Get to class early

>roastie gets 2 men trying to date her in like a 60 second span
>literally no woman has ever approached me in 25 years

I wish I was a chick

not op but while i agree its the polite and proper thing to do to at least respond you dont really have to keep the conversation up

>but it's rude

What's rude is trying to force someone into a conversation I don't want to have.

you don't have to but a nice person wouldn't just judge somebody as a failed human being in 1 second, which is what you're doing by communicating that you don't want to know them

it's more rude to judge the conversation as not worth your time before it's even started

If I don't want to talk, I don't want to talk. It's a pretty simple concept

yeah i dont go out of my way to talk to new people but would never shut them down either

its simplicity was never in question. but its rude and that's why people get upset and call you names when you do it. which was OP's question

i do it sometimes too but i know it upsets people, and i don't go on the internet and whine about the fact that it upsets people

Just mention your boyfriend (whether you have one or not) as soon as possible and they will fuck off in no time, you'll see and you won't be perceived as a bitch. Being direct and telling them to screw off is just breaking the social norms like an autist.

F--- off megaskank

I have. It's only effective like half the time.

I support your approach, wish I had the nerve to just be honest and tell people I don't want to talk to them. But you have to understand people won't take it well because you are expected to behave in line with social norms and when you don't, it upsets people. Your next step is not caring about what they think.

>tell him I'm tired and not in the mood to talk
>BITCH
>tell him I'm tired and not in the mood to talk, but next week I'll feel better
>POLITE
Amazing, huh? Sometimes I'm not in the mood to talk either, but I do it anyway, because I'm a decent human being.

But I don't want to talk to him next week either

Nice larp you nigger

Why do you not want to talk to him? You don't know him, neither dose he know you. So why are you already saying you won't talk to him?

>Chad comes and sits down next to you
>Suddenly perk up and feel like meeting new people

If you care so little about what these two have to say, why does it bother you that they called you bitch and give you death stares?

They're insecure cucks for reacting that way. At least you didn't end up sucking them off after class like I bet it works with most roasties.

why are people this delusional about if someone doesnt want to talk theyre a bitch

I bet unironically this.

Because I'm not attracted to him at all nor do I really want to make friends.

Because I don't want to be randomly insulted when I did nothing and was just sitting for class minding my own business

stfu yes you would if you had loser faggots trying to chat you up all day every day. Fuck off, jesus fucking christ, you make robots look bad, fucking piece of shit.

You're a liar then. So much for being "direct and upfront."

You should have said, "I don't want to talk to you ever." In which case he's totally justified in calling you a bitch.

You did the right thing. You should care about what they said.

Yeah but she said she was too tired. I think that is a good enough excuse

You really are a fucking bitch
Kill yourself roastie

I don't want to talk is direct and upfront enough to suffice. Saying I don't want to talk to you ever is crossing the line. You'd want a girl to say she's not interested instead of she's not interested because you're short, ugly, not ripped, you don't appear manly, you're weird and look like you have a small penis in front of a class.

>this fucking self entitled actitude

Yeah, this isn't LARP, you are a women
Get the fuck out tho

>ask girl out
>thanks, but I'm not interested
>BITCH
>ask girl out
>thanks, but I'm not interested because you're not my type and frankly I can do way better than you
>BITCH

Men are weird. I've had guys ask me why I'm breaking up with them or don't want to go out with them. Nearly all of them became pretty angry and insulting after I told them. Now I just ghost guys

the people on here who say OP should talk to the guys are just morons who never go outside. If you had annoying dipshits following you around trying to talk to you all day you'd get sick of it too. You just don't know what it's like because

a) no one wants to talk to you anyway and
b) you never leave your house so no one can talk to you

I'm an average looking dude, but I live in a city, so random homeless and fucked up people follow me down the street trying to talk to me all the time and I'm always telling them to fuck off. If I were an attractive woman and men did that to me all day long every day I'd tell them to fuck off too. I don't owe anyone anything. You don't like it? Go fuck yourself. There are a lot of stupid things that women do in our society, not wanting to give their time to every moron who wants to talk to them wherever they go isn't one of them.

I really love it when I turn a guy down and he says I'm ugly and too short anyway. Like you just asked me out...

