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hey, I just want some advice shitty or good
>be me
>girlfriend breaks up with me about 2 years ago
> found a new one soon after but keep in contact with old gf
> new gf is fine with it
> love my new gf
>old gf is freinds with new gf
> somtimes i still have feelings for the old one but i'm sure i'm just confusing lust for loe
> Am I wrong for feeling this way?
also feels thread
vent if you need

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Theres a bunch of fucking stinkbugs in my area right now and I fucking hate them they fly around and smell bad and always hang on my screen door fuck stinkbugs

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stinkbugs suck man, i'm so sorry. anyway, a couple nights ago I woke up with ahuge cramp in my right calf and its been super tight ever since. feels bad

Nigga when you break up with a girl your supposed to cut all contact off. Otherwise your going to go through what your going through

Either decide decide to dump your new gf and work on feelings for your old one, or cut contact with your old gf and focus all your love on your new one. I suggest you do the second.

Dont chase two rabbits or you'll end up losing them both.

Redpilled
I know, but i am in it what should i do now

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thank you user

I think I have literal OCD because my mind keeps automatically thinking about creepy and weird shit in the past to screw with me. It's not even logical because it's things that either have been completely forgotten by others or what I did a very long time ago. Makes me feel embarrassed with myself so I'm constantly uncomfortable.

Obsessive thoughts really fucking blow, trust me.

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ever think about getting checked?

>> somtimes i still have feelings for the old one but i'm sure i'm just confusing lust for loe
> Am I wrong for feeling this way?

It's normal to have "feelings" of all kinds. After all, you have all sorts of uh, impressions towards everyone you know. Some you like more than others. You obviously liked qualities of Girl #1 quite a bit, because you dated.

*HOWEVER* you need to be thinking of this as more an impartial, 3rd party observer. A bit more abstract. You're in a relationship with Girl #2. Your goal is presumably to keep that healthy and thriving, yeah? So don't do anything dishonorable with Girl #1. If you need to, reduce or cut off contact.

All women are chaos.
The one you're currently fucking probably won't mind that you're thinking about another one as long as she gets it good.
But instead of looking to the past, you should be finding new girls to pursue, maintain an abundance mindset. Keep fucking the current one on the way to something else as you're obviously unfulfilled.

I am torn between an all consuming self hatred driving me to isolation and bitterness, but at the same time I want to experience sex and intimacy, and I know you need a social circle for that. I am completely fine with being alone otherwise.

Is it possible to get laid as an average or above average but not quite Chad looking bloke if you have no friends?

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>family is over rn
Tryna make myself as invisible as I can be

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Your first mistake was holding contact despite the fact you broke up. You must choose between them, and almost every single tone it’s best not to go back with your ex

>Girlfriend leaves me to live in the UK
>Spends a year trying to get me to go join her
>Everyone tells me I should quit my current job
>Hate my job and my life
>(Literally) too autistic to change my routine and quit my job
>too anxious and autistic to consider moving overseas

Living day to day lads

I've considered it but that would only lead to my head getting fried with medication and would stress my family out. Basically not an option.

The good thing is I've read that it's temporary and your brain eventually will get bored and quit since it's not exactly ritualistic like some forms of OCD.

>Tfw I'll never get a white gf
I want to fuck a white girl so bad. I've got ridiculous standards tho

You're not some sort of animal, you understand your autism which means you can control it and deal with whatever anguish you might go through if you have to change your life.

i like the mindset, anything more?

>"fit feels thread"
>"MY GF THIS OTHER GIRL MY GF WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"

what are you talking about, thots are easy and have nothing of meaning, a relationship can be exhausting at times looking for one while i'm dealing with this now is a pain in itself

based

seconded

Alright Jow Forums
What do? There’s this girl I find attractive (8/10); however, I think she has a boyfriend. She’s some days really trying to get my attention, and others she’s doing her best to ignore me as to see what would I do. Should I just keep ignoring her ?

