If you had drunk sex with a girl and then she gets a committed boyfriend, do you feel that pride that you fucked that guys girlfriend?
Im trying to find the space in my soul for love but its hard. Virgins girls are too naive and stupid to date, but nonvirgin girls are you cucking yourself if you love them because you know theres some dude who feels good about himself because he took her and fucked her good and got her younger and now getting his seconds
no. you feel cucked because u probably liked her? if u didnt like her then u do the "oh good for her" mental nod.
You are not supposed to love women. They are inherently unlovable
no Im trying to get myself in the positions of the guys that inevitably fucked the girls i have liked and am going to like
some of them like me too but i literally have to avoid liking them back because it feels like im getting cucked. If I gave them any love I would feel disgusted at what theyve done
so this is hypothetical? psh what
The question is a hypothetical but I am very much in this situation
Theres a particular girl I really like that likes me but shes had casual sex a bunch of times
Who cares ? You still like them and they still like you.
i know this is a larp because youre trying to get in my head but all im getting is a huh? cus im not following.
anyway i already answered it first post
Im trying to get in the heads of the guys that fucked the girl I like
I wish it were that easy. Even if shes only fucked like 5 guys, I mean you could take out a Central African government with 5 well trained dudes, you could take osama out with that many dudes
And theyre all probably like wow that chick drank my cum I banged that guys girlfriend
That gets to me so I have to distance myself emotionally and not bother with women at all
There's some guy out there who thought he could use her and leave some other guy with the pieces.
Maybe I don't want to pick up the pieces.
Nut now shes drinking your cum and banging you , I mean do you not make friends because other people have been good friends before them?
Then you dont actually like them.
I know that feeling.
Women who have been with as bunch of guys make sex feel meaningless.
How can people treat each other like casual flings?
I don't know. I fucked a girl and halfway through she mentioned she had a bf and I just let it roll. She wanted to cuddle and hold my balls after and I just left. I also fucked my ex when she was then with another man. I guess I don't give a fuck.
How could I like them after that?
>you know theres some dude who feels good about himself because he took her and fucked her good and got her younger and now getting his seconds
I think you can manage this emotion into submission if you obey a few rules.
1. If she fucked these guys before she met you, tell yourself that if she had known you she would have fucked you instead. This is non-falsifiable. You have every reason in the world to believe this, and if you avoid engaging in deliberate self-pity you should be able to hold on to this thought.
2. Do not emotionally commit to any woman if you can't do #1 because she fucked the other guys AFTER she met you. If she did that, then it's actually kind of appropriate for those guys to be smug and dab on you.
3. #2 should never be broken, but if you do break that rule, make absolutely sure it's not with a girl who fucked a friend of yours when she knew you both. If you break THIS rule, you are a pathetic faggot who deserves eternal unhappiness and there's nothing I can do to help you.
That second guy was larping as me the op
And to answer that first question I dont really have any friends so Im not sure but I kind of get your point although I wouldnt feel possessive over my friends and the people that were good friends arent out there thinking haha i was good friends with him before he was
sorry I type like an autist but when I try to use apostrophes or quotes Jow Forums doesnt let me because its apparently ascii text and not allowed
>I mean do you not make friends because other people have been good friends before them?
the good old cheerios analogy
>who cares if those guys cumed on the cheerios, i get to eat them and they dont
>nice guy wins again
Op here I have too but didnt feel jealous or anything because I felt like the OTHER guy so i felt like that smug fucker
ye, right? fuck. But at the same time im probably just jaded because ive never had the chance for a true casual fling. Even the girl that had a bf I had to spend a month swooning
I know this is the best answer Im going to get. But just the fact that theyre going to be smug and dab on me even though they won by default is rough
Im not even insecure or worried she is going to get bored of me, its just imagining their 95 iq downie satisfied faces that gets to me
Op here I laughed so loud at that my flatmate told me to shut the fuck up
So history does repeat. I recently fell in love and it took half a year to fall out and boy did I hit the ground hard. Sometimes when these things take a hold of us, hook in heart, all we can do is hold on and pray. You'll be okay. Take care
final bump for last opinions
pic unrelated, a spiderbro I had to kill because he crawled on my bed
thanks man i mean it, im deciding whether or not to dodge that hook if i can help it
>Virgins girls are too naive and stupid to date
For you normalnigger.
ah hell one more for the road
When you have sex with a girl that has only fucked you, the sex is entirely centered around her. She contributes nothing. She has no experience with relationships so shes inherently naive and immature and has a lot of unresolved issues and doesnt know what she really wants
of course generalizations arent always perfect rules