Maybe you're the problem, not other people

>Maybe you're the problem, not other people.

Has that thought ever crossed your mind?

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>majority rules, collectivist groupthink
Sorry, I'm not a normalfag.

>hurr durr look guys i'm special

typical advice thread content directed at white incels

I usually assume there's something wrong with me rather that there's something wrong with others.
Even if it's not a majority/minority case.

no, never. that would make me a normalfag. just like even thinking "maybe im not special?:(" means you're probably not

>hurr durr look guys i'm completely bland and undiscernable from the rest

I'm the kind of person who blames itself first before the others.
Not cause I care about the others but I know my flaws better.

I think so every day, even my own dad hates me, he even beat my leg and made me it difficult to walk.

Sigh, I envy people who aren't a problem and have everything go well for them.

It's others. I hate most people but because I put on a good show others don't hate me.

Why does being special matter?

I know i'm the problem, but I didn't want to be this way.

>Be me
>Find out normalfags hate me for things out of my control
>Hate normies back
>See op post
>Conclude that op is indeed homosexual

My type of person was meant to rule over man, not befriend it

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>All my interactions with people are shitty
>Guess it's just me
That's the definition of thinking you're special. Why would you assume that having lots of shitty interactions with people that you are the unique element in them? They're just all shitty people

maybe I am the problem. But the problem in my case is subtle. I am not in conflict with people. I am not in contact with people. I do not blame others for my failures. But I do not understand my failures. I fail before I even begin. I fail at beginning. And yet not always. And I cannot distinguish between the course of action that leads to success and failure. Maybe I fail and succeed at different categories of interaction. Whatever the case I permanently give up on whatever I fail at, even if I fail at beginning.

It does cross my mind.
It makes me want to kill myself.
Is it bully night or something?

It was other people, they made me the problem

If I was more well and stable, I would have been able to fit in, but fault lies with the people who treated me cruelly, too, for their own misunderstandings, without ever trying to empathize with me or consider what was going on in my head rather than viewing every situation one-dimensionally and rationalizing pretending I'm some selfish asshole because I was too stressed and depressed to calmly hang out with everyone and never having my own problems, to earn the right to be cared about more before being having problems and needing a friend. If I fix my stuff and won't fall back into a place where they'd misunderstand and mistreat me so badly, the facts remain, that they were wrong and cruel, and made my life much harder than it would have been without them.

To say people who can't play along with social games deserve to be abused and alienated and believed to be shitty people shows an ugly lack of empathy towards other people. Nobody's blameless, but the person frustrated and miserable, resentful of the past are not solely responsible for it all.

no. fuck, man. :(

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WOW NO IVE NEVER EVER THOUGHT THAT BEFORE.... GOSH user, ARE YOU SOME KIND OF GENIUS PHILOSOPHER OR SOMETHING????

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I know full well that I'm the problem.

Nah. I'd rather have them change.

Because you're the common denominator in all of them.

After receiving multiple confessions from other people, yes. It is verifiably their fault.

I an who I am man
Don't put a label on me


T. Cyborg making 175k a year with bonuses
Have no friends at all
Can't even fit in on Jow Forums
I have work in the morning BTW

>other people accelerate the decay of the social fabric with disgusting and perverse behaviors
>meanwhile user is alone while browsing the Brazilian mango picking forum again
How am I the problem?

Nope defiantly other people are the problem

I just want to be left alone to do my own things and interests the last thing i need is some feminazi telling me that 40k promotes sexism and animal abuse

Its just a table top game you bellends

sometimes, until i think about the kind of people that i hang around and realize they're mostly the same and that the same problems will happen, thank god i don't get attached

>feminazi
Did I just time travel back to 2015?

>Has that thought ever crossed your mind?
yes it has, I'm self aware unlike some of you fags here, which is why I'm working on it.
or at least that is what I tel myself to not sound like a pussy.

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Neither you nor the other people are the "problem". The feeling of social isolation and loneliness is not caused by either party directly but through their incompatibility. So in a way you could also say both parties are the problem but at the same time no one is actually responsible for it. Unfortunately one party suffers more than the other (here: you).

So while you ARE NOT the problem, you HAVE a problem. That's where you need to decide how and if you want to change things to make the problem disappear.
I want to make clear that it's irrational to view yourself negatively or think that one must (must as in moral duty) change. There is only person in control and that's you who can decide if they want to change the status quo or not.