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>be 5'4 manlet
>will never get gf

who here know these feels

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>girl manager said I I look fit
>also realized I have a terrible panty fetish
god I’m a freak

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you'll find someone just go out more and find other hobbies that expose you to other people

probably conflicted my man

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>Should I just keep ignoring her ?

As a general policy, I think you'd be better off being as friendly and engaging as you can. It's good social practice. Don't worry about her relationship(s); focus on yours.

I've seen it happen. It was always a friendly, somewhat fit guy with a much shorter gf though

>I am torn between an all consuming self hatred driving me to isolation and bitterness

This is no good, my dude. Don't worry about sex/intimacy - that stuff follows fixing the quoted stuff.

wtc boots?

That’s what I thought at first. Sometimes she’s in a really good mood(getting close, preening in front of me,) and others she’s actively trying to ignore me and see what am i gonna do. First time shit happened I thought i did something and apologized nonetheless. And I doubt she does it to tease me since, I always ignore her during her shitty moods. I don’t bother myself by chasing women like a beta, and rather talk to the rest of the people, but fuck man, I just think she’s really attractive

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remember what i said lust and love, if you like her do what must be done but if you feel conflicted play your cards safe

1st world problems incoming

>lost almost all interest in romantic relationships
>spend all my free time on the internet
>freshman in shitty college I hate
>live with my parents who insisted on me going to said college because "it's the only way you'll get a job"
>easily annoyed, don't socialize because I dislike people
>depressed more than I ever was in my life
>hips still wide, shoulders still below average. making shit gains and getting fat
>psoriasis worse than ever and I don't have the discipline to stick to a healthy diet/fasting routine

Yeah, I mean I still greet her politely, and when she likes to talk I talk to her, but during her shitty moods I do my best to not talk to her, I fucking dislike that woman’s behavior. Thanks for the advice.

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When i’m at home over summer breaks or whatever putting on weight is so easy without even thinking about it, there’s free food at home and i’m always out and about with friends so i’m always eating out too. But when i get back to school i struggle to even maintain my weight cause i’m always in class or working and i have to go out and buy groceries and cook and i don’t eat out as often. Really pisses me off i’ve lost a solid 3-4lb while i’m trying to gain weight over the last month. I know I’m just a lazy shit and i just need to eat more but it’s so much more effort at school and it’s really discouraging to see my weight go down

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I understand that on a logical level but how can I fix this?

I genuinely hate myself, I hate most people, and social interaction with 90% of people disgusts me to the core. The more I try to force myself to socialize the worse my hatred gets. The only social interaction i can tolerate is if I know itll get me a warm body to sleep next to to tonight, and even that is if she's not too vapid. If I was attractive maybe I could pull this lifestyle off, but I dont get approached by girls and I'm not attractive enough to cold approach either.

If I was a little less stable mentally I'd probably have been a school shooter a decade ago.

So again, I genuinely ask, what advice could anyone give me?

perhaps do a sport?

>don’t socialize because I don’t like people
>freshman in college
>literally being this zoomer at 18

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Agreed. I have been playing real safe. Not necessarily because I’m afraid of his boyfriend but rather because I don’t want to cuck another guy. I’m really trying my best to look for someone to truly engage emotionally.

If you have a car problem, you go to a mechanic. If you have a head problem go to a shrink. It’s your choice, be unhappy or try to fix it. You only get one life so I’d do the hard work and go get gay with a therapist. Save your life dumbass.

>never was into sports as a kid, always unathletic and chubby or skinnyfat
>go to uni, start lifting and getting big
>start getting into watching sports and appreciating the physicality needed for them
>pretty big guy (for you) at this point, stronger than 95% of people at uni gym (not really saying much but still)
>people always ask if i play football or wrestling
>get mad i didn’t start lifting and getting into sports earlier
>could have been chad status, close bros, satisfaction of physical competition
>now i’m just a lonely big guy
Sucks cuz i’m a senior now with a lot of work so can’t really join anything at this point

>I genuinely hate myself, I hate most people, and social interaction with 90% of people disgusts me to the core.

