Fembots, how do you feel about men crying...

He's done something really wrong and he's spilling his heart out to you and tells you everything about how he feels.Is that acceptable or instant redflag?

I cry in front of my gf and she's happy about it because her last bf was unable to show any emotion. i have never even thought about it until i saw the post, but i don't really give a fuck about my masculinity and that seems to work for me.

What did he do though? Trying to get hypothetical answers with a more vague hypothetical situation gets us nowhere.

Don't
>tfw no crybaby bf

He did something wrong to you,and he's really sorry and he starts crying while explaining.

If your bf has self-esteem issues and a few months into the relationship he tells you about it and crys while he does you would dump him right fembots?

id love him even more desu, its when he needs me the most.

LARPer don't get losers hopes up please

The most NPC opinion is "men don't allow to cry".

reeeee im not larping
i have a feminine crybaby bf and hes the love of my life, exactly my type but i know most other girls are massively turned off by this
anyone who gets their hopes up over this is an idiot desu

Or just extremely desperate and ready to believe anything for a little bit of hope. Know your audience mean roastie.

Just look for girls with a saviour complex. They love guys with crippling mental health issues

t. fembot with saviour complex

youre right, im sorry, i just wanted to share my opinion but its kind of pointless when (lets be realistic, no offense, all that) pretty much everyone here isnt going to find someone to accept them for who they are
but i still believe that most people deserve love, especially cute lil fem boys

You're gonna be so mad when she cheats on you with someone who isn't a pussy

I'm at a sweet spot where my issues are enough to make my life hell, but not enough to gain sympathy. I think it a spot a lot of the anons here are at.

It is just a major turn off. I had to leave my bf because he cried in front of me. It was a fucking pathetic reason in fairness. He started crying because of the genocide in Myanmar. Like who the fuck even cares? so some brown people on the other side of the world died, fuck. In the end I was so mad about it that I insisted he had cheated on me with a Rohingya woman and that is why he was so sad. he denied it but I left him anyway and told his friends this.

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hey fuck off shit tier bait

Is this bait? Are you actually this mean? It scares me that people are actually this mean

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this thread triggered me because my gf has said several times that she really likes it when guys cry and it pisses me the fuck off

One time my dad cried in front of me. I didn't lose respect for him, but it scared me. I never saw my dad cry before, so if something made him cry, it must be really bad.

I cry so easily, I am pretty pathetic.

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yeah, nothing personal but if I ever saw my man's eyes watering even a little bit I'd hop on the closest Chad's dick (bigger than yours) right away. sorry not sorry UwU REAL MEN don't cry PERIOD

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If it's enough to make you cry, it's enough for you to deserve being comforted
Don't underestimate your own problems. Small or not, everyone wants someone there for them. There's nothing that makes me feel better than not only having someone comfortable enough to express emotions like that in front of me, but also trusting me enough to help them.

Women are that mean user. Beware

Why do I let clear ironic bait hurt my feelings?

Is this an acceptable reason to cry?

Okay you one in a billion unicorn. People in your life are very lucky most people do not believe what you wrote. My own mom just gets annoyed at me if I talk about my problems.

Because deep down you know it's true.

It's an over exaggeration of an insidious truth that is always in the back of everyone's minds being ignored

Aha, the only person to appreciate it is my mum and I find her comforting me more than the other way round. I have faith that I'll have friends and maybe even a partner to appreciate me in the future though!

Yeah she's lying to you, my ex gave me the same bullshit of "It shows you really care".

I used to cry when she tried to break up with me, bipolar shit, was genuinely suicidal at the prospect of her leaving me. Believe me as soon as it runs its course for her, she'll go around telling people you cried all the time and she needs a real man etc. etc.

If you're lucky you won't hear about it.

Called that bitch out, nice one.

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UwU... so close but so far. Only faggots in denial who like traps post shit like that. Women are above you on he worthiness scale.

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If you're a woman I'm sure you will. Don't worry

Not a fembot but I cried in front of my gf when my brother committed suicide and it honestly made us closer than ever. Being vulnerable and showing that side of you to the person who loves you can increase feelings of trust and comfort. I still remember the way she held me when I was a nervous fucking wreck. We did break up a few years later but I don't think the two were related we just had mutually different interests.

you know real, sane, grown up women are empathic and supportive with their men and aren't afraid to see them showing their feelings, right?
no, you don't know, obvious bait

>have a ton of mental health issues
>HATE people with the saviour complex
I't makes me so pissed off. I'm not your fucking project.

