Sometimes it takes months before you realize a certain "good girl" is actually a huge slut. Is there some way to tell quickly so that I do not waste time and don't get cucked?
How do I determine if a woman is a slut when I don't really know her that well?
Every girl over the age of 18 has had multiple partners. I'm a 6/10 and chubby and I've been with 5 or 6 guys. You either accept it or you can die a virgin
Western society can't be saved.
Speaking as an asian who has dated both my race and white girls.
It's way too hard to tell for white girls and most are anyway.
With asians its pretty clear with the slutty ones.
Even if OP accepts it, he will be horribly bad at sex. Easily the worst the woman has experienced. Girls always remember the worst. I know I do.
This idea that sex is this super important thing that is imperative for a relationship is just a Liberal thing. Conservatives don't think like that.
I'm not going to stay in a relationship if the sex is bad
>5 or 6
The fact than you can't even keep track of the exact number worries me.
Yes, but you are not part of our world. You don't understand our priorities. I don't want to drag a Liberal woman into my conservative cave. I just do not want to get duped by a slut who is desperate and wants to settle with Mr. Dependable Moneybags.
There is almost no such thing as this virginal "good girl". I've had sex with some very nerdy, chubby, and reclusive girls and they have bedrooms full of bondage toys, fuck like grizzled veterans, and never have any shortage of options. Its just a fact that most girls can have all the sex they want, and it would be a rare, and possibly insane girl that would be willing to inexplicably choose not to have any.
What worries me is that you've had zero partners. It's a huge red flag
If she breathes, she's a slut, user. It's that easy.
What is your definition of a slut? That she has held hands with a guy before?
Or maybe the women who are easy enough to fuck you are also sluts...
I noticed most ugly women tend to be sluttier cause they think that will improve their chances or something. Or maybe it's because more guys will just pump and dump them compared to attractive women.
Having sex outside of a committed relationship.
I've had sex outside of relationships as a male.
Am I a slut?
Yeah, but it is entirely different for males for obvious reasons that have been stated over and over.
Yes. What alternative answer were you expecting, lol?
By the way she dresses.
If she dresses like a slut, then that's most likely what she is.
Actually it's just the same. Used to live with a man-slut. What people don't realise is that when you are a man-slut you are not going to be able to pull 9/10s all the time. This guy would be fucking 4/10s and twinks pretty much all year.
And then once in a while I would see him with an attractive woman and I wonder what she would think of all the uglies and homos he had fucked previously, lol.
you're fucked. i only ever had one guy and i lost my virginity in my 20s.
In general, "if she breathes" isn't that bad of a rule to go by. If you don't accept that you're never going to find muh 100% perfect virgin gf with all the character traits to perfectly cater to your insecurities, you're just never going to fuck and you're never going to experience a relationship of any kind. Relationships always go better when you're not obsessively in love anyway, if you can't give the right amount of emotional space it won't last very long.
Im not sure something like the post above you.
I agree with you though I am, but even with 6 bedpartners at 22 its commonly less than the girls I meet. I'm just trying to keep up.
Oh yeah those reasons of course, yeahnahyeah fuck off.
If a woman does not have enough dignity to resist being Chad's cum dumpster than I don't want her.
It's not about virginity. I'm fine with her having had a couple of boyfriends.
it must be nice being a semi-psychopath normie. im not even having a go, people who experience feelings and relationshipos with others as some fun and don't have deep connections must have a great time.
This pic reminds me of the people who think that women are oppressed by people since they shouldn't be wearing skimpy clothes. I'm sure if a dude was walking around with short shorts with half of his ass sticking out you'd want them to stop too.
If you're a roastie, it is
Youd be surprised ive met a few non religious virgins in their late 20s. Still Ill assume you talking about women who simply not the kind of people who treat sex like an icebreaker or something with zero meaning outside of pleasure.
>Is there some way to tell quickly
With all personal characteristics - yes and no the only way to find out is to actually get to know them and their friends and family (because people can only hide their true character and past for so long). Still there are things that point in a woman more likely to being slutty or conservative.