That's tough. Like the guy above said, you might wanna talk to a pro. 'cuz what you're saying is about the opposite of the attitude of a happy person. You'd need to figure out why you feel so hostile to yourself and others you talk to.

FWIW, I don't feel hostile towards you. I'm sure you have many fine qualities. And I'm also sure you could cultivate all that and perceive things differently and have a good fuckin' day. So I strongly encourage you to talk to the right people and read the right stuff and get it sorted because I know that you can.

Literally the same problem. Sometimes she seems really into me, and other times she acts coldly towards me. For some reason, I absolutely love when girls do this when I know I should hate it. I heard she also has a boyfriend, but the way she's been acting makes me question if I just got bad intel. I'm just being friendly as always, and engaging her when she's receptive. Otherwise, I don't dwell on when she acts uninterested -- I just carry on. I think she like it

>Otherwise, I don't dwell on when she acts uninterested -- I just carry on. I think she like it

Of course she does! Everybody likes that bro, it's universally the best way to be. Keep it up!

>had a very successful gym session today
>still feel like killing myself

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>go out for a boys night
>start chatting with girl on bus
>shes laughing we talk for like 30 mins
>were both drunk
>tell her when we get downtown she should let me buy her a drink
>tells me to fuck off and that she was just talking with me to make time go by faster
Later that night
>girls whos been lowkey flirting with me comes with us
>chad friend wants to fuck her and doesnt want a relationship, fully support him on this venture
>she says while sober a day ealier she wants something real and wont get with him
>starts off the night sober hanging out with me
>when she gets drunk she goes to chad and will not leave him alone, even goes through his phone when he goes to bathroom
>chad friend doesnt even want to fuck her at this point and leaves her there
>go back to his house and watch cartoons with the boys
Im gonna be alone forever and im starting to see it as a positive thing

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Hey bro I'm in the same boat as you. Currently thinking of just focusing 100% on self improvement this year and transferring to a different college next year. It actually feels good knowing I'm not alone

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Yeah, the reason they like this type of behavior is because you are in control. Honestly the best we can do is to simply not get any high expectations, I’m still looking, studying and working out.
We’ll all make it brother, just keep going.

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>found the perfect woman
>absolutely in love with me
>can't bring myself to love her

Life is suffering

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godspeed man

Too bad you are the cursed seed of Cain, and the salvation of Jesus does not apply to you

Same to you dog

Tfw never had a boyfriend
Tfw never had the chance to be a good girlfriend to someone
Tfw never even kissed anyone sober, only random guys at parties
Tfw never experienced romance
Tfw never felt connection or partnership with someone
Tfw never felt love
:( trips chooses how i end my shit

>Tfw never even kissed anyone sober, only random guys at parties
rape yourself to death, used up roastie

>kissing random guys at party
Thot you will get no sympathy here

As much as I want to give you shit, any man in this thread will tell you how piss easy it is to get a boyfriend. Literally go for a stroll on your local college campus tomorrow, and approach every single guy you wouldnt mind exclusively fucking for the rest of your life, and ask them for their number. Do this for a few hours, and I guarantee my left nut you'll have a bunch of quality dick to choose from. Unless you're horribly ugly but even then just lower your bar to average guys rather than just the athletes.

>Tfw no bf

Why the fuck would you go around drunkenly fucking random guys if you want to be a good girlfriend to someone ?

You are likely depressed. Talk about it with her. Don't let her go until you know the problem is her, and not you. Take a break from any alcohol or drugs and evaluate any other aspects of your life that may be causing these emotions.
>t. faget who was in your position but ditched the girl when she was the only one who could help me
I'm better now but at the time she was my best friend and could have been a big help.

