Hey you! Maybe it seems like life seems hopeless right now, but it isn't. You're probably smarter than you think...

They're bitter and want to take their anger out on other people. Probably projecting their feelings onto other people. Or. they're just an asshole who isn't worth caring about

stop saying meaningless bullshit already. your normie platitudes are embarassing and useless, you aren't helping anyone, you just post to make yourself feel like a good person without doing anything real. the laziest way to pat yourself on the back.

> If you can't love yourself, you won't believe others are capable of loving you
Yes, OP this is something I'm realizing just now. And I'm far older than the vast majority, here.
OP isn't saying that all people will show love and acceptance to you. He's saying that you have to love and accept yourself. You can't rely on the approval of others to have a justification to live. It's an hard lesson, but when you understand it, then probably your robot status will instantly cease.
Send me fuck off, I don't care.

>New girl started a week ago
>We're all chatting she's just trying to get to know everyone, asking them about bfs/gfs
>She asks the guy next to me, then when he tells her briefly about his gf she just says "I won't bother asking you user you're unfuckable"

Btw I'm 6'0 skinny ugly not obese or deformed just a 3/10 incel

I don't make posts to make myself feel good, but of course, I can't change your opinion. Seems like you're afraid to allow happiness into your life, my guy. Maybe I'm normie now, or at least, more normie than I was, but I used to be just like you, dude.

greentext that shit fagg

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>. You're probably smarter than you think, better looking than you think, kinder than you think, funnier than you think and so on.
all false

thank you user but none of this makes me feel better about being a friendless loser

How do you know it's false? Is it shit you say to yourself? What proof do you have that it's not true? One person's opinion, or even more, isn't worth as much as your opinion of yourself.

No :^ )
Stop saying cruel stuff like that about yourself. The first step is to stop saying shit like that.

but i thought shes smoking hot. didnt give two fucks about her personality or if she loves me. just straight up banging her for her looks and she found out i was cheating on her when shes pregnant or some shit. bitches be crazy you feel me

A person who judges based on looks is not worth your time. Yeah, we all judge a little, but if someone straight out says that to you, you shouldn't take what they say to heart because it shows they are aren't the type who you should hang around anyway

I keep hearing that women are supposed to be more empathetic while they can't even acknowledge robots as humans.
>trying to get to know everyone
>asking about their bfs/gfs
Fucking meatbag NPCs can't think of anything else but muh roast

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>my guy
>dude
>allow happiness into your life

fucking reddit all over the place.

>If you can't love yourself
>you won't believe others are capable of loving you

You're right.
IT'S OVER

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Start looking for another job and go to HR.

Ok, then she's probably not your oneitis. She's just someone you lust over, you can easily find someone else like that.

okay, it doesn't make me feel any better about having no friends and not doing as well as I would like in life. What now?

Nope I'm an ugly mean subhuman goblin. I just flipped someone off in public cause they almost hit me in the crosswalk when they made a right as I walked.

I don't use reddit. I'm just from California, it's how we talk.
It's not over. You can always find a way to love yourself. You've made it to today. Shows you're pretty strong, and can make it through tomorrow too.

Yeah, but you're not gonna feel any better by saying "hurr I'm a fucking loser", are you? Take baby steps. Even if it's just approaching someone online. You can't succeed if you don't have a couple failures.
Just like the other guy. Don't say that shit about yourself. It won't improve your life in any way. Also, they just sound like a shitty driver. That doesn't mean you're a goblin.

>I'm just from California, it's how we talk.
That isn't reassuring.

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Any women I could possibly end up with will just cheat with better men because she can, it's so easy for her why would any woman ever commit to me? Love is dead.

I have probably over a hundred failures, it hasn't helped me at all. There is something wrong with me and I won't be happy until I fix it

Not saying it won't improve my life either when it's true. And I shouldn't have lost my cool, it was a pathetic and funny display for those watching my ugly form being angry and showing emotion.

Thanks anime girl, but I've known myself for some time and I don't like what I see. I'm gonna run out of second chances eventually, and even merciful 2d spirits will stop believing in me, let alone anyone I share this world with

Why do you think she will cheat on you? If someone cheats on you, it means there is something wrong with the relationship and that it isn't healthy. You're capable of being loved. It's not always easy to find love, but it's there, and you are capable of finding it.
Ok, so you have a hundred failures. What if it takes another failure before you succeed? If you stop, you're stopping the chance that you will succeed. Also, try to find out what you think is wrong with you. If you can, fix it. If you can't, learn to accept it, or at the very least, learn to deal with the issue. Maybe someone will find whatever that thing is as endearing. Who knows?

