You see, user, the only reason you have problems socializing is because you don't try hard enough...

You see, user, the only reason you have problems socializing is because you don't try hard enough. You just need to actually make an effort and everything is solved. Just TRY. You're not really trying, it's all your fault.

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Trying too hard is a bad thing too that people hate others for.

>it doesn't matter that you were born deaf. if you just listen more intently, you'll be able to hear.

user you just need to take these pills they'll make you normal.

in reality
>boss is mentally ill
>friends are mentally ill
>family is mentally ill
>you and your psychiatrist are both mentally ill

>you see, user, the only reason you can't walk is because you don't try hard enough. You just need to actually make an effort to regrow your legs and everything is solved.

True. I tried ignoring my screaming anxiety and paranoid thoughts, and just sharing my feelings and getting close to people. As it turns out, unless you're genuinely calm and comfortable around people, it's not worth shit, and you're just going to make you miserable and the other people uncomfortable because you're not doing it exactly right.

> it's all your fault
this shouldn't ever be something that a therapist / friend / bf / gf / random.person.who.care would say to you.
this said, the spur to try is always the first one, but it simply doesn't work with many that have hard social issues.

>Try to kill myself
>Get sent to a psyche ward
>Get put on meds that kind of help a bit
>Released after 2 weeks and have to go to mandatory psychiatrist appointment to update scripts and make sure I don't kill myself again
>Psychiatrist asks why I tried to kill myself
>tell him because I have no friends, no gf, no family, no job, and severe anxiety that stops me from socializing or passing a job interview
>he tells me its all in my head
>says I'm purposely sabotaging myself and if i don't go out and make friends I will die alone
>refuses to write me a script because he says medication wont help me make friends, even though the medication was stopping me from having panic attacks

Therapy is a meme lads, don't ever try to get help, no one can or even wants to help you. All it did was put a permanent stain on my name and medical history that wont go away, and put me a few thousand dollars in debt.

See, I have tried multiple times. So many times - and each time I end up losing control and having a meltdown that ends up with me failing out of school, or losing the job, or whatever. I succeed for a while, but it never lasts long enough to actually snowball into anything real. This is a pattern of failure I can't escape and it prevents me from holding a job for long period of time. The amount of failures has contributed to me just feeling even more anxious than I ever have before because winning against my problem just doesn't seem viable, nor did it ever. My health is getting worse and when my parents die I'll probably lose all of my teeth and more.

Fuck you, other people don't even try and get results, I am not wasting my time on something like that just give me the pills to make normal

You just need to like, you know, like really REALLY try, dude, just try you know

>Be me
>Go to psychnigger
>"I can't sleep"
>Tells me some people are great with only 4 hours sleep a night. Ignores that I used to sleep 10 hours a night.
>Doesn't prescribe medication.
>Tells me to get gud.

>Also tells me weed is a "psychoactive substance" and I can not in any way convince her that it helps my depression and anxiety.

Absolute state of psychiatry in the UK.

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I smoke almost every day but it unironically sounds like weed is messing with your sleep cycle unless the problems started before you started weed.

yep all my problems started before weed. Use it to help sleep i.e. without I get 2-3 hours sleep or don't sleep at all. Expected to get a job and socialise.

>failed normie problems
trubots don't even want to socialize

That fucking sucks, I hope you find some relief for your sleep problems soon. Have you tried seeing a normal doctor instead of a shrink?

that would be fucking bliss desu. if i could stop this itch with the flick of a switch i'd happily do it.

I'm on an ssri at least. In UK the welfare gp just agrees with shrink. I'm on ssri though. Still feel like its what the OP is referring to though:

>Just walk on that broken leg and it will start to heal itself magically. You are not trying hard enough to try run a marathon on a broken leg.

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Honestly, that's the argument that got me on autismbux.
But they denied my application for over a year with all sorts of retarded excuses even though my psychologist supported me.
The laws straight up say that if a Doctor, Psychologist or a few other named professions agree you're disabled then you are.
The information package I got before my appeal had this stupid advice claiming "A letter from your psychologist saying you're disabled isn't enough, you need to be able to demonstrate how" COMPLETELY Ignoring that what I talk about with my doctor is CONFIDENTIAL and the law is written in a way that demonstrates that a letter is enough.
For that year I was super fucking anxious and everyone told me I needed a lawyer. I represented myself. The people that denied me didn't even show up. I just argued that essentially their reason for denying me was bullshit and I finally won. The only clause that they were denying me on was this vague thing that "A Director shall make the decision" (aka the corruption clause) but a SJW'ish seeming lady from the Social Benefits Tribunal overturned their decision and arguably saved my life. Today is my 30th birthday

this is what psychologists, or anyone for that matter, wont tell you

IQ matters

if you want friends, you need to hang out with people on your own level. A smart person won't enjoy the company of someone who's stupid as he will think the conversations too dumb. A dumb person will feel dumb if he talks to someone who's smarter, which is the reason this is so taboo to talk about in the first place.

Don't work hard to make friends, work smart. Get friends through your interests, and if you don't have any then get some you lazy fuck