Dear lord, what a fucking whore. How many partners did you have, you fucking whore? Kill yourself

>not understanding that having advances rejected, in any case, will lead to frustration
of course you probably think this is an affront and that anybody who is rejected should take it with a smile and not feel a pinch of negativity

Everyone wants a Ferrari but you don't call the car a whore. Die alone.

What? Why women always give reponses like that?
Just tell to fucking kill myself or something ffs, you fucking whore kill yourself

lol this is a stupid analogy. A whore isn't a whore because she's hot, she's a whore because she's easy and has fucked every guy who's ever approached her.

I'm not a whore. Just because a lot of guys tried hitting on me doesn't mean I slept with all or them or even any of them. You just sound jealous no one wants you

At the end of the day nobody has it easy. Its really just easy by comparison. And your life is way easier than a dude's generally speaking

Humams dont like being denigrated, as status are crucial to survival in social groups. Women especially, as idle social interaction was more a part of their life. Social interaction generally needed to be useful for men

In this day and age she's probably been with at least 10 dudes, 3 or 4 of which were seriois relationships that she was in love with

Constantly having to be on the alert and fearing for my safety because some guy may want to get in my panties and could turn aggressive and violent when I turn them down isn't easy.

kek
this is what white knights believe

Yeah we want you to be upfront and not wanting to fuck a guy is okay. But that doesn't mean you can just choose to not participate in normal social activities like talking and expect to still keep a good reputation.

>hurr I don't want to sleep with these two guys, that means i can just rudely not talk with them at all

>You just sound jealous no one wants you
The correct term would he envious.
Why are you even here
>go to place where starving people usually congregate
>start talking about how having too much food is a hassle, and how you hate having to scrape off your plate and wash the dish
>people start calling youna dumb bitch and insulting you
>get mad an insult them back
Seriously man it's like you're stupid. You wanna ask why normalshit guys are shitheads, go on Reddit.
The truth that you'll never accept is that those weren't robots, they were normals that have a niche in normalhood closer to being a loser.
Real robot was across the room, thinking about how you're great, he's a piece of shit, and hoe both of those guys should just leave you alone. Real robots NEVER talk to the girl.

what the fuck are you talking about you faggot?
Everyone knows one guy that just drones on and on and doesn't take the hint unless you explicitly tell them to fuck off.

Huh? My time is limited so I have to pick and choose who to spend my time on. Some guy I'm not into who clearly wants something romantic just isn't worth my time. Like if you got a request to interview at a company that pays for $100k a year and one that pays $40k a year, you'd focus on the $100k job

envious and jealous can be used interchangeably

Those guys were just average betas though. No one cares if a woman doesn't want to talk to them. They hold no power over anyone. If she'd been rude to Chad, however, it might be a different story.

That's not that hard to mitigate.
Be in groups. Don't be let yourself be too drunk or unaware, know basic self-defense.
Its rare to be in a scenario where a dude literally can prevent you from leaving.
At the end of the day, also, men are way more likely to be physically attacked than a woman.
Do you think there are more rapes than assaults, gender aside? Who is more likely to be assaulted in this misandrous society, men or women?

>board populated by introverted misanthropes
>OP is cornered into a conversation
>Gives a direct, clear negative answer
>Fucking picky bitch whore

As a male (male), I can relate to OP. Can you robots honestly not remember a time when someone was talking to you and you DIDNT want to have a conversation at that moment? It happens to me all the time in public. A simple:
>Im busy
Is usually all it takes. Why are you all jumping on OP? Is it just because youre bored?

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Thats stupid and this kind of mentality is why irregardless is a fucking word now. I hate humans
Envy is to covet based on longing fir
Jealousy is to covet based on fear of loss

>your time is valuable
>sitting in class doing nothing

Pick uno

I'm actually with you on this, OP. In my opinion, forcing somebody into a conversation they don't want to have "because it's the polite thing to do" is more rude than refusing to engage somebody in a conversation you don't want to have. Forcing somebody into a conversation is an active behavior, while simply refusing is an inaction. You're going out of your way to drag them into doing something they don't want to. Also, if somebody doesn't want to talk to you, there's 20+ other people in the room you can try to talk to, so you have other choices. You don't have options besides telling somebody "Hey, I don't want to talk" or outright skipping class if you're not interested in having a conversation.