It's not possible. Look at that other thread with the article about how monogamy is particularly difficult for women because it's so easy for them to find extremely attractive men to fuck whenever they want.

I'm from Cali, can confirm "dude" and "my guy" are commonly said by normies

You're probably not as ugly as you think you are. What about yourself do you find ugly? Also, well, it will make you feel better not saying it. It's not easy but it will.
What do you not like about yourself, man? You can never run out of chances if you don't stop trying. Your biggest cheerleader is yourself.

yeah but if shes ugly im just gonna look the other way. no way in hell you could love someone if shes below 3/10.

How do you just accept that you won't ever have friends and will remain socially isolated? I don't think I could ever be happy like this.

No, you're clearly not. No one here calls it "Cali" lol. If you are, it's NorCal or SoCal and you know it.
Then those specific women aren't worth your time. If someone truly likes you, then they won't have their eyes on other people.

I've been socially isolated... pretty much for the past couple years (Am still a NEET but trying to fix it). I'm OP btw. I've started to try to slowly branch out. It's difficult. But it's been worth it so far. My mental health has already gotten a shit ton better, and my opinion of myself has improved greatly. It's not impossible.
You're limiting your options then, aren't you? You say girls think those things about you, yet you're not willing to give that person the same chance.

>"I can do it so so can you!"
Fuck off with this survivorship bias reddit-tier bullshit, you platitude-spewing normalfag. Not everyone is created equal, if you were actually a robot you'd know for some people they can try as hard as they can and still get nothing to show for it. The whole "life is what you make it" meme is just a thing people tell themselves to make it feel like they have any semblance of control over their lives in a chaotic and uncaring universe.

It's all women user. No specific group of them. ALL

Once again, you're stopping yourself by saying that. If you can't let yourself think, "huh, maybe I can do it" then you are not allowing yourself the chance to. You're right, not everyone is created equally. Some people have to fight to get there, but they come out stronger and wiser than most people. You can think what you want, but if you got a problem with what I'm saying, maybe you should take some time to reflect on yourself and ask yourself why you feel the way you do.

I look like a deformed goblin, you ever see that video of the little person freaking out on the street throwing around his briefcase? That's pretty much me user.

Try from experience, not just from reading an article. Plenty of people have healthy, normal relationships with no cheating. It's not impossible.
I haven't, but, I doubt you're as bad as you think you are. I'd ask for a pic but I know you can't post them here. What in specific do you not like though? Your nose? Your ears? Your eyes? There is something on you that you can find to at least, sort of like. And take pride in that, even if it's just one thing.

Plenty of people are with lying women you mean.

Women aren't a hivemind, as much as Jow Forums would like to believe. Don't believe everything you see on this board lol

Thanks for confirming you didn't even read my post and that this is a bait thread. What about the people that actually do give it their everything and get no pay off and die accomplishing nothing they wanted to? The ones that kept telling themselves "I can do it" their entire lives but never actually did in the end. Work even harder than their hardest? Or do you think that just doesn't happen or is impossible? Either way, fuck off.

>neutral feeling towards yourself because otherwise you'd be absolutely disgusted

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It's not a bait thread, but you are baiting me and that's clear. You're right, some people don't succeed, but that doesn't mean you're going to be that person. I think you have some things internally to resolve because you aren't willing to hear outside advice or allowing yourself to get support

Surely I wouldn't be so alone if there was even a shred of something good or positive in me?

why would I if i can get better?

Have you ever considered the benefits of being alone? You can eat an entire cake and no one can stop you. Maybe people would be jealous of you for that. But, no, you do have good qualities. Maybe you aren't allowing yourself to share them because you're closing yourself off, because you're afraid of being hurt? That's what most people seem to do here, from what I've seen, and done myself. Have you ever tried to find things you like about yourself?

At least don't insult him so much user. I get you're angry, but he's taking time out of his day to at least listen and talk to us which many people would not do. I know I'm whiteknighting and I don't care.