>says the phoneposter
ahahahahahhahahahaahahahahahahahahaha

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Crying is a natural human response to stress, sadness, shock, fear... Man's and woman's cry and it's normal but somehow we all think that men can't have feelings wich is so fucking stupid. In literature from the past it's normal for men to cry and just show that they are sensitive. I think it just depends on the situation. If a women cries because his dad have just died it's normal so is it if a men does the same. If you cry because you get impress by a very good story or any form of art (specially this) or by a good new I think it's totally acceptable and I will maybe even think better of you because that will mean you are able to show interest and are pasionate in superior things, I don't care if a men or a women cry for that. But if you cry because you see a shitty hollywood movie wich makes no sense and it's just a bunch of burned topics I will lose all respect to you; doesn't matter wich gender you are. The same goes about people who can never control their feelings and get emotional from everything. My father is a very clever and respected phsicologist so he knows a lot about expresing feelings, I have seen him crying and that didn't makes him less of a man in my eyes. Same goes for any man I know so don't belive in stupid masculinity roles from twenty-one century. Roman and greek heroes cry, knights and chavaliers cries all the time about their lovers, romantic heroes cries, kings cry, just phsicothic hollywood killers don't cry.

I'm a guy and I cry probably a bit too much for a guy but I don't give a fuck either. If I am with a girl and I want to break down and just rant about my fucking life then she better listen and be there for me or else I am just going to stop talking to her and find another one

God I wish someone would make me their project. Why do you hate it? It means they care a lot.

It means the exact opposite user.

No it doesn't. Being ignored to wallow in your own misery is the opposite.

>Do you instantly lose any respect you ever had for them or think less of them the second you see tears in a man's eyes?
Uh, no. I assume he's going through some hard shit.
Only other men would look down on you for it; women don't care at all.

It's usually a pretty selfish thing, it means they're doing it more so to make themselves feel good than because of them caring about the person. At the end of it, their intentions might be in the wrong place but they're still helping someone.

Yes it does, think about it logically for a second. If a woman wants to make you her project, to "fix you" what does that mean? Why would she want to do it first of all? Certainly not out of feelings of affection because of the mere definition of a project. It means that you're a challenge for her. She sees you as a completely pathetic loser and wants to gain social brownie points and challenge herself by taking the piece of hot garbage that is your existence now and mold it, like clay, into something a bit more decent and approachable. Not only this, but she wants to take credit for it as well. For you to know that you would be nothing without her, for her to own you. Now what happens with the finished project? Well, the only logical thing that can happen. She moves on to the next one, abandons you after molding your entire being around her, building you up just to smash you down again far further than you were before. Simply to go find another broken man to fix. She doesn't give a flying fuck about you, she doesn't love you. She merely puts on the facade of love and care to perpetuate the challenge.

The mere fact that you're a "project" to her dehumanizes you. Do you really not understand this? Are you interests so shallow that you would allow yourself to be abused in this way?

Quite the opposite to be honest.
Triggers my motherly side, I feel like taking care of them.
I don't like men who cry and whine all the time, but then I don't like women who do that either.

The moment I decided I was going to do anything to be with my boyfriend long term was the first time I saw him cry. A man who can show his vulnerabilities to me is extra hot.

this. period.

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>showing weakness to a woman
best way to out yourself as a worthless beta lmao

>sane, grown up women are empathic and supportive
yeah, and they won't deal with crybabies while Chad is around the corner fighting stoically with everything life throws at him.

Now, to counter this with the more reasonable approach. In case you still don't quite understand. This isn't to say that empathy from a woman is always inherently selfish. It's only selfish if it comes from the intention of treating you like a project. Love is truly meant to be a mutual affair, and someone who truly loves you will want to nurture you not to just make you a better person for their own benefit; but to strengthen your bond allowing you to deal with the stresses of everyday life together. Actual love and empathy from someone you really care for is probably one of the most beautiful things a person can experience, in my humble opinion.

>It means they care a lot
no, it means that they need someone beneath them to make them feel better about themselves and give their life purpose, but as soon as you start to "get better" they'll drop you because you're not interesting anymore. Not to mention, when you're angry and upset, the last thing you want is someone who is overly positive around you.

> real, grown up women choose to be in a relationship with a crybaby
that's where you are wrong.

> but my bf is a crybaby
think about it, child.

Yes I don't know about you user, but I am a Nothing person. I have no interests or any reason to live at this point I don't even enjoy distractions anymore. I just want someone to care I don't mind if it's for the wrong reasons anymore.

>It means they care a lot.
In a way that you can mistake as being for you. For a short time.

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You're missing the point, you want someone to care but someone who only cares for selfish reasons doesn't actually care. If anything at the end of it all you'll end up feeling worse and far more lonely than before. Trust me you don't want to be some fucking deranged cunt's project. Find someone who actually loves you if possible, however the mere fact that you're here at all means it's highly unlikely.

As someone who had a major saviour complex, we don't.
We are mostly trying to find someone to waste our efforts on to not focus on our own problems. It's not about you, it's about us.
If it wasn't you, it could be literally anyone else. You're not special.

