Share the pain anons..
What did she say when she turned you down?
You re the ugliest man ive ever seen in my entire life. I wouldnt want to be seen with you much less date you. How dare someone who looks like you think someone like me would even speak to you.
BTFO lmfao rofl lol!!!!!
"ewww"
rejoining others stacys while laughing
"haha..oh you weren't joking?"
"no user."
"Just in case tou were wondering, you and I are never going to go anywhere..."
>asking a girl out ever
you made it farther than me at least
>Why are you still talking to me
Last thing I replied was "Bye"
>"no, not now; maybe 2 years after when we finish high school."
fuck her. she had a boyfriend all along but didn't tell me. maybe she wanted me to be her orbiter.
fuck i just realized i am kinda intelligent.
i realized she was trying to make me orbit 7 years ago when i was 15 when i didn't even know the word for it, and shut her out completely and told her i was pursuing another girl to make her jealous.
>implying I'd ever dare to ask a girl out
it's almost like I don't hate myself enough
fake
no girl would say that. you're just making other robots more afraid to ask women out
In another hentai universe, you're the ugly bastard who gets to fuck
Nothing, because I've never tried.
>you can no longer reply to this conversation
She told me she was taken but we could be friends and she gave me her number. Overall not a terrible experience.
They just ghost me
>"sorry user, but youre going to college so I don't want to start anything with you"
Good excuse I'll give her that, she knew how to let me down gently.
>maybe if i was more drunk
she already could barely walk
>I'd love to but I'm really busy at the moment. Let me get back to you :)
Never got back to me. Never brought up again when I saw her next. Has a boyfriend now (Looking back, I'm pretty sure she was with him when I asked, though I can't be sure)
She blocked me once I sent her a pic.
"I'd rather jump off a cliff... but thanks"
I'm killing as many as I can on the day war breaks loose. Don't care anymore.
I'd unironically prefer this than any softer rejection.
she never really turned me down, she just showed up the next day at a party with a new boyfriend that i had never heard of before
definitely. you know where you stand. there's no doubt whatsoever. with the softer rejections, there's still a question in your mind.
Doesn't make it any hurtful. I'm not so emasculated as accept being disrespected like that. It's wrong.
Plus you can write the harsher ones off as bitches and be glad that you're not dating them. The girls who reject me are considerate about it, I end up liking them more and I feel like a prick for even asking
>Really?
Then she walked off
Why the fuck do you ask out girls on the phone. That never goes well
>Can you just FUCK OFF????
Screamed at while walking her to the cinema. Wish I'd fucking hit her.
Because I've asked them out in person before and the look of sheer horror they give me, that explodes across their face and screams "oh fuck is he gonna ask me out, he's gonna ask me out isn't he, oh shit what doidowhatisaywhatdoidoishegonnacryshouldijustsayihaveaboyfriendohgodhe'sdoingitohgodohgod" makes me want to hurp myself from the highest of all buildings.
Asked to hold her hand on the metro
"Oh...I wanted to let you know...I actually have a boyfriend"
Then she hugged me and said we could stay friends
it was just a weird way to end 3 years
Same. At least you know why, and there's no question in your mind of what kind of chances you have. Plus, the quickest turn off for me would be finding that a broad isn't remotely interested in me.
>be me
>just started college
>dad told me to sit next to a pretty girl because they are just as nervous and don't know anyone
>walk in math class
>big titty thicc goddess
>targetacquired.jpg
>talk to her a little before class starts
>debating the whole time whether or not to ask her out
>chicken out and leave quickly
>talk myself up
>go back and find her
>heart pounding
>"hey want to hang out some time"
>"as friends sure, but anything more than that no sorry"
>oh okay
>get her number
>snapchat a few times
>the end
pic related she's the one in the white
>"Sorry. I am not looking for a relationship at the moment. We can still be friends though"
CRY WITH ME ROBOTS. CRY WITH ME
"Its literally impossible for me to see you as anything but a friend, like when I think *YOU* my mind just screams friend"
Nothing, she said nothing
"I'm sorry I cant be the person that you want me to be for you"
>No, sorry, I do not think I would be interested in that
The only time I ever got rejected by a girl. Feels just fine actually, glad she was direct about it.