My nose is crooked, my eyes are misaligned and one is lazy there really isn't anything user. I used to have clear skin and I could be proud of that, but now I'm getting acne around my nose at 23 and my nose itself looks like someone sprinkles pepper on it with blackheads.

OP here. I have a big nose, chink eyes (even though I'm white), fucked up teeth, and I've learned to find things to take pride in. Do you wash your face every morning/every night? Or try to take frequent showers? I'm also assuming you probably don't eat very healthy anymore either, which, yknow, can cause acne. You can always get the lazy eye fixed, and the crooked nose gives you a bit of personality, no?

He deserves it because he's being incredibly condescending. Talking down to us like we're children that need guidance. Like any other normalfag that tries to be "understanding" of robots.

>Have you ever tried to find things you like about yourself?
I have. It's not a hard task, there's not a lot to find.

I don't know. I kinda hate myself, a lot of the time. For being... this. For letting myself become like this. Maybe I don't deserve friends, or a gf. Maybe I'm just a narcissistic pos who deserves to be miserable.

I'm not being condescending, at least from my perspective. I can understand why you'd see it that way, though. It does come off a bit impersonal but I'm just trying to give support that I would've wanted when I was lonely and miserable

You do deserve friends, and a girlfriend. List one thing you like about yourself to me. Just one thing. It can be even as ridiculous as you like how your feet look. If you can find one thing, that's a start. You don't deserve to be miserable. Learning to love yourself is not easy, but it's not impossible. Treating yourself kindly is the first step.

maybe because you're acting like a child that needs guidance

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>Just one thing
I speak and write good English, considering this isn't my first language.
And even that just puts me on par with the rest of the internet.

>You don't deserve to be miserable
Thank you kind user. But it is really hard.

Hey, no, that's awesome. I wish I could speak a second language. You should take a lot of pride in that. That's not an easy task for some people. That shows you're pretty damn intelligent imo. It is hard not to be miserable, because in the worst way, we can find comfort in it, because it's what we know. But, if you can reach out, you can find comfort in a healthier way, and a happier way, that will improve your life for the better. Maybe it's writing, or painting, or carpentry or whatever the hell, you know?

Personality is nice way of saying ugly lol. I don't know user, I'm a selfish piece of shit. I think it's appropriate for me to let myself go and be alone. I appreciate the thread though.

Don't do that. You're not allowing yourself the potential and worth you have. You aren't ugly, I'm sure. And what makes you so selfish?

i dont want to live but im to afraid of the infinite void to take my own life. apathy and social anxiety have destroyed any chance at me having a good life.

That's called passive suicidal ideation. Also, no, it hasn't. You feel that way, but you can change it. Slowly try to move out of your social anxiety. Try to find things you enjoy. It can be hard to do that with depression. Have you tried medication or a therapist?

ive tried seeing a therapist. they just gave me the regular, "try finding more things that interest you" and "connect with people with similar interests." but i dont have any interests. nothing in life seems interesting anymore. its all just work and mashing a few keys to see something on a screen light up and feeling like ive accomplished something for 5 seconds. i cant afford medication and honestly i just think it would be better if i didnt have to go through this hell. i just dont want to die forever you know? i wish there was a back option i could take. just so i could play some games some more.

God I would give anything to just have a women to cuddle and kiss right now

Hm... it's true that you should try to reach out to find more interests, because it might help you, but I also understand the pain of not feeling any passion towards anything. Maybe you could write out your feelings. It might help you get to the bottom of why you feel the way you do. Of course, you may just have depression, and all. Maybe you could try to find healthy coping skills/mechanisms online, like mindfulness? Even if it helps a little, it's worth it, I think. The reason you don't want to die forever is because you know, in your heart, there is something that is a reason for you to live. You just gotta find it

It's hard being lonely and feeling unloved, isn't it? It's really difficult. As silly as it sounds, maybe you could get a stuffed animal. It might help relieve some of the pain of not being able to cuddle with something. I've heard humans need 4 to 8 hugs a day and in our culture, we're sort of... hesitant to give those. Feeling unwanted sucks, but you have to first allow yourself to love yourself.

Did you make the thread asking for robot advice or whatever yesterday?
I think your mission is pretty dumb if you're sincere, but it's sweet.

