A Comfy Thread

Is sweet tea fine my lovely user?
As for the situation, it's interesting user, because I have currently entered a relationship and she says dumb things and it hurts and all that. What type of things can I ask user?

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I can say some hurtful things and I have done it a lot in the past. A simpler instance was when she told me that she wanted tattoos and I wasnt thinking and I told her they were ugly or when she wanted to get bangs again and I told her I didn't like them. Or when I help her with homework I make her feel stupid because I assume she knows something and when she doesnt i would say something that was rude. Sexting is a big part of our relationship bc we are long distance but because of her past she can be really touchy about it and i used to push it to far a lot when we did it not bc I wanted to hurt her but bc I was stupid and horny and wasnt thinking. Basically I suck.

Here you are user, on the house.
I understand that feeling user, can say I'm feeling that too. Are you going for a bachelor's? And if so, what degree?

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All I want to do is get laid in college and have a relationship but my self-esteem is beyond garbage and I feel like a 3/10. Trying to lift, so that will help

I am, in history. It's the only thing I'm somewhat interested in.

I didnt mean degree in the academic sense but yee thats another reason to kms. I dont have a degree. Im 6 semesters into community college and another two semesters away from a fuggin useless associates degree.
Even if i had a degree or a decent job i still dont think i would enjoy life very much. kms is the logical solution to literally every problem i have.
>how long you not using
3 months maybe. I wasnt a heavy user, it was a short term binge on dope after i got bored of other drugs.
Despite all its drawbacks, its still the comfiest feel a robot can experience
Idk shits getting worse consistently despite my efforts to change my life. Its exhausting and demoralizing trying to fight. Im just about done.
Its a stupid thought but damn, if only the good weather would last longer. I want to kms outdoors in a comfy place and i dont want to be cold either. I guess most suicidal people dont really plan it out months in advance but for me its basically a seasonal consideration. If i kms in the spring though then what the hell do I do in the meantime?

I see user, well let me ask one more thing, how long have you been with this person?

Over 2 years now

Do you go to a community, or uni user?
I'm going to be honest user, when I was a 2nd year in college, people have tried to talk to me because I was an asshole. I cracked jokes but I was overall an asshole. When you have an opportunity, don't think, just say what comes to your mind, if people laugh. It's a start. It gets better from there. Trust me user, you got this little brother.

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All I want is to get out of the damn education system without being shot by some emo kid.

I have a friend that's doing a history major. What do you want to do with that?

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Maybe archeology or write a book. Not quite sure yet.

Alright user, this reminds me of a story
> Be me 12
> user gf expresses to he what she wants
> I tell my mother thinking it was funny
> She said that gf dos that because she wants support
The thing is user, she just wants you to support her and re-assure her that she is beautiful and tattoos, or bangs would look great on her. If she decides to get it, she will

Hey OP. Thanks for making this thread, I do admit that sometimes I feel like there is less and less comfy in the world. It's kinda scary. Oh yeah... Err. Can I have some Lemon Ice Tea?

Sorry I didn't read beneath the lines user. Suicide will always be an answer, but you don't need to partake in that solution. And we'll, if your mind is dead set, I'm sorry user, try and make connections with people. It's the only thing, we as people can have with each other, it gets easier.

Well, the pursue of that degree is difficult user. It's understandable to fall out when it happens; but, if you want to talk to people, try and make some jokes that pop in your mind when your in a group project. It's a little difficult at first but like I said here you can do it user, just try it

Here you are dubs user! Enjoy it!

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Why the fuck do I have to lust after the trashiest fucking girl in my class? (thirdworld uni won't let me choose schedule until I'm done with half my bachelor) She's ugly and a shitskin, she's the kind of typical slut with choker, daddy issues and will only respond positively to people being rude to her. I have two problems in that I couldn't fake being mean irl even if my life depended on it (and if I do I ALWAYS get shafted one way or another) and I want to be very sweet and caring and loving towards her so she knows what affection feels like and eventually cracking her tough shell and getting her to be nice. All she has got going for her is that she's pretty skinny and her butt looks comparatively decent and her face altough ugly attracts me a lot for whatever reason.
I sincerely I could just turn a switch off inside my head and stop liking her entirely.

I have a shit ton of (college) work that I need to catch up on but I struggle greatly with motivating myself to do it, how do I become a machine of pure willpower and power through all the work I need to do?

Because she's broken user. She sees world perhaps through this abusive lens and the only thing she knows is guys that are abusive to her, remind her of her dad. What I'm trying to say user, be mean if you can grab her attention that way, once you get through her shell, smother her the way you wish and it'll go from there

Are you a music lover? Game? Film? Anime? If any, name specifically

Two glasses, with ice and on the house? Wow... user, you are a good lad. :)

I listen to a lot of rock, alternative, and some metal in terms of music (ex: foo fighters, The shins) . Love plenty of games, mostly rpgs (ex: Witcher series, WoW). Too many films I like to name but in general I like the ones that really get you thinking (usually about some moral problem.) Anime not really, was watching Hotoku no Ken (basically forst and only anime I've ever watched) for the cheesiness and memes but kinda stopped.

Thanks for the kind words, user, I wish I could be mean towards her and I've tried to before but it's either I feel bad for hurting her (even though her female friends are meaner and she likes them precisely because of that) or I come off as unnecessarily agressive and is just cringe or she just scoffs it or invalidates my rudeness one way or another. She has targeted some of her mean behavior towards me specifically sometimes tho, out of the blue (I didn't feel bad because I know that she wants to upset me to have me as her bitch and I got a bit happy because that was attention from her, although negative). I sometimes can't help looking happy or being soft around her. Freshman year she stated that she didn't want to have a romantic partner and has expressed something along the lines of "love is a lie" but that only entices me more because a) I'm pretty sure it's a case of sour grapes b) being her first might make her more attached to me.

Unexpectedly wholesome thread. Thanks OP!