>More likely to be slutty
-wears tight and or revealing clothing
-Enjoys going clubbing/ still goes clubbing past 25
-Is comfortable in and wears high heels regularly
-Drug use or heavy social alcohol consumption
-Strong left political views or at least to the point of being vocal
-Wiccan or Pagan religious views
-More male friends than female
-Dodgy relationship with family
-has tinder
-uncomfortable with non sexual intimacy
-Bad ex partners
-Wears heavy make up or cant leave the house without wearing it
-History of sexual or physical abuse
-jokes about being crazy or unstable
-Lacks hobbies
-Is willing to cheat with you
-Has ever dated people much older than them (ie 10+ years)
-Hesitant about you meeting her friends and family
-Vocal athiest
-heavy internet user
-extremely passive/conflict avoidant or the complete opposite
-Broken family
-Close Friends who are sluts or who have the above traits
Should I tell you guys the absolute truth about what makes a woman a slut? And deep down we all actually know this to be true:
If she ever had a crush on another guy, then she is a slut.
That's all.
If the concept of "being with a different guy" exists in her mind, then she is a slut.
That is the standard we ACTUALLY use here on this board for being a slut.
Anything less is frankly just being dishonest.
The girl that is not a slut exists exclusively in fiction, and mind you in SOME fiction.
Only in fiction, where all male characters besides the protagonist don't really exist for the female character.
In fiction, it is possible for a female character to exist, whose romantic relationship is entirely defined as being with one person. You need to understand that this only works because all other potential partners are romantically invisible. It is not that she "resists temptation" or that she "likes the protagonist better", NO, it is that the potential for any kind of attraction fundamentally does not exist.
This is also why even the harshest an abusive tsundere appears to be pure and NOT AT ALL sluty, because no matter how much she abuses the MC, she never ever looks at anyone else.
So, of course, something like this can't exist in real life, as humans will naturally feel attracted to all kinds of people in many different ways.
To put it in perspective:
I don't consider Satou from Happy Sugar Life a slut, EVEN THOUGH she slept with many guys.
Same with 02.
This actually does not matter.
What matters is having a crush.
But that is the thing with fiction, a female who has no emotional connection with the guys she sleeps with does not exist in real life all the same.
The whole concept contradicts nature on a fundamental level.
Thus the only way to create something like this in real life would be with genetic modifications or AI, anything less then that is just not brachial enough a means for how insane our ends actually are.
if she breathe, she a thot.
/thread.
you know whats the only way to get a gf who wasn't thinking about chad's cock, wasnt sucking guys off in the toilet wasn't whoring around in uni, and so on? get an asexual qt
>implying this isn't a meme
If she acts slutty with you, she has done it with everyone else.
For example - wants to sleep with you after a few dates, is overly sexual and lewd, sends you nudes, pushes for sex, etc.
Also the way she dresses, how she is on social media, her habits.
>asexual
LOL, that's just code for "I want a Chad bf, but I know Chad won't settle for me, so I will just friend zone some subhuman man but I won't have sex with him".
I felt zero emotional connection with guys I fucked. In all this cases it was me seeking an oportunity, being the first to approach, flirting with the guy, telling him directly to come over my place and starting the intercourse. In some cases I even refused to kiss him because it repulsed me, I only wanted his genitalia. We usually never see each other again and the guys usually feel awkward during all the time. Most of the guys I hit on refuse my propotions, only few of them accept and I am young, normal wheight and average face. Having high libido is hell.
You'll know eventually, if they can have sex and don't suggest any "implications" you're good, but this is intimate. And weird to be fixated on.
This reminded me that my exes are actually sexually active while I'm not lol ironic
I was recently at a bar, and there was a girl who was hitting on me like that.
This is an even more messed up category than a regular old cheating slut. To be like this is to have so many unresolved issues that an entirely different rule applies:
"Never stick your dick in crazy."
