a condom or switching positions.

2 prossies couldn't finish me, AMA.

Did you still pay them?

Do you think the grill will be upset if she came instantly? who gives a fuck

Been no fap for a couple weeks now, I was worried it would ruin my endurance but it actually made it better. Last an hour plus now and I'm way more into the girl/foreplay/dirty talk. Shit's lit

Lemme tell ya boyo, your sex is BORING as hell. If your gf says to the contrary she is lying. If you are just pounding away for 45 minutes in the same position this is some fucking boring ass sex.

When I have sex it lasts about 45 minutes, but that'll be me going down on her, her going down on me, 69, missionary, doggy, her on top, standing up and holding her up as I bounce her on my dick, fucking her against the wall, switching between all of these things at various points, then cuming on her face. Yet you're there just pounding away for 45 minutes in one position like a fucking Mormon.

Well it can't get much worse

The guy never fucking said he fucks in one position for 45 minutes

t. just lost his virginity

fap more.

fap less.

Only fap upside down.

Don't know if it's normal, but for me when I breath in my dick gets more sensitive and when I breath out it gets less sensitive, so if I feel like cumming I breath out and hold for like 10 secs then go back to breathing normally

How do you get into a steady relationship if the sex is bad the first few times?

So some people actually orgasm just by being sexually nervous??? Shit for me its the opposite. I take forever to bust to the point where my dick gets bored and i lose horniness. With a condom though.

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Girl has to REALLY like you and your potential.

>This is without a condom or switching positions
learn how to read, paco

lol fuck, sorry man. I'm drunk. Dude is a fucking dud.

Fuck the American Pie movies aged badly.

Xylocaine dental anaesthetic spray 10ml solution. Couple of sprays youre good to go.

Or priligy pills.

First is still great.

my problem was my mental state. i don't think like i do when i masturbate. started thinking about how hot the situation was and bam- cum

This is very dependent on the girl. If you don't like her that much you can fuck for hours. If you are infatuated, you are fucked.

>First is still great.

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Had the same problem...once I got an antidepressant Rx never had the problem again. 2 birds with one stone.

Put your dick in a hot roast chicken

Just be yourself :)

WOW. Over 50 replies and nobody has said cock ring yet.

Cock ring + viagra = biggest, hardest erection you’ll ever have. Even after you bust you’ll be able to continue having sex.

Position also plays a big role. If my gf is on top and leans down I will last 0.5s but if she's in some bridge shit while I'm vertical I'll last ages etc.
Try different ways to fuck op

I wish I could get that fucking far son. I can't even get hard enough to put it in most times

STOP WATCHING PORN NOW.

I can get hard, I just can’t cum and can hardly feel anything. Jerking off unironically feels better

STOP WATCHING PORN NOW. YOU'RE IN THE DANGER ZONE

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you're the man. this must be a pretty common issue i take it

Hi Varg

>What worked for me is just pacing myself, instead of pounding away like you are a pornstar try slower and deeper thrusts

>Do slower thrusts.
>"FASTER"
>well fuck.

NOW GET OUT THERE AND BE SOMEBODY

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jerk off every day and when it comes time for sex you won't be able to cum, or feel any pleasure at all really :)

i have the opposite opposite problem, my first and only time having sex, i couldnt even get fully hard
i have no clue if it was nerves or if i have ED

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STOP WATCHING PORN. WATCH 80S ACTION MOVIES INSTEAD.

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i dont even watch porn though
[spoiler]i read it because im a fag that reads doujins[/spoiler]

>doujins
EXCUSE ME? STOP BEING WEIRD.

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It's all in the head, user. I wish I knew how to fix it, though. Maybe meditation?

I have performance issues during my first one or two encounters with a girl.
My dick used to go soft after 2 or 3 minutes and never got back up again.
About two months ago I started having the problem of cumming too early.
Shit sucks but once I've had one good fuck session, then I don't have any more issues and I become unstoppable.

FUCK YEAH BABY WERE ALL GONNA MAKE IT

THATS THE SPIRIT. I LOVE YOU MAN

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I can only cum if I have a penis inside of my mouth, it sucks, I even cum hands free if I suck for too long

YOU AIN'T GOT TIME TO READ

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LOVE YOU TOO MOTHERFUCKER

squeeze your pereneum (kegel) before you go inside her, and do not let go. be sure to breathe comfortably, but as slow as possible.

>"FASTER!"
you're CIA. you're in charge here. you do what you want/need

Put your finger on your taint and push real hard when you're about to cum. You will feel like your cumming but no cum will come out. You can now fuck for hours and when you come for the second time (for real this time) it will be the best orgasm you ever had.

I would rather cum in 2 minutes than have to ever wear a condom again

Me and my girl had the same problem. Solution? We fuck without condom and I pull out before cumming.

Anyway, she's starting on the pill soon

>Shit sucks but once I've had one good fuck session, then I don't have any more issues and I become unstoppable.
Is that one good sesh with each girl, or just one good sesh for sex in general?

During round 1 I bust in mere seconds (but still able to stay hard after nutting), but post round 2, I can go on for pretty much forever. Does anyone else experience this?

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thats called multiple orgasms and yes, I have that too, but I think its pretty rare in men

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I was fucking my girlfriend yesterday in missionary, going at her pretty hard. I came in about maybe 7 minutes but after I came I just kept on going to see what would happen and we ended up fucking for about over twice as long and I made her cum. I didn't stop or pull out the entire time, just kept on pounding her after I came. I don't think it was just because I was on top and able to control the rhythm either, because we fucked again a few hours later with her on top and the same thing happened, came and just kept fucking. Shit was cash. This happen to anybody else?

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when i was 23 i worked in a plastics factory and idk if it was something in the air or that i was on my feet lifting 30lbs metal molds all day but i could fuck forever. like easily an hour up to 2 hours once. pretty much as soon as i stopped working there i instantly lasted less, like right back to 5 mins max, usually 3. I can last heaps of time in a bj but pussy just makes me burst. its really disappointed me for a number of years and wish i could change it.

>45 minutes

Boring.

I fucked 24 women, they all prefer when it's in a 20 minute frame. Any longer and it's unconfortable.

Get a blowjob first, wait 20 minutes, then have sex.
Works for me
You could also try fucking fat ugly chicks, that might work

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It's performance anxiety, lots of people can't keep it up the first time.
You will have to learn to relax, try to get into animal mode or something, do what YOU want even if it sounds asshole-ish.
If you need to take your dick out and masturbate to not lose your erection, don't be ashamed to do so, try to include the girl there too if possible.

Yeah I do the same, just keep fucking.

Bro, if you haven't ejaculated for more than two weeks your cum will be disgusting, just letting you know in advance so you don't cum somewhere that she can see it.
You get a huge amount of cum but it's yellowy white and thick.
Keep it inside the condom or something.

whoa up there hotshot

Get a fleshlight and train your dick to last longer and longer each time you use it. Basically working out but for dick cardio gains. Get a STU or another intense pattern.

Funny that you posted this pic, because the nastiest faps i had wasn't to the porn but to the scene from this movie where this blonde dances topless. God, im having hardons just by thinking of it.

I can cum in 30 seconds if it's doggy or spooning.