25+ anons, why haven't you created a family yet? Or why aren't you in the process of creating one?
25+ anons, why haven't you created a family yet? Or why aren't you in the process of creating one?
Maybe if I had a demon fox inside me and we lived in a period of Japan where there were daimyos and kages then I could live in a village where there are only a few choices in partners therefore making it easy to find a wife and there would be no Chads or Stacys. So get that pic out of here.
They cost too much money to raise and would make my life more of a struggle than it already is. To put it simply, having kids isn't feasible in this day and age unless you're inherently well off.
>live in mom apartment
>no car
>no college degree
>been out of work for 6 months, savings running out
>short
>hairline receding
>no skills or talents
Even though I'm useless, I never had intentions of starting a family.
Because I didn't learn how the world worked until it was too late.
Now as a 28 year old virgin my only option is a single mother and not even an attractive one.
I have no money, or real long term goals. I have lost all passion in my life and anything I've pursued since leaving school at 18 until now has failed. Everything I do fails. Nothing works out for me. Something always goes wrong. I am a dull, uninteresting person. I don't have much charisma. I have niche hobbies that bore most people. I hate alcohol, drugs and parties. I am completely undeserving of love and affection and would not want to create a child because I'm already a genetic failure and the world is a terrible place.
gee i wonder why im alone
25, three kids and a family for it. Some of us get by.
I'm 25 and my new gf is 22. We live with our parents and sneak fuck every party we get. We make out every chance we get since we're usually surrounded by people. It's like I'm getting the teenage relationship I never had. She's getting on the pill and we're going to fuck like rabbits, no babies in sight though.
just gotta make it to the end
Way to misinterpret the purpose of the thread idiot
That would require a girl giving me a chance.
I really hope the end is coming soon man
i cant take much more of this
Because le "family equals happiness" meme.
>nut in a girl that you think loves you
>she finds Chad and runs away
>give her you hard earned shekels for 18 years while she lives happily with a man that is superior to you while you jack off to your cuck fantasies
lmao, It's 2018 user, look at the fucking divorce rates
I'm twenty one, but my biological clock is ticking
Mine is that I'm a genuine outcast, I start fights with my own friends without realizing since I have no fliter.
The issue is I genuinely feel like I would unconditionally love my kids, so that's why I feel like I need to, compared to people who have them but were neutral about them.
Another issue is that I'm subhuman, all my exes confessed to thinking of me as subhuman, which obviously means that I'm the problem, and all of them were actively social people too and enjoy people, except for one...? So that's how I know it's me in particular whos the issue it's only me they deeply hate
And I have trauma that's not relatable, too,
Because family is a stupid idea
They did end up producing incels like you and me afterall
- Not behaviorally attractive.
- Can't afford it.
Own up to your failings.
>suffered and went without all my life
>finally starting to have money and be able to give myself everything I could never have before
>OP wants me to immediately go shit out 3 kids, suffer childbirth, enslave myself to wiping up their shit and puke, and become poorfag again
Yeah nah, my stock account and I are better off without that noise.
Who said I didn't?
>muh just world fallacy
kek
Oh God thus is Long and sounds obnoxious
>have exes that think of me as subhuman
>they're actively social and enjoy people, obviously I'm tne problem, they're targeting me in particular
Alright that makes sense...? Also I don't like the negative tension I have with them, :/ oh well, there's nothing that can be done.
My only good trait is hating raw anger and not enjoying The fact that people dislike me...? Because we're suppose to care about people as a whole, or at the very least be "adult" about it and ignore it completely
but I'm still unstable and cause dumb fights, it's too complicated
I feel like. I sound like a nice guy and a hypocrit though, since I annoy myself and I obviously can't get along with everyone,
You did when you blamed your family for being a failure.
>You did when you blamed your family for being a failure.
Not so
I said family produce incels like you and me
I didn't say the are the reason you and me are incels
heh brainlets
Because when you hit your all time low at 28, the world crashing down around you, you become unable to work due to crippling depression and anxiety and have literally zero friends.
It's a long fucking way to go to piece together your life before finding a wife, a house and have children.
As much as I want to I'm realistic and with the deadline of 30 (my I don't care anymore, an hero time) approaching rapidly. I have about a year and a half to turn everything around and climb to that goal. It's not gonna happen so just waiting out my time at this point, least my last year here I spend isolated and away from work and other worries.
I dream of it while others live it, such is life.
You said family is a stupid idea because you produced you. You can't be honest or take responsibility, it's no wonder you're an incel.
Wrong
I said a truism
You're the one who read something into my vague statement
No wonder you're an incel
*it produced
I got what you meant user
It's not a truism, it's just disguised whining. Now you're doing the "you just don't get it" routine. Immature incel.
It is a truism
Because where else would incels (and all people really) come from if not families?
I can't believe you were this easily fooled.
fucking retarded incel
Incels are the exception, not the rule.
>i trool u
user, you're not even fooling yourself. Get your shit together.
Adding on to this:
A bad environment for me, my dad held me down and beat my leg, my leg is now deformed,
I do know someone who has damage like I do, and they're loved unconditionally by their partner.
but it's a impossible dream for me,
(the couple I mean, one of them can't work and has trauma, their bf still loves them, and told them they would fix them, they're still together and long term)
I would never pass on my ugly and mental illness genes.
Also I'd never earn enough to support a family and not struggle. My dreams of a nice husband and a house in the country are pretty futile as they can do better
>Incels are the exception, not the rule.
So observant
>not wanting even the remotest possibility of having an incel
>therefore fuck family
It baffles me this needed to be spelled out for ya, mr has-his-shit-together LOL
Shitty excuse. You have the power to not be an incel anymore. But of course you''d rather take your feeble anger and disappointment out on the internet. It's so you wew
you lie.
you just need two paychecks to raise two kids thats all.