I make new excuses for why I don’t break out of my shell every day
And every day those excuses become worthless because I see dudes with worse issues living a great and healthy life while I feel sorry for myself

>I have been complimented on my gains by almost everyone at work
>yet I still feel skinny
I have seen progress from my acne scar treatments
>yet I still feel ugly
>I’ve had enough sex to know what I’m doing
>yet I still feel like a virgin

Tomorrow I’m going to wake up and put it all behind me

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>be me blowing off steam alone with a whiskey at the bar
> 2 more whiskeys later decide to check out the club nearby
> go to the bar next to the dancefloor see tall cute blonde with friends
> deadlifted for reps earlier, feeling strong af and confident, posture on point
> slide up next to her ostensibly to order a drink but turn to her and tell her in a charming way she looks like mischa barton
>she likes the vibes, I keep flirting telling her I was in the OC cast too but just a minor role
> She asks where my friends are, I vaguely wave my arm and say over there
> She’s leaning close to talk, I put my hand on her back
> Start making out at the bar
> 10 minutes later leave to go to ‘another bar’, leaving her friends
> audible on the way, head to nearby hotel
> get a room and immediately start fucking
> anal
> OC father daughter incest roleplay
> next day wake up and talk about conspiracies

>epilogue we fuck a few more times and then she ghosted me
> dgaf but still proud of that night
> top 2 hottest chicks I’ve banged

>OC father daughter incest roleplay
kek

ive never done anything more than kiss. and i only do it to feel not lonely for at least those couple of minutes :(

im not ugly, and i do go for guys quite low like 4/10. when i show my friends pictures of guys i talk to they always have to do a really fake "oh hes ... cute" because i dont even care about looks at all. the issue is that even these 4/10 guys dont want anything more than casual sex.
and even if they did id feel like i dont deserve them

>tfw jacked af manlet (210lbs 14% bf, 5'9")
>virgin
>had one gf in last year of hs, loved her to pieces
>things ended very quickly because I'm an autist
>no females to enter my life since then
>never move on for this reason, also because the relationship not lasting was entirely my fault for being a sperg
>recently ex sees how j00cey I've gotten over social media
>hits me up
>says she thinks my body is a 12/10
>says "I like little beefcakes who are thick all over"
>hilarious line, but confused because she liked tall lean and lightly muscular guys when we dated
>try not to advance things even though she's clearly coming onto me because I'd be doomed to fall right back where we left off
>think about her all the time, miss her quirks

Also I hit 225 for working sets on OHP, that feels good at least

repent

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How old are you

18

>tfw I'm 18 as well but I know you are probably a dude pretending to be a chick for lulz

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I'm lazy and don't want to type this, but you deserve at least one (you) that isn't calling you a roastie

It shouldn't be that hard for you to find a relationship

If you aren't ugly don't talk to 4/10 men, you'd have a much better chance with men around the same attractiveness as you or slightly more attractive men as they're going to be more confident and more likely to initiate something.

Second of all you have to try to meet people, as a girl you shouldn't have to initiate anything, but you still need to be involved in different social circles so you can meet someone who will initiate something.

Lastly, don't worry about finding someone. Every pot has it's lid. Until your lid comes along, just focus on loving and improving upon yourself. You'll stand a better chance of making things work if you do that.

nah i actually just am this pathetic

this actually made my eyes water because it was so nice. but why do the 4/10 men feel confident enough to actually ask to be friends with benefits with me then??
also i just would not feel worthy enough for guys that approach which are in my league. because i have no experience i feel lesser than them. thats why i go for 4/10s
I wish i didnt have to worry about this shit. i really wish i could just focus on loving and improving myself and know for sure that someone is coming into my life. my family judges me, and my mum pressures me really bad at least once a week to get a boyfriend/husband its quite painful.

im sick of university and i have come to loathe the people in my field and around me. i don't want any part in it anymore.