Women losing thier obligation towards social contract is really going to torpedo this procesd of radical societal shift.
I just hope my body functions aren't ruined by it

I'm 5'2" and 90 pounds. A 5th grade boy can overpower me. You know how awkward and bad it feels to have some homeless person or salesperson pressuring you? Now imagine that happening nearly every time you go out and the person pressuring you is nearly a foot taller, 100 pounds heavier, and can easily overpower you and you have to walk a tight rope because you don't know if they'll lash out if you turn them down. Plus I'd rather get punched than raped

I can see why they would get mad, if you worded it harshly.

Social interaction takes energy. There's only so much I can do a day before needing alone time to recharge

This. If OP were a guy, all of these replies would be about how OP is misunderstood, and it's not his fault if he comes across as an asshole because he's awkward.

That's fine. But when you don't adhere to social standards, people will form opinions of you. Pick which one you care about more.

Those guys didn't call you a bitch because you weren't sexually interested in them. They called you a bitch because you're rude af.

Whats rude about saying I dont want to talk?

Is it suddenly a crime to not be an extroverted normie? The fucking cognitive dissonance on this board

I really don't see what's wrong with the first one. I suppose rejection hurts, but there's no easy way to go about it.

>B..BUT YOU'RE BREAKING THE SOCIAL CONTRACT

Fuck off

Welp life is shit. I've lived my whole life feeling like shit because of my natural courses of action and etc. If I had my way, I would meet a girl that was raped and had no faith in the world so I could unleash all my repressed love on her to help her change her outlook and genuinely find joy in life. So I could weather all the defensive meanness and sadness and anger that she put out and still be ready and willing to support her. But I'll be single until I die, and girls will always think of me as a "cool guy who's really sweet".
You're that height and weight, have you maximized your physical capibilty for that size? Can you move quickly with your weight distributed evenly, can you throw a punch? Must not worry you too much if not. Those things worried me and still do (being physically assailed) and I traines to mitigate my odds of negative outcome
Life is shit
The point is, you're trying to feel better about what you did, because you feel bad on some level. I don't give a shit. Reddit will give you the blind support you need to feel better about yourself.
Nobody deserves any decency or courtesy or respect. But when my bitterness hasnt consumed me, I'd like to be as far away as I can from whatever made the world so damned uncaring and unloving

Yeah pretty much. You're expected to small talk in real life if you don't want to come off as rude and standoffish. It's your choice not to talk, but then don't complain about how other people see you.

>reeeeeee normies
Learn to differentiate real life and r9k, dum dum

I hope nobody ever holds a door open or elevator for you again.

Actually a fuckin solid analogy
And before I get my ass jumped for being a "white knight beta cuck" I'm just gonna say this
>be Jow Forums
>sad cause they don't have a girlfriend or any romantic life
>women are all whores though
>but hating women doesn't mean I don't want a girlfriend

>Acts like a standoffish bitch
>"Why do they see me as a standoffish bitch :("

Beats me

>but then dont complain about how other people see you
If I had a nickel for every time some guy on this board complained about being misunderstood...

Fuck off youre just playing gender favorites

You should be worried that this analogy and greentext seem logically sequitar

no, actually we want them to suck our dick and only our dick.

You do realize that not every guy who dares talk to a girl wants to get in her pants like OP implied, right?

I wouldn't say it's necessarily rude to not want to talk to people. If anything, that's something I relate with even as a dude, and I've been pretty unabashed in my disregard for menial bullshit conversations. On the other hand, he's right in the sense that there will be some disparity between how you intend to come across and how people actually perceive you. I don't think those dudes calling you a bitch were right to do that, but it's fair that they reached the conclusion that you're rude. I've been told many times that I'm an asshole for the way I treat conversation, but I'm fine with it because I've accepted that I can't make people perceive me a different way while still being myself. Don't adhere to societal norms if you don't want to, but don't be surprised when society calls you on it.

>talk to them
>they ask her out
>thanks but I'm not interested
>WOW THANKS FOR LEADING ME ON BITCH

:/

>Implying I defend the guys who act like you on here

Regardless there's really nothing else to say. There's social standards to adhere to once you close Jow Forums and head into real life. And if you don't meet them, don't expect to have a good opinion from normies. And no amount of bitching on Jow Forums will change that.