I'd be mostly ok with it, if he made *me* comfort *him* and apologize to him, that would be unhealthy

Definitely not, it would make me want to be with him more

Where are you from femanon? Willing to date a guy from here?

Do you seriously want to be completely dependent on somebody who only keeps you around because it makes them feel superior? like a fucking pet?

God here we go, these threads always dissolve into thirsty betas missing the point of the fucking thread.

lmao
hope is the last to die

Yeah I would be someone's dog. I probably would have said no a few years ago, but I obviously can't handle being alive and I feel no desire to do anything anymore so why not let someone else take the steering wheel?

Isnt everyone here gfless? You realize Ops craft these threads just to get fembots to respond and either contact them or watch anons here get pissed. If you dont realize that my now and think these threads are sincere you're retarded

They always find a way.

Op here,not everyone around here is a twisted fuck.Since this board is full of femanons thought I would actually ask them a relevant question.

I'm well aware that while many of you faggots claim to be sincere, it's all hidden by the facade of your sexual inadequacies, but it doesn't mean we should all give up on genuine conversation.

That they do.

I guess I am. I'm reading everyone's responses and it does seem clear that I don't really get the point. I think I do, but I don't. It's safe to say I won't ever end up someone's project or someones love though so it's all hypothetical.

I wish that wasn't true, I'd like to be able to have more open discussions with both men and women about relationships and stuff like this. I'm really enjoying this thread so far, but yeah it won't last.

Everything's only hypothetical until it happens.

Some things however will always remain hypothetical

>but yeah it won't last
It's done pretty well so far,have faith user.

Even if this thread does well though it'll just 404 and things will go back to how they always are. We will probably never have another thread with these same anons ever again.

It would make you want Chad more because it will give you an edge over him to keep him easier. A flawed male would be thrown out faster than yesterday's garbage

Isn't that the point of an anonymous site? You'll never know if you're speaking to the same person, and they'll never know if they're speaking to you.

Yeah it is. I wouldn't really want it any other way in the end.

My little experience with (avoided)
> be me
> at uni, about 25, kissless virgin, never had a gf, never asked a girl out
> meet this hot cute redhead irl, some years older (perhaps 3 or 4)
> start talking for other reasons, we have to arrange some events with other people
> keep talking... unbelievable, she seems to show some interest
> wtf
> event managing ends, but I've got her email for the same reason
> we write each other for about 2 weeks, she always answers to me with long emails
> I'm absolutely astounded and I like this exchange so I keep up writing
> I write to her about my interests, my life, what I like or not, etc
> she shares less about herself and rather she starts to tell me to change something in my life
> 'you do this user, no I don't like this, you should do that'
> 'this interest of yours sounds boring user, I wouldn't do it, why don't you do that instead? do that'
> she begins to do the same about my personality that I keep describing to her
> 'you say you are so, user, no no you should be like that, hear me'
> 'you are like this user, but this has to change'
In the end, at one last email of hers I couldn't stand it anymore and I told her to fuck off, and blocked her account.
But if it had happened some years later, I think in the end I'd have tried the same, bc I got more desperate.

Don't listen to the other anons, it's not always like that. I'd want to have a "project" and I'd love him because he would give my life meaning.

Why don't you have a project to work on then?

You're only proving how fucking selfish you are. Relationships aren't supposed to be based on giving yourself meaning you terrible fucking person.

Sex is proven to give your life more meaning though it's part of being in a relationship

I go into mama bear mode and I want to protect him. I feel bad when I see men crying and wish I could hold them and give kind words.
I wouldn't lose respect for a man crying at all. I dislike how men were told to hide their feelings when everyone has them.

If she gets meaning out of working on someone and the guy gets meaning out of being given direction and they both are happy with that, what's the problem?

> project basically complete
> no more tasks to accomplish
> loosing life meaning
> relationship fades away
> dumps him
> search for a new project

Now how do you really feel?

Oh, yes. They should be based on fluid exchange and fleeting feefees amirite? There is nothing wrong with being selfish if both people will benefit anyway.

Difficult to find someone comfortable with that level of intimacy.

There's only one 'o' in lose.

Why don't you tell me how you feel?

Its okay for a man to cry in front of a woman when

>Family member or close friend dies
>dog dies

Thats it

Please, enlighten me as to my true nature, O wise robot

>Fleeting feefees
Nice job once again demonstrating that you are selfish and don't comprehend what a healthy relationship is. You may as well not even call it a relationship if it's just two people selfishly taking what they can from the other person for their own benefit, it will never last. Feelings are only fleeting if they're purely based on the physical, which is why it's important to be able to connect to your partner on an emotional level as well, which is the point of this entire thread.

>enlighten me as to my true nature
Your a cunt