I didn't, I'm a different person, but I decided yesterday that I'm gonna make this thread every day. I know exactly (or well, maybe not exactly, everyone is different) how you all feel. And I care for all of you, even if there are people on here I disagree with. No one deserves to feel unloved.

digits
if you knew exactly how we all felt, you would know that your condescending bluepills are more likely to be met with more hostility than this thread has exhibited thus far
in any case, good feels are not likely to be the outcome
are you baiting, trying to atone for something?
for some people, represented heavily here, life is just a shit sandwich and there's no bread left for them
not really trying to attack you personally, though I realize I probably come off that way. don't quite see your angle and am skeptical about your predicted longevity
hope it works out in some manner, gl

That's a lot of hugs, I can't imagine someone hugging me without them trying to get away asap.

I was that person, so no, this isn't bait. Like I said to another guy, I'm trying to give the support I needed when I was in your position. Maybe it won't be forever, you're right, but if I can do it once, I'll be able to do it again. You got this too, give yourself some support, man.

A stuffed animal can't run from you, so you'll have no issue with that. I'm sure you're not as terrible as you think you are

loving yourself is pointless if life's shit
>oh you're a poor nobody who'll never amount to anything? love urself and b urself1!!
I'd rather off myself, thanks

It can make your life less shit. Why do you think your life is so shit?

Nah, I'm a lost cause.
>inb4 I'm not for reasons
It's hard to have the perspective to know where you're at in life, but it isn't all that hard to know when you've past the point of no return.
I'm about your age, I won't deny your message is more applicable to the base demographics on here; though, as I earlier said, you're likely to get a lukewarm reception, either way.
Why now? You must have had some proximate impetus for this project.You've said that you relate to the people here, but what was the recent event/thought/whatever that inspired the "project"? I get it if you don't want to infect your thread by blogposting about it.

Why do you think you're a lost cause? Also, I did it because I felt like it. Something in my heart told me it was the right thing to do, for a simplified explanation.

Thank you for the kind words, sweet anime girl. Hopefully things start looking up for all of us.

shut the fuck up whore I'll slit your throat and skullfuck the corpse then I'll shit down YOUR SPINE AND HANG YOUR LIFELESS BODY FROM A TREE BEFORE I RAPE AND KILL YOUR FAMILY HAHAHAHAHAHA WOULD YOU LIKE THAT YOU FUCKIN FAGGOT HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHQAHBUJEDBKRDBJKWEBGIOEBF

That's a bit mean, don't you think?

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You're probably a scrawny little guy. Well I have good news for you: women aren't actually attracted to good looking guys. Well, that's not entirely true, but what I mean is that women are attracted to power more than base looks. One form of power is physical strength, and it's easily visible to women through your muscle mass. All you need to do is start going to the gym. It's a lot of fun as well, I promise. Aside from that you could try improving your social standing or your wealth, but physical strength is the easiest.

Why off yourself. Honestly, it's fucking retarded. You have nothing to lose at that point. At that point you have the most liberty. I know it sounds retarded, but if given the choice would you rather die right now or just do something nobody else can because they're too afraid of leaving the comfort of their daily life? I know what I'd do, I'd pack my bags and fuck off into nature somewhere and just see how long I'll survive. I'd be dead otherwise anyway.

Thanks OP I really needed that. I left this place a while ago but I returned because I felt lonely. It was kind of disappointing to see how self centered and hate filled the people here are, it's good to know there's still people like you around.

because continuing to live a shit life, where every day you wake up is you slowly getting older, uglier, slower and nothing else changing is pretty pointless

You have the ability to change your life though. Maybe not age, but you can try to change your looks. You can try to become more intellectual, healthier, and so forth. Going places. All that sort of stuff. Experience life to the fullest

you die in the end anyways, so it's all pointless

You cant change your iq

This mentality is what is holding you back. If we all die, might as well do as you please and have fun while you're alive.

You can, actually. Plus, becoming more worldly and reading books and stuff is good for you anyway.

It's out of our control, so why worry about. You're going to die in the end anyway, so you have nothing to lose except a sad lonely ending at old age if you can accept death there's countless of opportunities for you.

found the edgy 15 yo with a joker pfp

sure, but you also just can't rot away and be left alone if you hate life
there is always some shit that needs doing