>tfw 50% of the worlds population is completely alien to you How the fuck do normalfags do it? How do they obtain gfs while I'm here all alone? I don't even know where to start. I don't even know where to meet girls, don't know what they want to talk about, don't know what they like to do, don't know how to approach a girl. It bothers me how so many people seem to have figured these things out while I'm still here in the dark completely oblivious to these things. Are men and women that different? Don't they seek love and happiness as well? I just want a gf to cuddle with and share my love with, why is such a simple thing so hard to obtain. Does women feel the same way? I feel men are more open about what they like and dislike, what hobbies they have and such stuff so it shouldn't be as big of a problem. The world would be so much simpler if women also asked men out and so on. I think it is a heavy burden to carry for men and if women also carried it life would be so much simpler and better for everyone.
It took many years of pretending and now I'm a half-decent normie. There was just a lot of pain and being the lowest member of the totem pole but if I hadn't tried then I'd still be a virgin to this day.
Dylan Roberts
I feel like they all enjoy doing things I don't and obtaining a gf requires me to indulge them which I am not willing to do and no girl is willing to indulge me therefore I will remain alone.
Samuel Gray
How can you go through so many years of you life knowing that you faked it all? I can fake being a normalfag at the most basic level but beyond that it all falls apart. Living like that for the rest of my life would just tear me apart, I'd go insane knowing it is not myself, I'm just faking it to be someone else.
Isaac Roberts
You call them normies like you're better than them. They are the regular healthy ones. Normal people enjoy socializing, making plans, going out, meeting new people. Its not normal to sit inside your room all day hiding from the world, and then wonder why you can't get a girlfriend. Everyone here swears getting laid and getting a gf is all looks but in reality its at least 70% socialization.
OP, people like you have a mental defect. Its part of nature that you will die alone. It has already been decided.
Landon Hall
tf u think u r entitled to a female, u r just as beta as the feminist scum.
Josiah Howard
I call them normalfags because they can function in society without putting in any extra amount of effort. I want a gf as much as the next guy, I just don't know how to obtain one due to my social ineptude and because no one has taught me how to interact with girls or anything about them. It feels like everyone know these things automatically while I don't. I'm very shy and have it very hard to communicate with strangers and I'm afraid of failure so on and it has thus led me into becoming a hikki NEET. I still feel the desire for love, it is just something that is extremely hard for me to obtain. The least I can do is try to understand how or where to start.
Jeremiah Butler
>in reality its at least 70% socialization. 99% hope. normies go out every week end hoping to get laid. they go out night after night. for months and years. sometimes they meet cuties other times they dont. anons here have 0% hope, they dont see the point to try.
>entitled meme the virgins wanting government girl friends was a troll you know they know the government isn't going to give them anything the government does not even provide basic health care why you can't see the joke is the biggest normie cringe in recent times
Austin Foster
I got to the point where I know how to be myself, unironically. You just need to exaggerate certain parts of your personality depending on the person and situation.
I'm actually a different person after experience with socialization. I can't really blame people for not liking or respecting me in the past, I was quiet, awkward and easily upset.
Leo Taylor
Same actually I have only had short term interpersonal relationships of any kind, not just romantically involved. Obviously, if you never had a wholesome relationship/friendship long-term, you won't in the future. No permanent friends who I had a consistent emotional connection with.
Plus if I'm a non-verbal autistic, so it is actually unnatural for me to use my voice.
>inb4 failed normie >at least you had intimacy, even if it was forced/pity/or temporary
It makes it worse. I wanted wholesome friendships/relationships, not unnatural ones.
Eli Ortiz
>the healthy ones That may be true in terms of relativity, but what do you want to do in your life?
Bentley Bennett
Not trying to be shitty, but not decent girl would want anything to do with a guy like you in your current state. You have to turn yourself into a guy a woman would actually want. This would take tons of effort, a lot of rejection and a kick to your egos ballsack. But in the end, you would eventually get what you were looking for (and then comes a whole new set of problems, but that is for another discussion)
Leo Peterson
This is common sense really I guess I keep trying to convince myself or "cope" I really just want to have a romantic partner [long-term] who'll love me unconditionally, I would only talk to them and no one else, and they would be my rock.
but I only ever had short-term partners, so the problem feeds on itself and I would have to "Expose" myself to get a new partner, when really I just wanted my one and only. there's just no winning in my situation.
Disclaimer; I'm not victimizing myself or saying they're abusive. even social well-adjusted people break up all the time, and everyone is entitled to their own lives,
Wyatt Thomas
I understand that. It is not an easy task and even if I would get a job, dress nicely, try to be more outgoing I doubt I'd succeed since I'm so far behind everyone else. This would require extremely much effort for me as I've lived like this for the rest of my life and it might not even work out.
Not to weasel out of the problem here but why should only I have to put in so much effort? Do I have to become a perfect human being just for girls to recognize me as a human being? I feel like a lot of the "love effort" has been put over to men. Like men have to put in 70% effort while a woman only has to put in 30% in order to form a relationship. Maybe I'm wrong but that's how I see it.
Daniel Martinez
>You have to turn yourself into a guy a woman would actually want.
this works if you want one night stands. then you realize how pointless meaningless sex and how immature most women are. and now youre in the normie rat race trying to post the next cool instagram pic or whatever they do
Jaxon Wilson
same feeling here, why the fuck should I try so hard for a woman that considers me subhuman by default.
Kevin Jenkins
You can get off my board to Reddit newfag ROASTIE
Nathan Williams
>sitting in your room all day isn't healthy even if you're an introvert! >proceeds to browse social media for 8 hours a day glued to a mobile phone
Christian Morales
This post smells like roastie posting
Charles Watson
>>tfw 50% of the worlds population is completely alien to you
People are alien to you because you sit in your room vegetating and lamenting >tfwnogf instead of consciously applying your time and energy towards a goal or a passion. You're an empty husk with nothing but your feels to haunt you. You get a gf by being present in the world. There is no great secret you're missing.
