Why don't you actively try to get laid?

why can't you cum user?

fuck dude the emotional pain and hurt I experience from rejection far outweighs the benefits of getting laid, I'm just not cut out for this shit, I haven't gone through the necessary social training required and I'm lacking all the prerequisites for having a woman show any interest in me.

Because i have burns is some parts of my body user and Swaty Hands, what can I do user?, some women already offer me sex in the past but I refuse it because of stress that they mock at me

>Why don't you actively try to get laid?

do you mean approaching girls on bars, using tinder or paying a whore?

I think I just don't feel like it

But woudn't you like to experience something like pic related? I mean imagine how good that must feel, don't you think.

>I mean don't you like women?
lol no what kind of retard likes 3d?

>They only go after men who resemble mere apes.

Sorry but that's not true. My experience.

Every time in the past that I have tried to get with a woman in fairly various ways and at different times, there has never been a success.
There have only been 2 times that anything happened between me and a girl, and both times were entirely becaise of the girl.
I wish I was asexual I fucking hate being alive like this. I wish I was dead. I woud rather be fucking retarded than be alive like this

because when it inevitably doesn't happen I am forced to acknowledge my inferiority.

ye that self centered "the fault for my shortcommings is obviously on someone/something else" attitude is gonna get you laid for sure

Holy shit made me kek so hard. he actually believes this.

I'm autistic. is there a fullproof step by step plan to getting a gf that I can follow?

>fullproof step by step plan to getting a gf that I can follow?
Yeah try with this user:
wikihow.com/Get-a-Significant-Other-if-You're-Autistic

I gave up. I'm 29, I've never even so much as kissed a girl, getting laid is never going to happen. I'm a defective human being, I shouldn't even exist.

>sed a girl, getting laid is never going to happen. I'm a defective human being, I shouldn't even exist.
I know the feeling brah

>>sed a girl,
what did he mean by that?

wow that's way too hard.

>I mean don't you like women?
why does it always come to this
next you'll say "hurr r u gay"
its called being fucking lazy

Yeah that is why I only focus on Vidya right now, less stress and I really enjoy it but now I'm on a OCD rampage to collect all the games that I want to play in the future.

I would like to fuck a woman but I have no idea where to start and can't even bring myself to speak to a female

I can talk to women but no look them in the eyes, awkward as fuck.

>I mean don't you like women?

I'm attracted to women, they're not attracted to me.

They lost me at step four.

I only made it to step 3 user

>Step 2:
>Let your outfit reflect your personality.
How do you dress as the worlds most boring guy?

he was joking you stupid faggots

I mean I have this problem as well, I never look people in the eyes when I talk to them. If my eyes meet with someone I freak the fuck out.

It is really easy to no fap when you have a gf to fuck whenever you see her.

Just like that user

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>Why don't you actively try to get laid?
Well I do kinda try actively. At least in the sense that I constantly try to prepare myself for it mentally. But I haven't yet managed to build up enough confidence or knowledge on how to begin. I haven't really gotten to the point of talking to one yet but I'm working on it.
>I mean don't you like women?
I absolutely do

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>never look people in the eyes when I talk to them. If my eyes meet with someone I freak the fuck out.
Yeah specially women for me, I think they are going to freak out or some shit and in the end is worst not doing it

>be manlet
>"get laid fag"

You mean all of r9k?

The simple guide to getting laid:

Step 1: be Chad
Step 2: there is no step 2

Looks are great to fall back on if you have no personality.

I'm not a Chad but I get laid once in a while.
Relax man do you ever go out? There are all kinds of people hooking up

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Cringy insults are a great way to fall back if you look like a potato

>psicologically and phisically

>people like this get gfs

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...is yours the cringy insult? Mine wasn't an insult. Women aren't as shallow as robots.

>I mean don't you like women?
I'm afraid of intimacy and disgusted by actual sex. No exit for me.

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>I'm too intelligent for women. They only go after men who resemble mere apes.
Very true. I have the same problem. I am 8/10 looking but too smart, reserved and introverted to easily get a gf. Most interest I get is from 5-6/10 looking smart girls. They are nice but don't do it for me. To get a good looking gf I would have to put some effort and time into finding one, but I have been busy uni and career wise the last few years. Now I am scared that it might be to late for that innocent young love I long for. I guess I will look into dating 20 year-olds, but that will be difficult, considering that my social circles are older.

you got no way of knowing that more than any of us
and given what this board has become, a pool of self pity that focusses on
a) porn
b) bait
c) self loathing
d) hate/blame on everyone that they perceive to be the cause for their state (other than themselves)

>innocent young love
>uni
you're already too late.

Personality is just another code word for being someone who acts weird and inappropriately and says a lot of stupid shit out laud.

This is either good bait or an extremely self-deluded narcissist

>There are all kinds of people hooking up

Yes, those people are called Chads and Stacys.

>actively
Approaching girls who either do not give a shit about you or even choose to despise you on first glance? No thanks, I am not willing to be another smiling clown providing free entertainment for every vagina I come across.
Already getting bummed out enough just by "putting myself out there". If all they can offer in turn are signals it just won't happen.

bruh the first line of my post is
>I'm not a Chad
and don't lie you've seen fat ugly poor dressed fucks out with qtpie girls. The Chad/Stacy paradigm does exist but it's not the absolute

First off, I am not complaining on here about it.

I just don't feel the need to desu.
I have no friends aka. No "Social proof"
I don't do to much interesting shit, a bit sports and the rest is programming.
I have no contact to females in my age.

I am just more focused on making money. I would need to change my entire life just to suit to females. I just don't care enough to do that and am not a cuck(and don't want to become one).
Also being with females would dumb me down and make me work less and not making big money.