>junior in college
>at gym
>getting a good pump on fly machine
>sexy in shape Spanish mami asks if she can work in with me
>ofcourse.jpg
>go up in weight to impress her
>we make eye contact a few times, she smiles
>finishes her sets and she leaves
>think to myself why didn't I ask her out
>find her in the gym
>"hey sorry but I'd be kicking myself in the head if I didn't ask, would you like to go out sometime?"
>she smiles
>getting hopes up
>"awe you're so sweet. I have a boyfriend though I'm sorry.
>leave gym in defeat
The fuck is that supposed to mean. What did u say to her
>she
More like they. Been a plenty.
>we're not compatible (most common)
>I just like him more than you (about some new guy she just met)
>I still love him (about ex)
>I'm not interested in long term relationship (until she met the guy she was interested in)
hey at least I got a pity hug from her
plus she never brings up her bf in our conversations
some part of me hopes she's still considering me and doesn't want to make it seem impossible between us, though that is quite a far fetch
Not that bad desu. Actually, what the hell are u doing on Jow Forums you normie piece os shit. GET OUT!!! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I got rejected though faggit.
A lot of my rejections are after the first date
>be me
>meet qt3.14 at some hipster event I was dragged to
>talk to her a little bit ask her if she wants to get drinks sometime
>she says yes
>fuckyeah.jpg
>went out to bar
>get drunk
>having a good time
>we leave
>we kiss and hold hands
>set second date
>next date we go to brunch
>awkward as fuck
>doesn't kiss me back
>texts me "sorry but I don't think we have a connection"
>week later I find her at my friends house
The worst is when the first date is actually pretty great but apparently later she just ghosts you
I havent initiated anything I could be rejected for after getting rejected 2 or 3 times when i was just a little kid (8-10yrs old). I asked a girl to meet up irl a two weeks ago though.
She agreed, said we should meet. Then next day she told me she's afraid we wouldn't enjoy it. I told her that's always a possibility while being confident that this isn't going anywhere from this point on.
Then two days later for some reason she asks how am I, I give her a generic response and ask back. Another day later she says we will meet up next week (this week). We started setting it up but during the conversation she left for a whole day again, only to continue it at something unrelated to the meeting.
So technically she agreed to and backed off from meeting two times. At this point I'm not even interested anymore. This is worse than if she rejected me straight up when I asked her.
I self sabotage. Plenty of girls show interest in me but I have crippling anxiety. So I'll get anxious and say some weird shit to them. And I'm attractive enough that at first they'll think the weird shit I'm saying is cute or funny. But then I keep getting weirder and they eventually realize "holy shit, you're fucking weird." And then I desperately try to salvage things. But it never works. I've had multiple girls threaten to kill me or have someone beat me up if I keep trying to talk to them.
Have also had several girls tell me they're not looking for a relationship right now and then a few weeks later they're in a relationship. But that seems to happen to everyone.
There was never any official rejection.
>start dating best friend at 14
>she gets into a really good uni, full ride, but it's far away
>don't wanna hold her back so she goes but swears we'll stay together even if it has to be long-distance (this was about ten years ago)
>she's online less and less over time
>just assume it's because of the work
>spend time together on her breaks from school
>Christmas break in her second year she comes back with a new boyfriend
>never even thought to tell me we were done
I still think about her a lot.
happens to me all the time
>be me
>college senior
>trying to find my car
>cute latina chick asks if she can have my parking spot
>tell her I forgot where I parked
>she says she will help me find it
>get in her car
>smalltalk.jpg
>asks my plans for next year
>tell her applied to harvard for grad program
>she sees dollar signs
>find my car
>say thanks
>she asks for MY number
>give it to her
week or so later
>she's been texting me on and off
>we go on date
>it's awkward
>tells me she has final in the morning
>I get drunk
>she doesn't
>take her home and her friend is waiting outside
>ostensibly so I don't try to kiss her
>text her a few days later and ask how her final went
>no response
I'm pathetic robots
Am I a sociopath or anything for thinking I'd beat someone for that?
I think that's the normal response. My response was to just sit at home alone and drink.