I am 21 and live in Canada. I've been lifting for 2 and a half years now, and I feel like I am in good shape/attractive enough to get a girlfriend. BUT.. I work in a trade and don't meet women at work, I don't go out to bars very often and I dont want to use online dating. Where can I meet women, or what can I do to create a social life, basically from scratch at my age.. and I am still a virgin if relevant.
Any help appreciated bros
Tinder. Only go to bars or clubs if you want to pick up trash. Also volunteer or something you faggot. Participate in your community or even get some small-time min wage job if you wanna meet chicks.
I wouldn't use tinder. As I was buying groceries awhile back I asked the chink checkout girl out, saw a girl running goofily so I made fun of her and she followed me around and last thottie l just asked for directions while I was on holiday. She gave me her number after 5mins of chit chat.
Just go out in public more often. Festivals, markets, parks, basketball courts.
bump
Is it weird to go to bars and shit alone?
what the fuck are you trying to say dickhead
I think hes trying to say that you should go outside and talk to female humans
I know, what a silly idea. Imagine actually talking to girls to get girls haha
Open yourself to glories of 2D women.
Tinder is good for getting herpes, not a girlfriend.
i literally wake up go to work go to gym go home, how do i go out in the world lol what do i do? i know im kinda autistic but srs.
get a hobby besides lifting
I'm not saying lifting isn't a good way to spend your time but it's all things considered a very anti-social one
This, outside the odd community gyms people rarely chat.
If you're autismo join a running club or a hiking club, even my autismo (proper autismo) surgeon cousin managed to get himself a qt3.14 by joining a running club. Obviously don't be too pushy and ruin the other activity as well.
what are some hobbies i can do, how do i find them and meet up with people to do them?
Rock climbing meet ups is hella easy to meet up with thotties.
Surely user doesn't work Saturdays and sundays?
Through friends of friends, clubs and parties. Duh
Not even once
i dont have many friends. only like 1 that i see maybe once every 3 weeks
I met my wife on IRC.
It's not a good advice, I know, but it's all I can give.
Try Okcupid.
It's not a meat store, it's more curated on interests.
I use it when I move countries (I do it a lot) just to find interesting people.
Just try.
You've already been given 3 hobbies (rock climbing, running, hiking), go online and find them, I can find all 3 within 1 hr distance max and I live in buttfuck country side of scotland.
Is there anything you always wanted to try?
Just google where it's happening and go.
Bouldering is great for fit people.
>fun, challenging way to use your body
>lots of laid back people there
>easy to strike up conversations about climbing problems
>everyone wears yogapants
Sometimes I think about ditching lifting and going bouldering 3x week but the gym is right next to my place of work so lifting is more efficient.