Am i asking too much when i want a dominant and aggressive but clingy, insecure sperglord outcast gf?
Am i asking too much when i want a dominant and aggressive but clingy, insecure sperglord outcast gf?
If you're the typical robot then absolutely yes, you're asking for too much by going for a very rare archetype.
Most girls want someone dominant.
I have a very submissive, clingy girlfriend who's constantly concerned that she's too bitchy/whiny.
I truly love her.
Literally no woman is like this
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just cause you see them in anime and manga doesn't mean they're real
After middle school, when their deviantarts get banned or something, girls like this grow up to be thots like the rest of them.
I'm not a typical robot. I'm am socially inept and i have problems but i disagree with this board on most things but my disdain for normans. I'm also not incapable irl i'm just socially inept, which is enough in practice but as long as it does not involve sociality i do okay.
Dominant woman get bored of submissive guys because it always turns into them acting like the dude's mother. It's exhausting.
wow you are fucking stupid
Mmmmmno I'm not, I'm correct. Have you ever actually interacted with women?
You don't have to be submissive to want a dominant gf
Where did you get this information
not original for some reason
There have to be at least a few out there.
is this true femanons?
originally
You mean like BPD? Someone who screams at you and threatens to murder you one minute then worships you like you're the second incarnation of Jesus and promises never to leave you 5 minutes later?
No, why the fuck would you think that?
orig
That's dominant and aggressive, but also clingy and insecure at the same time.
>tfw no girl will ever care about you this much
There are zero women like that. All women are the same: they don't feel romance and jealousy the way men do. They don't feel love. They only know security/power/status, etc. They are base creatures incapable of more advanced thought or emotion.
They're not really clingy though, they just want to use you. Bpd girls care about no person in specific.
This is literally my gf, except she isn't clingy.
And she isn't a sperglord (wasn't sure what that was until I googled it).
They idolize people, usually only temporarily until that person disappoints them. So they care about their idealized mental image of a person.
>dominant insecure sperglord
You're asking for contradictory traits. Only someone with a literal personality disorder is like this.
I honestly don't care as long it's her real personality and not a phase or a temporary illness/episode
You are right, but what i mean is that they don't actually ever care about you because all that they care about is the fantasy they made up in their own head that just happens to be based on you. It's like an artist who loves his painting of a landscape but doesnt care if the landscape is being burned down as long he doesn't have to see it. If you're the landscape you're not gonna care about the fact that the guy has a painting about you somewhere you're gonna be yelling for someone to put out the fire.
this is false, there may be a small pool of people that share the standard that you yearn for OP, but they are far from nonexistant. dont let this ignorant fool tell you otherwise
you're already asking for too much when you're looking for a gf with any sort of personality or quirk
Yeah but how do I find them?
That makes sense, but I think you could say the same thing about some clingy people. Not all clingy people will necessarily love you as a person, but rather love that you can protect them from feeling alone. I think people commonly phrase it as needing someone rather than wanting them.
that is less simple to answer.
what i suggest of thinking of what platform those types of people would congregate. i found my fiance from shamchat, when she was doing a roleplay of a literal monkey comprised of entirely gelatin.
ask around, i hear there are different discord servers that revolve around gentle femdom, and there are surely some for the more extreme variants of femdom as well if that is what you fancy.
>My experience of women consists largely of cherry-picked media filtered by incels
porn doesn't count, oriole
What the fuck user? Stop deluding me into thinking that people who could actually enjoy my presence actually exist. It is my destiny to become a witch because of how contradictory my personality is.
pls b in Texas originally
I call bullshit. Lots of robots want a dominant woman, you'd have heard something along these lines a thousand times before.
Sorry originally no
nooooo.. it's not fair!!! I need a dominant clingy gf so bad
I like you because you are my mirror image. I don't feel a connection with regular women.
I mean, there's nothing wrong with wanting it. It's weird if you refuse to meet anyone who isn't like that.
>be me
>power complex
>not that attracted to submissive guys
>feel incompetent next to guys a lot more successful than me
I must have angered god in my past life.
Why not find a switch guy? Might be the balance you're looking for.
Forgot
The above is why i believe no one would actually want to be with me. Why would someone into femdom also like the dom to have sub qualities (insecurity)
I like dominant girls and i'm sexually switch, but you would never guess that if you met me irl and i wouldn't really call myself submissive. How does that sound?