I had good childhood and life and from outside people will think I don't have any issues, I just have kind of male personality traits wich makes me wants to "conquer" or makes my life a nightmare being turned on by every attractive body I see.
OP once you are emotionally attached and especially sexually attached your brain shuts down to reason and why so many men fall into this trap of their own making.
I was warned before every slut I ever encountered and when you are warned you should believe it. Usually all you have to do is ask a few questions of people that know of her but not her close friends. Boys and girls know who the sluts are and they all talk. Believe what you hear and avoid her thereafter.
I can attest to that. I'm a 8/10 and I think my body count is somewhere around 53 in 13 years.
Assume they are sluts until proven otherwise.
>realize a girl is a slut
Just go with the safe assumption they all are. I really haven't seen anything to prove otherwise, aside from circumstance/availability.
>This guy would be fucking 4/10s and twinks pretty much all year
Well that escalated quickly to being about traps
This whole slut stuff is so stupid. Do you know how hard it is to constantly reject guys, some that are good catches? I would be a fool. Not one of you robots would reject a pretty girl that wanted you, not one of you.
>Thinking attractive girls are representative of the whole
Speaking as a virgin female:
>average or unattractive
>shy/quiet (people say the quiet girls are the sluttiest but that really isn't true)
>socially an introvert
>very focused on school/work (many of my friends do not even have the time to get laid)
>critical of modern degeneracy, hookup culture, skimpy outfits
>Not one of you robots would reject a pretty girl that wanted you
Also this lol
>Not one of you robots would reject a pretty girl that wanted you, not one of you.
Would, did and do.
A pretty girl who wants me but I don't have the time to actually have a meaningful relationship because of work? Rejected.
A pretty girl who wants me but wants to cheat on her bf with me REJECTED, begone slut!
You are just cheap basic bitches this is why you think this.
>More male friends than female
>Bad ex partners
>heavy internet user
Well I'm these things but I'm far from a slut.
Women were a mistake. Also, this is an original comment. Titty sprinkles.
There's a 5/10 half Asian gril I know, but she's engaged to a guy she's been with for nearly a decade.
How do I get her to cheat on him with some douche Chad just to prove my point?
>You are just cheap basic bitches
I would say you might be a homo but homo's usually don't hate women so much. Perhaps you have mommie issues.
>critical of modern degeneracy, hookup culture
You are most likely critical of it because hot guys are not lining up to fuck you.
>skimpy outfits
Usually girls who enjoy it are girls who have the hot body and the pretty face and that gives them attention.
Overall I think you are just bitter about the world as it is because you are ugly and there's always someone better than you for dudes to hit on.
A woman can be a slut and also be a good girl, that's the weird thing. These ideas are not mutually exclusive.
Be sure to tell that to your mother so she doesn't have anymore children like you.
Actually it's not. The reason he fucked mostly uggo women is because he is male.
And uggo chick can fuck arguably good looking guys.
Its fairly difficult to get laid as a man.
You as a female can walk into any room and sleep with absolutely anyone you want to.
A male will walk into a room and try his hand at getting the interest of at least one.
You get to pick and chose, we get to sell ourselves to you.
That is the difference. A male slut is arguably successful at doing something that is difficult for average males.
A female slut is just a girl who will buy any male. Because it's easy.
One is accomplished the other one is easy.
>Strong political left views
Uhh yeah nah senpai I live in Republican hick town and all the girls here are slutty as fuck. Even the "ima Christian good girl" types.
not the fembot you responded to but I'm considered pretty and wear well fit clothing that accents my body. I admit it does draw attention, sometimes from the wrong kind of guy and sometimes its frustrating dealing with the pursuit but on the other hand some really good looking guys are in the mix. For them, I'm grateful. Usually what happens though is a good looking guy talks with me, other guys see it and back away.
stop larping, tranny
5-6 is still in the countable reach, it's an obvious tell it's a guy larping
using the red flag buzzword, another obvious tell
no penis little mister and not responding to you anyway I don't think
If she wants to fuck on the first date/first day we run into each other, I'll lose interest rapidly. Most do try, unsurprisingly if you go clubbing it's like 90% at least, but I don't mind doing some filtering for a quality cute.
