>About ugly women in relationships A husband's marital satisfaction is a function of his wife's attractiveness. A wife's marital satisfaction is not related to her husband's attractiveness.
Men act better towards their partner if she's more attractive. Women, on the other hand, act better towards less attractive men (presumably because the men act better with more attractive women).
Ugly women don't get hired. Callbacks are 54% for attractive women, 47% for attractive men, 26% for ugly men and 7% for ugly women. The average was 32% for men and 28% for women. Being an ugly man is about as bad as being an average woman.
Ugly female students are given lower grades. (They found that attractive female students aren't given higher grades than what they should get, but that unattractive female students are given lower grades than what they should get.)
Men judged women with an attractive photo more positively, even if they were told that the photo wasn't really her. The same was not true for women judging men with attractive photos.
People love their partners by getting to know them and forming a deep attachment, infatuation is something you only want if you're a personality-disordered attention whore.
Jaxson Reyes
Relationships are driven by lust.
James Bell
I can see why you're alone now.
Jaxon Howard
>People love their partners by getting to know them and forming a deep attachment, infatuation is something you only want if you're a personality-disordered attention whore.
This actually isn't true.
This is something that the sort of personality type that becomes part of the therapeutic community wants to believe is true, so they assert it nakedly and without any real support. The therapeutic ideal in a relationship is an emotion-free pap made up of capitulation, boredom, laziness, and ennui. They hate what they call "infatuation" because it involves actual feeling.
Prior to the 20th century, the common definition of "love" would be what is now defined by the worms that make up our therapeutic community as "pathological obsession". What we now call love would previously have been identified as contempt.
Logan Sanchez
You are either deluded or dishonest. And there is no reason to be dishonest when you're anonymous. A relationship with deep attachment and platonic love with no lust is dead. You are the type to end up on r/deadbedrooms.
Leo Rivera
Keep up your BPD ways then, a string of failed relationships built on empty infatuation will surely make you happy
Then why do you care if your man only likes you for your hole?
Kevin Jenkins
Love and attachment is the base of a relationship, lust is what DRIVES it. Did you not read OPs posts? There is no point in entering a relationship when it's proven that low attractiveness will kill it over time, no matter what.
Carson Butler
The words of somebody who has given up without even trying. Don't blame anybody else when you end up alone.
Connor Moore
>Keep up your BPD ways then, a string of failed relationships built on empty infatuation will surely make you happy
I've been in a relationship where I was cast into an overwhelming obsession literally at first sight, and I've been in a years-long relationship based on getting to know someone over a long period.
The former relationship was so much greater in value, and in actual feeling, than the latter that they really shouldn't even be compared.
The smug pride some people take in the fact that their pallid, grey, unemotional, disposable relationships make them "healthy" is kind of demented.
Eli Adams
This is sad. I feel sorry for you.
Oliver Rodriguez
Would like to know if you're a coping female or a delusional male.
Kevin Wilson
Coping with what? I have a bf and we're very happy.
Christian Scott
>This is sad. I feel sorry for you.
Right, exactly. This is what I mean.
>Look at me, I always only have tepid emotions that I can control >My emotions are always socially valuable for me. And constructive! >Watch me be sensible! I'm over here forming connections based on, you know, passively occupying the same space for a very long time! Cause that's HEALTHY!
And then you have the fucking audacity to pretend that you occupy a superior position from which you can feel sorry for others. The sheer, unmitigated undeserved ego of that - the pride in mediocrity...it's hard to understand.
Jaxson Scott
How attractive are you both, and who is the most attractive?
John Cruz
>men are trash i'm in shock.
Adrian Miller
You don't know what love is, your brain is wired to reject it. I honestly just feel bad, I wouldn't wish BPD on my worst enemy.
Neither of us are that attractive.
Hunter Harris
Same desu Maybe there's some hypnosis online or something
William Watson
Are you a girl or a guy? I have trouble finding people with the same mindset.
Jason Stewart
Jesus, looks like andy samberg.
Ayden Rodriguez
op why should I care if I'll always be alone anyways.
Mason Garcia
>A husband's marital satisfaction is a function of his wife's attractiveness. maybe if you're a filthy normie, lel. you think all husbands' marital satisfaction goes to shit as soon as he turns 40?
Luis Jones
>I wouldn't wish BPD on my worst enemy.
This is a fairly predictable response from someone who has never experienced an emotion worth actually having.
>Formerly, all the WORLD had BPD!
Gabriel Lewis
>Are you a girl or a guy? I have trouble finding people with the same mindset.
Guy, sorry.
Asher Murphy
at this point i would be more than happy marrying/living with a girl for the rest of my life, even if i don't love them romantically. this is just a fantasy though
Henry Sullivan
this is the most based and redpilled post I have ever seen on r9k props to you OP
Juan Morgan
Absolutely correct, infatuation and love are more or less the same, or at least 9/10 times when someone accuses someone of being infatuated they're actually in love. I've experienced the kind of supposed non-infatuated love they preach, it's nothing but boring void filler.