You think those were robots? Or were they chad wannabe normals? You think robots ask girls out?
You've come to a place filled with type b, but your complaints are solely towards type a, you dumb bitch

*will not change

Sorry phone posting from work

>Dont adhere to societal norms if you dont want to, but dont be surprised when society calls you on it
Or maybe society shouldnt get so god damned butthurt when someone doesnt want to speak.

I can understand someone being loud and obnoxious as rude. I can understand bullying, teasing, negging as rude. But silence/curt responses is rude now? Thats nuts, I wish to leave this planet

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You're taking huge leaps from small talk to guys only talking to you to fuck you.

It's no wonder you have trouble socially.

>Theres social standards to adhere to
Yep, and one of those is dont be an obtrusive dick and force conversations/interaction. Acting offended and pretending that OP was rude is just a way for the aggressor to nurse a wounded ego after being rejected

Don't play coy with me. We all know men don't go up and start talking to a woman they never met before because they want to be friends

You're gonna get shit from people no matter what. You can't please everyone, so you might as well be the person you want to be and do the things you want to do. Some will judge you for it, but they'd judge you if you were everything that society wants you to be too. Don't worry about what they think.

>silence/curt responses is rude now? Thats nuts, I wish to leave this planet
Lol this bothers me too but I just deal with it. You make me feel large-minded
>what makes me want to leave the planet is the idea that life must subsist on other forms of life. If you are alive, things must die to continue said process
But man, for you its the idea that not seeming interested in something makes you seem uninterested which makes you seem rude?
I mean, damn. You've got a brittle spirit man.

That's simply not true in most cultures at least. If someone talks to you, it is rude effectively shrug them off. I personally don't like that as I'm naturally quiet, but I understand what is expected of me once I leave my house and make sure to small talk to whomever wants to talk as I care about my public reputation.

Do you really think you can go to work and not talk to a coworker who wants to talk and not become the office snob?

I feel bad for you. So brainwashed by this board that you think every interaction between a man and a woman has an ulterior motive of sex.

I'm the one who's been defending you this whole time.

Lol, those guys were right, you're just a fucking bitch. I didn't even call you a whore, I just told you that your analogy was dumb. Jesus Christ, you're a stuckup cunt. Not gonna defend you anymore. This is why the right and Trump win, because centrists like me can't stand stupid leftist cunts like you. I can't stand Trump either, but I'm going to sit this one out while you get gangraped.

>Just mention your boyfriend (whether you have one or not) as soon as possible and they will fuck off in no time
tfw this has happened to me a good amount of times, even while talking to girls I had little interest in....

You know you guys are only reacting like this because it's a woman right? I don't really want to talk to people much in class either a lot of the time, and being a guy, I don't get many people approaching me anyways, but does that make me an ass hole? I'm introverted, possibly autistic, and have shit social skills and know I most likely won't relate to normal fag interests like alcohol and Fortnite type shit. I also don't sit in the front, but some people might have vision or hearing problems so I'm not going to say if you sit up front, you have to talk.

>dont worry about what they think
I dont give a single fuck. But at the same time, they shouldnt feel slighted and victimized that I was rude to them in conversation. You know how (((victims))) get these days in current year...

>Youve got a brittle spirit man
Brittle? Ive been living in a simulation for 26 years that demands I input basic functions of time and effort to receive basic functions of sustenance and continued homeostasis. You sound like a total pussy
>wahh I have to kill animals to keep living
Man.the.fuck.up

>go to work
>go to class
These are two different things. Dont posit a false equivalency and claim Im being irrational. At least a coworker would know me far better than two dudes in September fall semester of a lecture. These guys got what they deserved and shouldnt act like victims because some girl didnt want to talk to them

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Even if you are too tired it is an act of kindness to make polite conversation with someone. Their response to you was not justified and the second guy was just a white knight beta that had no reason to talk to you since you handled the earlier guy by yourself, but it is better to be nice even when you are tired, and to put effort into other human beings. He was trying to be nice to you, the least you could do is be nice back.

Why do guys expect girls to always be nice? I don't want to be nice all the time

>>wahh I have to kill animals to keep living
Lol dude I would rather this than
>what do you mean I can't just be quiet. I have to talk to people? I cant just shrug them off and have everything be easy. Well why can't it all be easy?
I weep for the state of the world and life. You weep because your ego lets you know its been affronted and you bark like a dog.
Congrats, you're 26, how does it feel to your an 18 year olds brain?