Most of my male friends will fuck anything asap that shows interest and isn't downright hideous. They have no connection and will likely never see them again, guess that's their thing and I'm just a bit more old fashioned.
>being proven wrong
>respond with calling people "homo's"
can roasties please be even more roasts?
How does she dress, acts, smiles, talks, and who her friends and previous bf's are. Unfortunately you'll still need to experience and see sluts in order to see the patterns.
dakota a cute
Not her.
>You are most likely critical of it because hot guys are not lining up to fuck you.
I never had problems finding a BF, but was always extremely critical of hook up culture and casual sex.
I'm not bitter, I'm even fine with other people fucking around, I just have zero interest fucking some random dude.
>finding a bf
Unless you ask out men you've never found a bf roastie
I do ask men out, the guys I like are usually autists and hate playing games.
They all are in the right situation
This is also very true, you can tell a lot just by how she's dressed and behaves on a dance floor for example.
Friend of mine loves to point out "hey, that cute one is looking at you"...most of the time my answer will just be "Looks nice, but she's trouble".
The way I live my life from these people is so vastly different it disturbs me. I guarantee these women enjoy talking to others. They probably go out of their way to receive attention from and talk to other people. They have probably spent thousands upon thousands of hours talking about inane shit like this. Just non-stop subjects about their own vanity and importance. This is something they enjoy doing. They receive pleasure from engaging in this sort of activity. It just boggles my mind.
Gurantee you're exaggerating the definition of asking guys out. My friend in college would constantly say that too. That she asked guys out because the guys she was into never played games. The reality of the situation was she would wait for them to heavily flirt with her and make it 100% clear they were into her before she'd say something like "so aren't you ever going to ask me out?" That's what women think "asking guys out" is.
Met my boyfriend online, I
>messaged him first, and initiated conversation every time for 2 weeks
>flirted with him first
>told him I liked him first
>asked him to meet IRL first
>I guarantee these women enjoy talking to others.
Depends on the person, and how long I have to talk to them.
>They probably go out of their way to receive attention from and talk to other people.
I don't. I'm reserved and very introverted.
> They have probably spent thousands upon thousands of hours talking about inane shit like this. Just non-stop subjects about their own vanity and importance.
Not particularly, I'd rather talk about my interests and normally don't post in this kind of thread.
"I'm a whore and so is everyone else". You keep telling yourself that 6/10 fatty because it must be true. How is it possible that a mostly unattractive girl with low self esteem can get numerous sex partners? ha.
>critical of modern degeneracy, hookup culture
>You are most likely critical of it because hot guys are not lining up to fuck you.
As a pretty attractive dude, it's actually much easier to be critical of it because I get regular attention from attractive women. This allows me to be selective and filter them for the ones that are actually interested in having a serious relationship and are not just the "We've never spoken a word, but we totally should fuck"-type (there's plenty of that). I know what I like and I don't need to rely on the interest from some thots.
>autists and hate playing games.
Yeah, that shit can get really tiring after a while. Currently dating an insanely cute autistic girl, she dropped her "I'm going out now!"-persona like an hour or two in, opened up, and everything just became so much more interesting.
Full access to a smart person's brain rocks.
>has tinder
Then how do you suggest I meet a girl since I am working in a male dominated industry and all of my friends are male. And please no meme answers like library or church.
Not him, but there's a lot of ways, get hobbies or play sports that women like too and are group activities, do interesting events on apps like meetup that are basically designed for this (anything social really), go to birthday parties and shit of your friends, or even just grabbing some of your buddies and do some afterwork drinking at some nice bars, maybe visit a club later, can lead to interesting results.
I've meet like 6 (superficially) interesting ones just last week this way and I didn't even really initiate conversation with any of them.