>tfw no gf
way to far beyond that, you faggots worry about that shit too much.
t. wizard

You're only fucking 18, I highly doubt any guy is going to be disappointed that you have no experience. If you were in your late 20s that would be a bit weird though.

take magnesium

i mean experience with relationships and shit too

Sorry to hear that Anonette, I relate.
I'm decent looking and have had many opportunities for casual sex but I've never had a relationship, what I actually want, until a year ago.

My parents were hard on me and seeing all my friends pair up made me feel even worse. I was convinced I was unloveable then I decided to set my mind elsewhere after a friend gave me the old "every pot has it's lid". You seem like a kind enough person, just keep putting yourself into different social scenarios (jobs, friend groups, etc..) until someone comes along.

Just believe you'll find someone and try not to let your parents get to you in the meantime

When you start to feel you're missing out remember it will happen eventually and don't try so hard to force it. All the the time spent worrying and trying to force something could be put towards activities that make you happy and introduce you to others

Best of luck

I still doubt they'd care at all

>was in a relationship for 3 years and slowly got toxic
>ditch her because she wasn’t making me happy anymore and she didn’t help because depression just destroyed my motivation to do anything
>it’s been a year now (I think) I used to be able to lift quite a good amount of weight
>this depression hole made me so unmotivated I haven’t touched my hobby car or picked up weights and now I have noodle arms again and I’m slowly losing weight because I was a gega fat 260 lb 5’11 manlet
>I’m at 200 lb now
This shits gay I lost my knowledge of any workout stuff still have no motivation to do shit at all any tips to motivate myself? And sorry for my retarded format I half assed it at the end

are you me?

I just got in a car accident boys. Nearly killed my sister, and lil brother's friend.
I wish I just fucking died so I wouldnt have to keep suffering like this, letting and inadvertedly doing this shit to myself.
My entire life Ive been on edge because when I slip up and get comfortable I get knocked off my fucking feet and end up so fucking shit.
I just got back into lifting too man, I was 60lbs down its just not fair anons why couldnt Ive just died fuck

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were you drunk? what happened

Wasnt drunk, rainy, car was slippery and had summers on. Cold too. Lost traction and ran over a tree, bags went off and car was totaled. Hopefully. I wouldnt be able to maintain the repairs myself with how bad it is.
Hope you anons dont have to live my life, being in a shitty well off family with a shitty environment and just being a terrible human being yourself. You'll hurt a lot of people

If you're fuckable, you're fuckable.

damn, you have to be careful in the rain. sorry to hear about your sister and your little brother's friend. it's not the end of the world even if it feels that way. you're aware that people can be hurt around you so you can't be that terrible. try and be better. may work, may not. it's up to you. baby steps, user. good luck.

>Nearly

That's the key word, man. Tons of people have wrecks; it's really easy to do. I've caused a few myself and even put somebody else in the hospital. It's a bad feeling for sure. All you can do is help fix what you've screwed up, and try to do (drive) better next time. That's it. Get some sleep.

I have no friends. People generally have a positive impression of me(As far as I can tell) but that's really as far as it goes. I would try reaching out to people more to hang out or something but I just have this crippling fear of doing something wrong and becoming 'that creepy guy', so much so that I'd almost rather not talk to anyone at all than take a risk. I wish I had people that I could talk to.

Also there's the whole issue that opening up to anyone would probably scare them away, but I don't have any relationships that are even close to that stage so its a secondary concern for now.

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>good
Now u can be the best brother any1 ever had to ur sister.
Also u have a clear and constant reminder, not to slip up

just go for the kill and ask them out on a date, and make sure you use the word "date" so it can't be any clearer. They'll either accept or go on to say "teehee my boyfriend." Girls with bfs still like the attention of other men, so this is "normal" behavior.

I can't deadlift
Lifting heavy shit like bench and rowing is okay, but i can't deadlift for shit
My Rowing is at 80kg 5x5 and doing it semi-fine, but deadlifting 100kg 1x5 is just impossible
I just lose all tightness after the third rep
>My triceps have been exploding recently thi, feel good

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