Wyatt Rodriguez
Love how the white knight shut up after this was posted. Robots have low standards and still cannot get a woman to talk to them
Sebastian Cox
Yes, but men have a universal beauty ideal - a 6/10 for one guy is a 6/10 for any other guy, typically. Women have more varied taste, so a 9/10 for one woman can be a 2/10 for the other (I've personally had this exchange with a friend who thought my crush was hideous). Take Benedict Cumberbatch as an example, he's a lot of women's 10/10. So it's true that a woman is only attracted to 20% of men, but each woman's 20% is composed of different men. Some would include BC and many would exclude him.
Dominic Cox
>replies to this post thinking she's genuinely ugly i'd give up everything in my life to look like that
Benjamin Campbell
The wall is a meme. Jennifer Lopez is about 50 right now and only a blind person could call her unattractive.
Jacob Gray
That woman is still too attractive for most robots, though. If the sight of her doesn't make you throw up in your mouth a little, she's out of your league.
Oliver Ward
Lose weight. There is no such thing as an ugly skinny woman
Jaxson Reed
Are you the user that was in that one thread asking femanons what they think of men hating them? The one where it was mentioned that women never have sources or links to prove misogyny is real?
Either way, good on you OP
Easton Turner
Seems like roastie got toastie
Lucas Bell
nice job ignoring dozens of peer-reviewed studies in favor of ad hominem
Ian Foster
For incelbots, it's only REAL science if it eases their butthurt.
Elijah Hernandez
Why are there no female incels then?
Austin Gonzalez
There are. They're on tumblr and not here. You just don't hear about them because they don't sperg out and fucking kill people when they aren't getting laid.
Jack Rodriguez
yeah and she's a millionaire whose entire career and life is based on looking hot and fuckable, who definitely has an expensive personal trainer/dietician and many hours of free time to keep up her body (if she's not injected with silicon every week like clockwork)
Isaac Sanchez
So if I go on tumblr I'll meet a desperate lonely ugly woman that will date any man?
Ayden Roberts
>don't sperg out
Yeah they do and they are still getting laid, gross women get laid, you have to be fucking deformed as a woman to not get laid.
Dylan Sanders
is clearly not even close to fat and all the males replying to it are horrified
she's also 5/10 at worst and probably looks better in person
Caleb Cooper
I'm not deformed and I'm a 20yo virgin
Jeremiah Wright
Cue 40 people asking for your information and getting ready to fuck you.
Landon Martinez
You say all males, but clearly an user posted that as an example of an ugly women he'd ~love~ He even wrote that he thinks he's not good enough for her in this thread. Many many men would love to be with a woman that looks like that.
Nathaniel Young
>5/10
Nigga, you are fucking retarded, that shit is 2-3 at best. "She" looks like a dude.
Nicholas Garcia
>Nigga, you are fucking retarded, that shit is 2-3 at best. "She" looks like a dude. If she's a 2 I'm a -4 God damn you trash men
Nathaniel Bell
Get less ugly? Not sure what the fuck to tell you, a 1 usually means you are fucking deformed, 2-3 is like you aren't deformed but you are very unattractive.
Owen Fisher
Gotta agree with this user. I'm mediocre on a good day and I would not touch that woman unless she paid me.
Samuel Kelly
Are you fat? It feels impossible to lose weight doesn't it? I know it does. You just want her to be ugly and unwanted because then it means that you don't have to try to lose weight. You can say "Even if I was skinny no man would want me cause I'm too ugly, look how they mock this woman who I imagine looks better than skinny me!" You don't want to have to give up all the food you love and change your habits for no guaranteed reward. You're scared it'll just make you more miserable. But trust us, men will love any skinny woman. And you can get that love too.
Jeremiah Jones
Jow Forums is only making my bdd worse but i can't leave
Never bring up your IQ with men, ever. No one gives a flying fuck, in fact it is fucking annoying to even hear. Be feminine, do chick things.
Zachary Harris
>tfw 4
Most robots when confronted with this won't go below 6. Going to get surgery and eventually I'll probably get to at least 5.5. Its going to take years to save up though
Jayden Bell
>it is fucking annoying to even hear Why do men always bring it up then? I have an actual tested IQ of 141, do I have to pretend like that doesn't exist if someone asks?
Henry Lee
>middle school nickname resurfaces yeah i'd say that's about right. the boy i liked had to move away after there were rumors that i liked him and he started getting bullied for it.
Shut the fuck up, you aren't a man, this is how it is. No one ever brings this up you fucking autist, just shut the fuck up about that shit and be a god damn woman. Feminine activities are attractive to men.
Liam Adams
>Ugly women don't get hired. Callbacks are 54% for attractive women, 47% for attractive men, 26% for ugly men and 7% for ugly women. The average was 32% for men and 28% for women. Being an ugly man is about as bad as being an average woman. Really hitting me in the wagie feels.
Luis Kelly
They're interested in you, you just ignore them
Ethan Hernandez
>Feminine activities are attractive to men. I take it I should drop out of my math major and switch to English, then. You seem like a very angry person.
Blake King
all this betabux sourcing and shit when you could be out there doing random shit and getting laid like ron jeremys dick on a carpet of ice after a long fuck session. or you can stay on here, dont hurt my game none.