No it's code word for someone who isn't a fucking drag to be around.

Well I essentially I said that I am good looking and reasonably successful but still too autistic. ;*

I'm fat, ugly, broke, live with my parents, and lacking direction in life and I do ok with the ladies.

>He doesnt know what sedding a girl is

Tried once, had a few of those dating apps and profiles made and got zero messages (or replies if when i messaged first) in the one month i was trying. I dont bother anymore because i honestly dont even want a relationship or to get laid. Ill just beat my meat when i feel like it and be content doing other things.

Dating apps isn't really trying.

actively cringing at this post

Why should I?

1.You have to assess your chances about actually getting laid.

2.You have to improve on all your shortcomings before even thinking about it

3.After that you have to pursue it actively, being social etc.pp

4.You have to live with the majority of attempts being utter mentally blowing crushing failures

Is it worth it?
If you think and feel it is, go for it.

psychologically and physically

some people are just fucking ugly man
no point

it's more about attitude that ugliness

Because
>I can't talk to strangers
>I can't talk to women
>I can't flirt with women
>Even if I could, I'm godawful at sex and have no idea what I'm doing. I'd just annoy the woman.

no it isn't. you'll learn this when you get older

Dubs confirm lol

many of the people here are disgusting shitskins who shouldn't reproduce

>getting laid automatically means you reproduce

:-DDDD

Ugly people can still easily get laid.

Women don't want me at all.

>incels have a crippling fear of rejection, they would rather be friends with a girl rather than try and be rejected
>she have no initiative. they don't want to work for anything
>their standards are unreasonable high and they believe their stock is more valuable than it is.

>incels
>being friends with a girl
>doing anything other than despising all women

...sure user

I don't want casual sex, ever.

>you like women?
so what? is that a guarantee that they will like you back? no. Stupid normalscum.

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It is hard, not impossible. I have gone on a couple of dates with a coworker (I'm leaving the company soon, so it's not troublesome) and I'm meeting her for dinner tomorrow. I asked if she wanted to "Netflix and chill" after dinner. She said yes and later made jokes about me being impatient for Friday.
I'm an unattractive guy on his late 20s who has only had sex with a single woman and has depressed for years. So it's not impossible. Give it a try and don't be discouraged by rejection.

Wow this picture makes me feel good. Home boys got a small dick, around my size, and still has a pretty girl blowing him. Maybe I should step my game up and actually try.

>someone asks why you don't try
>breaks out into a semantics argument on varying degrees of effort
>"you're obviously not trying hard enough"

there is no winning.

I'm not really afraid of rejection but i dont see sex as worthwhile goal.

You must have had bad experiences or no experiences then. Sex is pretty worthwhile. There is a general consensus about it for a reason.

Nope, I want a serious relationship, but um...
all my partners broke up with me and then found their life partners after breaking up.

I feel like a normie writing this,so uh, nope, casual sex is a no for me,

Can't do anything, I want to be devoted to one person, and I'm waiting until sex for marriage.

>inb4 dumb roastie, you put out already for your past partners
>nope, we didn't get to marriage and didn't have sex

it's the "hypothetically anything could happen" brainlet argument

"if you really wanted something you would already have it"
yeah tell that to people who want a billion dollars

I have no experience but i dont have this nature calling about getting sex and being thirsty about it. I'd even outright refuse sex if some girl would offer me it.

when i hear or see a fallacy, i write the person off forever. is that too harsh?

who would be stupid enough to believe this statement, "if you actually wanted something, you'd already have it".? only someone stupid enough to say it.

That is a coping mechanism and you know it.

>can't talk to strangers
>can't talk to women
>can't flirt
>terrible at sex
>extremely vanilla

Where's your infinite wisdom, OP?
For real though any advice is welcome ;_;

I'm not so sure. I've had this mentality since 14 and i dont remember being rejected for cope to appear. It's just so foreign to me, probably because i cant establish any intimacy.

Honestly, though its hard to find girls who are into you, why should it be so hard? What is stopping incels from finding other incels and banding together to find and abduct girls they want for a good fuck, and maybe to have a place where this can be done? For all the incels bitching about women over here, all you need is to find eachother and and figure out how to make women have sex with you and keep each others women scared of your crew so they don't try shit. Problem fucking solved niggers.

what you're saying is that undesirable men should form rape gangs

>be me
>be pushing 32
>no friends
>no social life whatsoever
>social maturity of pre-adolescent
>live with parents
>chronic health problems
>totally inexperienced virgin, never had a single romantic interaction ever
I've pretty much accepted that there is no hope for me. Why add to my suffering with rejection?

as a failed normie, all types of women are into me and i don't just jump at the first one.

a lot of them are fat, single mothers, fucked up in the head, etc and they wonder why i don't want to pump n dump them.
like society is so fucked up they think something is wrong with ME becuse i DONT want to pump n dump them lmao.

I'm still fat with bitch tits
It is one of the only things destroying my self confidence
The tits are really bad
I have 5grand saved right now and will have 10-12k in a few months if i can keep saving
I want the surgery to remove this burden

>what you're saying is that undesirable men should form rape gangs
When you put it that way, of course people will recoil from that. Look at history though: Romulus, who founded the city of Rome, led a rape gang: look at Rome and the abduction of the Sabine women. If they couldn't find women, they would simply go and take them from the nearby tribe. They knew which ones weren't taken, cause of proximity, so they grabbed those that were unmarried/widowed and took them.
Fact is, undesireable men are the founders of new and meaningful shit because they made the world take them seriously, not just bitch on a chan. DO IT FAGGOT

>in a few months
Exercise in the meantime:ride your bike for a couple miles every day till then and see what happens, you might make it and save your money.